sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

how do u tell the whole world you slap beat ur husband. As long as u don tell all the aprico wry dey NAIRALAND u don tell the whole world. And again maybe the slap correct ur husband's thinking

advanceDNA:


This is nairaland.. our judgement is always one sided because we sometimes base our opinion on the information we have...
And what she told us is that the man is bully and a narcissist..

Incase you don’t know..Narcissist naturally abuse people verbally. U don’t have to offend them.. it’s their way of showing they are superior to you and you are nothing..

He called himself her alpha and omega... ddnt you read that.?? He’s a confirm narcissist
.. the guy is all this pathetic human being that has little to show for his life. So his wife is the only one around to opress

On this same nairaland I have seen cases of men coming with stories of the hell their wives are raising at home and what do you hear? People will be saying they can't comment without hearing the other side of the story. SMH.

One thing I love about silent treatment. It's a tool that leaves your opponent guessing and scared of your move

advanceDNA:



He’s just feeling less than a man after you hit him...he can’t tell anybody becos of shame...he ddnt see the slap coming.....he knows he has been pushing you naaa..

Initiate a one on one with him... cook his best food and apologize to him that it won’t happen again.

Express your feelings that he has been abusing u emotionally... and your are not happy...

Best advice. Nothing more to say. Toxic Words kill slowly...from within. It would be years before you realize their negative effect on your psyche.

[quote author=sthar post=108342634]My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me.[b] How do I tell the world I slapped my husband? [/q[/b]uote]

You have just told us on Nairaland. Kudos!

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

Hmm, anyways I wish you guys a happy married life


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ADAMUdaCOWBOY:

On this same nairaland I have seen cases of men coming with stories of the hell their wives are raising at home and what do you hear? People will be saying they can't comment without hearing the other side of the story. SMH.

Of course.. some people say so.. but most people still comment based on the info the story teller gives...

Op google is your friend, ask google


Abeg if by the end of this week he still doesn’t want sex abeg I dey available o and you go enjoy am well well

Road2yesterday:


Madam chill, sometimes slaps reset brain na

Get yourself a cold 5alive drink and zip while you await him tonight.

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Lol!

Accept whatever punishment he gives to you even if he strangles you in your sleep!

HarunaWest:

Better go kneel down and apologize to that man. Since he doesn't hit you, you didnt have to hit him. Na mouth he dey use yab you, you sef go use mouth yab am back until e turn stalemate. You said he likes having sex with you, that means he doesn't hate you. All what he says is just probably the way he was brought up to see women. It lies on you to correct his notion and not to slap him.

Don't you think that that slap might have reset his brain, probably he was under a spell and have comes to his senses now.

That's more like silence of the grave yard. It's not good one bit...get someone, preferably a family member, to intercede before it's too late.

The man has moved on except you have slapped out remaining love he has for you. He can never love you the same again.

Tallesty1:
This story no add up.

It's either the woman is lying or she's not a good story teller.

She started by telling us what a horrible man the husband is. I was already having doubts, wondering if she was actually telling the truth or if she was trying to make herself the victim.

Seems the later was the case because she kinda shot herself on the leg when she said that her husband always reports to her parents. He tells them everything she do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting.

What are these things she do wrong? She didn't say.

I could be wrong though but I think the OP has been abusing this man emotionally for a while now.

She got physical finally and slapped him which to her was too far. She realized it later I guess. She was hoping he would call a meeting as usual and she would be blamed as usual and everybody will go back to their house but he didn't and that scares her.

She's scared because there's something ominous behind the silence.

You are full of wisdom. You are the only one that truly analyze the whole situation as I believe it truly is.

I notice you just registered on Nairaland today. So this story may just be a figment of your imagination. But if it did happen, listen:

Men who constantly demean women verbally or otherwise are some of the most dangerous people on earth as they lack self awareness and the maturity to self control. I can promise you that your husband is planning your death right now. But he is planning it in such a way that it will not be traced back to him eventually, something that will be easy for him to accomplish in that shithole you guys call a country.
Leave that house right away. Go to your family and get them to invite him for a meeting. If he comes, you must have an open, honest understanding of what he wants to do. If he no longer wants to be married and he wants the children( which is probably the case here), you must arrive at an accommodation with him. Your family must also stress to him that if anything happens to you, he will be held responsible and an autopsy will be carried out, even if you die in your sleep or a stranger hacks you to death on the street.
Leave that house and don't go back until everything is sorted out by your family, if at all.
I also hope you will learn the right lessons from this. No woman should condone verbal abuse. It is a prelude to physical abuse. When you identify it in a man, you should cease any form of relationship with him. Else, someday the woman will react and open herself up to significant danger, just as you have done. Abusers don't take kindly to being challenged by the abused.

I wish you the very best.

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

Imagine marrying a man I can't insult
God forbid!!
Me that my mouth is very sharp

Princewell2012:


Don't you think that that slap might have reset his brain, probably he was under a spell and have comes to his senses now.

Assuming I had a spouse that slapped me, I wouldn't react at all.. But the consequences go brutal wella.. I would act like OP's spouse.
She no suppose slap am no marrer what.

Marriage na big-time scam.

You said he stop sleeping with you, he used to report you to your parent. You slàpped him. hmm psychologiçally you are a hot temper woman. Secondly your husband is not happy with you .He is thinking of what to do.He doesn't see you as the wife agàin.Get elders very fast and accept the blame .do not argue becauase you will know how to defend yourself. Start begging him in the middle of the night naked till he bring u up from your knees

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

While asleep, gently bring out his dick and start sucking it, if he allows you to continue, if you don't gerrit, then forget about it

thissssss

NovesaTillie:
. Leave that environment before your family discovers your dead body.

Nigra:

abegi if you are scared,rent your own place and move out with your kids..that's why it's necessary to have money as a woman incase of incasity..

Leemaoo did you say move out with her kids
Brother reality is far from you or you're far from it either way there's no way on God's green earth he will let that woman go anywhere with their children except through divorce which is totally ridiculous because she will abso-fvcking-lutely lose custody to the husband given her violent tendencies.
This your advice na the worst one

Nemesis0147:
Women..
Can you swear that you haven’t been abusing him too?
You just penned down everything here to justify whatever reason you have in mind for slapping him

UYou re very correct here. Does it mean she always keep quiet every time here husband is talking, I don't think so. She never tell us she used to keep quit or insult him back.

Hmm this story is not adding up.

I guess the thought of what he would do you is witch hunting you.................




In Asari Dokubo's voice




.run oooooooo'''''

Seriously how can man emotional and verbal abuse you, and still go report you to ur family?? Can someone abuse and still report you to ur family? A man report you means he wants you to change for positive,,, he wants a peaceful home and now you have add slap into the mess,,,,, let me tell u,,,, any man that can report you to your families or parents will never plan anything evill to you. The slap just reminds him that he can never change you, that's why u see him playing with the children and even giving you house money.... The man really love you sister,, please sister change for good... Believe me the only harm he can do you is,,, having affairs outside,, although the affairs might not be from his heart but you break his heart and don't be surprised that he might not trust or love you as before.. Seriously that man is a good man... U tell the good of him and bravely paint him bad.... That's what you want to do... Please apologize and change

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

I can bet with you, you are no more in that house, this issue has got out of hand to the extent it's got to family meeting is your character that can confused him but is not in that house and is not what can happen urgently Suuru lafi lo Ile aye

You better raype him.... ♥♥♥

HarunaWest:

Assuming I had a spouse that slapped me, I wouldn't react at all.. But the consequences go brutal wella.. I would act like OP's spouse.
She no suppose slap am no marrer what.

I sujest he involve her parents over these, in case of tommorrow , since we don't know the mind of this man. In fact her close friend should know about it, I know what am saying. That man in question appear to be a dangerous human being, I don't want to read any bad news in this season.

are you sure you are telling us the whole truth though ?
Because women generally can use their mouth to fight but you didn't mention anything of such in your write up.

So, even if he did wrong for abusing you emotionally, you shouldn't have hit him.

I think the thought of that had always been in your head but that was the set day and time it materialized.

It is really bad though.

Now that we don't even know what he's thinking in his heart towards you.

It is a two way thing though; good or bad.

The good is, probably you have successfully reset him to his default setting, I mean the factory setting with the slap
while the bad part is that, he might be thinking how to hurt you really bad.

whichever way, Please wear your sexy outfit (you know what he likes on you) and beg him to forgive you.

I come in peace oo
Igi ewedu koni wo pa wa ooo

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

AfroKnight:
Look at all the dishonest nonsense women have been writing on this thread.

Imagine if a man had written that he slapped his wife…

You’d better report yourself to your parents so they can call him and try to settle this.

This is domestic violence against your husband.

Kikikikikikiki Baba is angry

C'mon bring yah cheek here , lemme kiss it with slap

You think you slapped your husband? YOU'VE JUST KILLED THAT MAN. HE'S DEAD! A husband is gone and all that's left is a good neighbour/ a good father.
You said hurtful things to him expecting him to hit you, rather he replied you hurtfully too.
According to you, "You did many wrong things", he chose peaceful resolution with you via your family.
Now you slap him. That man will never hit back. Kuku start learning how to live with a dead husband. Na you go run. You'll need to do so much to bring him back to life.
However it turns out, things will never be the same again.

Hehehehehe
Second wife loading
You slapped your husband
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Second wife be like
Thank God ooooooo
Devil has done her for me