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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Judybash93(m): 3:38am On Nov 17, 2021 |
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Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Belafonte(m): 3:39am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Caseless: I didn't even see this before making my own comment. The babe no get talk for mouth abeg. How can you want an ambitious husband and not want to support his ambition? ![]() I am very sure her mother drummed it in her ears that the last thing she must do is give her husband money. Her parents probably never liked the guy from day 1 and their words helped influence her tight-fistedness towards her husband whether she wants to admit it or not. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Judybash93(m): 3:40am On Nov 17, 2021 |
socialmediaman: Yes oOo!! She was probably gaslighting issues up and dan 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Judybash93(m): 3:42am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Munzy14: There's nothing like equality between men and women! Women only want to preach that up and down 6 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 3:50am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Double0h7:How did you arrive at the conclusion that she is the breadwinner in her marriage though? Do you assume that in all marriages, the one who earns the bigger paycheck foots all the bills or sometimes? ![]() As for building up and investing in her partner's dreams, shouldn't that depend on how viable she thinks those dreams are? Or do we expect her to simply poor money down a known leaky drain? ![]() Marriage is a contract, and agreement between a man and a woman giving each couple a chance to uniquely design the terms and conditions of their union to suit their desire and need. There are no one-size-fits-all rules where that contract is concerned. And those who know this know peace. ![]() |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by poik(m): 4:12am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun: Not like i am surprised, but this woman is clearly a bad woman. I saw the tweet wherein someone asked her why she didnt help her husband step up and she said she cant fund an adult’s project. A man you married, and you claim to be one? 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by peleson1: 4:15am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun:The warning from her parents ,relations and friends before the marriage was residual in her mind and she allowed that take control of her senses .. Too bad .. If the man was richer,it would v been ok to have him give her money all the time. The woman is a bad woman 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Phcmayor(m): 4:17am On Nov 17, 2021 |
All these made up stories self |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Kobojunkie: 4:27am On Nov 17, 2021 |
olisaEze:Abegi! She got bad advice from those your so-called older and more experienced folks you refer to. ![]() |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by pompeiimagnus: 4:33am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Prenonjebose: Lol....there is actually nothing wrong with a man being an average earner. A primary school male teacher will most likely be an average earner - even after including extra income from home lessons. A wife is a helpmate and should be willing to manage with him if she chooses to marry him. This whole idea of "step up as a husband" is really dumb. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by CHoccolaTE: 4:36am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun: The problem with giving Nigerian men money is that you will give him money for his upkeep and business and at the same time be expected to submit to him. Nigeria isn't like western societies where husband and wife see each other like friends and partners. In Nigeria the man has the final say in marriage as he is expected to be the Head and leader. A woman in USA or UK can provide for her husband with no qualms because the husband sees her as an equal partner and would never disrespect her bacause he was raised to see females as inferior. Not in Nigeria where religious and traditional laws have made men see women as inferior and less than men. Imagine providing for a man that still has no problems treating you as inferior to himself. Haba It would be very unfair to the woman to provide and still be expected to be the subordinate in the marriage, let's not kid ourselves here. Nobody wants to be taken advantage of like that. Rich men in Nigeria can give their wives money because they get the wife's submissivenes and obedience in return, what the hell do Nigerian women have to gain if they start providing for husbands? She will end up being provider and home maker and submitter all at once while her husband just lives off her and bosses her around. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by CHoccolaTE: 4:44am On Nov 17, 2021 |
cococandy: Honestly, very selfish and entitled people. Then the idiot will become a millionaire with the money his wife supported him with and still start sleeping around and cheating on her in the name of natural polygamousness. Imagine what Cubana chief priest said the other day, that it is normal for men to cheat on their wives as long as he keeps the side chick away from his wife. This is how almost all men in Nigeria reason. Imagine financially supporting an entitled turd that thinks cheating in you is normal. Rubbish 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Nobody: 4:49am On Nov 17, 2021 |
As a man make sure you hustle and earn far more, it builds your respect. If a woman works for hers, trust me most of what she earns goes to her family before she go reason your side. I have been in this situation and by God's grace i pulled out of it. Love is not enough in these kinda situations. 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Freethinker87: 4:53am On Nov 17, 2021 |
bukatyne: No one is happy spending on anybody. It is only a sense of responsibility to help your partner become the best version of herself. That's why men buy their women gifts, upgrade their wardrobe, put them on an allowance and sometimes even help them start a business. Responsibility requires some sort of sacrifice. I often wonder why it has to be different when the roles are reversed. Suddenly, the rules changes. The woman wants the man to double his hustle, take a new course, be more ambitious, all of which requires some sort of capital infusion the woman still won't help with. She still won't grant her "husband" a small loan to kickstart this ambition. It's frustrating honestly. A very scary position to be in as a man. 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Veervee: 4:56am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Money is overated joor. Enjoy life joor. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Idaytesj29(m): 4:57am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun: Thats why we are men. Men bankroll women in their marriages not minding their low income or lack of jobs. But the reverse is the case when women earn more in relationships. Thats when disrespect and verbal abuse or names calling starts. 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Prenonjebose: 5:01am On Nov 17, 2021 |
pompeiimagnus:The idea of step up is not dumb. Stepping up does not necessarily translate to becoming very rich. You can be an average earner, yet improving your earning. The extra income from home lessons is a step up as compared to a teacher who relies solely on the salary from the school. Some other teachers engage in other forms of tradiñg. Some have been able to grow their businesses to unimaginable level due to the number of free hours after school hours and holiday period. Some have added transportation services to their salary. Some others have skills like hair barbing, tailoring etc. The idea of step up in the context of the write is to minimize financial pressure from taking care of the family, and avoiding to exchange roles with the wife. There is nothing more gratifying than knowing that you are taking care of more responsibilities, irrespective of how much she has. In my contribution, I advised that husbands should leave within their means. As your income increases, then it would reflect in your standard of living, which in itself is stepping up on your own terms. 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Idaytesj29(m): 5:02am On Nov 17, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: Yes, and some women are also guilty of this exact point. Fed, bankrolled and have her set up in business and still cheats. 6 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by favour32(m): 5:03am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Nai make men dey die earlier than women. You must be higher than your wife mentality. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Nobody: 5:06am On Nov 17, 2021 |
BabaIbo:If you want to see jagbajantis then go to romance section where weed smokers are abound.Nothing wrong in helping a man becomes better and bigger since you chose to love him irrespective of his financial status. 1 Like |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Ladycewhy(f): 5:06am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun:That is what the lady termed "living off" her. If he wants money to develop himself so he can upgrade yes to that but a grown man wanting to be given allowances,money for beer for himself and his friends, clothes and shoes to "gadge up" omo we go re- negotiate the roles. If you give a woman money,she uses it to build the home cook for you ,take care of the house,you and the kids. In this case the woman likely uses her money for the upkeep of the house.I cant be using my money to do all that and you still expecting me to give you to dey buga outside. |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by descartes400: 5:07am On Nov 17, 2021 |
pocohantas: Praaaaaaaise da Looorrrrd! Brethren I say praaaaise da Lorrd ooh. We have a new convert in our mist, on her way to damascus, she saw the light! ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Chochovini: 5:14am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Crossroad1:. RAIN ke? Na wetin you mean by that one? |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by bjtinz: 5:17am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Ladycewhy: Indeed. 75k latest Brazilian hair, manicure ati pedicure, latest shoes, bags, iphone 32, etc, which men regularly bankroll are all part of 'upkeep for the house abi'?? ![]() No need typing long stories. Seun has said it all. 6 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Idaytesj29(m): 5:18am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: For point no 2, you cannot be married and not know the dreams of your partner. If the dreams happens to a money drains in disguise , you are in the best position to help redesign it when the couples future plans discussions happens. If he is spending money in a drain or asking you to finance such leaky idea, its not his fault alone, its both of you that should be blame. Its very uncharacteristic of good couple. In the end, men move mountains for women comforts and development but women cannot use their finger to kick an empty match box in front of them for the comfort of their men because men are "polygamous in nature" and the women doesn't cheat at all, either their men provide their needs or not. 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Ladycewhy(f): 5:19am On Nov 17, 2021 |
bjtinz:No p me I will give him all that ,but will he cook for me and clean the house ,do home work for the children bath them while all I do is wake up in the morning take my bath and head straight to work where I earn money to give him to buga? Or make I too still do all that one join? I be robot? Person nor dey rest?this load nor too much like this so ![]() Seun is a person and is entitled to his opinion, a mortal like you and I . See as you dey make make am look like one supreme being don talk ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And like I said, if it has to do with his financial upgrade and development ,sure,e go even help reduce the load. 2 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Mayflowa(m): 5:21am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Seun: Who is this badass sensible man? There is a "richness capacity" for everyone. Everyone cannot be richer than their wives. Making money is not just about handwork, it is a skill. When a woman got the skill, she would do better financially than a husband even if your step/climb up. When a man has money, It is a joy to give his wife anything she needs. There are many things I give money for that I know its not important. There are times I know I gave excess than it is needed. I just smile because I have the money. How come a woman that has heaven and earth, would deprive her man of her money. What is she going to use the money for?? She ought not to marry him in the first place. Give but advise him! Help him plan his project. That is how to love unconditionally. I bet she talks rudely to the man too! 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by kliffo(m): 5:23am On Nov 17, 2021 |
[b][/b] Amotolongbo: The narrator said he demanded money for his projects, and yet she refused to support him in executing those projects. It appears she did not give enough support. Just 6 months into the marriage and they were already fighting over money. If the roles had been reversed, the man would have gladly supported her dreams. She lacked the maturity to handle such a relationship and the man made the mistake of thinking that what belonged to her, belonged to them. 4 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Trimque2k1(m): 5:24am On Nov 17, 2021 |
I thought women were help ![]() If we go by what you have written down there about loving him from the beginning, of you loving him, ms you never truly love him but was naive...You have money but can't see love as enough to keep your home together... 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Mayflowa(m): 5:25am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Ladycewhy: Rich men's wives don't do jack! There are lots of housemaid at home. The women are specialist at insulting one househelp to another and sometimes deny them food. So as a rich wife, you must provide househelp for your husband. It seems women want to see men suffer. Meanwhile we want to see our women glowing and stress-free. 3 Likes |
Re: Experience Of A Woman Who Was Richer Than Her Husband by Ladycewhy(f): 5:30am On Nov 17, 2021 |
Mayflowa:She does her duty and still does his duty in the house too, e nor reach? Or you nor know say na wetin enter belle dey consume money pass? ![]() The only time a man should have a problem with his wife earning more than him is when she neglects her duty as his wife.How submissive do you want her to be if she still does her duty and shoulders yours as well in the home? ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
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