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Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by IamKizzbrown10(m): 12:13am On Nov 28, 2021 |
LET’S TALK!! Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Poverty Of Their Boyfriend? A Nigerian man has taken to social media to pose a controversial question to women about their mindsets while going into relationships. It is no strange knowledge that women often mention financial stability when mentioning a man they would love to date or marry. Others specifically say they would never date a broke or struggling guy. Well, wading in on the matter, a Twitter user with username @henryruckus1 has asked why women are okay with enduring the poverty they were born into but can’t do same with their boyfriends. He wrote: ”Pls I have a question. Why do ladies endure poverty of their parent but can not endure poverty of their boyfriend” The post has since generated divergent views with some ladies saying that they had no choice with their parents because that’s the family they were born into, but with a boyfriend, you have the option of not ‘suffering’ with him. So Nairaland what’s your take? |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by chatinent: 12:26am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Na who get surplus sha |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Amotolongbo(f): 12:39am On Nov 28, 2021 |
No lady has the opportunity to choose her parent but has the chance to choose her husband 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Wealthoptulent(m): 12:44am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Marriage became ponzi, poverty eradicating program 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 1:16am On Nov 28, 2021 |
If a rich guy proposes she will scream with excitement sotay her artificial wig go remove.But if na hustling guy proposes,she go slap am for embarrassing her in public. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Freestainworld(m): 2:28am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Ladies in the house, come and answer your jamb question now |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 5:10am On Nov 28, 2021 |
The ladies are still sleeping o |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by averageguy(m): 6:17am On Nov 28, 2021 |
It's not unreasonable that a lady would like to maximize the opportunity of marriage to ensure some stability and comfort especially when we know stress of finances is the biggest cause of divorce. I know we have the grass to grace stories but those are not as typical as they sound. For most guys as well, I believe if they thought they could date a more attractive lady with decent personality, they would go for it even if the lady is far more attractive than the guys are. Life is not balanced; most people are trying to maximize their opportunities. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Omini247: 6:31am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Because affliction shall not rise the second time. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 6:43am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Because their parents are not fuckinng them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by tobechi20(m): 6:54am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Stagnation is a curse |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by NaeChris: 7:18am On Nov 28, 2021 |
toren:Lol |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by NaeChris: 7:19am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Wealthoptulent:Swears |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by NaeChris: 7:21am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Amotolongbo:Thats a point, but they have a role to play. Marriage no be poverty alleviation scheme. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by house10s: 7:23am On Nov 28, 2021 |
toren:nah where ur mind carry u go b dat |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by tosaino95(m): 8:06am On Nov 28, 2021 |
We are in 2021 and You still asking this Mumu question |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 8:25am On Nov 28, 2021 |
averageguy: Marriage is not an "opportunity" Oga.. It's a DECISION...So there's no "maximizing" anything here, at least not in this context... And yes, money is one of the top 3 reasons for divorce according to research, buh why does the money mostly have to come from the man?? Can't the woman make her own money and attain the "stability" you spoke about?? Is there anywhere that says women cannot attain financial stability before marriage?? Am I saying women should leave rich dudes and marry poor dudes...No... Whoever they want to is their choice. Buh I'm sick and tired of women pointing as a criteria a trait that they themselves have made no effort in cultivating... You wanna marry a rich dude abi na stable guy, fine...are you rich yourself?? Do you have that stability that you're seeking in another?? Marriage is not a "Poverty Alleviation Program" as people often say, you don't enter marriage with the sole aim of "escaping" poverty...that's stupid... You don't go about with the mentality of "my parents were poor, so I cannot marry a poor man", that too is stupid... Rather than go about with that mentality, why not have the mentality that "My parents may have been poor, buh I won't allow myself to be poor, I'll work on myself, I'll work hard and work smart and I won't give up until my hustle makes me the woman of my dreams"... |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Devgru: 8:28am On Nov 28, 2021 |
because they see the wealth of their boyfriends as a means to escape the poverty of their parents |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Martinez39s(m): 9:40am On Nov 28, 2021 |
You can't choose your parents, but you can choose your spouse. It is not written anywhere that a lady must endure with a poor man because her parents are poor. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 9:59am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Martinez39s:Exactly... |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 10:00am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Do I start a family with my parents? Or have children with them? Feeding, education, health care, decent accommodation... These would be my responsibilities... One my partner has to deal with them adequately also... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 10:01am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Devgru:Genius: Marriage... Not a relationship... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by averageguy(m): 10:23am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Favfables1: So, I agree as well that women can, and should look, to make their own money. But even for a lady that is rich, I would say there would still be more financial security with a rich husband as well knowing that things happen in life like one person losing employment. I disagree that marriage is not an opportunity. Behind every decision we make is an opportunity of multiple choices. For lady who marries a guy who might be financially struggling, the opportunity cost is the rich guy she could have married. I'm a guy as well and I understand a lady might want more than I can offer. But even if every lady wants Dangote, the truth is he doesn't want all of them. At the end of the day, for everyone who gets married, they choose the best person who also desired them. If there were two ladies with the similar character, skills and traits but the main difference is that one was a lot more physically attractive or rich, what would you do? Many desire a gorgeous wife, but that's not the main (or only) thing they need from their wives. I think a gold digger is one who is mainly after money, or who would leave after committment like marriage because they met a richer person. That's the part I detest. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Stargurl20(f): 10:43am On Nov 28, 2021 |
Amotolongbo:And moreover, if poverty is endured with parents, there's high possibility that when the parents are out of their poverty, there will remain faithful to the children. The same can't be said for more than 95% of men. That's why I will never blame a lady who chooses not to suffer or hustle with any man. Majority of them do not deserve it. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Deicide: 10:45am On Nov 28, 2021 |
why would a guy be poor and thinking about relationship |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Lucrativress(f): 1:16pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
IamKizzbrown10:Simple answer They had no choice to choose their Parents but they have a Choice to choose their Boyfriends. |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by PUSSYHOE(m): 1:26pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry: God no bring this kind liability come my way amen. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Vinnie2000(m): 1:48pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
OP The question has been answered. They can't choose dier parents but can Choose/Pick Boyfriends! Women naturally love Comfort, Material Things and Flashy items! Dat's y The Serpent Targeted Eve with d Juicy-looking fruits in the Forbidden Tree! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:15pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
PUSSYHOE:Liability? Am I to cater for the family alone? It's 50/50... A poor man can't contribute anything... Y'all be taking sh** as though financial stability isn't one of the most important things in a long-term relationship... When you see your child emaciated or when they are prevented from writing their exams... Or when you have to borrow so you can get the drugs... then you'll get it... You might be a suffer-head... But work hard to give your children a decent life... |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:17pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:Why don't you marry an ugly girl? Both genders have vain standards... 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Vinnie2000(m): 2:28pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Datboredberry: Correct! I Totally Agree with you! We are on the same page.. But Why is dat when we Guys say we want Beautiful, fresh, low body count babes or outright Virgins as wives, Ladies always feel pained? Women love money/material things While Men loves pretty, fresh and 'unused' Ladies! |
Re: Why Do Ladies Endure Poverty Of Their Parents, But Can’t Endure Their Boyfriends by Nobody: 2:33pm On Nov 28, 2021 |
Vinnie2000:The same way the men commenting here are pained... One called me a liability... For saying I want a husband with whom I'll share the responsibilities of parenthood with... Read the responses... 1 Like |
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