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Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Kobojunkiee: 6:46pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
MrMacinterchi1:Her changed usual weird attitude? Dude, you don't know the woman at all to even assume this of her at all. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Kobojunkiee: 6:47pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
ojasweb:Nope, It just shows I don't comprehend whatever point you were trying to make , not what the OP stated. The man was interrogating his wife, trying to get into her head and and wasn't having any of it. And he already told us his reasons for doing that, so I am lot certain why you want to change the context in some way. If you yell at your partner when asked who a particular somebody is , and you are both within talking distance, then that is something else for you to handle. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Kobojunkiee: 6:51pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
ak22:Relevance ? |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by MrMacinterchi1: 6:54pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:You now know the lady more than those she had been with before the incident? The lady in question,up till now,has failed to explain the weird behavior she exhibited which was new to what she has been done with . Dude, your defence are watery. A person that can't explain her behavior is the person you are assuming to be accused . Do you make sense to yourself (inserts your confused emoji here) 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ceejay80s(m): 7:26pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Op pls suspect this boy, na him ur wife go fuc*k, are u for real? Leaving the kids in the hospital with maid? |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Kobojunkiee: 7:53pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
MrMacinterchi1:How do you happen to know so much about this woman? Are you talking of the same woman described in this OP or your own woman abeg? You have yet to reasonable approach what you claim is my defence so how can you consider it watery to begin with? You are instead still stuck pretending pretending have the woman all figured out beyond what the OP said in His opening post, so ... |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by FourElements: 8:15pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:"you get what you give" - you are assuming all spouses in a relationship are "normal". |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Stanbest7728: 8:47pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Only this shouldn't make you think she's cheating unless there are other untold stories |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Aringon(m): 8:50pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Free your kind Bros hashbag1: |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by singiti(m): 8:55pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
These things happens everywhere. I wouldn't say u should suspect your wife of infidelity yet without getting your facts rights. It happens to me too. The only reason why I trust my wife is that she is this born fire Christian but her movement sometimes is always suspicious. Always remember that most of these women don't reason well. So when they misbehave, just ignore while still being observant. My advice to you bro, concentrate more on the children. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Rexymania(m): 8:56pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
If na me, omo I will secretly run a test on those children, then plan on getting a second wife without her consent |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Dminister(m): 9:00pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
topiiiiiiii: It’s happened in reality, thank you! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 10:20pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Iyaebe: That's just a matter of time. Even you yourself knows that Op's wife escaped this time because of his mistake/inexperience. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 10:22pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Skyfornia: This question no needed again: I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 10:27pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: From his intention and words here, he was concerned about her and the kids rather than interrogating her. Only the guilty person would see that as interrogation. And she answered the voice calls but not the video calls? Lol. Something was not right about what exactly that you literally took to interrogating your wife's every move when it wasn't as if your kids were abandoned or something? The maid was with them so... Was she meant to report her every movement to you or something? Let's say the truth, his wife's movements and explanation call for concern |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 10:32pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Thank you for saying the truth unlike those who would rather support their gender. Dem Kobojunkiee: Romanoff: Lovebliss2 |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 10:36pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Lol. You don't care about the movements, the lies, the yelling and the refusal to answer video calls? You're not ready to care about the truth dear friend |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 10:41pm On Nov 25, 2021 |
TheGift: your Wife Is already acting suspiciously, that may be why You HAVE suspicious minded. Your words rearranged because you put the cart before the horse in your post |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by Angeldemon: 12:21am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: You always have idiotic opinions supporting womens clear bad behaviors. . |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by MrMacinterchi1: 2:24am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee:Lol. perhaps, you (we) have lost direction to what we're conversing about. Our comments are based on similar issue raised by one commenter , not on the OP's case. Besides, no comment is reasonable to you if it's not coming from your spectrum of reasoning..so (inserts your confused emoji here) |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by okoroemeka(m): 6:00am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Iyaebe:exactly my thoughts also,the only offending part of the story is leaving her kids in the hospital and planning to do photoshoot,what mother does that?only the hysteria of having her kids in the hospital is enough to make most women forget anything else but the well being of their children,also Mr op don't you think you are a little bit paranoid about your wife cheating to switch your call to video call to prove what?to know we're she is?from the story the woman is just irritated by your constant suspicion and monitoring. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by hashbag1: 6:57am On Nov 26, 2021 |
okoroemeka: If you are married, i bet that you wont say such, from your assertion that I requested a video call after several denial of her whereabout seems to me that you are clueless as to know what it is to be a husband who loves his wife. Irritated? Something must be wrong with u up there. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by TheGift: 7:38am On Nov 26, 2021 |
authority2006: Thanks , but no thanks. I meant what I said. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by authority2006(m): 8:30am On Nov 26, 2021 |
TheGift: Yeah, I knew. But you were wrong |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by TheGift: 8:35am On Nov 26, 2021 |
authority2006: Says you without any evidence., |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by walesoflyf(m): 8:50am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Iyaebe: The way you people respond to post sometimes, just makes me wonder.. Is this the best you could come up with. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by sim37(m): 9:52am On Nov 26, 2021 |
When they say fear women, you think it's a child's play? I just did a DNA for my child without my wife consent, my doubts re cleared, with what I hear and experienced about some women I can't help but to be double sure....... |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by LagosNissan: 10:50am On Nov 26, 2021 |
Anonymous15: No spy monitor seems to work. I doubt. |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ak22(m): 2:50pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Kobojunkiee: If you said so |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by bepositive11: 3:46pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
aminusodiq: The lack of empathy? You guys will make horrible partners to your wives. The kind that can manipulate and abuse emotionally and psychologically, and maybe even physically. I wonder how you guys ended up becoming like that |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by aminusodiq(m): 7:24pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
bepositive11:she deserved that.... When one acts smart... You only need to proof them wrong by acting smarter |
Re: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by OlapejuB: 8:03pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Please don’t stress yourself about infidelity. If a woman is in extramarital relationship, you will know. Women don’t hide their feelings so make yourself happy in this 9 year old marriage because you are still learning. Why on earth will a woman live her children in care of housemaids without any good reason Please be yourself, play your part well. Continue to be a responsible father to your children and a good husband to your wife. You won’t run after a lady before she is caught no matter how clever she is. Does she hide her phone, does she have secret conversations, don’t suspect her please. Besides, did you discuss it with her, she should be corrected never to tell at her husband. Success in your marriage. |
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