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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:17pm On Nov 28, 2021
realray:



Oga build ur life first leave woman because at the end we men are meant to take care of them so forget those ur three galfndz encouraging you to marry them and focus on ur future and urself especially now that everything is on the high side in Nigeria which will kept on increasing so my brother what ever you want to build be it business or estate do it fast, establish yourself first and av a sustaining business then you can settle down but for now don't listen to any woman telling you to marry them.....a word is enough for the wise..

Unwise!
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by DeMekus: 8:17pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.
And since when did marriage become a yardstick for responsibility?

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by vineyardfarms: 8:18pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

forget about marriage for now and build yourself an ASSET TO FALL BACK TO.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by DeMekus: 8:19pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
.

Thanks my Guy.
He was insulting you.

The adage is "A fool at 40 is..." You know the rest.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by STONEUS: 8:19pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.


I am an Architect. If you need help on your proposed project, kindly message me.


Cheers.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by MarveworldG: 8:19pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

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All the best sir
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by PGKing1(m): 8:20pm On Nov 28, 2021
Omo your plan make sense, use the money to make More money first before marriage ,same women that want you to marry them will be the same ones that will abuse you if you have no money! ...

I remain your #1 plug for Original Backwoods in naija check my sig for info

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Benoxvals(m): 8:20pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.

Would you say that to Don Jazzy?
Marriage is meant for men not for boyz..
At 35-40 a guy is suppose to be fully built.
O.P follow your plans.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:21pm On Nov 28, 2021
You are 35 and yet you need nairaland to advise you and what to do with your life so that tomorrow you will look for who to blame. By the way, why are you tell all your babes that you want to build an estate before you settle down to the extent of one telling you to marry first and you two can hustle together. Do you think they need to know that you want to build..if you don't want to marry them and they I don't want to keep them waiting, dismiss them let them go and find how to build their own lives. I think the reason why one told you to marry her was probably because you were telling her to wait for you till you build an estate instead not letting her go.
My one advice to you now is to think deep about what you are about to do. Your have two choices to pick from which are marriage and advanced self development. Do you think marrying a wife will prevent you from building? Will you finish the building in the space of 5yrs? Is the money from r marriage that you want to use and build or you have spare for marriage and then the one for building saved up somewhere?
You are the only person that knows what you want in life. You don't ask a lady who's looking for husband to give you her opinion on issues like this. She will definitely say marry first.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by teeshet: 8:21pm On Nov 28, 2021
Maureensylvia marry me and have my babies. You look so hot

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nonexisting: 8:21pm On Nov 28, 2021
Marriage na scam. When you go into it without investing in yourself first, it will beccome scammer. When vaginarians are the ones advising you to go into it and you listen to them, that one na scammest of them all and premium tears awaits you.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Abrahamm(m): 8:22pm On Nov 28, 2021
Bro, not that you dnt want to marry but you want to flirt more, how will you have 3 girls and wish to marry; Estate is not an excuse...
You are at the best stage of marriage, if you know, you know...
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:23pm On Nov 28, 2021
Simran94:


LOL, you are dating three ladies at the same time and you have proposed marriage to three of them. Now, if it's a lady that did this, na olosho we go dey hear up and down grin

Iyaebe, come and see your people oo
don't you ever forget that men are more olosheous than ladies and they do it proudly. They only see it as bad when done by a lady

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by miniziter(m): 8:24pm On Nov 28, 2021
You wanted to build an estate before marriage and you've not started at the age of 15 or 20
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by mercyland93(m): 8:24pm On Nov 28, 2021
Pls guy listen, u absolutely av a good plan but it isn't necessary u build an edifice b4 u get married. It can be two or three bedroom challet that u could finish building in within two years..
So instead of waiting till next 5yrs, inbetween two to three is beta CU's time no dey wait for anyone and the earlier u start ur family the beta..
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by toujurs: 8:24pm On Nov 28, 2021
jaeyking:
Marriage is sweet when u marry a person who understands and tolerates you

It is sweeter when you have finance to cater for their wellbeing.

If not u go think tired
But wait oh. So a full grown woman that went to school can't still feed her self, its her fellow human that will feed her and the kids, No be juju be that, then why waste funds enrolling her in school, if she would turn out to be a liability. Na wa oh this matter weak me oh
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by TheGift: 8:25pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

There is benefit in building by yourself before you meet your significant other.

There is also benefit in building together.

What is the connection between the estate, your age and marriage?

What is your concept of marriage?

Do you know that life is not guaranteed to run how we want. The life itself is not guaranteed to still be in existence by that time.

What stops you from doing both, if you want both? Why must one depend on the other?

I will be able to answer you better when answer these questions.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by BabaIbo: 8:25pm On Nov 28, 2021
olamoses75:
nawa o. Already have like 3 ladies that are ready to say yes, while I’m still looking for just one. Poverty na bastard!


When there is money i.e when you start making money, women will flock around you for sure, but it is difficult to know the genuine one and you know it's a risky thing to end up with a fake(pretender) person.
Those that found love when they're broke don't know what they enjoyed because once the money start coming, they won't have issues of choosing a genuine partner.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Candidlady: 8:26pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.


lmao
cheesy cheesy

And the op stil gave you a "thank you" grin

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Lastmankc(m): 8:27pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.
A fool at 40 is a fool forever

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:27pm On Nov 28, 2021
It's not about ''getting married'' but having kids early. If it's just two kids, you are good to go. @40, you're wasting time.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by ema2020: 8:29pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
bros complete ur house because if woman chop ur finish she will leave u run bros b wise
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by merits(m): 8:30pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
Bro marry so that your children can grow up with you, marriage come with blessings,I started making huge amount of money when I got married.make sure you seek blessings from your parents b4 the marriage and beg God to give you the right choice as a wife, your blessings will be unlimited compare to when you are single.the money you get now is just a peanut.quote me anywhere.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Fatbam003: 8:30pm On Nov 28, 2021
Useku:
Never join resources with any woman to build a house or business, it always ends in regrets!

Never consider a lady while taking marriage decision,be 100% selfish,cuz they won't consider you in the marriage when chips are down.

Spend 85% percent of the money building a mini flat first even if not completed yet.

The remaining 15% can be used for the marriage(do am anyhow,e nor dey always pay off)

Marry,latest at 37. 40 is late.

Respect



Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:31pm On Nov 28, 2021
I think it's high-time we start normalizing both men and women having multiple partners in their relationships and marriages
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Tryon4(m): 8:31pm On Nov 28, 2021
Building an estate and or marrying before building an estate is the same. Pray you marry the right person, if not you may end up regretting all through.



Good luck sha
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Saintinoo(m): 8:33pm On Nov 28, 2021
[quote author=Ocholu post=108031825]
Let me be real with you;
I saw what you did here grin grin. [/quote A fool at forty is a fool forever.���
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Ara21(f): 8:33pm On Nov 28, 2021
If you like listen to people like this. Later pikin go dey primary 2 baba go die, you that suppose to marry since last year as you get small thing. Later they will be looking for relatives to help train your children.

mascot345:
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Thanks baba... U are correct... I really appreciate the advice.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by shilefan2(m): 8:33pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.



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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by greggng: 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
You are 35 and yet you need nairaland to advise you and what to do with your life so that tomorrow you will look for who to blame. By the way, why are you tell all your babes that you want to build an estate before you settle down to the extent of one telling you to marry first and you two can hustle together. Do you think they need to know that you want to build..if you don't want to marry them and they I don't want to keep them waiting, dismiss them let them go and find how to build their own lives. I think the reason why one told you to marry her was probably because you were telling her to wait for you till you build an estate instead not letting her go.
My one advice to you now is to think deep about what you are about to do. Your have two choices to pick from which are marriage and advanced self development. Do you think marrying a wife will prevent you from building? Will you finish the building in the space of 5yrs? Is the money from r marriage that you want to use and build or you have spare for marriage and then the one for building saved up somewhere?
You are the only person that knows what you want in life. You don't ask a lady who's looking for husband to give you her opinion on issues like this. She will definitely say marry first.

People build house in 3 to 4 months and u are here talking about 5 years . If the guy has money he can achieve both house and wife
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by GauRanTor(m): 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2021
Left for me I would advice that you find loyal girl give belle so as to ease some pressure of not having a child before 40yrs.

Cos to me the main reason for all these marriage brouhaha is mainly because of 'children' others reasons are minor ones.

Goodluck bro

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