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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kholiwe(f): 11:35pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Double0h7:You are typing nonsense 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by jaxxy(m): 11:36pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
bukatyne: The op is a confused liar. How can u believe the op is intelligent looking at the story she narrated? Where did she get that conclusion from? Her own Nigerian or African marriage? She injected that phrase to clear herself and her likes Nigeria women from being attacked. Very cunning woman bt only smart by half. What a shame. She should go and lean from Alakija and Oprah mirrored and dating men who earn less. She’s very stupidd. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by KillIgbohoN0W: 11:36pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by jornwhite: 11:36pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Munzy14: Infact such man needs a mobile oxygen gas around cos the air wey go dey that house no go reach air wey dey preserve agege bread inside nylon .... it is a terrible experience no naija man should go thru, God help us 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by cococandy(f): 11:39pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Kholiwe: 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by baby124: 11:40pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Verysmart101:The man has to be very humble. Some men will be dirt poor and walking around with ego, doing everything to destroy what the wife has accumulated so that he will be better than her. They can’t see past their ego. That building on what she has will be to the benefit of their family. A woman has to be wise and know who the husband is before parting with huge sums of money. Some will even dump the woman that helped them once they make it. Because they want someone who does not know their poverty story. So, Don’t blame women who don’t part with their money. Women generally know how to manage money far better than men. A wise man should seek his wife’s advice if she is successful. She must be doing something right. Men always trying to prove to their peers that things are still great even when they are struggling. If you perfect humility, contentment and a lack of need to show off or compete in this life. You will go very far. Go to clubs and see men who don’t have jobs spending their wives money on bottles to impress people who don’t care. Dem plenty. Kings of fake life. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kholiwe(f): 11:41pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
KillIgbohoN0W:Yes your mother and sisters are useless, leeches and also Ashawo too. Your family must be cursed 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kholiwe(f): 11:42pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
baby124:First sensible comment have seen here. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Highlyrespected(m): 11:45pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Olam09:Me too |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Nyenatetan(m): 11:46pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Crossroad1: Bros be calmingdown small small nan You know sey oga Sewa. too na nigga wey him head click
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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Nobody: 11:47pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
bukatyne: It's an internal discussion that was brought public, Seun and Lala probably have argued about it and wanted to see other people's opinion. This is actually a big problem in many families, happened between my folks as well, there was a lot of friction. It's not an easy problem to solve. At the end, i believe the supreme creator created women to be hypergamous naturally. I don't think this has anything to do with society. Women have flipped the script because men haven't been treating them fairly in their leadership position in the past. Now women have jobs and attained that leadership position but cannot handle someone eating off them. It's Anti-Natural. I use to be pro 50/50 before. I have given up that idea this year. Wahala too much. 11 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Connected1: 11:48pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
This Kind of woman should not locate me abeg. Ordinary Loan na be issue. Some people just too wicked. Even if the man was richer, at some point he would still need a loan from his wife sef. Nigeria can never produce a true feminist abeg. Even though she was richer, she was still a leech. 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Nobody: 11:51pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
cococandy: You are wrong, even if a man does the whole house chores and doesn't bring in that income there would still be friction. I suggest you start being honest with yourself once in a while. Leveling up means higher income, doing house chores will only appease your wife for a short period, the initial Joy would fade away in 3 months. 10 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by jornwhite: 11:51pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
nenyewrites: An adage says; pikin wey shit fit forget buh those that pack the shit no go fit forget. what i am saying is that, if that lady had for once invested in him, she won't miss such details, e be like say you no know woman, she would av told included total amount she invested that he squandered .. just like in acrimony the exact total 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by cybluesky(m): 11:51pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
LOL......let's not be afraid to call out a man or a woman who hasn't done well,everything is not about defending gender or pulling the other down,this is how nairaland has become a tribalisticland...very distastefully too. Where did she ever mention that the man did not support domestically? None. Where dis she ever suggest that the man is not ambitious or never wanted to step up his game?none Where did she state that the man was totally dependent or freaked out about her finances prior to the marriage or when they were married? How many times did she mention supporting the man and he ended up squandering the resources or refusing to pay back??none How many times did she state that the husband ask for her support which wasn't rendered??at least twice. The case is well too obvious given the facts on ground while taking into cognizance that the narrative may not be holistic... Next time,save your dough and get married to a man up the professional/economic ladder...it is simply a case of clash of class. 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by yunqdady: 11:54pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
SILVERLINES:What are you saying? |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by cococandy(f): 11:55pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
truthsayer009:Why have you given up the idea? And while you’re at it, what kind of 50/50 are you in support of? Because to most guys (not you specifically) 50/50 to them means that the wife plays provider too. Otherwise they consider her to be a burden or a leech. But at the same time, they feel emasculated when expected to do traditional female tasks. That’s where the so called wahala usually creeps in. What woman wants to financially provide for a man who she also has to serve domestically? What’s in that relationship for the woman? And how does one expect it to be free of fracas? When things are fair, expectations are fair. Roles are fairly allocated, it usually causes no problems if both parties are reasonable. The problems arise because people want to hold onto antiquated ideas of gender roles when it suits them but quickly ditch them when it benefits them 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Highlyrespected(m): 11:56pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Seun:Uhmm! Well said Mr seun Let me use this kinda opportunity to express my feelings...... I always enjoying your nairalander site from day one I av joined this site, I never for once regret joining this forum. A job well done to you and your co's Including all members of this great forum Keeps soaring Mr seun. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Aksnoopy: 11:56pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
BlackSan:I only engage rational Alpha male in discussion through quotes and you are clearly not one. You will learn sooner or later. You ain't worth my time,Bye! |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by vibratingpenis: 11:57pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
Like seriously, this is a case? Because a woman earns better? But this is what men have been doing since and no fuss was made, now money gives freedom to women but men had lived with it and managed their freedom. Damn! 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Angeldemon: 11:59pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
BlackSan: A helper not partner. Adam was capable of doing everything before eve came along. God saw it wasn't good for him to be alone. Meaning to be his company, make him happier and reduce his stress in life. If a woman doesn't do those thing she must be done away with from your life swiftly or else she will destroy it. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by DeeMain(m): 12:03am On Nov 17, 2021 |
It cuts both ways, madam. Most men can't handle the imbalance. Most women can't handle it either. They were cultured with a paternalistic programming, remember? So she begins to act all masculine around the home and most men are driven crazy by that shit. "Why can't she still exhibit those attractive feminine energy that drew me to her in the first place", they ask? 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Nobody: 12:04am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun:I think they’ve finally hacked Seun’s account. I never knew he made such social/jovial comments. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by jornwhite: 12:04am On Nov 17, 2021 |
cococandy: if the condition for a wife to be supportive is for a man to be domesticated, like ur friend said earlier she can go eat her money. between ur view n the lady stand, i don't know whu is more worst sef smh 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by greggng: 12:11am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Is in women dna. They don't play with their money. Let me give you two example . I met this lady while she was doing her waec . I started taking care of her from that point to university level . One day I had some financial issues and she gave me 8k to enable me travel for business. Long story short . .when we had issues, she visited my sister to tell her that she gave me 8k of her hard earned money . My sister became angry with me. It now seem they both ganged up.i told my sister that she should remember I trained her with my hard earned money ..fed her and bought cloths for her. So isn't that my hard earned money ? Second incident happened with another lady. I paid for her accommodation and ensure she was well taking care of. I ensured I kept all the tells of whatever I spent on her. One day I decided to ask her for 500naira credit cos I was in a farm in remote area..she asked me to send my account . She didn't get back too me . When I got back to lagos I confronted her on the reason why.she treated me that way...she gave me a shocker . She said, what have I done for her in all the years she has been with me....immediately I became angry and reached out for my file .. I brought out all the teller I used to send her money . Suddenly she now said .I am a woman ...that I keep record of everything. It takes a great mind to understand women . This two incident makes me feel.sorry for any man that rely on.women ... 8 Likes 1 Share |
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