You were loving and caring, I didn't reciprocate your love so much but one thing I know for sure is that I respected you.

I wasn't crazy about you but I felt peace and secured around you. I was happy you were in my life.

You provided for me like I were jobless even to buying me toiletries but I gave you too little. I'm sorry about that even though in all honesty I had plans to surprise you before whatever happened. I was planning something special for you with a colleague of mine.

My relationship with you was the best I've experienced and at the same time, the worst.

I laughed the most with you and you made me cry the most.

You treated me like I were a baby, yet you allowed me fall from such a height with reckless abandon.

Your breakup message to me is still one of the most shocking I've gotten in my life time. Even the demise of my loved one didn't hit me so hard.

I miss you and it's really hard to say Goodbye but according to you, "what is meant to be would be".

GOODBYE FRIEND

Sincere break up, but I hate people hiding behind there keyboard why not come to your face and say it like a man. Anyway good morning breakfast is served.

You must have dealt with that guy sha

Hot breakfast... Kpele oo

He probably copied it somewhere and sent it to you. Who else thinks so?
Well, in as much as it's a peaceful break-up, should have been better if he ended it in person, and not via text.
By the way, that's indeed a Hot Breakfast.

yuping:
Sincere break up, but I hate people hiding behind there keyboard why not come to your face and say it like a man. Anyway good morning breakfast is served.

Yeah.. Why via a text? For a guy that was often all over me.. Mehn! It's not nice at all..

godwinboy:
You must have dealt with that guy sha

I didn't reciprocate his love like that but I didn't deal with him either. I kind of feel guilty even though I don't really know what made him take such decision..

SmellySperm:
Hot breakfast... Kpele oo

It was indeed hot, e burn my tongue sef.. Eshe o

Xenry:
He probably copied it somewhere and sent it to you. Who else thinks so?
Well, in as much as it's a peaceful break-up, should have been better if he ended it in person, and not via text.
By the way, that's indeed a Hot Breakfast.

He didn't copy it from anywhere, that I know. It was truly hot

Eya

Mtcheeewww

Magnoliaa:
Eya

Mtcheeewww

Wetin happen sis?

Take heart sis. Abeg ehn, if u chop de breakfast remain, make u put am for fridge for dinner

Ahmback:
Take heart sis.
Abeg ehn, if u chop de breakfast remain, make u put am for fridge for dinner

You mean o

Tealover:
You mean o

Go to church sha and pour out your heart to Jesus, he is waiting for you

Ahmback:
Go to church sha and pour out your heart to Jesus, he is waiting for you

Yeah

....

Tealover:
I didn't reciprocate his love like that but I didn't deal with him either. I kind of feel guilty even though I don't really know what made him take such decision..

You said it yourself...
"You didn't reciprocate his love" so maybe he felt he was wasting his time...
He "put up" with you for that long because maybe he thought that at one point you'd change or something...
Or maybe he found someone better...
I don't know o...
All this one's na assumptions...

I can't speak for him or for all the guys out there, buh I can only speak for myself...
I cannot be with a girl who cant match my energy or reciprocate my love...
I'm not saying she should do everything I do for her tit for tat o... buh she should put effort by going out of her way to SHOW me she cares...

It's one thing to love a person and it's another thing to make the person KNOW that you love him/her... You can say you love me, then do things that makes me sad... Yes your love for me could be genuine, buh the fact that the actions you take proves otherwise will make me think otherwise...

Well...
Lemme advice...
Don't beg him...
If you do you'll look cheap and even if you get back together, he'll only be doing so outta pity...
He made a decision, however painful it may be to you, you just have to move on...
You can try to make him tell you the reason for his decision, atleast just so you find closure ....
Stay away from relationships for the now until you heal well...
Read books on love, relationships and marriages, it'll help you see other people's experiences, learn from them, become better...

Favfables1:


You said it yourself...
"You didn't reciprocate his love" so maybe he felt he was wasting his time...
He "put up" with you for that long because maybe he thought that at one point you'd change or something...
Or maybe he found someone better...
I don't know o...
All this one's na assumptions...

I can't speak for him or for all the guys out there, buh I can only speak for myself...
I cannot be with a girl who cant match my energy or reciprocate my love...
I'm not saying she should do everything I do for her tit for tat o... buh she should put effort by going out of her way to SHOW me she cares...

It's one thing to love a person and it's another thing to make the person KNOW that you love him/her... You can say you love me, then do things that makes me sad... Yes your love for me could be genuine, buh the fact that the actions you take proves otherwise will make me think otherwise...

Well...
Lemme advice...
Don't beg him...
If you do you'll look cheap and even if you get back together, he'll only be doing so outta pity...
He made a decision, however painful it may be to you, you just have to move on...
You can try to make him tell you the reason for his decision, atleast just so you find closure ....
Stay away from relationships for the now until you heal well...
Read books on love, relationships and marriages, it'll help you see other people's experiences, learn from them, become better...

Thanks, I learnt my lessons already.. I hope to be better next time.
I tried to inquire from him about what really went wrong, he kept on saying he wanted to build his spiritual life..
It hurts, but.......

Tealover:
I didn't reciprocate his love like that but I didn't deal with him either. I kind of feel guilty even though I don't really know what made him take such decision..

You miss him but don’t want him back in your life I feel so but why tho?
Btwn this is my WhatsApp
I just have this positive energy emiting from you and I’ll love to talk to you
+2348101869189

godwinboy:

You miss him but don’t want him back in your life I feel so but why tho?
Btwn this is my WhatsApp
I just have this positive energy emiting from you and I’ll love to talk to you
+2348101869189

Thanks for your concern.. I'll be fine

Tealover:
You were loving and caring, I didn't reciprocate your love so much but one thing I know for sure is that I respected you.

I wasn't crazy about you but I felt peace and secured around you. I was happy you were in my life.

You provided for me like I were jobless even to buying me sanitary pads and panties but I gave you too little. I'm sorry about that even though in all honesty I had plans to surprise you before whatever happened. I was planning something special for you with a colleague of mine.

My relationship with you was the best I've experienced and at the same time, the worst.

I laughed the most with you and you made me cry the most.

You treated me like I were a baby, yet you allowed me fall from such a height with reckless abandon.

This message is still one of the most shocking I've gotten in my life time. Even the demise of my loved one didn't hit me so hard.

It's really hard to say Goodbye but according to you, "what is meant to be would be".

GOODBYE FRIEND

Everytime I see a comment about someone claiming to have loved a person while mentioning how that person in question provided for them, I question the so called love

Did you love him or did you love him providing for you? Do you miss him or do you miss him providing for you? If he didn't provide anything for you, would you have loved him only for who he is as a person?

Tealover:
Thanks for your concern.. I'll be fine

✌️

bepositive11:


Everytime I see a comment about someone claiming to have loved a person while mentioning how that person in question provided for them, I question the so called love

Did you love him or did you love him providing for you? Do you miss him or do you miss him providing for you? If he didn't provide anything for you, would you have loved him only for who he is as a person?

Lol.. Honestly, I don't even know.. I didn't really like him at all initially but I started trying to develop love when I noticed how caring, kind and mature he is.. If a man can show a woman care, protect and provide for her, I think that's good enough..

One day, I was having a convo with my aunty about this guy;

Me: Aunty, I don't really like this guy o, just that he's really nice and caring

Aunty: That is the best kind of man for you, he seems to love you more and he cares about you. Try to develop the love for him because he's the one that has cared for you the most

Me: Ok aunty.. And I started working on that aspect.. Seems I didn't do it well enough

Tealover:
Imole, kilo funny nar.. Maybe, I have a wrong mentality, enlighten me please

Se ko funny ni?

You were loving and caring, I didn't reciprocate your love so much but one thing I know for sure is that I respected you.

The respect that comes with being someone's ATM.

Tealover:
Lol.. Honestly, I don't even know.. I didn't really like him at all initially but I started trying to develop love when I noticed how caring, kind and mature he is.. If a man can show a woman care, protect and provide for her, I think that's good enough.

Singlehood has really dealt with my thinking; like,,, there is one kain joy that comes with being single.

ImoleNaija:


Lol

Imole, kilo funny nar.. Maybe, I have a wrong mentality, enlighten me please

The way breakfast was served this year is something else. This is the kind of whatsapp message I got and I thought it was a joke but he had thought it through and had other plans. And I was still doing Lover girl not knowing my breakfast has been served and well garnished.

Sis, pick the lessons, improve and move. We will be alright las las.

Opeyemiextra:
The way breakfast was served this year is something else. This is the kind of whatsapp message I got and I thought it was a joke but he had thought it through and had other plans. And I was still doing Lover girl not knowing my breakfast has been served and well garnished.

Sis, pick the lessons, improve and move. We will be alright las las.

Yeah.. We'll surely be alright, it's just a phase and will soon fade away..
Cheers to life!

Another bullshit! (Sneezes) wipes nose

Tealover:
Yeah.. We'll surely be alright, it's just a phase and will soon fade away..
Cheers to life!

Cheers

He got back to his senses. No one wants time wasters.