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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by whirlwind7(m): 12:53pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Useless men everywhere, I pity ladies that give you people free sex all in the name of expression of feelings, even Adam couldn't touch Eve till God asked him to do something which serves as the bride price before he was allowed to touch her but some ladies wey nack head for ground will begin parting their legs over nonsense expression of feelings. Its unbibilical to have free sex,go and find out.So Oga Op if you can't feed her then leave her for her parents and go your way,you did not complain when you were winning your pelenge waist on top of her.

You ma'am, are particularly a nasty assed, pvssy centered piece of scum.
And that is me putting it pleasantly grin

Your hankering for paid sex will come to a stop one day, and you'll finally look in the mirror only to realize that your worth, which was solely attacked to the space between your legs, is nearly non existent.
You can become better than this
Yes, there's lots of limpy, pitiful guys who go about paying women for sexual favours. And then there's guys who, once they realize you're a pvssy for sale, they lose interest instantly.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by solarpanel33(m): 12:55pm On Dec 05, 2021
Words can inspire, thoughts can provoke, but only action truly brings you closer to your dreams.
Don’t stop when you are tired. Stop when you are done.
Don’t tell people about your dreams. Show them your dreams.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by jesmond3945: 12:55pm On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.
guy if this girl is not your wife and you are doing all these things, you are a big fool.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Bellerophon: 12:56pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
You are too emotional jare,small thing you are already writing epistles. You wanted to talk about account number, so what were you actually saying as regards that?

You can send your account number and I can credit your destiny with my missed targets of 2021 and of course bad habits I want to do away with! That’s the only giveaway me think you deserve
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by dennis7179: 12:58pm On Dec 05, 2021
Sorry to burst your Bubble ,i am happily married with kids.I saw my wife through school which i stated earlier here and never had any reson to regret it.I knew her when she was in Jss 3 and i was the one that sent her through school but she was hardworking too.i did all i did because we both share the same mutual feelings and set of goals.She is in UK now for her Phd and i am happy to have spent my money on her.See,there is no big deal spending on a girl you know has a zeal and passion for greatness in life so long you both have mutual goals But people like you are not worthy of those privileges because you saw rich guys as a gold mine meanwhile you cant even make something good out of your life because you already embedded your brain to the idea of "i cant survive without a rich man"syndrome.Still i pity your life.

Simran94:

Your mates are out there making money and doing great with their lives, they see women as not a Sex object but a treasure, paying their bride price and marrying them legally but you are here thinking about how to have sex with a woman that you are not even married to and yet still jobless.

Get a life
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Anobella: 12:59pm On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.


First i cant send a lady to school its either you are doing something or you out of school and established a bit if not don't come close with that entitlement mentality to me cus i fit give u back hand slap ..

I am talking from experience dont be surprised that when she finds someone better than you she go drop your assanf block your phone number.. i am talking from experience
I cant date a broke girl .
I can't date a student
I can't date someone who doesn't have something doing.

I know I am a blessing to you that y god made me a man in order for me to bless u , u must have something doing as a lady so I can look into it then invest m time anf money into it ...

If god gives you the ability to see the mind of most of our partners you will c that most of us especially guys are only in that relationship because of what we can provide..
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 12:59pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bellerophon:


You can send your account number and I can credit your destiny with my missed targets of 2021 and of course bad habits I want to do away with! That’s the only giveaway me think you deserve
You go sabi quarrel ehn,you must be Yoruba.Go and marry and stop fornicating with small small girls.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Bellerophon: 1:04pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
You go sabi quarrel ehn,you must be Yoruba.Go and marry and stop fornicating with small small girls.

Funny enough you have been modestly civil in conversation save for veering off to include my sisters, an action demanding of commensurate response and I am not sorry i served you back sizzling hot! Just try to curtail your greediness
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by etikaamos(m): 1:05pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves
that's how limited Nigeria lady think, having sex doesn't automatically mean you'd become an orphan and I'll start doing your parents duties. This sex thing isn't a big deal anymore
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Bullhari: 1:06pm On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:
Pls I need your advice on this.

Since have being dating my fiancee going to 3 years now, I have being doing almost all her parent responsibilities.

I was the one that sent her to school -ND1 and ND2, I paid all the semesters school fees.

I also paid her 2 years rent, when she was in the school. All her handouts and school bills were paid by me. Even till feeding.

Her parent are just to poor, that they can't even provide what they'll eat for themselves.

I did almost everything within my power to provide for her and help her parent atimes with some little I can afford.

Now she's done with her ND programme, am planing to enrol her for a professional Catering Job, which is amount to almost 250k.

At times she come to my place and spent like 2weeks, 3 weeks or even 1 week with me.

So of a recent her mom asked her to come home and spend some days with them.

She now called and ask me for feeding money, but I was angry and I asked her, Can't your parent provide basic needs? Like feeding, clothes etc. You'll be in my house I'll provide what you'll eat and when you're in your parent too, I'll still be the one to provide what you'll eat. Didn't your dad go out every morning to go and work?

I just told her, that if her parent can't provide basic needs, I don't think is proper.

And again she's the type that want to wear what other ladies are wearing and want to up to standard.

And I didn't send any money to her.

I just want to know if am wrong for asking her that. because her dad is alive and mom is healthy, but they're always broke and no money, that they hardly feed 3 square meals.

Sir, you are wrong. very Wrong. you can't just wake up and decide to stop like that.
If you know what is good for you:
Send her that feeding money,
buy her those clothes,
support her parents,
Send her to that catering school,
Send her to complete her HND,
Open a shop for her mother.


Just continue doing what other ijiots are doing
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by etikaamos(m): 1:07pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bro the simple truth is that you are not paying any bride price again, just tell her parent that you've married her. Let them minus it from all the money you've spent.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by WHITELIGHTER: 1:08pm On Dec 05, 2021
how can i unread this?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by WHITELIGHTER: 1:09pm On Dec 05, 2021
Ynix:

Na your type, your fellow man and childhood friend will ask for support for his business but you will say, oh sorry friend I am broke now.
Any ways if you have money you are not using me I need am to promote my cryptocurrency project.

Exactly

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 1:10pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bellerophon:


Funny enough you have been modestly civil in conversation save for veering off to include my sisters, an action demanding of commensurate response and I am not sorry i served you back sizzling hot! Just try to curtail your greediness
Its gender war on nairaland and I don't Intend been nice with my comments, it's a war to finish.You only remembered my response and not what triggered it.Don't you know masculine men don't fight women? go learn how to be masculine.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by HRMK: 1:12pm On Dec 05, 2021
were u not aware of the poor state of the parents when u hooked up with her?its an insult to refer to her parents!nobody forced u to sponsor her!u need not misbehave ie if u dont want her to be withdrawn from u!its u that wuld lose more!i suggest u settle the dowry and get married to her immediately!!
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Meedon: 1:13pm On Dec 05, 2021
solarpanel33:
Words can inspire, thoughts can provoke, but only action truly brings you closer to your dreams.
Don’t stop when you are tired. Stop when you are done.
Don’t tell people about your dreams. Show them your dreams.


Thanks for this great write-up sir.
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Jacksparrow7(m): 1:13pm On Dec 05, 2021
KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.
Amen
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Nobody: 1:17pm On Dec 05, 2021
To those of you insulting me offline and the ones indirectly throwing jabs,I'm seeing all of you.Eat back your words
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Jacksparrow7(m): 1:18pm On Dec 05, 2021
OP make I send AZA?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by frank317: 1:19pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
You expected me to shy away from the bitter truth? it is the reason I'm always the odd one out in most opinions on issues because i spit reality,you are enjoying marital bliss and other conjugal enjoyments but you don't want to spend,are you her creator? As long as you are sleeping with her please don't complain of any demands from her,nothing is free,not even the air we breath.

pls shut up if u have nothing to say
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Yampotatocarrot(m): 1:19pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
You this fornicator,be gone,get behind me.It's only fornicators that'll have problems with my comments.

"You this fornicator"����... See as you talk as if you know the guy...

Chaii, I'm really laughing here

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Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by KingLennon(m): 1:21pm On Dec 05, 2021
KiNg0G:
Oh lord , any sîmp in my bloodline like this op that will cause me future grievance, let it miscarriage.
Savage! A SIMPle man that's what he is
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by mayorofyentown(m): 1:23pm On Dec 05, 2021
Majority of the guys way go yab this OP go do same thing if them dey him shoe. i move jhoor......
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by ISelectMySins: 1:24pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
please shut up,but it's Normal to be opening legs for him when he's not yet marred to her but abnormal to spend and feed her abi?you think sex is free?even in marriage its not free.stop encouraging fornication and since he wants to fornicate then he should be ready to cough out some hell of money

Sex is never free for any and all men and I couldn't agree more. The day you stop providing is the day sex gradually ends. All women (incredibly infinitesimal exceptions) would demand value (mostly financials) from men in exchange for carrying his seed, whether they birth or not.

However, this necessarily leads to the argument that women are men's sexual objects, men's plaything, they are men (note, I didn't say women) assigned with the chore of reproduction and nothing more. Do you agree?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Ologbo147: 1:26pm On Dec 05, 2021
Quickly impregnate her at least you've spent a lot already, in order to keep her
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by ISelectMySins: 1:27pm On Dec 05, 2021
youmour:



I hate people that reason like you I swear if you were by my side and said that I for dash you slap, as if women no dey enjoy fvck, as if majority of divorces no be because of men not satisfying their partners sexually.


Men stop putting pussy on a pedestal,sex is very cheap,with indomie and egg you can cure konji easy.

If it costs you Indomie and egg, then it's not cheap. What does it cost her? Have you asked yourself that question. Why must you even give something?
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by joe4christ(m): 1:30pm On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


She is ambitious though, but her parent can't help.

If she's good and you love her. Then don't waste time any further. Wife her. Then establish a business for her and since she's an ambitious lady. She will do well. With that business she can now foot the bills of her parents. Simple!
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by Hotspotbro(m): 1:32pm On Dec 05, 2021
How this nihha sure say she no go leave am sef?

Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by advanceDNA: 1:32pm On Dec 05, 2021
Bullhari:


Sir, you are wrong. very Wrong. you can't just wake up and decide to stop like that.
If you know what is good for you:
Send her that feeding money,
buy her those clothes,
support her parents,
Send her to that catering school,
Send her to complete her HND,
Open a shop for her mother.


Just continue doing what other ijiots are doing

You are not only wicked but the king sarcasm....I almost missed it..

Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:32pm On Dec 05, 2021
Iyaebe:
Shebi you've been having sex with her so stop complaining and do your responsibilities in peace or didn't you know she has parents before you start parting her legs endlessly and asking her to come spend weeks, months with you?there's nothing like free sex,even the married one's are directly and Indirectly paying for the sex,let's all stop deceiving ourselves
Well, mine is different. Any girl who can't offer me free sex won't get up to 30mins of my time.
Thank God say na them always dey beg me sex, they beg to bring things like food alongside
Re: I Asked Her, Can't Your Parent Provide Basic Needs? Are My Wrong? by 2elliot: 1:37pm On Dec 05, 2021
yinkaOdutuyo:


I expected much from you.

But what nairander called you is what you're.
You mean you expected much from that one? Your mumu never tire you be that.

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