MrBrownJay1:
what you should do is, not only be honest to yourself and NLers, but also BEING HONEST TO WHOEVER YOU MEET....so she can decide if she still wants to be with/marry you (out of desperation) or not.

there are many desperate women out there who wouldnt care that you will cheat on them so long as they can keep the charade that you guys are "happily married", and that they can hold the "Mrs" title at last.

anthonyuncle:
you really need to look for a woman that will also not be faithful in marriage

MufasaLion:
At least, you're being truthful.

Havesomesense:
I can't assure somebody's daughter that I will be faithful in marriage, so what's the point of marrying when I know I will cheat on her?

Opeyemiextra:
Why have you concluded that you won't be faithful?

Havesomesense:
I can't assure somebody's daughter that I will be faithful in marriage, so what's the point of marrying when I know I will cheat on her?

Raalsalghul:


Given the intersexual dynamics between men and women, it makes no sense for some men to be faithful.

Skyview01:


Then, why marry. Just have girlfriends or fwb or whatever.

Havesomesense:
I can't assure somebody's daughter that I will be faithful in marriage, so what's the point of marrying when I know I will cheat on her?

Raalsalghul:


Will the society allow him?

Once they see a man with change, pressure mounts from all corners.

Skyview01:



He should give the society a middle finger. His happiness comes first before any societal expectations.

Havesomesense:


If she wants to cheat, I don't want to know about any of it.

wunmi590:


Marriage is not for you, baby mama things.

Richy4:
I heard that there's something called open marriage... I have never seen it practised in real life... Maybe you should make a research about it and find a successful way to keep an open marriage...And also the first Nigerian to consider that... Its an option though...if u can discuss it with your spouse and she agrees to it..

Havesomesense:


Don't want my wife to sleep with other men, unless very codedly.

I should consider polygamy

Oh!!! Okay!!! It's now I understand... U will be the one sleeping around but she can't try it right?... Bless u buddy..U have no atom of selfishness in you..

Richy4:


Oh!!! Okay!!! It's now I understand... U will be the one sleeping around but she can't try it right?... Bless u buddy..U have no atom of selfishness in you..

Truvelisback:
No matter how u waka reach or flex with girls, u will definitely end up with one.

Havesomesense:


Don't want my wife to sleep with other men, unless very codedly.

I should consider polygamy

Havesomesense:


I will not involve emotions when cheating, sex is just the aim.
But many women get emotional after sleeping with men except for prostitutes.

What if She too can't attach emotion while cheating on you?, If she can't do without you.. her mission just to love you and worship the ground you walked on... Other sexual escapades with other men don't count... Won't you give such woman a chance? Because where I stand such woman might be a perfect match made in heaven in your own case..