BlackSan:


You are getting inspiration from series? Perhaps you were never told but it isn't good to generalize things and people's opinions should respected irrespective of their view on the matter. I believe both the man and the woman are both at fault for the problem but a certain series doesn't really tell you all about life.
You need more enlightenment!

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

He wanted me to give money for his projects. He wanted loans. I wasn't willing to do so and it became war.

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

Angeldemon:




Those two parts were your problem and the problem with most nigerian women.
They want "freedom" in marriage. There is no freedom in marriage that is why it is literally called marriage. It is a relationship were two people are accounable to eachother but typical black women want to copy white culture that is cultureless.
You want to do what you like while you have a marriage. No accountability or cooperation.
The typical nigerian women is ruthlessly arrogant to people, talk less her husband, once she starts seeing her own money.
NO MAN ON EARTH EVEN PASTORS will condone an arrogant and emotionally abusive woman in his house, and this is what money turns women without self control/awareness into 99% of the time.
You came even stated that you wanted him domesticated. You can imagine. So because make more money than him you want him to become the housemaid. Then before you know you[i] see him finish[/i] then start cheating with men outside you see as[b] on your level[/b].

Typical Nigerian men and men all over the world take pride in helping their wives with funds to start their own businesses, hobbies or things they want to do with their lives, but once its a rare turn of a woman we see posts like this online. With support from fellow selfish women.
I always say it that women are more selfish than men and hate helping. They only pretend when theres a benefit attached to it immediately or in the foreseeable future. Men will give their wives money without even batting an eyelid or remembering int but even that same women will start insulting that same man when things stop being rosy for him.

The definition of a wife was meant to be [b]helper [/b]but you modern girls have turned to destroyers of men. Its men that still take you all seriously and sacrifice for you all i pity their stupidity

We heard your well-baked side of the story. im sure if we hear your husbands side it will be a different thing

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

Newboss:


Na simps dey create that problem.

Seun:
For whatever he needs. Men who are rich give money to their wives all the time. If a man is rich and never helps his wife financially I don't think the marriage would work, but it's usually not an issue because men are expected to provide for their wives. I think she was the defacto breadwinner but as a woman society had not equipped her for the role so she failed at it. The same goes for the man. I bet he didn't know how to use seduction to extract cash.

jornwhite:




In summary, her money is her money even when it 5-10times over naa im cause wahala two shall becum one no reach woman money yeye gender
aunty turn motivational speaker just to avert supporting the man financially love indeed

Crossroad1:
There is a way you as a man carries yourself and show aspirations that will make your wife give you money without asking..
What needs does he need to meet that warrants him asking for money from his wife?
If it is for business, there is nothing wrong in that.
What manner is he asking the money?
As a loan or as a dash?
There is nothing wrong in your wife making more money than you but it becomes a problem when you begin dey shook eye for her money..
Some lazy mofos will even make it an habit.

Tallesty1:
This is irritating.

You want him to step up. You want him to man up, do this and do that, improve here and there but you're not willing to help him?

Then what exactly are you doing in his life?

Omoh I have never seen someone that is this proudly stupid before.

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason.

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

lalasticlala:
As shared by Nike Adexa @naikiadex



https://twitter.com/naikiadex/status/1460605285865828357

Aksnoopy:
You are a tiro when it comes too life issue.
Human evolves as higher animal, the world is changing real fast. Women are more influenced by what they see now than ever. If you believe series don't depict the reality going on in the world then you are definitely a kid.

Can you watch the movie "secret society" and say them thing you said up there?

Be rationale next time please!

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

pocohantas:


Be like say she dey take meth. Government all over the world suppose tackle this menace.

Pierocash:
A woman can earn more than man in the Western world and there will still be peace in the marriage.

In Nigeria here, a woman doesn't even need to earn more than the man before their ego begins to play out. Nigeria women believe that once they can be financially independent ,they don't need a man so they start acting rebellious and arrogant.

It’s a global feminine tendency. The female of almost every species is the more jealous and less generous one.

Not all women are that way however. There are generous ones.

Another problem is that some women seem not to realize that there is a distinction between home and office behavior. Many often conflate both. They behave bossy at home as if they were in there office.

Home is where you let your guard down. Office is where you can be the boss.

Trust me, our forefathers know a lot about this subject than we do in our age.

I tell myself,even if she earns more than me,I won't ask her a dime of her money,I will play my role without looking at her purse. By so doing, I will know if she is a supportive wife,or parasitic one

pocohantas:


Nothing irritates me more than stingy people. Ahnahn! You claim to love him, yet you watch him struggle to meet up and survive. He isn’t even supposed to ask!! She has brains and eyes. She can see his needs and should know where to come in!!

How do people act like that and still have the nerve to say they love you? It builds resentment. It was only a matter of time he begins to hate her. Rather than make amends, she is still claiming he is this and that. She should getaut with her money.

It is better to be with an alata that supports you with her N10, than a Linda Ikeji that won’t give you N100,000.

ozonechrome:


I feel when people get married, the money that comes in becomes "our" money irrespective of who earns it.

If you don't trust him with money, don't marry him.

Amotolongbo:
There is nothing bad marrying a man with lower income, but make sure the man is a very ambitious man and not a man not ready to step up his game and income.

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

Ynix:


There was a time Bishop Oyedepo's wife earned more than are husband who is in the full time ministry, she submits all she had to her husband every month, same with Pastor Enenche and Pastor Ibiyome.
There is a big difference between having wisdom and having money, it is one thing to be visionary it is another to have the provision for making the vision a reality.
I can never marry a self centered lady, even though I have money more than you, you must be willing to part with your money just I do for you.

Amotolongbo:
A rich wife can spend on her husband at will. It happens often.
Tonto Dikeh did it before (“she said so, I wasn’t there o).

One’s partner should not be turned to maga most especially when there is a pride at stake in the part of the husband anyway

Pierocash:
A woman can earn more than man in the Western world and there will still be peace in the marriage.

In Nigeria here, a woman doesn't even need to earn more than the man before their ego begins to play out. Nigeria women believe that once they can be financially independent ,they don't need a man so they start acting rebellious and arrogant.

I tell myself,even if she earns more than me,I won't ask her a dime of her money,I will play my role without looking at her purse. By so doing, I will know if she is a supportive wife,or parasitic one

Capaldi:
Nairaland men types and comment like idiots sometimes. Look at fools supporting the idiotic man and blaming the woman. The amount of stupid people on Nairaland is irritating.

BlackSan:

Very few people have this conception. A lot goes with the *The man is the head of the family and so should foot all the bills*