mariahAngel:


If you're sure you're not an illiterate, start by using your punctuations marks, then maybe we might have that conversation.

Better yet, I'm done having the abortion conversation with you.

Evangelynn:

There is nothing to consider not many people adopt in this part of the world and besides there are orphans in need of families here the couple looking for children can get them if they want they cannot adopt every child.
In a country like Benin Republic now that abortion has been legalised she has no risk to bear because she can access safe abortions and meet a health professional that will take the procedure.

How many have the ministry been able to help and connect what about the pending ones how many have they catered for?

Evangelynn:

Use of Punctuation marks is now your measurement of literacy lol stop embarrassing yourself and say something meaningful,who wants to waste time with you before common vamoose.

Kobojunkie:
If you read carefully, you will see that I am only here addressing this particular case... not every case out there.

mariahAngel:
Homellyy, you are fortunate to be pregnant with not just one, but two babies! That is rare. It is a blessing too.

See, a male nairalander once shared his story on this platform. He’s been married for 9 years(as at that time) with no child, and he blamed it all on his wife.
He claimed his wife once had an abortion, therefore, it made her womb “too weak” to carry a pregnancy to term( at first she kept having miscarriages, then later could no longer get pregnant).
He claimed he hated his wife because according to him, it was her fault that they couldn’t have a child up to that point. And nobody could convince him that it wasn’t because of the abortion his wife had had earlier in her life.

Another nairalander, a female this time, shared her own story.
She’s been married for between 7-9 years as at that time(I’m not particularly sure of the amount of years), they’ve been looking for a child, only for her husband to sly her and impregnate a widow with 3 children, then the husband was begging her to accept the children as her own, but she was bitter towards her husband for betraying her.

Why am I sharing these stories with you? Your children are your gifts that so many people would do and give anything to have.

When blessings come at a time we’re not ready for them, it is hard for us to see them as a blessing.

Michelle55:

Thank you so much.. I needed this, I hope the Op does the right thing when it comes to the kids

mariahAngel:


Aren’t you the one claiming to be more literate?
You should at least know the basics in English.

C’mon get your baby killing self out of my mentions!

Evangelynn:


Yes,I am more literate than you and I also understand basic English which you clearly lack hence your problem with comprehension.


"Baby killing self" LMAO you are a just a comic relief.

mariahAngel:


When they want it it's a child, when they don't want it it's termed a "foetus/embryo".

You baby killers should just stay faraway from me, because y'all disgust me!

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

mariahAngel:


More literate because you see nothing wrong in killing babies?

Be bold enough to use your main moniker yeah? Thanks.

Mercychen:
You guys should stop opening legs up and down anyhow na? Chai!

Ok. Now the man has rejected the pregnancy, you're going to bring those innocent souls into the world to suffer...

What will it take this generation to abstain till marriage because apart from the spiritual implications, the physical implications are even more devastating and most times irreparable.
Simple chastity has become a herculean task for this generation.

Just go get a job and start saving ahead for when you'll deliver because times are hard and you can't afford to be a burden to anyone. Even the one responsible has dodged you because he knows what it entails.

Go get a job!

debbydams:
u think it's that easy to get a job in Nigeria now?

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

tell him to do DNA so u dont trap him!(no ofeinse)

mariahAngel:


Stop being so damn cruel!

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.

meetme01:


Ma'am don't mind all those cowards chastising you.

What's your age bracket?

Are your parents aware? If yes, your mom could be a good support system at this time.

If no, you need to get them involved at this early stage and if perhaps, you feel it won't go down well with them, get a sister, cousin or family friend that you are comfortable with to confide in, to talk to them.

Try this and give an update to see what would be the next step (counsel, advice and intervention). I believe this would work.

My dear, lots of guys are irresponsible which they later regret in life when it dawns on them, what a foolish decision they took wayback.

Lots of applications for adoption are on my table. This is to tell you that, the gift God is about to handle over to you, is priceless.

This time will pass. Whatever support you need, ask and assistance will come. The bright future should be your focus.

It will be rough, but believe me, it will end in praise.. Amen

Homellyy:
I’m a single lady and I just found out that I’m pregnant with twins but the father doesn’t want them. I don’t know what to do.