Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,199,863 members, 7,972,995 topics. Date: Saturday, 12 October 2024 at 03:49 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / I Hit My Husband By Mistake (81914 Views)
Out Of Rage, I Hit My Mum Yesterday! / I Hit My Wife / Wife Drags Cheating Husband By His Joystick After Catching Him In South Africa (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by awoluyi(m): 6:38am On Dec 10, 2021 |
I think the kind slap you gave your husband was not only professional but very deadly that he couldn't wait to receive a second dose of it. Please move to your parents' house for a while as this man may be sourcing for conc sulfuric acid he will pour on you while you are sleeping. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by oboteee: 6:44am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Hmmm,you get mind slap your husband He no respond,just dey your lane,he must surely revenge! |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:45am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Tallesty1: If we want to be pragmatic, she's crossed the line, left a scar that may never heal. I have had a near-same scenario with young fellow friends, till date the guy seems not to have recovered from it, and it marriage is badly messed up |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by cletz991(m): 6:47am On Dec 10, 2021 |
With a littlespice of Agbor lightening Richy4: |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:48am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Palema007: Those advising that she shouldn't involve elders are either kids or fools... it will take a deliverance and sustained counseling for this man to heal 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by eskimoeze: 6:50am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Stick to this words from this elder. advanceDNA: |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by wagzy37: 6:52am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Nansense! No man will verbally or physically abuse a woman who keeps quiet and is submissive and know HOW to read the room and approach her husband even when she feels hurt. What happens usually is, the husband talk one, wife don talk 1,000. Men are naturally competitive and any threat to a man is to be met with physical reaction. Threats to women are met with manipulation because they aren’t built to react physically. It’s just biology. You slapped ya husband? I’m sure your verbal abuses were overridden by his and he was winning in the verbal abuse. You never said the toxic things you also said to him. Aunty, don’t just apologize. Promise him that you’ll NEVER do it again and ASK him what you can do to MAKE IT UP to him. Apologies are mere talk. Actions show your true intentions. Shalom |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:52am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Akerele44: Don't state the obvious so explicitly na! |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:53am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Oblongata: and someone else who will not slap.him can't do this? |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Richy4(m): 6:56am On Dec 10, 2021 |
cletz991: |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by seunfly: 6:57am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Tallesty1: U are one in millions of average Nigerians. Many Nigerians don't know how to decifer the truth out of oneside of the story, the first to report a case and paint a scenario is who they support and vilify the other party without consideration that majority of people will paint themselves as Saint while the party they are reporting will always be evil. No wonder Nigerian police also act this way because they are selected from the pool of people who reasons this way. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by mapet: 6:58am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Fesline: When you watch too much Telemundo.... who tells you favorite meal and sex is a recipe for bruised self-esteem of a man? |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by marcopollo(m): 7:04am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Question is, did you guys do courtship before marriage? If no, then you guys have yourselves to blame? If yes, were you guys like this before marriage? If yes, then why go ahead to marry? All these ugly situations you guys are now facing would be needless. That's why I like advising singles before marriage cuz it's better to take the right step from the start instead of trying to patch a bad marriage. Any advice given to a bad marriage is just a patchwork. Tyre go still leak. No advice would stop him from verbally abusing you unless he decided to change on his own and you'd keep feeling bad and frustrated in the marriage. *As a digression, I wish the dowry system in most African societies would be abolished cuz the culture perceived women as the man's property. Whether you ever thought of it that way before or not, that's just what it is. It takes a good man to treat his wife right with the dowry system. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by 123papas(m): 7:15am On Dec 10, 2021 |
He has achieved his aim of looking for a reason to attend to his side chicks. Get yourself back in shape after two kids so that you can compete favorably. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by noah24(m): 7:27am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Replacement loading... |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by DonXavi(m): 7:32am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:The slap just reset his brain... That was what was needed to bring the needed change in your marriage. He'll never talk to you like he used to again. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Streetpriest1: 7:33am On Dec 10, 2021 |
So for ur mind u have reset his brain? |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by orumba(m): 7:33am On Dec 10, 2021 |
He was still in shock that you can slapped him, woman wey slapped him husband today fit shook am knife tomorrow |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by TwistDThinking(m): 7:43am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Gurl U don did now yah know My advice is dirty dance for him this night wearing ur best lingerie. And while ur at the act of doings yeh Ask him what his plans are after all that happened don't be scared ma'am ask and I swear the answers shall cometh forth like a rush river. Trust me he ain't gonna have choice but to reveal his plan. But good or bad whatever the answer is u best take it like a champ life's 2 short 2 be living in the shadow of fear. Make sure he knows ur ready to settle all madness there n there |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Testimony1988(m): 7:46am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Apologize to him. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Zeel007: 7:47am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:tell your family and friends about what you did to him, and how he's acting unbothered. Ensure you apologize and still make sure your family calls him for a meeting. even if he's planning to hurt you eventually he won't be able to do so. Cos he will be aware that they will trace it to him cos the family is already aware of what happens between the two of you 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by femi4: 7:57am On Dec 10, 2021 |
sthar:Both of you need to see a counselor asap....This is not marriage abeg, very soon one of you will kill the other if continue like this |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jacoik(m): 7:58am On Dec 10, 2021 |
NovesaTillie:you said it well my dear sister. I hate it when a man will downgrade a woman. This is my 29 years of marriage but I have never for once use a bad word on my wife talk more of letting her down. I always say it that if a man want to show his masculine power, he should show that to his fellow man and not woman. |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jacoik(m): 8:03am On Dec 10, 2021 |
daddytime:lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear u dey mad ooooo. See as u finish my life here with Ur comments. Guy, u said now she has got new husband? That means the slap no be ordinary. Cheiiiiiiii!!! Character full this forum walahi |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by luvyaself95(m): 8:04am On Dec 10, 2021 |
If am your husband and i never for once raise my hands on you and you slap me, madam you will not see my happy with you again until you do the needful |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jacoik(m): 8:06am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Hathor5:may God and our ancestors bless you for this truth 1 Like |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by jacoik(m): 8:08am On Dec 10, 2021 |
austine4real:lolxxxxx hahahaha I swear u don mad finish ooooooo. Cheiiiiiiii!!!! Una no go kill person here. No it sound gbooooo |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Sikechukwu81(m): 8:10am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Now that you have beaten him to mute �, just continue to be yourself and anytime he tries to call you names again, just remind him o of how you’ll slap � him again if he persists. sthar: |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Kemetals: 8:10am On Dec 10, 2021 |
I feel the pains you are passing through your marriage. Most of the family are in the same shoe like you but hardly speaks out. Marriage is not meant to be a bondage. Men should learn to appreciate their wife because its not easy for a woman to forsake her parent and siblings and live her entire life with a man. Women are so precious and we have to love them. Most of men are trying too. Many have forsake there rights and their comfort to see that there family are taking care of. I do respect such men. Please my dear, you have to ask your husband to forgive you. Control your anger. Meet him when he is in a good mood and discuss with him. tell him you are not happy the way he is talking down on you. Also you have to work on your weakness. Thanks for sharing 2 Likes |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Davidsimonnie: 8:11am On Dec 10, 2021 |
Kindly go back acknowledge your wrong and ask him to forgive you |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Sikechukwu81(m): 8:12am On Dec 10, 2021 |
luvyaself95:the needful is what pls |
Re: I Hit My Husband By Mistake by Sivou1(m): 8:13am On Dec 10, 2021 |
I think the best is to apologise to him, let him know it was a mistake that will nit repeat itself. Meanwhile, confide in your parents for your safety, if you slap a man and he is acting as if nothing happened, he might be scheming something. Please learn to control your anger next time, you can just step out instead of slapping him, domestic violence can be prevented. May God heal your marriage. |
(1) (2) (3) ... (9) (10) (11) (12) (13) (14) (15) (Reply)
My Sister's Husband Wants To Sleep With Me / Marriage And Its Challenges; My wife is pushing me to the extremes / Biskit Presses His Mom's Butt, Shares Video, Nigerians React
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 85 |