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A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 9:14am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Hi guys, I need help with what to do. I recently just met a lady, we seem to connect on a major level. I am interested in her and intend to take things to the next. While the thing is still unfolding and we are learning about ourselves. She opened up to me that she has a child. I am getting to love her, but how do you think I should approach this matter? Can I continue ![]() |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by DriverX: 9:22am On Nov 08, 2021 |
If you already have doubts at this early stage, no need continuing. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Princecanada: 9:33am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Do you think the child will be a problem in the relationship? Is the child male or female? |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Nobody: 9:38am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs:just decide what u want to achieve with her... if you want to explore her sexually ... let her know quickly... do not lead her on with uneccessary lies. Go straight to the point and tell her what you want. Dont waste her time. Most single mothers are already bitter and broken withing and can be dangerously cold blooded if you try to do anything stupid. Dont be in a hurry to start shouting the "I love you" crap... your approach must be logically rational rather than emotional. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Boogyman557: 9:42am On Nov 08, 2021 |
HOLLY GRAM ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by dacblogger: 9:56am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Mean while,the psycho above me is most active in crimes section and we are doubting how many sane people are on this forum... ![]() |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Southernigbo: 9:59am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Is de child an agola?,anyway just adopt de child and support them 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Bruno3000(m): 10:07am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Run o. Single mothers wahala too much. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by house10s: 10:15am On Nov 08, 2021 |
ehhh nah u self get ur own |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Nobody: 10:16am On Nov 08, 2021 |
dacblogger: ![]() |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Jeon(f): 10:38am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs: Go and get a child so that you guys can continue 1 Like
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Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Sonnobax15(m): 10:57am On Nov 08, 2021 |
![]() Mennnnnnnn, guymen cha.. Sometimes we can sabi over react cha.....She tell you the most hardest secret,you cor dey para....How e for cor be if to say she no tell you before nkor ![]() I once met a lady like that last year...She opened up to me....She noticed the sudden change in my attitude towards her....Na after that day,I just ended up everything,for my sanity's sake.. 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Beckysexy(f): 11:25am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: You don't/ never loved her. Princecanada: So, what does the child's gender have to do with this ? Enlighten me. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Oglock(m): 11:31am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Irredeemable Simps Are Useless...All Of Them Get sense 1 Like |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 11:32am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Princecanada: The child is female, 7 years old. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 11:34am On Nov 08, 2021 |
BadRadio: This makes serious sense to me. My initial intention was just friendship cause she is very intelligent and beautiful. Have we eaten out a few times, we got really interesting. That's how we started to talk emotionally. We have not had any emotional relation, I have not even told her that I love her. Although, within me, I would love to start a relationship with her that may lead to settling down. Then she told me about her child. I am now wondering what to do. I don't want to break the promising friendship. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 11:41am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Jeon: From her or from where? |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Truvelisback(m): 11:48am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Those who are married to or have married single mothers or have date single mothers b4 are in the position to advise u. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Truvelisback(m): 11:53am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs:It seems like u are scared and having doublemind abt her. If don't want to have anything serious with her, just friendzone. No be everybody must marry a single mother. It's ur choice. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Nobody: 11:53am On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs:Then keep it as friends. Let her know that too so she does not assume something else. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 12:01pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
BadRadio: Based on our conversations before the "opening up". She already knows that I have intentions to date or even marry her in the future. When she told me about the child. My response was also welcoming, I had rather not allow her to feel broken. Although within me, I was not so happy about it. Do you get the point now? |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Nobody: 12:17pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs:Dont give her false hope by trying to lead her on with what you've told her already... you've to be bold and tell her what you think now that she has opened up about having a child. She told you about it so u can be sure of ur intentions and decisions with her. If you continue with her without saying anything about what she told u, she will assume u dont have a problem with it. My brother do it fast. Tell her joor!!! 2 Likes |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 12:27pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
BadRadio: Thank you, boss! I will do as advised! I only hope it will not break her |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Nobody: 3:04pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs:break her ? Trust me ...she's already prepared for it... it's still early, it hasn't come to the point where she will feel heartbroken if you choose to abandon her. Tell her u cant if u cant, tell her you can if you can !!! Just be sure you are thinking straight and clearly, dont let feelings stand in the way of logical reasoning. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Raalsalghul: 3:28pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs: Is the child's father alive? |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by fourboys: 3:33pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
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Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 7:10pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Raalsalghul: I didn't confirm yet |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Raalsalghul: 7:19pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Cogs: Please confirm: very important. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Eyinju112(f): 8:55pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Let face the reality It’s cool if a man brings in a child into the relationship, but when a woman brings in one it will definitely be an issue soon or later.... |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Cogs(m): 2:12pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Eyinju112: Can please throw more light on this? You may just be saving Someone's future |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Das1mama: 3:41pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
dacblogger:Bro i reason d matter o. |
Re: A Girl I Have Just Met Has A Child by Ahmad62(m): 3:44pm On Nov 09, 2021 |
Continue if u want to shoulder someone’s responsibility |
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