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I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 3:47am On Nov 15, 2021 |
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her. Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing? 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by thesicilian: 3:49am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Don't know if it is the right thing but it's definitely not wrong. 273 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Danielkelly: 3:50am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Go ahead 62 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ipobarecriminals: 4:14am On Nov 15, 2021 |
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Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ifinger: 4:34am On Nov 15, 2021 |
After nysc she go drop ur az 163 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ignis: 4:38am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Is she comfortable with it? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Vinnie2000(m): 4:41am On Nov 15, 2021 |
If She is Mature in reasoning and conduct, Go Ahead! ![]() But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl who is obsessed with Selfies, Instagram, Tiktok, Fashion trends, Omah Lay, Fireboy,etc, You better Wise ur brain! ![]() 485 Likes 28 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 5:09am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:No ooo, she's Godly & have a post in her fellowship & also matured. 72 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 5:10am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ignis:Yes,she is. Na she dey tell me say make I nor disappoint her 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 5:12am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ifinger:are you that harsh�. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 5:15am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Scout60:I understand.like I said she's matured in reasoning. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Goldencheese(m): 5:22am On Nov 15, 2021 |
One of the ways to know that she loves you, get to know her parents or siblings and feel the vibes they show towards you. If they are warm towards you, then make your intentions known to the mother first or the father whoever you think calls the shot. Some mothers call the shot in a home; so know who runs the parade. But start with the mother. Emotionalise your feelings for her daughter. Mothers feel emotions and words have power over them; This can get you a forever acceptance by her. But it could also go the wrong way if she decides to exploit it, God forbid, that is if she's materialistic. Also be close to her siblings; start with the one or ones they feel is difficult and start penetrating them little by little. It's a tough call, I know. But this is the way to show that you're responsible and are willing and ready to take their daughter to the altar. If you just know the daughter but the family doesn't know you, somebody else can show up before you and take her. Life is a competition. I was living in a fool's paradise not recognising this. If you indeed love her, some efforts have to be exerted to win her family over to you. All the best. 127 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Abudu2000(m): 5:27am On Nov 15, 2021 |
okay o but hope she is not one of those with mickey mouse phone casing and always playing joeboy with the other one that sang love wantiti, if she also do tiktok and argues about starboy you have better run for ur life ![]() 148 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ignis: 5:28am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: Na your money she dey after. 5 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Tokskob2008: 5:59am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:Comrade please use this mic and increase the volume..... 115 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Ofadaman(m): 6:23am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Lol, just be managing her till she is out of university,when she comes out she's no longer interested,besides guy wey go dey chop the babe all through that remaining four years for school ehh, and service year. A lot will change and strain you, 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Sonnobax15(m): 6:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: ![]() ![]() 24 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by lereinter(m): 6:27am On Nov 15, 2021 |
How did 19yrs be in 400l Too early 30 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Candidlady: 6:49am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Vinnie2000: make sense But If She is the regular 19 year old Nigerian Girl the "regular nigerian 19year old girl" wasnt necesary! Al over the world we got teenagers who are freaks when it comes to the internet/trendings 11 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Nobody: 6:54am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Abudu2000:So does that make her a bad gal? Tiktok..Mickey mouse..joeboy music..is that how you judge people? 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Nobody: 6:55am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads:Man if you love her fine..age is nothing but number as far as she's above 18.. It's all about love man.. 6 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by jericco1(m): 6:57am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Hmm.. I no get advice for you 1 Like |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Boogyman557: 7:05am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Holly Gram ![]() 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Idamond: 7:11am On Nov 15, 2021 |
lereinter:my brother age is just a number ![]() 16 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by slickycee: 7:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
So you guys are going to wait for 3 years !!!!!! OP if you feel you can wait till then to marry , that's on you But it's always better to do what needs to be done As soon as possible. In the next 3 years you dont know how things would be She might fall in love with someone else You might not even have that job again (God forbid ) She may get belle for another man before then, Like 1 million and one nonsense can happen. See ehn all these young girls still believe in Hollywood love, and these ladies make decisions based on emotions , so you can't trust a woman's advice especially when it's tied with emotions. OP na express you dey go o Change is constant !!!! It's the only thing we are sure of . I'm sure the lady hasn't tasted freedom a bit , very soon she would want to explore !! Her hoe phase is still coming OP think this thing well, if you want to get married asap , find a woman that's ready !!!! You can't take a girl's word seriously !!! They keep saying different things. My advice, tell her you can't promise to wait till she's 22, but for now let's see how things are going Keep your options open That girl never see anything, once her eye tear you may not even like her person again OP na your life o, put yourself first !!. Lead a woman, she can't lead you o 61 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by MarketDispatch: 7:44am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads: Your popular actress Omotola Jalade got married at what age? 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Polynek(m): 8:09am On Nov 15, 2021 |
See judgement every where ![]() Omo chief judge plenty 4 Dix House oo ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 8:09am On Nov 15, 2021 |
Boogyman557:I don't sponsor her schooling o, she has a well to do dad & fam 11 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by ersonleads(m): 8:18am On Nov 15, 2021 |
slickycee:she's already tasting freedom @ school. She's in 400level.This makes me have confident she knows what she wants 8 Likes |
Re: I'm 30yrs Male In Love With A 19yrs Old by Boogyman557: 8:25am On Nov 15, 2021 |
ersonleads:Holly Gram ![]() 24 Likes 3 Shares |
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