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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by HERSLEY(f): 10:01pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
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Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by nikdam: 10:01pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
[b][/b] Aaronsrod: I pity your wife 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 10:01pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Long story short NOPE. one of the Best decisions of my life, right behind Marrying her! 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by tyup(m): 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Amanda4life:Nothing will happen to Aaronsrod, Nigga has done nothing wrong 9 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by skj1377(m): 10:03pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Are you normal Just asking Maski87: 13 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Amanda4life: 10:05pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
abbey621: BUT DO YOU KNOW THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH PURE HEART 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Amanda4life: 10:06pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
IF A MAN TREAT ME LIKE SHIT IN NIGERIA, OVER THERE IN ABROAD I WILL TREAT YOUR Bleep I 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Bigpapi: 10:07pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Yes I regret |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by abbey621(m): 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Amanda4life: Define pure heart? Anyone can sin, anyone can become compromised, even Bible said "all have sinned and fallen short", remember it is not about now, it is about future possibilities. Will that man/woman be the same when we introduce millions or billions, would they still fast and pray when the back of their neck is full of fat and their bellies looking like Mount Kilimanjaro? 6 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by jaxxy(m): 10:10pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Aaronsrod: Does christ force u to go to church or give ur tithe or offerings? When u disobey does he forgive u and forget or run u down?? So let’s copy the kind of rule the Bible stated cos it’s not the kind rule tradition or circular system has. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Yankee101: 10:12pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Differentiate: You have no single idea of the abuses Asians face abroad. Especially women, but they have a culture of silence, stoicism, and being demure. If you don't want problems the mantra here is go and get an Asian wife. Latinx are the biggest law breakers of any immigrant population in America. That's what Trump used to campaign to win elections. So go back and recheck your facts. And Nigerians are one of the most successful group of immigrants here. 25 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by sorepco(m): 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
R u serious or trolling? quote author=Maski87 post=107447420]No regrets for me,I was a banker before I fled Nigeria to UK things were really hard for me us and our 4 children until my wife started sleeping with this big yoruba man that she was cleaning his house,now na serious enjoyment we dey do,my friends are now saying the didn't know that we have money [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 10:15pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
ednut1: Interesting, so you also lived in the UK. You dom waka oh. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Fiscus105(m): 10:16pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
ednut1: I hardly like comment, but u strongly deserve my like" When few marriages have problems, they pronounced and yell as if it's Hell on Earth, but for several that are going smoothly, they silent on it. They will not strive to experience such good marriages. Meanwhile, lazy and despair type of guys would rely heavily on few marriages that Rocky, and start Lamentations of .......... marriage is not for everyone, I only need child and not wife. "Awon alaini nkan se crew member 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Nobody: 10:17pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Maski87: Congratulations to you and your family sir, may your days be long |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Yankee101: 10:18pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
The solution is to marry someone who has as much to lose as yourself The problem begins when you pick a hungry girl and bring her here just to use her and enjoy her labour. It'll backfire cos female rights here are epic Imagine you marry someone in America who has 2 masters and a great job at Google as a manager. And you're an IT professional too or a doctor. Why would she want to be in the news for disgracing you? Infact she'll work hard to make it work. On the flip side, you bring a girl here, train her to become a nurse and expect her to give you her salary, tolerate your cheating, accept you abusing her and collect the child tax credits every year....she go vex na Get an equal or richer lady. You both stand to lose if it flops. She'll treat you like an egg 61 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by zanshi: 10:21pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Naija men don wise, nobody is comming to the village from America to come pick a virgin wife or picking a woman for just being beautiful, if you dont tick certain criteria's you will get dropped like it's hot. 15 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Martinez39s(m): 10:22pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Never take your wife abroad and settle there. The laws can be savagely and unjustly weaponized against you by a woman who has simply done her due diligence. Women can be very hideous and devilish. I know that on this issue people (women and simps) will resort to their staple refrain that men have been abusive and brutally controlling in Africa and the women were simply and righteously standing up from themselves in a country with a working system. This is ever rarely the case; the picture is starkly different. No one will tell you how tyrannical, petty, abusive, controlling and cruel wives become against their husbands (innocent or not) when the gynocentric family and domestic violence laws give them all the power and afford them the latitude to indulge their whims and caprices. I will say no more. slimjohn2k5, don't let anyone deceive you. 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Fiscus105(m): 10:25pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Nonexisting1: Why married in first instance? Why looking for offspring from demonic entity? "Confused get to gether on faceless forum" 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by wildikeman(m): 10:25pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Love a Nigerian woman abroad at your own peril. A word is enough for the wise. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:28pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Anyhow it works for you take it that way my 1 naira advice 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Aaronsrod: 10:33pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
tyup: Bless you my broda. Stand firm. Hosea 4:6 : My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge: because thou hast rejected knowledge, I will also reject thee... 1 Timothy 2:12, KJV: But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by kurlz(f): 10:34pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
ednut1: You are simply amazing 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by MiaBeer(m): 10:36pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Your story shouldn't end oooo. Tell us more stories: 1. Of husbands in Nigeria who love hanging out with their friends more than spending time with their wives and kids. 2. Men in Nigeria who go to their store from Mondays to Saturdays and attend ceremonies on Sundays without their wives. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by daddytime(m): 10:37pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
nelem: You think say na everybody wey dey post here be Nigerian. Foreign trolls boku here well well oh.. 4 Likes |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by stayclearofme: 10:37pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
Story 1: How can police request for a search when the woman already said the husband is not back? If police actually requested, the woman will certainly say NO (she has the right) knowing full that she asked him to come back ( unless it was just a trap) Police can only do such search with a warrant, then they don't need the woman's consent. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by Curiouscity(m): 10:39pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
ednut1: When you paint this type of picture, it gives a false generalization that any man whose wife has driven him away from home is guilty of domestic violence, or cheated or refused to help in house chores. There abound many who are not in above category, but are treated worse. True, many marriages of Nigerians are doing well in the Western world, but some greedy Nigerian women are taking advantage of the system to show the bad side. Not as a response to bad treatment, but out of greed and sheer wickedness. A Warri guy got married to a Warri babe. They guy supported the babe to finish her PhD, while he developed a bakery business. The lady joined him in the business after her PhD. As they were expanding, the lady demanded that the guy give her the recipe, so he can share with her family back home. The guy refused. Trouble started. As I type, she has taken the bakery and ejected the guy. Bar the guy from seeing the 2 kids they have together. The guy left empty handed. But she is busy telling people that the guy left her. I have other sad examples of sheer greed and wickedness. Not in all cases is it always the man's fault. 31 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Do You Regret Going Abroad With Your Spouse by slimjohn2k5: 10:45pm On Nov 08, 2021 |
stayclearofme: Bro, please what is the meaning of parole 3 Likes |
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