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Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by addicted268(f): 12:55pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Bullying is real especially in boarding schools. I was bullied on several occasions by some seniors but i 'll never forget the day SS3 students gave me and my classmate community beating. Gosh i thought I'd die. It happened that my daily job(we called it function) included going to the kitchen (situated at the boys hostel)to fetch Ss3 food bowl. My classmate and i did it diligently morning,afternoon and night. Then one night we got to the kitchen to discover that the ss3 boys had eaten both their food and the food meant for the ss3 girls. We had to return empty handed with the news. They made us kneel from the dinning to their room and as soon as we entered their room they descended on us with kicks and blows and slaps. They were about 10-12 in that room and all i could do was try to shield my face so most of the blows fell on my back,arms and everywhere else. I dont know how long the beating lasted but it felt like forever. I couldn't go for night prep that night. After they released us i just went to my bed and cried myself to sleep. Woke up with severe body pain and a resolve that when i become a senior, I'd never treat any junior badly. 1 Like |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Mims2016(m): 1:01pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
You were obviously in Federal Government College, Ikot Ekpene. The name you mentioned was in my set, Benue River House. Sorry for your pain and trauma bro. EmekaStanley: |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Juanmike(m): 1:01pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Eriokanmi:What happened to pressing charges and... |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by EmekaStanley: 1:03pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mims2016:Very correct Bro. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by chatinent: 1:09pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
PavillionEnergy: Thanks. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by nedekid: 1:12pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
omoadeleye:Bros the male teacher that slapped my teen daughter ehh. By the next morning my mind had cooled small only for my egbon to land say I never ready to go the school? That was how we went there oh. Entered principal office. Admin was there too. We sent for the teacher. He started explaining some crap and finally admitted slapping her cause he told her to do a stoop punishment and she could not handle it and got up. Omo when I heard that slap dropped, the combination of blows I unleashed on this guy, I did not plan for. If not for begging, I would have done medical report on my daughter and approached the police to charge that teacher to court for assault on a minor! By the time I was reaching home my aburo arrived akowonjo all the way from lekki say we go the school. Lol Finally I heard that teacher was sacked. That he was making passes at female students. Apprently he will first intimidate the child before making a move. 1 Like |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by jacoik(m): 1:14pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
chatinent:I just dey confused with your statement. You started with sardin wey I dey buy 70n before. Now u say na 800. Guy stop carrying fake news about sardin abeg |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by loliapoopy2013(f): 1:16pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Flahyuq: Check him out in Facebook |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by chatinent: 1:21pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
jacoik: Sardine? ₦70? Where in Nigeria? You cannot even buy it for ₦600 now. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by loliapoopy2013(f): 1:27pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Asgard73: Time to drag out all the bullies. 1 Like |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Asgard73: 1:30pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
loliapoopy2013: Walai.. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by legendburna: 1:35pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
chatinent: Great writer ✨ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by KillIgbohoN0W: 1:39pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
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Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Freemasonry: 1:42pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I’d love to see the perpetrators of this evil unmasked and punished. I know by now it’s possible their parents are already banding together to subvert the course of justice, and shield their children from the law...it’s typical of Nigerian parents, especially the privileged ones. They always try to protect the so-called (rotten) good name of their wicked family, at the expense of another family going through grief and trauma - thanks to their poorly trained children. I just hope this won’t be like the Deeper Life school that was mishandled through the deliberate efforts of some people. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by marttol: 1:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Jesus Eriokanmi: |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Not only do children get bullied by their fellow students. They also get bullied by their teachers. I had quite an experience in this one. God help our children. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by chival(f): 2:09pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
addicted268:You've got to be kidding! All these went down and the parents left him there? They'll argue nobody could have seen this coming, but it's always better to err on the side of caution. There's no point blaming the parents now. That will just add to their grief. May God console them and I pray justice is done. 1 Like |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by user294(m): 2:16pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA:The bolded part made me remember the novel we read in senior secondary school, Lord Of The Flies by William Golding. Humans, and mainly children unsupervised can become very base and animalistic. Humans, including adults have the same tendency, but maturity and refinement helps us subdue such primordial tendencies. I was once a boarder too, in short, all of my secondary school life was spent in a boarding school. It is still the best period of my life, even now that am in my mid twenties. I can count the number of times I was bullied, maybe twice or thrice at the most. The secret is, I was quite intelligent and smart. I knew my rights, right from early age, and despite being an introvert, I was always ready to fight even my seniors if they crossed boundaries. Parents should treat their kids with love and honest friendship, no politics. Let them know they have your support at all times. Be their true friend, that when things go south, they can turn to you. Bullies are scared of those that know their right and will stand their ground. Therefore train your kids to be the biblical "wise like a serpent, harmless like a dove". When they grow, you will be grateful you did this, because even a lot of adults today are peer-pressured into so much vices, like the drugs and rituals epidermic ravaging Nigeria today. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Owen247: 2:34pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
EmekaStanley:when i was a boarder back den was sexually molested by a teacher.just one of d many things that happend to me then. [ note i was facing too much challanges den,both academically,finacially,heath,personal] and i tried to relate it to my parents but the were nt interested ,i had no one to coinfind in.my friends/parents abandoned me then. Was so heart broken. Na only God sabi how i take ace my external and internal exams then.i had to bottle up all my life turmoil at a yunga age inside me.parent should pay listening ears to their wards.if nt dis case wont have been noticed if d boys parents neva cared. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by EmekaStanley: 2:36pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Owen247:Sorry for your pains. I believe you are stronger now. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Nyascobar1414: 2:41pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Ekspensive: FGC ikot ekpene no be here... Especially when hausa and fulani boys bn dey... U go bring new foam dem go collect you... Students bn dey die sef.. My bros gist me bout the school ehh.. Ogun house |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Owen247: 2:47pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
EmekaStanley:Thanks for your care dear. Yes am stronger now, infact i have this mentality >that since i overcame THEN ,i can always overcome Now and Tomoro. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by omoadeleye(m): 2:58pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
nedekid: Your bro is a king 1 Like |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Nyascobar1414: 2:58pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Niyi... Graduated 1999.. The guy still dey enjoy life sef.. Check facebook asap |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by NoToPile: 4:01pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
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Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by blackboy(m): 4:08pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I went to one of the best boarding houses in Lagos. Not in the outskirts of Lagos but city centre. Jss2 - SSS3 and I have vowed never to let my kids go to boarding house. Was I bullied? No Was I abused? No. I was almost a king or the special one in the boarding house but that is me. The atrocities, cruelty or condition and simply life in the boarding house is crazy. I wont go into all the details. Homosexuality voluntary and forced. Attempted murder - mates gang up with knives to kill a junior because he is stronger. Brutality etc In my street way back we heard a house was in mourning. A good and hard working young man who was the son in that house had been cut to pieces in LASU on the night of Miss Lasu. He had just been anointed to be next head of a cult group on the campus. If you see some of these guyz committing such atrocities some have baby face some look gentle some you can swear on your life they cant kill anyone. But if you have read Lord of the Flies .. you will understand. The world is evil as it is. Nigeria is a country those paid to work dont want to work. Or complain about the pay they agreed to take to do the work . This leads to all sorts of atrocities There is something my kids say. What happens in school stays in School. Yes young people know how to keep secrets. To run a boarding house should have penalties if they let down the children or parents. Even day school students need to be protected. Being a day school student can equally be bad but not as bad as boarding. 1 Like |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Senorprinz(m): 4:32pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
And they forced easterners to be part of them shey? KillIgbohoN0W: |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by WoundedLamb: 4:56pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Very sad. Really, parenting is not easy. The truth is, we can tell our kids all we want (or even worse, flog them all we want), they'd still learn from our actions. How can we teach our kids to respect and be empathetic toward others if we, as adults, derive so much pleasure in bullying others too? The high rate of cyber bullying today suggests that many people still have the bullying desire in them but just can't act on it with reckless abandon anymore. There's no telling what these faceless people do or say to others when no one is watching. My point is, our kids will reflect us, thier teachers and/or their friends. Seeing that thier teachers are adults and thier friends will reflect thier own parents who are adults too, I believe it's safe to say our actions are adults shape the personalities of our kids more than anything we could ever say to them. This invariably implies that raising good kids entails being the best versions of ourselves as adults. Parenting is indeed not easy. |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Hkff: 5:11pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Yeah |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by Ekspensive(m): 6:52pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
It was school of hard knocks. Cross River House |
Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by BRATISLAVA: 7:44pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
user294: 1 Like |
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