I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S

Let me give these instances;

1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S
Let me give these instances;
1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?


Cc: Hathor5 imalma pocohantas


Cc: Iyaebe stay off this thread.. Not for people like you... Tanchu

kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

Oh lord, deliver us from Jezebels, like the one up there.

I'm back on NL and still some guy's don't want to leave women affairs *so sad * and worst thing is that we are heading to 2022.

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S
Let me give these instances;
1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?


Cc: Hathor5 imalma1 pocohantas cococandy pochestmina chii8


Cc: Iyaebe stay off this thread.. Not for people like you... Tanchu

black African woman .

I'm glad you said some women

I have had one or two experiences from people aside my extended families.

You need to understand that women so much want their space more than anything.
But that doesn't give her leverage to overreact.

I have somehow been in good terms with the wives of my uncles, and other relatives. I don't know how but I sure do know how to mind my business.
Minding your business eliminates dozens of unforseen problems.

It is left for the husband to put his family in order.

Are we not all brothers and sisters to a woman who is married? Do you get unrestricted access to her home and do whatever you like?

Hi Alpha men! when are we going to talk about cultism and drugs ravaging the present generation of Nigerian men? Haven't you seen the news of the 12 years old that was killed because he refused to join cult? When are we going to talk about the increasing crime rate amongst men?

Iyaebe:
kikikiki you don't like truth abi?Well,I already know my future husband's people will not like me so I'm prepared and patiently waiting. As for me I'll always be alert so that I will not be caught unawares

I av never seen any of your comments Dt depicts sense... Never seen one...

ANDREW91:

Mehn I can relate. Some women sha. My brother I stayed with in lag immediately after my NYSC was very accommodating. I spent a year plus with them and we never had issues. Then there is this my second brother who was family oriented b4 marriage. If he nor see u for his house in a month na wahala, naso he dey buy different things for us until he got married. The girl was all nice during their dating period. Immediately after marriage naso he banned us from visiting him whereas the girl 2 brothers were living with them and she doesn't work. He even sponsor one of them to abroad twice and he was deported whereas none of his own blood dey abroad. We kukuma leave am make he dey mumu. The next thing the girl begin dey catch us witchcraft say na we make her nor born. Nobody even dey mind them

See life... Some women become demons when they finally settle

Mstick:
Hi Alpha men! when are we going to talk about cultism and drugs ravaging the present generation of Nigerian men? Haven't you seen the news of the 12 years old that was killed because he refused to join cult? When are we going to talk about the increasing crime rate amongst men?

Read well and stop messing around.... It's nt a gender argument.

I am talking abt married ones , not tomboy like you....

Segkem2013:
I gave money to my wife to send to our parents. She gave mine 1/3 and hers 2/3. My money ooo.

Lo

membranus:


Coming from a man with more than a decade of marital experience, this is so true sir. You have seen them finish.

Thank you sir.. May God help married men siblings ooo

greenie77:
Are we not all brothers and sisters to a woman who is married? Do you get unrestricted access to her home and do whatever you like?

I can't even say.. I hardly go to any of my Married siblings house.... Infact it's been long I saw them, no time for anybody...

But for one, my brother's wife... She encourages my brother to spend money on her family than us.. It ended terrible for him as marriage turned sour.. My brother does as if he just won a jackpot anytime his wife family are around but for we, long thing..

Long story but we push him aside.. We don't even communicate with him again...

Iyaebe:
No,the comments are rather too deep for your small brain

Werey.. Too deep in nansense

only WEAK,DUMB husband will tolerate such nonsense

ipobarethieves:
only WEAK,DUMB husband will tolerate such nonsense

Trust me it happens.. My mom first born is a live victim and it ended in calamity for him.

u are 100% rite.I once visited my bro in the 90.Thevwife sista/moda live with the couple.The man will go to work in the morning,those nuts will Sidon for house,watch film,eat this and dat.Wen it is my turn to eat sardine,d useless girl (at that time) packed everything and locked nit up in her bedroom wardrobe.I kuku showed am Eko for show(I broke the wardrobe and even husband Dey wan turn to mumu woke up .

Timekeeper:


Trust me it happens.. My mom first born is a live victim and it ended in calamity for him.

I love the way you put "SOME" your head correct.

No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.

I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.

Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended.

Timekeeper:


I av never seen any of your comments Dt depicts sense... Never seen one...

Na you get time to read his/her comment na

G

Mstick:
Hi Alpha men! when are we going to talk about cultism and drugs ravaging the present generation of Nigerian men? Haven't you seen the news of the 12 years old that was killed because he refused to join cult when are we going to talk about the increasing crime rate amongst men?

It's literally being talked about in multiple threads on the front page at the moment and you aren't even in any to air your view.
You don't care about cultism or any of those things you listed. You are just trying to deflect from a topic that makes you uncomfortable.

Jeon:
I'm back on NL and still some guy's don't want to leave women affairs *so sad * and worst thing is that we are heading to 2022.

Aswear our matter dey give dem orgasm

pocohantas:
No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.

I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.

Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended.

Man's side? Probably yes bcox they aren't really familiar wth the woman unlike the wife siblings Dt knows her in & out...

But ladies shud accomodate their in laws

MummyD2020:


Aswear our matter dey give dem orgasm

Fake hope

Timekeeper:
I think there is a evil that reside in a lady once she gets married... As in, some married women are so selfish and wicked... S
Let me give these instances;
1. Their own brothers and sisters come to her husband home and there is no issue.. He/she (wife siblings) has unrestricted access to everything in the house since it's her sister's husband house.. But when the husband siblings come, they have restricted access to some things in the house.. Any attempt to go futher, the wife start bringing up attitude towards them..

2. The wife mother comes and she is free to stay as long as she wants but if the husband mother comes, the selfish wife is already asking the husband when will mama leave for her place....

3. The husband sends money to her family, no problem, the husband sends to his family, then there is need for him to be accountable for the money sent to his own parents oooo..

4. Husband sponsors wife siblings to school and all is fine.. Husband sponsors his own siblings and the wife develops hatred automatically towards the sibling bcox she thinks they are draining her husband resources..


Some married women are wicked soul in disguise. Bad enough, you wunt see these attitudes in them until they are married.

I still wonder and ask; why are some married woman so selfish and demonic in nature?


Cc: Hathor5 imalma1 pocohantas cococandy pochestmina chii8


Cc: Iyaebe stay off this thread.. Not for people like you... Tanchu

Well, I don't really know about others,I'm married and not selfish.I help people whenever I'm in a position to without minding who they are.I am expecting the father in the home to take charge of his home and don't allow a woman detect what will happen in the house.Is it a weak male that allows the wife make important decisions in the family alone.Women should remember always that it's the measure we give,we shall get.You despise your husband's mother,then your son's wife will do same.

Timekeeper

Women are naturally selfish and wicked in nature.

98% of them has no unconditional love.

Please, let us allow women to rest.

Any man that said, he will not have sense, go use him head, carry am...

Time will tell

Men be wise: wise men are responsible and wisdom has save a lot of home.

women be nice, women be kind, women be wise , don't spoil your home due to selfishness, sentiment s or pride .

Your new family comes first, then any of the wife of husband side can be flexibly dealt with, without attaching sentiments

pocohantas:
No devil entered them. It is who they are. The signs are always there. Some people are not family oriented or accommodating.

I generally have a problem with people that do not respect my space or rules, given that I have chronic OCD. That is my problem with guests. But if you give me my way, mind your business and help in your own little way to take care of the home, we have no problem.

Truth is, Nigerians are very bad guests and they don’t know. The ones from the man’s side tend to be the worst. No disrespect intended.

Typical!

You were being objective until you fell into the Op's stereotype and wanted to use the word "No disrespect" to wriggle yourself out.

I guess his/her postulations that Nigerian women hate their in-laws are very true because if I ask you now for the the stats that the man's relative are always the nasty ones, you will start mumbling.

Raalsalghul:


Typical!

You were being objective until you fell into the Op's stereotype and wanted to use the word "No disrespect" to wriggle yourself out.

I guess his/her postulations that Nigerian women hate their in-laws are very true because if I ask where are the stats that the man's relative are always the nasty, you will start mumbling.

I am sorry it hurts you, but my statement stands. So sorry.

Timekeeper:


Man's side? Probably yes bcox they aren't really familiar wth the woman unlike the wife siblings Dt knows her in & out...

But ladies shud accomodate their in laws

Hopefully they’ll listen.

pocohantas:


I am sorry it hurts you, but my statement stands. So sorry.



Hopefully they’ll listen.

Yes, I'm currently shedding tears in my pillow.

Raalsalghul:


Yes, I'm currently shedding tears in my pillow.

You’ll be fine. Don’t forget to change your pillowcase regularly. They are a breeding ground for bacteria, even without teary moisture.

#PocoCares