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Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by starpon1: 4:10pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Hayastark:God forbid he lost his job and could not pay the maid so he should bear it till thou kingdom come? If I were to be the op I will divorce her straight cos I can't live with such a woman at all |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Nobody: 4:55pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Don't open a business for her, open the business for yourself then employ her to manage it along with someone else. Make she none go divorce you after you start the business. This your wife eye they up. This reason I don't do long distant relationships. 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by GboyegaD(m): 5:10pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Everyone is teachable, approach is all that matters. You don't nag an adult to do things in a manner you would appreciate. It requires discussions on why you would like the person to try it without encroaching into their space. One could use phrases like: Have we tried this, What about we try this, I'm thinking we should give this a thought etc. |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Mariangeles(f): 5:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
GboyegaD: I believe part of being a responsible adult is knowing what you should do and doing them when you should. If I always have to remind you of what you should do, what sets you apart from a child? 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Oksman(m): 6:31pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
izzou: I am not sure you are married. If you are, you will not say this to him. How can you teach an adult to be neat? Most women pretend during courtship to be neat if they observe you like a clean environment but change immediately they are hooked up. Any man who marries an untidy woman is in trouble especially if you are the neat type. She can never change it's one thing he has to bear for the rest of the marriage. Rather I will advise him to focus on the other aspect of her that interests him if he wants to continue the marriage. |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Karleb(m): 7:21pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Seriously! ![]() Even I know my friends that are neat and the ones that are dirty, how much more a lady you are to marry and even ended up marrying. C' mon! ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Bimpe29: 8:30pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
CryptoClub2018:Haba! What a subjective judgement? |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by GboyegaD(m): 9:38pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Mariangeles: This is high class nagging. We cant force everyone to reason the way we want them to and saying our part doesn't make us right as it is our perception. What we can do is to get them to intentionally buy into what we think is the best way to do things. |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Truvelisback(m): 9:56pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
umehaam:U bought a non tested product from the market, instead of to u to test it before bringing it home, u brought it home to test only for u to find out that it's not working. Now, na wetin u wan do now? To return the product? Bro, Laziness is her problem. U just married a full time lazy housewife. |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by Nobody: 10:09pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Get a maid. Openly flirt with the maid, using complimentary remarks to her hearing. Chances are she will demand her sack and do the chores herself. Chaiii, problem solved. |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by emmyN(m): 11:34pm On Nov 07, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: You are right. Though women can behave like children sometimes, which is why I don't mind giving them a little spanking from time to time, you know, to recalibrate the screw up there. However I've found a way to totally avoid getting into such situation by going the way of our fathers, stocking up a harem of different assortments of ladies. That way each wife will be jostling to please me and do my will. With that we can all have a perfect home. I wish other men like the OP will think the same way too. Imagine spending your whole life with a pig, yuck ![]() |
Re: Please I Need Someone To Tell Me If I’m Wrong Or Not. by samtol4(m): 7:05am On Nov 08, 2021 |
umehaam:You do not need a maid. Your marriage is still very young. Next time cook only what you will eat. Let her enter the kitchen and cook. She doesn't want to cook but she want to eat |
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