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Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by blessingchinny(f): 6:18pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Should you share your secret with your partner? I came across a trend on Facebook where a question was asked on whether is right to share your past life with your partner? On Reading the comments, I discovered that a lot of people was against sharing your past with a partner as that might affect the trust in the relationship. But then, what works for A might not work for B. Do you know that a lot of relationship has ended because of lack of transparency. And a lot has equally ended because a truth was finally revealed. I think the summary of this is, try to understand your partner before hiding or revealing any past relationship history to him/ her. Not everybody can handle the past. To some, it is now a past, while to others, it is such a big deal, and they will keep reminiscing on it every now and then. And most importantly, observe how transparent your partner is, if he/ she is the type that reveals every secret to you including his/ her past, then hiding yours will become a disaster waiting to explode, especially if it has correlation with the present. |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by donbachi(m): 6:22pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Unless u wan take ur own hand,give ur partner "omo reminder". |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Cerebellum: 6:29pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Of course, you should always tell your partner about your past think about if he/she finds out about your past misdeed after marriage, yawa bust. A stitch in time, saves 9. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by gift2xl: 6:31pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
There are things that needs to be left under. |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Kobicove(m): 6:55pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
If you did something's that will eventually be exposed later then it's better you just come clean |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Opeyemiextra(f): 7:19pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
It's good to come with clean hands but síbẹ̀síbẹ̀, some things are better left unsaid especially if they won't have any damaging effect on the now and future. |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Divoc19(f): 9:29pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Tell your partner things on demand. Let the past rest and think about the future instead |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Kobojunkie: 9:44pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
blessingchinny:If you are in a relationship with someone you have to walk on shells around, are you truly in a relationship, a healthy one at that? |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Kobojunkie: 9:44pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Kobicove:How do you tell what will eventually be exposed and what will not, this in an uncertain world? |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Onyenna(m): 9:45pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Kobicove: Seconded.... |
Re: Should I Tell My Partner About My Past? by Kobojunkie: 9:47pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:What about the issue of honesty in that situation? If you date someone but cannot accept all of that person's truths, are you really dating that person or the idea of that person you have chosen to open yourself up to? 1 Like |
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