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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Nobody: 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
don't you ever forget that men are more olosheous than ladies and they do it proudly. They only see it as bad when done by a lady
OH that's true. They don't like competition that's why grin

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by maureensylvia(f): 8:34pm On Nov 28, 2021
teeshet:
Maureensylvia marry me and have my babies. You look so hot

You got to be kidding me cheesy
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by mibrims: 8:35pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
Man proposes and God disposes
What if you die before completing your estate?
What then happens to the uncompleted building? Ok what if marry @40 and experience a delay in child bearing?
You can still building heavens while In marriage bro, the essence of life is propagation of your species and survival..

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by AnthonyAk(m): 8:37pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

Do what u have to before you marry oh. Sounds like an investment. If u marry first , your wife will also have mouth in your business

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Jimasun00: 8:37pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
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Thanks baba... U are correct... I really appreciate the advice.
Marry after you are fulfilled.After achieving some certain goals.God will make all your dreams come through.Can i also apply and join your gfs I'm single and seraching btw.Lol
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by marsup: 8:37pm On Nov 28, 2021
Three girls waiting? When you pick one of them, what happens to the other two? Remember you will probably have a daughter.

He who finds a good wife, finds a good thing. If you settle with the right woman, you will even build a bigger estate and an empire, but if you settle with the wrong woman, even the small one you have will fizzle out.
Watch your step.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:40pm On Nov 28, 2021
greggng:


People build house in 3 to 4 months and u are here talking about 5 years . If the guy has money he can achieve both house and wife
Read his post Oga..he was the one that said he's looking at 5yrs not me. If he wanted to build a house in 3months and have a lady in his life he will not be looking at marriage at 40.
Go back and read his post.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by AllKnowing: 8:41pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.

Is it not that one those people said a fool at 40 is a fool forever?

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Vado(m): 8:41pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.


A man whom isn't sure he is going to be alive in the next 5 years is choosy about when to marry thinking he is being smart by avoiding late 20s or early 30s girl's desperation. So many wealthy guys in their 20s have passed away. If God gave Dagrin a second chance, do you think he wouldn't jump at marrying early and having a seed to show for it?

Dude life is a gift. I laugh when I see people making investment plans like tomorrow is a certainty without getting their priorities straight first. If the concept of family means something to you and you have what you can manage it by, but you are busy haggling over what and what not to do first, then I can't help you.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Wchris(m): 8:41pm On Nov 28, 2021
The way Nigerian ladies are pressuring the men that marry them is becoming unbearable. Na force marry?

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by greggng: 8:42pm On Nov 28, 2021
MISSCONGENIALITY:
Read his post Oga..he was the one that said he's looking at 5yrs not me. If he wanted to build a house in 3months and have a lady in his life he will not be looking at marriage at 40.
Go back and read his post.

OK.you are right

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Mcslize: 8:43pm On Nov 28, 2021
MarveworldG:


Do not forget to contact us handle the ceiling, painting, screeding, and any interior design services you would need when you Kickstart the project.
All the best sor

Who still uses ceiling these days for building? What happens to P.O.P?
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by bikefab(m): 8:45pm On Nov 28, 2021
Good decisions man. A good father makes plans ahead
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Oceanfield: 8:46pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

The bolded is pure lies, because you are made already she is saying this to look like a good woman. Don't marry any of them till you complete that project.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Munzy14(m): 8:46pm On Nov 28, 2021
chatinent:
Five years remaining to reach one beautiful adage.
That is a fool at forty grin grin

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Depressed101: 8:47pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.
and who says you must marry before you have children?
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by seanwilliam(m): 8:47pm On Nov 28, 2021
Something happened to me days ago, and I almost dead . On the sick bed I was thinking of my investments, little money I had and things I’ve got.
I thought I was going to die , I kept begging the nurses to bring me Bible and Quran and start asking for forgiveness of my sins lol.
I nearly die.







That really changed my mentality , what if I had died, does that mean I came to life without impart? I’m not a fans of marriage but I’ll beg u op to give one of the girls u deem loyal belly and born while u complete your house project. Pls and pls death can come any time any day.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by uthlaw: 8:47pm On Nov 28, 2021
jaeyking:
Marriage is sweet when u marry a person who understands and tolerates you

It is sweeter when you have finance to cater for their wellbeing.

If not u go think tired
what is sweet about the marriage... Ena don come with ena stupid advice!
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by HonestFriend: 8:48pm On Nov 28, 2021
Just like your age... But I don't hve what u have although am saving alot that I don't even touch my salary... Am looking for a business that I can invest in, like 300k..
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Munzy14(m): 8:50pm On Nov 28, 2021
Raalsalghul:
If the said ladies pestering you for marriage are in their late twenties/early thirties, I'd say leave them.

Then while using the remainder five years to build your estate, go for younger babes in like first/second year level at universities.

Use them as side attractions and to hold body too: at least at that point in their life, they are not looking for anything serious just the occasional car rides, movies at the cinema, bi- monthly cash transfers and shawarma, so they won't pester you for any commitment.

Finally, when you're through with building your estate, you can now consider the late twenties babes for marriage. The good thing is that you're doing well financially so you'll always see somebody who'll marry you after all na Naija we dey.

Both ways, you will enjoy your peak as a man and build your hustle too.

Na this advise go turn brother mascot to oga Titus at 60 with no wife, no kid , no estate.....Just an internet noise maker... grin grin
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by emmeyen: 8:50pm On Nov 28, 2021
mibrims:

Man proposes and God disposes
What if you die before completing your estate?
What then happens to the uncompleted building? Ok what if marry @40 and experience a delay in child bearing?
You can still building heavens while In marriage bro, the essence of life is propagation of your species and survival..


I was about asking him o. He did not plan to build the estate from his mid twenties. You can be sure that when he reaches 40, he will still think he has time or he becomes desperate. Next thing you know, he will marry one woman who only loves him for his money.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by flokii: 8:51pm On Nov 28, 2021
@OP I think you need to get a wife, not house or estate.

Settle down, start a family and grow with your kids.. not when you're 50yrs and getting weak that you'll start nursing children. There is time for everything in life.
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Raalsalghul: 8:54pm On Nov 28, 2021
Munzy14:

Na this advise go turn brother mascot to oga Titus at 60 with no wife, no kid , no estate.....Just an internet noise maker... grin grin

How exactly?

Care to elucidate?
Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by emmyN(m): 8:56pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

These days building a house is very capital intensive owing to the rise in price of building materials. I would say marry the three ladies rather and establish an agricultural farm for them to cultivate for you.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Offpoint1: 8:57pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
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Thanks my Guy.
grin you fail to see the insult in that guy commentgrin

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by dollynnn(f): 8:57pm On Nov 28, 2021
Xenry:
Bro, don't listen to those girls that want you to marry them. Even if they get married tommorow, relax, women no dey finish.
Well, that's so wise of you- building an asset before getting married. That's good bro. And about everything being too late, bro, relax, you no be woman wey dey get menopause, how old was Ned Nwoko when he got married? You see? You no get any problem.
Marry when you're ready, not when you're pressured. And I like the part you wrote that you don't want to bring children that will come and suffer —That's how it should be!
Gbam!

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by yomi007k(m): 8:57pm On Nov 28, 2021
mibrims:

Man proposes and God disposes
What if you die before completing your estate?
What then happens to the uncompleted building? Ok what if marry @40 and experience a delay in child bearing?
You can still building heavens while In marriage bro, the essence of life is propagation of your species and survival..

This is a commoner mentality.

Not for those aiming for success.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by Raalsalghul: 8:58pm On Nov 28, 2021
mibrims:

Man proposes and God disposes
What if you die before completing your estate?
What then happens to the uncompleted building? Ok what if marry @40 and experience a delay in child bearing?
You can still building heavens while In marriage bro, the essence of life is propagation of your species and survival..
What ifs, what ifs, what ifs.

What if he gets married and dies two years into the marriage nko?

Abi your own what ifs did not factor in such?

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by yomi007k(m): 8:59pm On Nov 28, 2021
emmyN:


These days building a house is very capital intensive owing to the rise in building materials. I would say marry the three ladies rather and establish an agricultural farm for them to cultivate for you.

...and marrying the three ladies is not capital intensive?


The wives are not assests. The land and building are.

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by yomi007k(m): 8:59pm On Nov 28, 2021
flokii:
@OP I think you need to get a wife, not house or estate.

Settle down, start a family and grow with your kids.. not when you're 50yrs and getting weak that you'll start nursing children. There is time for everything in life.

Who told u that a 50 year old man is weak?

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Re: I Am A 35-Year-Old Single Guy. I Want To Build Small Estate Before Marriage by frozen70(f): 8:59pm On Nov 28, 2021
mascot345:
Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please good advise is welcomed.
Thanks everyone.

The issue is that you are not really ready and interested in settling down

What are you doing with three matured women in your life at this stage

Anyway your investment shouldn't stop you from getting married that's if you are interested in marriage now

If you insist on waiting till 40yrs of age, then you will still be paying school fees at retirement age

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