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Re: The Desperation Of Men by kkins25(m): 10:58am On Oct 31, 2021 |
siofra:much better |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by jimmychang: 11:00am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Women give them whatever they want they will never be satisfied. IF women were as smart and successful as men we will know.Women fighting for emancipation as a disguise to become the LovePeddler they always want to be. Everybody wants to claim oppressed, even among men there is opression.If everybody wants to clamour for rights then boom anarchy. Like Jordan Peterstone said there is opression everywhere . THIS MODERN GENERATION OF FEMINISM IS JUST AN EXCUSE TO HOE ABOUT .The people championing feminism most time check them out.Worthless motherfuckers. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by kkins25(m): 11:25am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Firefoxy:See how you twist research to suit your woke "feminist" agenda. Nothing you've said here corroborates the research paper you referenced- Nothing! If procrastination does not get the better of me i would open another pro-redpiller thread. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by LINTUNE(m): 11:48am On Oct 31, 2021 |
Palema007:STFU b**ch..that guy just told u the truth, you don't have to emotional about it..if a guy breaks your heart, move on and stop acting like a child.. your bitterness towards men changes nothing..the likes of chimamanda, cardi b, lizzo and even Simi are happily married, they will submit to thier husbands in real life , but come online to decieve buttered gals like you with feminist talks, use your head madam.. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 12:27pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 12:29pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Sorry, e be like say I missed road. I now understand this thread is for repillers/feminists & I'm not one. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Hathor5(f): 1:11pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: 5 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Lightway: 1:27pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Your profile pic... Is that Dubai? Or which city? |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 1:31pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
LINTUNE:This one with the sense of a roach too wants to share an opinion. Lol I wonder why you all are missing the point of the thread,yet boasting in your ignorance. GTFOH! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by loyalty500: 1:54pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
why is it only on nairaland I see these type of rubbish talks and generalisation? every girl we meet offline will fück us for ordinary 2k but here on nairaland they make it look like their stupid wokeness works offline... all these hoes shouting feminism are on WhatsApp asking men for sub and urgent 2k but be forming woke here, like who gives a fück? as long as I'm not toasting you or trying to fück you, then all these is just rants to my hear. 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by loyalty500: 2:03pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Take a stroll to the closest hotel to you and see how young/old girls are doing hookup like their life depends on it, and you think about 5-10 bittered feminists that we have on nairaland matters? you nairaland feminists are just dumb and plain stupid lol, if we are toasting you now it's a different case but we sef no send you... Yet you will be feeling pains by what you don't know, just always making baseless assumptions and generalisation... so cos you see news of one police who shot a girl that refuses his advances, that means all Nigeria men are going about shooting ladies when we can easily get püssy with 3k hookup? or cos a single man rapes a girl somewhere in the country, that makes all single men rapists? irredeemable fools so if I see news about a lady committing a crime I'm supposed to start accusing all naija girls of the crime? you see where una no get sense... thread is dead on arrival, only bittered men hater can find solace here. ps:I don't hate women, I too like püssy to hate the carriers. 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by bepositive11: 2:20pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Firefoxy: OP, to be honest, both genders have their share of desperate people. It's a gender neutral problem 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 3:07pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
takimsipho:Sigh.... Your quest to be right, your thirst for validation and your desire to have the last say is what is stopping you to see what really this thread is all about. This isn't a Man hating thread! I don't hate men either! Naaahhhh I love Men! And respect men just as I respect women. I love the Men in my life, I don't preach or instigate hatred either. Shuu I spent hours on prick thread yesterday, you come dey tell me I hate prick owners? which kind misyarn be that! Contrary to your belief and others who suffer herd mentality on here jumping up and down to defend what is not, to a sensible mind this is an objective thread. It's aim isn't to create a gender war, but to bring to realization the ills going on in our society, it causes which if properly discussed may result into coming up with solutions to curb these ills. Here is a summary of the whole thread in a question: Why is it difficult for men to respect women's choices? 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 3:24pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Lightway: Chicago. But I'm not sure anymore. You can search for the image on Google. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by takimsipho(m): 3:36pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Palema007:Abeg..did the op who started the thread make it about men not respecting women's choices. She made a poor attempt to ridicule men as losers who can't meet up to women's standards . And to your question, men in previous generations lived on close knit societies where social norms and values were held in highest esteem. In this generation, except insecure men, men don't care what women do with their lives and bodies. Lol the sexual liberation of women is very sweet, you don't need to marry anybody to get some action these days. The only time it's an issue is when you love the girl or she is a family member. If women want to do silly things in the name of freedom or expressing themselves, no p. And I don't seek validation, rather I can't stand unnecessary bashing online. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 3:53pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
takimsipho:She does not need to draw with pencil or color with crayons her points, this is about reading and comprehension. Well I think here is where I say: You Win. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Magnoliaa(f): 3:56pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger: Hi. I'd like to discuss with you why you think I'm a prostitute by night. Your signature, especially. All of it. You kinda seem fascinating...And interesting... because just absent-mindedly, you kind of seem to share some enlightened posts. And sometimes, you appear like a liberal that is pro-women as well and have feminist friends. I'm not sure. Or maybe we could do this on another thread to avoid derailing this? It'll be kind of nice to pick from your intelligent brain. Yes, I did personalized that, because I am a feminist and I thought, 'wow. How does this person know me more than I do myself?' You actually know I sell my body to patriarchs? Hahaha. Such curious claims humph. That logic... are you even interested in dating feminists or what? 'Cos that kind of deep 'psychoanalysis' lasan. Did one break your heart? Or rejected you? Or ... I don't even know? 2 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nyascobar1414: 3:58pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
The odour of your stinky pvssy shows how weak you are.. Spits! |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Women are evolving while men are regressing. There will eventually be a mating crisis https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.insider.com/growing-trend-fewer-men-in-college-leading-to-mating-crisis-2021-9%3famp Men have refused to step up and be better. They think all that's needed of them is to make money and women will automatically fawn over them. False. Not in this modern age were women work and earn. Men still want traditional roles but aren't willing to play that part (paying all the bills, renovating the house, fixing the sink etc. Traditional masculine activities) and honestly, it's not even appealing to women anymore (the educated ones) because we still take the bulk of responsibility for the home and child rearing, in addition to working. Society doesn't give women credit for being workhorses and more women are seeing marriage for the scam that it is. Some are even choosing to opt out of it and children. And women do not mind being single either. So those fears of loneliness men use as a shaming tactic has no basis in reality https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-single/201810/why-so-many-women-are-perfectly-happy-stay-single%3famp https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/may/25/women-happier-without-children-or-a-spouse-happiness-expert And with the rise of inceldom, red pill, MRA etc more women would gladly be single than settle. Their rhetoric is harmful and dangerous https://www.researchgate.net/publication/334155525_Exploring_Misogyny_across_the_Manosphere_in_Reddit 4 Likes |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:10pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
So indirectly or even directly what OP & some the female comments are saying or rather admitting is ever since they were only in relationships for money?? That's not even bad enough but now they are 'woke' they are demanding more which ultimately means the money must still be there!! Example you want an intelligent tall guy with broad shoulders, big chest and 100 abs but nigga must still have paper, if he's poor. it's No. Please someone should correct me if I'm wrong!! 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 5:13pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Hyerin: Please, do you live in Nigeria or Canada?? Beacuse what you wrote there does not reflect anywhere in my country. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 10:37pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: Of course it would not reflect. Nigeria hasn't even solved the most basic problems. The country lacks a database for its citizens not to now even talk of empirical data on alot of things but there are certain truths that'll still apply if the populace wasn't as poor, uneducated and largely conservative. The chauvinists mostly use western male driven narratives to generalize Nigerian women and treat subjective experiences as objective facts. This is partly due to, as earlier mentioned, a lack of empirical data in the country. So they substitute anecdotes for facts and whatever facts they fetch are from data gotten from the west however dubious or false. It's the same thing I'm doing, except reverse by counteracting these peddled lies with correct information 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 10:54pm On Oct 31, 2021 |
Hyerin:See plenty Grammer!! Sister calm down o.. It's the same thing I'm doing, except reverse by counteracting these peddled lies with correct information You can admit most of what the guys said are close to Nigerian mentality/culture whatever the correct word is but the fairytale you wrote before is very far from us and may still be for the next 50 years. More women are seeing marriage for the scam that it is. you fuuuqing with me right?? in Nigeria today 95% of the girls wants to get married, even the girls at the brothel will go back to their various states and marry. Which women are seeing marriage as a scam?? Scam where? most marriages that has changed the life of girls and their families in Nigeria financially and our society respect married woman more. Nothing like Scam for women. Maybe Men Some are even choosing to opt out of it and children. Where in Nigeria?? Baby mamas that are frown upon and they called all sorts of names. even by fellow women. Chioma and etc did it beacuse of the cash/fame that comes with it which is made possible by a you guess it Man Men have refused to step up and be better Say What?? Step up for what. Explain more this beacuse it could mean many things before I make a statement. And check my last comment too and say something. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Nobody: 12:57am On Nov 01, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY: There was a caveat and to quote myself: "Certain truths will still apply if the populace wasn't as poor, uneducated and largely conservative" Nigeria is still largely conservative. Culture permeates almost every aspect of our lives. Social forces influenced by patriarchial customs and norms are dominant. The ways in which this can be lessened is through education. When more people are properly educated, there will be alot of doing away with certain traditions but the widespread poverty is a big hurdle. You see, poverty, illiteracy and traditional culture go hand in hand. It's one of the reasons why Africa and some parts in Middle East, Asia and Latin America are underdeveloped. There's also socialization. Women are socialized to view marriage as the acme of existence. This is not unique to Nigeria alone but all over the world. Some women in the West are opting out of marriage and children all together because it's not what it is cracked out to be. There's research and studies that proves women have more to lose because they (Women) take on the bulk of child rearing and household duties, in addition to working full time. Thats alot of responsibility and some have decided it's not even worth venturing into. Now, those women are free to exercise their rights without much hassle unlike in Nigeria were the stigmatisation is great and due to the prevailing culture it is viewed as unthinkable. Do you catch my drift now? It's a whole lot of delving into because multi-faceted. Besides, the articles I posted never mentioned Nigerian women but nevertheless this circles back to the above caveat and everything I've written thus far. To oversimplify my point: The social forces and culture in Nigeria is stronger than that of the west. With culture, comes certain expectations of women due to tradition and because this is pervasive, Nigerian women have a narrow path in their lives i.e marriage and children. However, when this is lessened and more women get educated, they will be a "going against the grain". Men have refused to step up and be better means exactly what the literal statement is. You still think money is everything. You can be absolutely devoid of any good character but once you have money, then you're now a "high value man" and the ladies will flock, isn't that so? Well this is false. Money sure can attract a women but it can't keep her if you're a shitty person. If money was the key to successful relationships then rich men won't be getting divorced left, right & centre. Nothing of good character/personality is emphasized for men. It's all just money and y'all run with it. To be better means to be a good person, which honestly, is the bare minimum. I feel like all what I just typed out is common sense but you redpillers are so lacking in critical thinking and analysis. It's very irritating and none of y'all are worth the replies tbh. 1 Like |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Bigpapi: 3:07am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Firefoxy: Olodo
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 7:17am On Nov 01, 2021 |
Hyerin: Like I said before all these your epistles....All your analysis maybe true but not in Nigeria and it won't be in a very long time...Religion, culture, society like you said, full stop. No many talk. I'm not a Redpiller. Lacking in critical thinking and analysis y'all girls like using is getting old & stale. I pointed my thoughts out to you with the norms in Nigeria, you are the one doing oversabi bringing western stuffs that does not apply anywhere in Nigeria to the conservation, critical thinker!! This is Nairaland, not dollar or pound land |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by UncleJudax(m): 7:51am On Nov 01, 2021 |
OLDESTWARRIBOY:no mind all these third world country wanna be feminists. They are online, offline and everywhere begging for money and slutting...by codedly forming to be chef, fashion designer, masseuse etc |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by OLDESTWARRIBOY: 8:04am On Nov 01, 2021 |
UncleJudax: That's what it is...I don't want to even go that far!! Don't mind her, She is living in fantasy land compiling western data for me. Where as happenings in Nigeria is the direct opposite. |
Re: The Desperation Of Men by Toseenlove: 8:27pm On Nov 01, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: Garbage as usual......
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by Klass99(f): 7:01am On Nov 02, 2021 |
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Re: The Desperation Of Men by BigBellyBurst(m): 7:18am On Nov 02, 2021 |
Hyerin:Nothing you wrote here is correct. |
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