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Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 2:51pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Lostchild:lol - it's funny how you people will create problems and still come back to blame women . The way marriage traditional rules were set up by men - the husbands family can disrespect.the wife if.they please - why are you people now shocked she won't want them around ? The wife's family automatically respexts her husband as the husband but the husbands family come in to.the house thinking the wife is meant to serve them - explain to me why she would want them around her house ? Have we not seen many posts on this nairaland where husbandansiblinhs will.je calling the house " my brothers house " disregard to the wife. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 2:57pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
OluwaJohn77:your sister is not ur in-law |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by LaJoe2: 2:59pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Because there will always be 'Some' of everything in this life. #Exceptions |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:00pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Tallesty1:why are you lying like this? Na wa o This your story is embellished, you yourself know where you added the sugar and salt to sweeten.this gist ..take.it.easy.with the lies ehn |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:04pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Tallesty1:you will not remember how married women are disrespected by their husbands family ..married men have kids single men don't have kids ..kids are expensive ..stop dishonestly trying.to make.it seem like it's women s wickedness causing married men not to settle their apprentices . 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Tallesty1(m): 3:05pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Pataricatering:You seem to know a lot about the story. I mean for you to outrightly call me a liar and state authoritatively that the story was embellished, it means you were there and knew what happened first hand so kindly give us the truth. |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:07pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
StreetFight:this your comment is proof na popcorn dey.your brain 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Sermwell(m): 3:08pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
riverbird:Your bro is a wise man 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:14pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper:why would the women just decide not to like her in-laws for no reason ?many of you just like.being dishonest- we all.know how families from.the husband's side feel.its OK to disrespect their sons wife 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Ihatebuhariwith(m): 3:14pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Iyaebe issa fake ass motherfuvkar |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:17pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
JONNYSPUTE:there is nothing natural about not liking your husbands family - the question is do the husbands family like or respect the wife ? If you respect her why would she not reciprocate ?. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Arsenate(m): 3:17pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Pataricatering:https://www.nairaland.com/5207293/story-cult-phase-included The above thread was created by a man with the sole aim of discouraging youths from getting involved with cultism and other vices. It has hundreds of pages as we speak and the main contributors are other men. It's quite saddening that whenever women are told to just do the right thing and treat others right, your likes come up with whataboutism. Almost like it's a fckking big deal to just be good to others. Just concentrate on the topic being discussed and stop trying to deflect. You can always create threads to air your grievances with men. |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:20pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
redcliff:we should add how men of the house sexually abuse housemaids too 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:26pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Tadeus:this is plain dishonest - have you asked whether her in laws treated her well.for.her.not.to like them ? A lot.of.you will.come.online.and.be acting brand new like we don't know.the way society allows.wives.to.be disrespected by husbands family 2 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by countryman13: 3:28pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper:Hmmmmmmmm U re getting it wrong ooooo. Some men are not ready to help anyone from their own side so most times, d aforementioned questions/complaints should b directed to d men. Am happily married n my wife does not stops me from sending money to any of my siblings afterall i dont operate a joint acct wt her. Some men are carried away wt too much love n sucky sucky things |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:30pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Origin:thank you .this.is what they ignore in trying.to paint.womem.as devil's As if a woman will just wake up and decide she does not like her in laws and does not want them around her 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by redcliff: 3:30pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Pataricatering: i just knew this was another femail. Lol. that is a story for another day. you can open a thread and talk about it. But this coversation is revolving around the wickedness of women in the household. |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Mariangeles(f): 3:30pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Myexdisturbs: The truth is, some in-laws can be overbearing and quite the bullies when it comes to daughters in-law/sisters in-law. Always looking for faults. Not denying the fact that some wives can also be selfish and possessive too. If only siblings respected themselves and their married siblings' space, there won't be room for see finish. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 3:31pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Mariangeles: Person wey no get him bearing again... Wife wey don leave am tey tey... His life is never the same again... But for me, I am less concerned.... I have my life to live... |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:34pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
ImaIma1:men expect women to be nice no matter the provocation . |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Timekeeper: 3:35pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Pataricatering: U sound so affected.. Are you treating your in law bad too? |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by OvertheTop(m): 3:35pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
pocohantas: LOL....You Obviously CAN NOT Stay with a MAN( Not to talk of Husband...) Its as Clear as a Bright New Day! Be open to the Idea of being alone at Retirement.....(that's most likely to be your Case) |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:36pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper:there are demons that reside in many married men , you hardly see women wailing up and own about it . 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Sam2310(m): 3:37pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
StreetFight:u think say na u dey enjoy the se* pass? u are wrong, Na them dey enjoyed No dey shame us oo because of se* |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by pocohantas(f): 3:40pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
OvertheTop: Sad you couldn’t provoke the reaction you expected. What next? You convince yourself I can’t get or be with a man. Few minutes ago, you were so sure I would be abused by my future DIL. If I give you 2 more hours, you may even destroy my womb from the internet. This is how it is with innate evil people. They keep twisting and turning in all angles to project their misery on others. May heaven heal you. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Mariangeles(f): 3:41pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Timekeeper: You're bitter towards your brother. You say you don't care but you still do. You have to forgive and make up with him. He needs you as much as you need him. 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by OvertheTop(m): 3:43pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Pataricatering: It will be Clear to You when your SON eventually get Married to his Wife. if you come Near that House. Alligator Pepper is what you will get for Bath. Then Your Eye will be Clear..... |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:45pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
tradepunter:everywhere on social media men shout up.and down.about how their wives are outsiders who met them after their parents and siblings ' made them " ..I'm.sure people like you will ignore all that and face women instead . U actually just called the woman.you would marry ' stupid woman ' already shows your disrespectful.attitude towards women so it won't be surprising that your family members would be allowed to .disrespect your wife since you most likely won't respect her yourself then be shocked that she won't want any of them around her - this is just common sense - or do you like hanging around with people who don't respect you? 3 Likes |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:50pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
SmartPolician:no be how u people dey wail on top women matter from morning till night everyday be that ? 1 Like |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Pataricatering(f): 3:53pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
Ubanz:increasing crime rate among men !!! Armed robbery, murder, rape yahoo , banditry, terrorism, ritual.killing etc -majority male crimes . |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
It was October 2017 and I had to settle well In Lagos. My uncle lives in a large rented apartment so I decided to live with him while I searched Mainland for another place. Well, after the first month, he was asking me every 2-3 days the same question, "when are you leaving?", "are you not moving again?". When it was about 2 months, he gave me a deadline to leave. My mum felt bad about this when I told her because she sponsored my uncle from primary school to Uni and he lived with us throughout. So, I got my apartment and moved a few days to his deadline. We maintained frequent communication and I never took it upon him as bad. But within 3 months, 2 of the wife siblings came to Lagos and lived with them for over 2 years. I was astonished by this development but it was no longer my issue. I knew the 'ikanra' from my uncle didn't happen without the wife but it is all good. Whenever I visit them, the wife will cook food like you're in heaven with meat, chicken, plantain, and juice and service you like 4 times within 10 hours with snacks, deserts and all.. But once it is 9pm, she will ask if you'll be staying over and if you say no, she will start begging you to stay. But I knew she meant, "e don do! e waa maa lo". I stayed over a few times tho, but I made sure to leave first thing the next day as I do not want to overuse my welcome. My Summary: Respect people's boundaries and privacy. Their likes and dislikes is not your business. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Are Some Married Women So Selfish And Wicked? by Joygift3666: 3:57pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
If you think your brother's wife is selfish wait till your sister gets married then you can go to her house and behave anyhow. 2 Likes |
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