Please don’t stress yourself about infidelity. If a woman is in extramarital relationship, you will know. Women don’t hide their feelings so make yourself happy in this 9 year old marriage because you are still learning. Why on earth will a woman live her children in care of housemaids without any good reason
Please be yourself, play your part well. Continue to be a responsible father to your children and a good husband to your wife. You won’t run after a lady before she is caught no matter how clever she is. Does she hide her phone, does she have secret conversations, don’t suspect her please. Besides, did you discuss it with her, she should be corrected never to tell at her husband. Success in your marriage.
There are some things to be avoided in a marriage

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N5eeMYUzrWg

MrMacinterchi1:
Lol. perhaps, you (we) have lost direction to what we're conversing about.
Our comments are based on similar issue raised by one commenter , not on the OP's case.

Besides, no comment is reasonable to you if it's not coming from your spectrum of reasoning..so
(inserts your confused emoji here)

don't confuse me with your person abeg!

FourElements:
"you get what you give" - you are assuming all spouses in a relationship are "normal".

Nobody on this earth is "Normal", but thankfully the world operates on principles and when we follow them we find peace and happiness for ourselves..

Kobojunkiee:
don't confuse me with your person abeg!

Lol Lol

you're an interesting character i swear

aminusodiq:
she deserved that.... When one acts smart... You only need to proof them wrong by acting smarter

No. When one tries to manipulate you, you cut them off instead of trying to manipulate them back even worse

You two are no different from her, probably even worse

There's no way you can justify your friend's behaviour. You both lack empathy

na nigerian women u wan get head ache for

Na babe weh deh marry end of the year i been knacking since thursday....she even clean the house and wash every where i no send am.....

bepositive11:


No. When one tries to manipulate you, you cut them off instead of trying to manipulate them back even worse

You two are no different from her, probably even worse

There's no way you can justify your friend's behaviour. You both lack empathy

sbe did it first... And to think that he lost alot and gave her alot... In form of gifts and endless demands. If she did that to me... Id let it slide cos im not as caring as he is. My guy dosent deserve it

LagosNissan:


No spy monitor seems to work. I doubt.

No it does, I currently use one.

From what you described there are definitely trust issues. She lied about her whereabouts which doesn’t equate to infidelity but definitely dishonest and breeds lack of trust. A woman usually doesn’t have a reason to lie about her business unless you don’t encourage, support or sabotage her. You both have a lot to work on.

This is most definitely not the whole story but the most I can do based on the information you provided.

Anonymous15:

No it does, I currently use one.

What's the name pls?

Free or paid?

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What's the t

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hEOoyC0RNDg

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aminusodiq:
sbe did it first... And to think that he lost alot and gave her alot... In form of gifts and endless demands. If she did that to me... Id let it slide cos im not as caring as he is. My guy dosent deserve it

I get what you're saying. What she did was horrible and that is why he should have cut her off instead. He may think that he's wining, but at the end of the day, he's allowing her to influence him badly. He's violating his own integrity. He's allowing her to change who he is. He's allowing her to make him stoop down to her level

I'd rather cut off people like her than allow her to make me a horrible person. People like her end up ruining their lives with their own hands so I don't bother with revenge

Tbh, I don't see the difference between both of them. They're just using each other

bepositive11:


I get what you're saying. What she did was horrible and that is why he should have cut her off instead. He may think that he's wining, but at the end of the day, he's allowing her to influence him badly. He's violating his own integrity. He's allowing her to change who he is. He's allowing her to make him stoop down to her level

I'd rather cut off people like her than allow her to make me a horrible person. People like her end up ruining their lives with their own hands so I don't bother with revenge

Tbh, I don't see the difference between both of them. They're just using each other

it wasnt his idea... na me run the level

The gain vex me badly... My friend lost his iphone xsmas in her shop... He just dey vex me

Anonymous15:

No it does, I currently use one.

I didn't want to quote the other post, but is the WhatsApp web different from the WhatsApp scan!

LagosNissan:


I didn't want to quote the other post, but is the WhatsApp web different from the WhatsApp scan!

Still same...

Anonymous15:

Still same...

ok

aminusodiq:
it wasnt his idea... na me run the level

The gain vex me badly... My friend lost his iphone xsmas in her shop... He just dey vex me

I see...

I just met someone, we got talking, its been cool all along. I got home late some days ago, video chatted her downstairs, because madam was already asleep upstairs. Lo and behold, i heard someone creeping from upstairs, wasnt too sure but she just showed up gbam! I cut the video call, she said who am i talking to and ish, I was like its a friend, she said why did u now cut it, said we were done talking. The whole thing turned into an argument, I said i have nothing to hide but she should understand how it feels like for me demanding that you are accountable for your movements while u left the kids at the hospital. To cut long story shot, when the noise became too much from her, i drove out and the next thing am seeing via text is " lets just stop deceiving ourselves" marriage with no trust will collapse, so you are deceiving me?

Hmmm

Dshocker:


What you wrote up here doesn't say or show any sign of cheating,unless there are other traits she exhibit that you are not telling us.

why did she had to lie about her whereabouts when she could have just said the truth lol.

kpompey:
First run a DNA test for those those kids . Then pay a matured and trusted ally to track her movement. You can equally track her whatsap using your pc. I am telling you in time, the truth will be unveiled.

how can one track a WhatsApp using pc

Ungodly:
how can one track a WhatsApp using pc

Read about it in google, download whatsapp to your PC, then read more. Very easy , you can configure it yourself

If this is the only scenario you want people to judge your wife from to know whether she's cheating or not, then you don't have a case at all here. Since you want Nlndrs to be the judge, you should tell us everything.

"I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other" You can see there have been other red flags. That woman is surely cheating on him. Any woman yelling at you, telling lies to hide her movements and refusing to pick video calls is hiding something. A clean wife will be eager to pick video call and explain herself, even if she had lied earlier to conceal her real intentions. That woman has no respect for the man. Cheaters use every loose opportunity to stray.