XaintJoel20:
One of the major causes of the this problem in marriages is this:
Some ladies has had countless body counts before getting married and among those guys who they had these counts with are professionals, skilled, semiskilled and unskilled and by the time they finally settle down in marriage, they would be expecting their husbands to sex like one of those professionals they had met during their single days and their husbands inability to sex like a "professional" make the sex boring to them which always make them to lose interest because to them it tantamount to time wasting. The truth is this, there is no woman that doesn't like sex if she can always get satisfaction.
That is why it's very important to marry a virgin if you can lay your hands on one.
Thanks.

U never see virgin when dey overtake woman with high body count ABI?

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

Nor run enter street o.

luminouz:

I get your point but spiritual leaders and her parents NEVER need to know our bed troubles. It's a slap to my mudafuckin face that I need to tell my pastor(who shouldn't know every detail of my life) and her parents( who already gave me the reins to take charge of their daughter) that my wife is not fuqin me. That's some weird ass shiit.

Second point is once the woman knows you are a staunch Christian who won't ever divorce or take drastic measures, why should she change? That's how many men just 'accept her like that' and try to condone her excesses and trust me, she will do more to that man. Once, she knows you cant curtail her excesses, why should she respect you? I have seen men like this in marriage. They lament everyday because they are pastors and they must not divorce or take hard steps to correct their wives wrongs. So they die slowly inside a loveless marriage.

So should he die inside a loveless marriage because she refused to change?

I expected You to Say it's a slap on your face that Your Wife denied you sex ?

Luminouz, a whole You Where the Vibes and Mojo. Redpill can't work on all Homes and Macho is not required in every situation especially marriage where Children's life are involved. It's not just about You and the Woman but Kids whose Brain might get fvcked up because of una imbroglio.

If he starts cheating now dem go dey cry okay oh

donbachi:
Dats the problem with so many women.when dating them,they will be giving it to you like kilode.knowing you have high sex drive
Wife them.you start hearing " na food?,control your sexual urge"

Just like she's acting now.
Well,like she said..try control am.

The last thing wey I go do na to allow myself to be starved till I start to misbehave where young girl dey till yawa go gas when there are matured ladies who are willing to give it out.
My role na to take good care of you but if you refuse to do your own part of taking care of me, sorry when you get the shock of your life.

bukatyne:
Very pathetic thread on both sides.

I will just drop this line: anyone not interested or willing to sexually satisfy their partner (male/female) should not bother about marriage. All forms of sexual abuse are wrong:
1. Withholding sex;
2. Exchanging sex for gifts/cash;
3. Causing intentional injury to a partner during sex (outside BDSM);
4. Not making an effort to satisfy your partner;
5. Performing/incorporating acts that is shameful to the other party
6. etc.

Sex (all types) is the thing that done outside marriage is an outright sin. Other activities done together might just be inappropriate or indecent.

@stress: If something is very important to you, you make time for it or re-arrange your schedule to fit it in.

You really know what's up
Professor Bukatyne... School
them hard!

TundeWX:

Funny enough this goes on in 80% of marital homes but nobody wanna talk.
Try parading ur gbola around the house more often..lol

Jus joking o ,maybe the next person has something better to say

Hahahhahahaha

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

I pity you. Some of the men you hear about their rape case and claim that they don't know what came over them actually start like the way you are acting now. They saw what they consider small opportunity and they wanted to grab it.
You better sit her down and talk sense into her head, if that continues, call her parents or get your problem solved elsewhere with dignity than waiting till your news come to nairaland that one man raped a girl in their compound.

MrBrownJay1:


if you dont want to get a concubine to fulfil the void in your life (that your wife doesnt want to fulfill) then accept your fate and be sexually miserable for the rest of your natural life.

He may eventual end up in jail because one day he may be tempted by a small girl. A sexually starved man lost his senses once little "opportunity" provide itself

Go out there and get it

Never let a woman starve you of your needs not a want

GboyegaD:
How involved are you with her and the home? Try get more involved and find out what works in your own home. One of the thing I learned before marriage is whenever you go out, never come home empty handed. Sincerely, it makes every one at home crave your return when you go out and vice versa. Things you can buy are as easy as chocolate bars, fries, or any other snack you all like.

If this is working for you, count yourself lucky, some are just out to mess the man up.
Please if men are now expected to bribe their wives before they can make love to them, what are the women expected to do for the man to provide for the house? Anyway Las Las polygamy go solve our problem, the Bible cannot be a lier.....A time will come when seven women will plead to answer a man's name. One day the men will realize themselves.
It is clearly stated unconditionally that non of the parties should deprive the other of their bodies without any concrete reason but now we are taking excuses for the women, no wahala.

DonroxyII:
I expected You to Say Your it's a slap on Your face that Your Wife denied you sex ?

Luminouz, a whole You Where the Vibes and Mojo. Redpill can't work on all Homes and Macho is not required in every situation especially marriage where Children's life are involved. It's not just about You and the Woman but Kids whose Brain might get fvcked up because of una imbroglio.

I don't care if the kids brains get fvked up royally. I ain't becoming a slave in my own home to a woman I paid her bride price.

She gives me that BS, she leaves

SuperStriker:


That is what I don't want to do. I don't want to go to another woman but I am suffering...Sometimes I feel like I will tear my shirt and start running round the street when that pressure is too much

LMAO... Kilode gan. Lol
Dude you cracked me up
here. You have to slow down
the sexual tension.

Okay, so always give her good fore.play and read up a good
book on Kamasutra and/or
Tantric sex to maintain balance
and discipline. Tbh, sex on an
elevated scale is overated!

Also relieving her of a bit of the
domestic work like vacuum
cleaning the house, etc, will
make her eagerly want to be
with you.

Let's see how it all pans out.

Cheers.

.

Klass99:


Please what is sex on an elevated scale? What does that mean.

I think sex as a whole is overated, but intimate moments like touching, cuddling and holding someone you care about and who cares about you, beats sex hands down, any time any day.

Just thinking out loud

@Klass99
This babe... lol
I'm worth $500 an hour for
consultation fees.

Send me a check in the mail.

temi1290:


You understand my point abi you no understand? Mtweeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwww

mcheewwwwwwwww.
The only point I understand is that insulting people thrills you like a junkie addicted to cheap road side drugs

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Klass99:


Please what is sex on an elevated scale? What does that mean.

I think sex as a whole is overated, but intimate moments like touching, cuddling and holding someone you care about and who cares about you, beats sex hands down, any time any day.

Just thinking out loud

I concur 200%

Konquest:

LMAO... Kilode gan. Lol
Dude you cracked me up
here. You have to slow down
the sexual tension.

Okay, so always give her good fore.play and read up a good
book on Kamasutra and/or
Tantric sex to maintain balance
and discipline. Tbh, sex on an
elevated scale is overated!

Also relieving her of a bit of the
domestic work like vacuum
cleaning the house, etc, will
make her eagerly want to be
with you.

Lets see how it all pans out.

Cheers.

Daddy wa! The fuckernizer

Klass99:


Please what is sex on an elevated scale? What does that mean.

I think sex as a whole is overated, but intimate moments like touching, cuddling and holding someone you care about and who cares about you, beats sex hands down, any time any day.

Just thinking out loud

Dayum!

Klass99, I should make you my
Special Adviser on "intimate
moments." Lol.

You've already answered the question... "Klass99, the Goddess
of brain hacking!"

I can see aspects of your love language embedded in your
post. Pure gems.

Absolutely... It's the little details
that matter.

.

Ishilove:

Daddy wa! The fuckernizer

Ms. Fuckernizer... Bawo ni?

Word! NOT only that Ishilove,
but also a great "manipulator."

You have a naughty mind Ishi. Thanks for calling me out in
public. You owe me.

alizma:

If this is working for you, count yourself lucky, some are just out to mess the man up.
Please if men are now expected to bribe their wives before they can make love to them, what are the women expected to do for the man to provide for the house? Anyway Las Las polygamy go solve our problem, the Bible cannot be a lier.....A time will come when seven women will plead to answer a man's name. One day the men will realize themselves.
It is clearly stated unconditionally that non of the parties should deprive the other of their bodies without any concrete reason but now we are taking excuses for the women, no wahala.

That's never a bribe as it is expected of both parties and it is a way to make everyone crave themselves both parents and children.

Klass99:


That will cost you $1,000 only.

Absolutely..... it's the little details that count.

What's your love language? I'm curious

Klass99, first off, what's the
circumstance that led to you
coining your NL user name? Is
that the year you graduated
from high school or what?

Hehehe! Only $1,000? That's chicken change.


Your last paragraph:
Very uncanny... Same as yours
and some more, will be my reply
here.

A lack of knowledge of that "LL"
principle is the reason why many romantic relationships are
guaranteed to go down south.

Konquest:

Ms. Fuckernizer... Bawo ni?

Word! NOT only that Ishilove,
but also a great "manipulator."

You have a naughty mind Ishi. Thanks for calling me out in
public. You owe me.

Ki'lo omode mo? I plead "Not Guilty", your Lordship.

Klass99:


Lookatchu , abeg swerve one side joor.

You that if I cuddle you and touch your chest small now, your pikin go rise and you'll want to demonstrate sex on an elevated scale, for me.

Mtchew

Hilarious...
You're cracking me up here. Lol

Just remember my check.

Arsenate:

Ma'am, he literally just told the whole world that he washes the toilet and gets his wife "little inexpensive things" in order to cajole her into having sex with him. His wife oo. His legally married wife whom he paid bride price on. How is that wisdom? That is absolutely pathetic and pitiful and I'm sure you wouldn't wish this on your brother (I'm assuming you mean well for your brother)

Gosh, the things that pass as "wisdom" in women's book. Wtf

Since you're A man, I presume you don't and may never understand how a woman's body is wired..

I would not even try to 3xplain further on why I said the man spoke with wisdom cos I guess you already have a preconceived notion on what a woman should or shouldn't do.....

Cheers bro.

Ishilove:

Ki'lo omode mo? I plead "Not Guilty", your Lordship.

You call yourself an omode? Omode ke? This is perjury in
this court of law Ishi!

Community service fall on you
as punishment.

Case adjourned!



P.S. Talk to you soon Ishi.

You have nothing good to think about besides sex, wahala dey o!

Konquest:

You call yourself an omode? Omode ke? This is perjury in
this court of law Ishi!

Yes o. Don't you know women never age?

Community servive fall on you
as punishment.

Kuku kee me

P.S. Talk to you soon Ishi.

Sure thing, daddy

Kobojunkie:
Where is this Law written?

Law? I thought we are expressing our different individual opinions? At least, that's the unwritten "law" that governs my marriage anyway. And of course, that's the view of Islam too.

authority2006:
Law? I thought we are expressing our different individual opinions? At least, that's the unwritten "law" that governs my marriage anyway. And of course, that's the view of Islam too.

As far as Christian God is concerned, these so-called unwritten laws are meaningless as it is up to the man and woman to design the rules of their union as they see fit.