OLDESTWARRIBOY:



Like I said before all these your epistles....All your analysis maybe true but not in Nigeria and it won't be in a very long time...Religion, culture, society like you said, full stop. No many talk.


I'm not a Redpiller. Lacking in critical thinking and analysis y'all girls like using is getting old & stale. I pointed my thoughts out to you with the norms in Nigeria, you are the one doing oversabi bringing western stuffs that does not apply anywhere in Nigeria to the conservation, critical thinker!!

This is Nairaland, not dollar or pound land

BigBellyBurst:

Nothing you wrote here is correct.

Hyerin:


Oh please shut it. Then tell redpillers to stop using divorce statistics of the west to form arguments. Tell them to stop using the creations of white men to argue since it doesn't reflect Nigeria. Tell them to stop using single motherhood rates of the west since it doesn't reflect Nigeria. Just shut up abeg

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


E pain am. I've said it before, it seems you are the one lacking in critical thinking & understanding. The guys stats are reflecting in Nigeria unlike yours that is a big lie like;

Girls are seeing marriage for scam it is...which scam?? Scam amd they marrying their ancestors as 6th wife, Regina Daniels, that alaafin of Oyo young wife too and many others. Shut up please!!

Hyerin:
They do not reflect Nigeria at all. What are the divorce rates in Nigeria? Can you pull up actual statistics for Nigeria? Single motherhood rates too. What are the actual Nigerian Statistics for it? I'm not talking of one or two socialites or celebrities but solid empirical data as evidence it's a widespread thing in Nigeria. You're the one vastly lacking in common sense, critical thinking and analysis would obviously not be your forte like the rest of your ilk. I already said there was a caveat: If more women were properly educated and cultural expectations lessened, they'll be more acceptance of alternative lifestyles. You even proposed 50
years before anything of that sort will happen which inevitably shows, those research findings will apply.

If you don't want me using Western research and statistics to counter the same western statistics and research redpillers use as crutch for their misogyny. Then they should bring up empirical data for NIGERIA and use it as basis for their arguments.

Hyerin:
Next time, don't jump and quote. You don't have the range for these discussions.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Please Shut up, I don't do gender wars and all that. you were saying rubbish and purposely ignoring most of my important points.

Hyerin:


I'm saying rubbish? Or, you just don't have the intellectual capacity for these discussions? Point out were I ignored your most important points.

Go & read my first comment on the article and give your analysis &


the girls are seeing marriage for the scam it is and I point out most girls marry ancestors as 6th wife. You didn't say anything

Critical thinker

OLDESTWARRIBOY:




So indirectly or even directly what OP & some the female comments are saying or rather admitting is ever since they were only in relationships for money??

That's not even bad enough but now they are 'woke' they are demanding more which ultimately means the money must still be there!!


Example you want an intelligent tall guy with broad shoulders, big chest and 100 abs but nigga must still have paper, if he's poor. it's No.

Please someone should correct me if I'm wrong!!

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


Go & read my first comment on the article and give your analysis &


the girls are seeing marriage for the scam it is and I point out most girls marry ancestors as 6th wife. You didn't say anything

Critical thinker

Hyerin:


Are you dumb? I already addressed those things in my earlier responses to you and gave a caveat. Go back and reread slowly because what you're asking of me is to continually repeat myself.

"Most girls marry ancestors as 6th wife" are you going off assumptions or there's been research findings on this?

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


fuuq outta here!! You need a research first?? Are you not in Nigeria and don't you see the happenings..

So, you just read researches and log on Nairaland and spew shit?? God, I've been arguing with someone who does not even live in the country.


I'm Done!!

Hyerin:


No I don't see any of that happening and you said "most" which means majority of women would settle for being 6th wife. You can't make such outrageous claims without anything backing it up. Then again, your claim doesn't factor in alot of things such as: level of education, poverty, class etc. so for example, a college educated woman will gladly become 6th wife to a geriatric fellow. A woman who comes from an upper class background or even middle class sef will settle by playing sixth fiddle to a man? A man even marrying up to that amount is a clear pointer he is not educated and it's a surefire way of children entering into poverty because how will he share his time & resources amongst his offspring? Even if he is rich, he is parvenu because there are certain
behaviours exhibited that are not socially acceptable when belonging to an upper class. Don't tell me you're using Ned Nwoko as basis for this generalization? Because that is an entirely exceptional case.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


I said

Please, do you live in Nigeria or Canada?? Beacuse what you wrote there does not reflect anywhere in my country.


You said
If more women (in this case Nigerian Women) were properly educated and cultural expectations lessened, they'll be more acceptance of alternative lifestyles.


That means I'm right which you have already admitted. Then why are you still spewing shit?

Hyerin:

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


I'm right and you are wrong...and all your comments proves it

Is it now bad to be wrong?? Sister vocabulary?? Accept it and move on. You win some and lose some....please hold this L

OLDESTWARRIBOY:




So indirectly or even directly what OP & some the female comments are saying or rather admitting is ever since they were only in relationships for money??

That's not even bad enough but now they are 'woke' they are demanding more which ultimately means the money must still be there!!


Example you want an intelligent tall guy with broad shoulders, big chest and 100 abs but nigga must still have paper, if he's poor. it's No.

Please someone should correct me if I'm wrong!!

Toseenlove:
Garbage as usual......

siofra:


Why are you sensible today?

Hyerin:


Lol at "I'm right and you are wrong" on whose metrics? just by gloating and deleting my posts alone shows you're wrong. Otherwise, if you were so right. Why delete them then proceed to claim yourself a winner?

Anyways, I'm done with this conversation. You can choose to believe whatever. Nairaland isn't even the place were level-headed, in-depth discussions take place. I don't even know why I choose to indulge.

OLDESTWARRIBOY:


@Hyerin
This is the first comment i've been talking about. Spew all your Grammars to defend it and let's end it

Magnoliaa:


There's a difference between being involuntarily single and being intentionally single?

Mtcheeewww. E be like say this one never hear of family planning and contraceptives.

All these teenage pregnancies and associated 'menace' is only an issue in countries where there is a general aversion to sex education.

Do I even need to tell you that the abortion rate is low, very low in countries where they are legalised?

So, no. Sexually aware/educated women = sexually responsible women

Educated women = awareness and sound decisions when it comes to marriage and number of kids to have.

All those loneliness talks are just sham. And you can easily sell it to the women here because they don't know better.

The woke Nordic countries don't seem as degenerated as your beloved patriarchal and religious and values-filled Africa.

No woman's life will be destroyed because she's not hinged to a man in any way - whether through kids, marriage or a family.

Men are going their own way, yet they are the one shooting up women and stalking and raping them because of sexual rejection and rejection to relationships. For all of the bitterness y'all claim feminists have, how many of us are going out to shoot men because we can't find a date?

So, no. The lack of suitable partners for marriage will not both affect us, or affect us the same way and our responses to such will definitely not be the same.

Even here on Nairaland, call it pretentiousness, but you'll never know if some lady likes a guy, even back when the 'toasting threads' were a thing, you'll find women declaring their feelings for a guy. Let it be a man that likes a girl, he'll troll her to heaven and hell and back, shame the living daylight out of her and do all manners of despicable thing to her because he wants her attention.

The men that ask women out normally are the outliers. The women that shoot up men because of rejection are also outliers. So it is a big fat lie when y'all come up with the 'women don't take rejection well' line. No matter how hurt or pained she is, a rejected lady is hardly thinking of ways to meet a man on the road and rape him in revenge.

And just in case my point isn't clear up to this point: I'm saying the undesirability of men will not affect women (equally) provided the above conditions are met. That is basically all round education for women- sexually, financially, emotionally, mentally...etc.

Firefoxy:


Your insecurity marvels me. This thread wasn’t comparing men and women’s successes. And you thinking that dating women for their “fertile body” is okay to say is further proof of your ignorance.
Maybe if women haven’t been oppressed for so long they’d have the same opportunities as men, just like black people against white people.

Your desperation to belittle women and say they have nothing apart from the little things you mentioned took you over, at least you have gotten that out of your heart. You should read more books or do more research.

You say these disgusting things then get mad when the “feminists” hate you back.

Next time, read with your brain...if you have one, and not your feelings.

Beloved3:


Very apt.
I owe you a kiss for this post. Please remind me when we meet.