Evangelynn:
what will the ministry of women affairs do?

This is why abortion needs to legalised in Nigeria for women to have access to safe abortions and not meet quacks that can kill them.

The Ministry willl link her with couples who can adopt the kids.

Afterall it is illegal in Nigeria to get an abortion and should than lead into falling victim of quacks out there, the ministry or chosen couple may instead invest in ensuring her safe delivery of the babies.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

chat me up on watsap 08181747992

I can't deny my baby even when i don't love you as a lady no matter what

mariahAngel:


Stop being so damn cruel!

What is cruel about his comments?


Stop being stvpid by cancelling his opinion and tacitly encouraging whorez and birth of bastards. If she closed her legs,she won't be opening this thread.

mariahAngel:



[s]Don’t play the religious card with me!
“Developed countries” my foot! The same “developed countries” that condemns the spanking of a child, but approves taking the life of a child? Bunch of confused lots if you ask me.
If they want to approve evil, they give it a fancy name- “pro-choice”. Please! Anti-life you mean?

Abortion is anti-human!
Abortion is anti-life!
It is wickedness against humanity!
Abortionists are worse than rapists! Far far worse[/s]!

Lol who is playing the religious card with you if not you.
Aunty are they not developed countries or not why should you spank a child when there are better forms of punishments to correct a child, taking the life of which child when did the so called life of a foetus become superior and more important than the life of the woman carrying the foetus/embryo use your God given brain and argue with sense not emotions they are not confused they are very sensible people no wonder they are much more developed nobody asked you about that

Lol,you know nothing abortion has been in existence since the beginning of time it will continue to be here nobody is forcing you to have an abortion just learn to accept the fact that life will happen to some people and abortion will be an option for them hence why many advocate for safe access to abortions because they know that life isn't just black and white some people said science and democracy was anti human blah,blah,blah but here we are today.


Lol did you say abortionist are worse than rapist lol don't embarrass yourself please

mariahAngel:
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[s]Homellyy, do not pay any attention to this!
Apart from the fact that abortion is illegal, therefore a crime in Nigeria, you might lose your life in the process, or the ability to carry another pregnancy!
Only quacks perform abortion in Nigeria[/s]

Lose which life lol aunty be quiet,will you in anyway contribute to taking care of the child do you think life is black and white.

I will only understand the fact that abortion is illegal in Nigeria but then neighbouring Benin Republic it is now legal and she can help herself.
Lol you don't even know that professionals descreetly perform the procedure if you cannot give her any practical advice don't talk.

Kobojunkie:
The Ministry willl link her with couples who can adopt the kids.

Afterall it is illegal in Nigeria to get an abortion and should than lead into falling victim of quacks out there, the ministry or chosen couple may instead invest in ensuring her safe delivery of the babies.

Easier said than done,how many couples adopt in Nigeria,they would rather wait for 70 years and have theirs than adopt one.

There are people who know the drill and carryout abortions here let's not kid ourselves, thank goodness that in neighbouring Benin Republic it is now legal so she can go there.

The ministry cannot help everybody they may only try to compel the man but in Nigeria where men are hardly held to account I doubt the man can be forced to do anything.

Evangelynn:


If you are not in anyway capable of taking care of the twins or you don't have any support from anybody to undergo this life changing journey you can have an abortion.


Don't let anyone deceive you if you are not prepared you cannot force the father to take responsibility especially in this lawless country and he isn't even married to you.

Abortion..how many have done? You heard its the best way of terminating pregnancy. You didn't ask the consequence. How old are you sef?

I see, if it were you, abortion is the next option.?My dear, if it happens, don't try abortion o. It's a suicide note that kills gradually. You might be lucky to have it done successfully. Do you know how many kids, your creator has associated with you? When you now get married, with no pinkin, you start jumping from church to mosque as if God's your problem.

Don't ever advise a fellow woman to abort. Lots of repercussions ahead. The future is the key,not today.

Evangelynn:


Easier said than done,how many couples adopt in Nigeria,they would rather wait for 70 years and have theirs than adopt one.

There are people who know the drill and carryout abortions here let's not kid ourselves, thank goodness that in neighbouring Benin Republic it is now legal so she can go there.

The ministry cannot help everybody they may only try to compel the man but in Nigeria where men are hardly held to account I doubt the man can be forced to do anything.

Madam, what do you know about adoption? Okay see, walk into the Ministry of Women Affairs in your state, ask about the process. On your way out, ask how can they make the process faster because you are in dare need. The Officer in charge will tell you this- Madam, applications are really much on ground. However, you can check back in 6months. That shows the number of applicants on board.

Adoption has been accepted has a norm. There is no single working day that a couple or woman will not come forward to apply. That's the basic truth. If it's a lie, do as I say.

Women oo..stop advising your fellow women to abort. Rather, advise yourselves to ensure, you close your legs for every tom,deck and Harry. Let them know, for every action (open legs), there is a bigger reaction (unwanted pregnancy). Both have a price. Whichever they deem fit, the price will be paid and receipt collected.

It may be a faster and easier process to elude shame. The shame is just for while. With proper counselling, the lady in question will forever be grateful she took that bold step. You will not be there when the repercussion arise.

Do you have a nice shape and a nice Ass I don't even care for breast. If yes I can marry you with the twins. So far you would give birth to my own kids afterwards.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

You don't know what to do? Ehn, born them and give me na, since you don't know what to do. When they say use protection if you can't abstain, una no go hear. I don't know what you people think will happen when you have unprotected sex. Mscheeeew.

There are women out there drinking all manner of concoctions, jumping from prayer mountain to prayer mountain, hospital to hospital looking for what you have been given in double portion and you are here asking us questions.

Oya abort those children let thunder trace your house address with Google maps.

africandictator:
Do you have a nice shape and a nice Ass I don't even care for breast. If yes I can marry you with the twins. So far you would give birth to my own kids afterwards.

Character nko? You focused on the physical aspects but made no mention of other attributes that will give you peace of mind.

NEVER marry a woman you did not disvirgin. She's a curse to her children: born and unborn.

meetme01:


Madam, what do you know about adoption? Okay see, walk into the Ministry of Women Affairs in your state, ask about the process. On your way out, ask how can they make the process faster because you are in dare need. The Officer in charge will tell you this- Madam, applications are really much on ground. However, you can check back in 6months. That shows the number of applicants on board.

Adoption has been accepted has a norm. There is no single working day that a couple or woman will not come forward to apply. That's the basic truth. If it's a lie, do as I say.

Women oo..stop advising your fellow women to abort. Rather, advise yourselves to ensure, you close your legs for every tom,deck and Harry. Let them know, for every action (open legs), there is a bigger reaction (unwanted pregnancy). Both have a price. Whichever they deem fit, the price will be paid and receipt collected.

It may be a faster and easier process to elude shame. The shame is just for while. With proper counselling, the lady in question will forever be grateful she took that bold step. You will not be there when the repercussion arise.

Please be honest with yourself how many Nigerians adopt kids can you compare the statistics with what you see abroad,how many orphanages are well prioritised and conducive for kids how many?

Adoption is not really fancied amongst many couples and how many have the resources to take care of other kids even their family members will ask them why and many will opt to wait or care for the children of other relatives.


If you wanna advice women start with men advice men you can't tell women to close their legs and not tell men to be responsible enough and hold their third leg if women will continue to be at the receiving end of these they shouldn't be forced to carry out an undue burden by having kids they are not ready for when we fail to hold men to account.

Proper counselling will not feed the kids or prepare her for motherhood.Nigeria is one of the worst places to have children because education,health care, security,mental and emotional health is not prioritised

meetme01:


Abortion..how many have done? You heard its the best way of terminating pregnancy. You didn't ask the consequence. How old are you sef?

I see, if it were you, abortion is the next option.?My dear, if it happens, don't try abortion o. It's a suicide note that kills gradually. You might be lucky to have it done successfully. Do you know how many kids, your creator has associated with you? When you now get married, with no pinkin, you start jumping from church to mosque as if God's your problem.

Don't ever advise a fellow woman to abort. Lots of repercussions ahead. The future is the key,not today.

I have never had an abortion and I see it as a last option that needs to be legalized in Nigeria because making abortion illegal doesn't stop abortions it only stops access to safe abortions which is why many countries have accepted the reality and legalised it

Mr man you lots should stop deceiving yourself there is no consequence to abortions it was those lies told to us as children.I am old enough to realise that abortion is sometimes necessary especially with embryos that have birth defects and should be an option.

Please go and sit down you are not talking to a kid abortion isn't suicide or any rubbish you call it,in a developed world you go to a health care center meet your doctor have the process and move out sharply lol there are even some women with no abortions done of them they cannot even bear kids while the ones with history of abortion birth kids.I don't see abortion as a religious issue but a social and economic one do don't bring God into this this scare tactics you are trying to use on me only happens when women meet quacks and are denied access to safe abortions hence why they go through the back door(back alley abortions).

Read up about abortions and why many countries legalised it because they realised that abortions can never stop and sometimes it is even medically advisable so they stopped deceiving themselves and did the needful,laws are not necessarily moral they are logical and meet current realities.
There is no repercussion associated with abortion unless you are a spiritualist that believes that and nobody is even forcing you to have one but then accept that it is an option for others better stop using scale tactics I know what I am saying and I will advice a woman to have an abortion when there is no practical solution to help her and same society of close minded individuals will shame her for being a single mother and having kids out of wedlock.

One thing I have to realise is that most supporters of abortion are people have had multiple abortions in the past. Their mission seems like increasing the fold of women who have undergone similar process, and not protecting their personal and economic welfare.

Similarly, the most vociferous supporters of Covid-19 vaccines in a country like Nigeria, where there is actually no real and demonstrable case of the virus, are those who, on their own volition, decide to take the "jab." The argument is that since they have taken the vaccine, everyone else must take it as well, regardless of their view and choice. Ditto abortion.

Evangelynn:

Lol who is playing the religious card with you if not you.
Aunty are they not developed countries or not why should you spank a child when there are better forms of punishments to correct a child, taking the life of which child when did the so called life of a foetus become superior and more important than the life of the woman carrying the foetus/embryo use your God given brain and argue with sense not emotions they are not confused they are very sensible people no wonder they are much more developed nobody asked you about that

Lol,you know nothing abortion has been in existence since the beginning of time it will continue to be here nobody is forcing you to have an abortion just learn to accept the fact that life will happen to some people and abortion will be an option for them hence why many advocate for safe access to abortions because they know that life isn't just black and white some people said science and democracy was anti human blah,blah,blah but here we are today.


Lol did you say abortionist are worse than rapist lol don't embarrass yourself please

When they want it it's a child, when they don't want it it's termed a "foetus/embryo".

You baby killers should just stay faraway from me, because y'all disgust me!

LutanFyah:
What is cruel about his comments?


Stop being stvpid by cancelling his opinion and tacitly encouraging whorez and birth of bastards. If she closed her legs,she won't be opening this thread.

Don't be silly!

What has happened has happened, and being hard on her in that situation will only make matters worse for her than it already is.
She needs to be calm for herself and the babies.

mariahAngel:


When they want it it's a child, when they don't want it it's termed a "foetus/embryo".

You baby killers should just stay faraway from me, because y'all disgust me!

You are the one disgusting yourself.

You cannot argue facts but emotions because deep down you know I am saying the truth and life isn't always black and white nobody is forcing you to have an abortion just mind your business and leave the woman to decide what's best for her it her business with her doctor.

This is serious

Evangelynn:

You are the one disgusting yourself.

You cannot argue facts but emotions because deep down you know I am saying the truth and life isn't always black and white nobody is forcing you to have an abortion just mind your business and leave the woman to decide what's best for her it her business with her doctor.

What nonsense truth are you talking about? That it is okay to a take life (in this case, two)?

Did you mind your business when you encouraged her to have an abortion in a country where abortion is illegal?

Evangelynn:
Easier said than done,how many couples adopt in Nigeria,they would rather wait for 70 years and have theirs than adopt one.

There are people who know the drill and carryout abortions here let's not kid ourselves, thank goodness that in neighbouring Benin Republic it is now legal so she can go there.

The ministry cannot help everybody they may only try to compel the man but in Nigeria where men are hardly held to account I doubt the man can be forced to do anything.

Considering there are many couples out in that same Nigeria waiting years for a Baby to adopt, i am certain this lady will not have a hard time finding a home for her babies.

So, the procedure is illegal in Nigeria and should she venture to this Benin Republic on her own for this procedure. She bears the fill risk all on her own, which I what I said earlier.

The Ministry is not there to help everybody but simply to connect these mothers with those who are able to adopt from them.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

I hope you will reach out to me very important please kyesment@gmail.com

mariahAngel:


What nonsense truth are you talking about? That it is okay to a take life (in this case, two)?

Did you mind your business when you encouraged her to have an abortion in a country where abortion is illegal?

Which life is being taken because I am lost here Stop talking like an illiterate you are not talking to a kid.

She came to a public forum soliciting for an advice and yes abortion is illegal in Nigeria but very legal in neighbouring Benin Republic she can easily get one there.

Kobojunkie:
Considering there are many couples out in that same Nigeria waiting years for a Baby to adopt, i am certain this lady will not have a hard time finding a home for her babies.

So, the procedure is illegal in Nigeria and should she venture to this Benin Republic on her own for this procedure. She bears the fill risk all on her own, which I what I said earlier.

The Ministry is not there to help everybody but simply to connect these mothers with those who are able to adopt from them.

There is nothing to consider not many people adopt in this part of the world and besides there are orphans in need of families here the couple looking for children can get them if they want they cannot adopt every child.
In a country like Benin Republic now that abortion has been legalised she has no risk to bear because she can access safe abortions and meet a health professional that will take the procedure.

How many have the ministry been able to help and connect what about the pending ones how many have they catered for?

mariahAngel:


[b]When they want it it's a child, when they don't want it it's termed a "foetus/embryo".[b]

You baby killers should just stay faraway from me, because y'all disgust me!

@bold:

Very hilarious and sad at the same time.

Evangelynn:


Which life is being taken because I am lost here Stop talking like an illiterate you are not talking to a kid.

She came to a public forum soliciting for an advice and yes abortion is illegal in Nigeria but very legal in neighbouring Benin Republic she can easily get one there.

So, an unborn child doesn't qualify as a life? Are you being serious now?
You, you're even worse than illiterate. I don't have the right words to describe you.

bukatyne:


@bold:

Very hilarious and sad at the same time.

What do you expect from irresponsibly evil generation who just wants to have reckless sex, get pregnant carelessly, then murder innocent babies?

mariahAngel:


Don't be silly!

What has happened has happened, and being hard on her in that situation will only make matters worse for her than it already is.
She needs to be calm for herself and the babies.

He gave his opinion on the matter, he did not challenge nor cancelled yours, so why the brazen attack on him?


That you decided to be soft on the pregnant lady is not cast on stone that everybody must follow your approach.

mariahAngel:


So, an unborn child doesn't qualify as a life? Are you being serious now?
You, you're even worse than illiterate. I don't have the right words to describe you.

Yes I am the unborn child didn't ask to be born and it is not a scientific consensus that life starts at conception but a religious mantra.

Lol counter me with facts not sentiments if truly I am worse than an illiterate because that is what you are you don't need to describe me I am a wonderful human being that is realistic and well exposed

Evangelynn:

Yes I am the unborn child didn't ask to be born and it is not a scientific consensus that life starts at conception but a religious mantra.

Lol counter me with facts not sentiments if truly I am worse than an illiterate because that is what you are you don't need to describe me I am a wonderful human being that is realistic and well exposed

If you're sure you're not an illiterate, start by using your punctuation marks, then maybe we might have that conversation.

Better yet, I'm done having the abortion conversation with you.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Is the father of the twins married before yo become pregnant, if yes he will come for it, but may shy away from reasons which include finance

If he is a bachelor, he will accept it with time but before then, you just have to suffer it alone

Whatever it may be, carry the pregnancy to full term and deliver the babies, it's a lesson for you to be sure of what you do with a man next time you are in a relationship

They are your children and you nerd them most because the same man could have been else where with another woman and possibly getting another woman pregnant