Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

baby124:

The man has to be very humble. Some men will be dirt poor and walking around with ego, doing everything to destroy what the wife has accumulated so that he will be better than her. They can’t see past their ego. That building on what she has will be to the benefit of their family. A woman has to be wise and know who the husband is before parting with huge sums of money.

Some will even dump the woman that helped them once they make it. Because they want someone who does not know their poverty story. So, Don’t blame women who don’t part with their money.

Women generally know how to manage money far better than men. A wise man should seek his wife’s advice if she is successful. She must be doing something right.

Men always trying to prove to their peers that things are still great even when they are struggling. If you perfect humility, contentment and a lack of need to show off or compete in this life. You will go very far.

Go to clubs and see men who don’t have jobs spending their wives money on bottles to impress people who don’t care. Dem plenty. Kings of fake life.

truthsayer009:


You are wrong, even if a man does the whole house chores and doesn't bring in that income there would still be friction. I suggest you start being honest with yourself once in a while.

Leveling up means higher income, doing house chores will only appease your wife for a short period, the initial Joy would fade away in 3 months.

greggng:
Is in women dna. They don't play with their money. Let me give you two example . I met this lady while she was doing her waec . I started taking care of her from that point to university level . One day I had some financial issues and she gave me 8k to enable me travel for business. Long story short .
.when we had issues, she visited my sister to tell her that she gave me 8k of her hard earned money . My sister became angry with me. It now seem they both ganged up.i told my sister that she should remember I trained her with my hard earned money ..fed her and bought cloths for her. So isn't that my hard earned money ?

Second incident happened with another lady. I paid for her accommodation and ensure she was well taking care of. I ensured I kept all the tells of whatever I spent on her. One day I decided to ask her for 500naira credit cos I was in a farm in remote area..she asked me to send my account . She didn't get back too me . When I got back to lagos I confronted her on the reason why.she treated me that way...she gave me a shocker .

She said, what have I done for her in all the years she has been with me....immediately I became angry and reached out for my file ..

I brought out all the teller I used to send her money . Suddenly she now said .I am a woman ...that I keep record of everything. It takes a great mind to understand women . This two incident makes me feel.sorry for any man that rely on.women




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Amotolongbo:
A rich wife can spend on her husband at will. It happens often.
Tonto Dikeh did it before (“she said so, I wasn’t there o).

One’s partner should not be turned to maga most especially when there is a pride at stake in the part of the husband anyway

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

He wanted me to give money for his projects. He wanted loans. I wasn't willing to do so and it became war.

cococandy:

Why have you given up the idea?

And while you’re at it, what kind of 50/50 are you in support of? Because to most guys (not you specifically) 50/50 to them means that the wife plays provider too. Otherwise they consider her to be a burden or a leech.

Seun:
For whatever he needs. Men who are rich give money to their wives all the time. If a man is rich and never helps his wife financially I don't think the marriage would work, but it's usually not an issue because men are expected to provide for their wives. I think she was the defacto breadwinner but as a woman society had not equipped her for the role so she failed at it. The same goes for the man. I bet he didn't know how to use seduction to extract cash.

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

Seun:
The main problem was that she didn't give him money. Why would you marry a guy if you dont trust him with money?

What she called emotional and verbal abuse sounds like they were fighting but she wanted to make herself the sole victim. The husband should have handled it better. He is not entitled to her money. But I think the lady contributed more to the failure of her marriage than she realizes.

She speaks of trying to get him to aspire higher which means she was not satisfied with his professional and financial status. So why marry him if his level was not high enough for you? She could have just given him money from time to time like most men who are richer than their wives tend to do.

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

A man requesting for money from a woman is only trying to trade his pride as the head of the home.

The only time a man should be given money by a woman is when it is needed for a personal and mental development which will bring a fortune to the man and home

Pierocash:
A woman can earn more than man in the Western world and there will still be peace in the marriage.

In Nigeria here, a woman doesn't even need to earn more than the man before their ego begins to play out. Nigeria women believe that once they can be financially independent ,they don't need a man so they start acting rebellious and arrogant.

I tell myself,even if she earns more than me,I won't ask her a dime of her money,I will play my role without looking at her purse. By so doing, I will know if she is a supportive wife,or parasitic one

PeachtreeReside:





There is a distinct possibility that he married her so she could be his lottery ticket..


If she didn't encourage him to be more ambitious than he is, she won't be a good person or partner


I don't think it's fair to apportion more blame to her over the marriage breakdown. If you are refused a loan from the bank, you don't go blowing up the bank right?



He resorted to emotional abuse and stuff which is a buzz killer .

Kobojunkie:
All this na story story. What about Senator Kerry and his Heinz wife? Why their marriage no tumble like like OP own?

The woman in this case was married to a immature being is what. There problems were not of wealth but of maturity abeg.

Seun:
For whatever he needs. Men who are rich give money to their wives all the time. If a man is rich and never helps his wife financially I don't think the marriage would work, but it's usually not an issue because men are expected to provide for their wives. I think she was the defacto breadwinner but as a woman society had not equipped her for the role so she failed at it. The same goes for the man. I bet he didn't know how to use seduction to extract cash.

Amotolongbo:
Give him money to do what?
She can’t just be giving him money for no just reason. She can spend her money on the home, not giving it to her husband.

He wanted me to give money for his projects. He wanted loans. I wasn't willing to do so and it became war

Judybash93:
At the end women are takers and men are givers. A man wouldn't come and complain about giving his wife money in order to support her dreams. Equality my butt

Tajbol4splend:
Man and Woman can never be equal no matter you try, you just can't cheat nature

Walkee:
the funniest part of the article is "the male ego is very fragile" lol typical twitter feminist always able to move the fault to the other person. A man who actually asked you for loan to fund his project is whom the writer is claiming has fragile ego