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Re: Sex Starved Husband by iomoge2(f): 7:15am On Nov 20, 2021 |
SuperStriker:buy a masturbating toy Please o This advise is for only poster or married men alike B4 smallies will start using it in school. Ehn hen |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Ladycewhy(f): 7:16am On Nov 20, 2021 |
suffering:You go help am raise the children that comes with polygamy? ![]() Or you nor know how much for gas now? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by femi4: 7:16am On Nov 20, 2021 |
airminem:That's selfishness on part. She only want sex when she needs it.....what happen to sacrifice |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by suffering: 7:17am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Ladycewhy:Firewood sure pass. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by keypha1: 7:18am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Bro your problem is money, if you are a big boy, has your venza, buy her car, whenever you demand sex, na force she will give it to you, buy her gift, she is the one that will be first to torch you, cos she will be scared that other women wan snach you from her. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Kobojunkie: 7:19am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Asour:That statement in bold is testament to your lack of understanding as far the job of a Counselor, I am afraid. ![]() As I already explained. A Counselor is simply a coach to help guide a couple through steps to helping them resolve issues in their marriage... the counselor does not offer or know magic words to fix any marriage. Instead he helps the couple apply, for example, known conflict resolution techniques in resolving issues in their relationship. ![]() There is no such thing as correctly done religion related counseling because it is all bullsheet to begin with. For instance, Jesus Christ never sent any of His own to go out to counsel people in His name, so anyone who attempts such an act in His name sins against God. What you call a higher calling is instead nothing but a sin against God. ![]() So when a person who lacks professional certification installs himself as a religious counselor, he is no different from anyone of the street to those he counsels. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Kobojunkie: 7:21am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Originalsly:ROFLMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Ndidi2: 7:34am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Eagle360:aw.. Love your last sentence God bless you. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Ikem11(m): 7:37am On Nov 20, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: You are very matured man.. I love that |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Asour: 7:38am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Human counselors with human 'Wisdom' are limited greatly. I've seen cases in the western world were counselors 'advised' a couple to — when all else failed — pursue separation. In [Malachi 2:16] it's clear that God hates divorce. My point about 'religoius' counsel isn't about certification. It's about Godly counsel. To christians, God's word is the ultimate counsel. Not some placebo ideology by some 'certified' therapist — that may or may not be right with God. Cheers. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Arsenate(m): 7:45am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Not really. Perfectly fine helping out at home when one should and it's nice to get one's spouse gifts. He however shouldn't do those things because he anticipates sex as a reward. 2 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Myer(m): 7:49am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Iyaebe: No redpiller has ever said they will live without women biko. Did you fail comprehension in school? For redpillers, women should be handled as an Alpha male. As much as you need them dont become a simp for them. Though not every guy was born an Alpha male so some guys will keep acting the simp. Me I'm somewhere in between.lol 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Myer(m): 7:51am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Iyaebe: From what you wrote up there, you were not referring to counselling. Own your oloshoness with your not-so-full chest. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by GreatManBee: 7:54am On Nov 20, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Kobojunkie: 7:54am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Asour:Human wisdom is not at all perfect but it is better than no wisdom at all. ![]() Telling couples to maybe pursue separation in the case that said couple refuses to work with each other to resolve the issues in the marriage makes better sense than letting them maybe kill each other inthe marriage, don't you think? ![]() Malachi is not God's message to Christians. ![]() Instead, the teachings and commandments of Jesus Christ, written in the 4 Gospels is instead God's Law , Jesus Christ, in the Kingdom of God. There God makes it know that marriage is as He ruled in the beginning and divorce is only allowed in in case of fornication- Matthew 19 vs 1 - 15, other than that , marriage is of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 37 implying that the same rules govern everyone in the Kingdom of God - no exemptions or special rules for the married exists. ![]() As far as Christians in marriage, there are no special relationship rules and no one assigned to counsel anyone in the name of God. ![]() |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Kobojunkie: 7:58am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Arsenate:That wasn't what I got from reading that comment at all. ![]() |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by archbishop007(m): 8:03am On Nov 20, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: Thanks that's a good point there. Whenever I buy anything for my wife she normally surrenders for sex. It works bro...try to introduce that and you will thank God later. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by pannyman(m): 8:06am On Nov 20, 2021 |
pappilo: Correct man. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Realhommie(m): 8:08am On Nov 20, 2021 |
ednut1:Lol.... Which kind advice be this? |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by IJEYdiamond(f): 8:13am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: To me you just spoke english that doesn't solve a damn thing.... be in a sexless marriage and have high libido. Then u will know if ur myth and information of ur unknown will help you... if u haven't got the experience dont just talk.... listen! ! 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by MoraxLanre(m): 8:16am On Nov 20, 2021 |
This happening in most marriages and most love to keep it to themselves, anyways; have a heart to heart talk with her. May God keep your home. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Asour: 8:17am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Malachi is not God's Word to Christians. Haha. Meanwhile Christ reiterated this same God's displeasure for divorce in Matthew 19:8. Telling them how divorce was borne out of hardness of heart & was not so in the 'beginning' (Old testament). Secondly, how can fornication be a good reason for divorce when the parties are married. Hello? Fornication is an affair between unmarried parties. Make it make sense. You seem not to get what was explained there. Thirdly how many marriages am I 'allowed' to divorce when we can't 'work things out'? 2, 3 or 4. Basic statistics on divorces has shown us that divorces are increasingly frequent after the first divorce (2nd marriage & above). My point is that for health & scientific /Professional endeavours 'Professionals' are great — where we are dealing with exact sciences & measurable variables but human relationships are not exact sciences. They are dynamic & complex. You or my advice can be as effective or more than a 'Professional' therapist, whatever that means. Professional therapy in marriage is a Cashout industry where couples don't have accountable elders. Even 'great' pastors can fail let alone some marriage therapist who has the same probability of failing in marriage as the average Joe. May God help us. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by pannyman(m): 8:20am On Nov 20, 2021 |
OP. If she doesn't want intimacy with you, let her be. Just get your fun. Don't become her prisoner. Liberate yourself. Use the link below and thank me later. https://inmessage-chat-meet-dating.en.softonic.com/android |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by yak(m): 8:22am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Asour: Counseling isn't about changing a person rather it is intended to help a willing counselee. I was raised in a very Religious Circle and I appreciate that but my experience is that beyond the religiousity, there's a place for professionalism. Fortunately, there are some counselors who are using a blend of both Religion and professionalism.... I know of a certain Pastor Okobasi. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Nobody: 8:23am On Nov 20, 2021 |
TundeWX: When I figured this is when I stopped condemning married Men that have side babes. 1 Like |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Arsenate(m): 8:27am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Okay. I believe I made myself clearer with the one you quoted. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Nobody: 8:27am On Nov 20, 2021 |
SuperStriker: Dude, accept that you need a side-chic. You cannot think clearly if deprived of sex for too long, and would over time start to slowly lose your self-esteem and unconsciously do stupid things around women. Your wife's biological impulses of having a child have been fulfilled, hence she is no longer so motivated to sleep with you. I used to be like you before I realized I was subscribing to a stupid western construct propagated by a media pandering to women they can sell stuff to. Get a side babe(s), and know peace. 3 Likes |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Ladycewhy(f): 8:41am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by emmyileri(m): 8:44am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Report her to your church pastor |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by kkins25(m): 8:47am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Arieljay:follow that advise and, the relationship is 100% guaranteed to fail. Also, what the fvcks concerns god with their sex life. Avoiding sex is naturally a women thing since they have lesser sex drive than men. Iys up to him to be creative, to spice up the relationship. Op needs to find a way to get those juices flowing |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by Asour: 8:50am On Nov 20, 2021 |
yak: Thanks. But if Counseling isn't about 'changing' a person then what's counseling for? I perfectly understand what you mean by 'professionalism' or I think I do but it's simply not what many seem to get. Professionalism is clear when we are dealing with exact sciences e.g. Engineering, Medicine, IT. Where outcomes and variables are easier to measure. In human relationships this is not the case. A diverse set of variables are at play with humans, some even not understood by the involved parties. What (I think the christian) some communities lacks is respect, privacy & confidentiality in dealing with individuals — But many pastors also have that. To me secular marriage therapy is mostly laughable . It is 'needed' in societies where couples lack trusted Accountable /reliable elders. Otherwise what 'advice' from therapists (advice without scientific efficacy usually since all marriages are different) any different? Cheers. |
Re: Sex Starved Husband by kkins25(m): 8:51am On Nov 20, 2021 |
Asour:Id stack for odds on the therapist and even more againat the pastor. The therapist has data to work with unlike the pastor who is probably suffering the same condition. |
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