Smartb0y:


Too much work chasing after women.
Of course you approaching her already gave her the "balls" to ask for a card.

That's why it's better to let them come to you, that way you save yourself the stress of expectation.

Simply identify your tribe my man...the game would be like you swimming in an ocean of women .

I have never and will never approach a lady for friendship, it just seem too desperate and needy even if you're just doing it for fun.

emmaodet:


There are so many situations that will make you do the approaching of a lady.
Otho k the green light effect works most when you have know each other for a considerable time or if you a famous person that will be known instantly (that has sold you out/market you already) But in situations where you go for seminars, events like parties, on a transit in a bus or plane and you see a lady you like who never even noticed you, it is only normal to approach her and bear your mind out.
Whether she will agree or not is totally another topic and how you do the approach matters.
In these situations, the common saying - First impression last longer works here. Because she doesn’t know you nor are you a celebrity or a famous person, a 10 seconds up-to-down evaluation would be quickly done on you. Your dressing, how you speak fluently, confidence, abundance mentality, physique (for those gyming regularly) will all go into assessment.

ProphetJeroboam:
My nigga! Thought you were unfollowing If you stay here longer than tonight, this page is going to make you resent that angelic girlfriend of yours that pays your bills and gives you good pussy.

Negroid001:
Haha funny. Continue wallowing in your bitterness. Jobless mada******.
You wey go still spend money for woman last last. Dey fool yourself. If you quote me another one again, I'll dish you your size.

Skepticus:


For the bolded, the lady is an experienced cheat. She gaslights her SIMP to take his suspicion off her. I bet you, when she gets back home to meet her SIMP, she will start some drama, accusing her SIMP of camping some woman, while she was away, for good distraction. The SIMP would likely start begging her and apologizing for a crime he didn't even commit. To appease her for a crime he likely didn't commit, he gives her some of his resources (like money etc) and to reward him, she gives him a coochie that has been brutally used by you for less money or even free. Smart game.

ProphetJeroboam:
Guys like this exist. If they ask you why you share TRP

Emotionss:
So I recently handled a contract recently (supplying 10s of thousand of granite to a multinational company) The contract was stressful but very profitable

I was paid my balance last weekend, went to the bank on Monday, withdrew some money, packaged them in envelopes, Went to work on Tuesdays, during break period, gave Each MAN at my work place an envelope with cash inside Except Two guys that are known Snitchs And SIMPs.(always sidingng with them female staffs)
The most memorable and painful thing I witnessed was the way the two Elderly security Men reacted to this gift. One of them was literally laughing and crying at the same time. When asked what was the problem, He replied that this is the first time in his life he has been appreciated for being a MAN. The man in question is around 50-60 years of age. That statement brought out some kind of Emotions that only Men can/will understand.Took that opportunity and introduced them to the Redpill....


Thursday morning got a call from MD( My Redpill/Casanova uncle) to inquire about what happened at the site on Tuesday because apparently, he received a mail by the accountant on behalf of the women at Site who are not happy with me for excluding them (women) in my Father's Day Giveaway and as if that is not enough, I went and convince some of the male workers to join a female hating Cult group (Redpill)... So they (female staffs) are demanding I be punish for my misogynistic attitude.

After explaining what happened, Big Bros hissed and ended the call. Don't know what he told the accountant, saw her crying and being consoled by some female staffs....

Friday morning, manager (great guy) told me the accountant is threatening to resign by month/year end if no disciplinary action is taking against me. He relayed the massage to MD, MD has given a directive we start looking for Her replacement immediately...

Madam tried to play the victim manipulating card, unfortunately, it backfired on her......

Come Monday next week, I am going to buy launch for all the male staffs at my work place. I will speak to those women in the language they will understand...



Guys do yourself this favour. Have FRAME.

SmartbOy:

Right from my teens. I've always found approaching girls for friendship repugnant.
So I just let them come around, it suits me best I guess.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 346, REDPILL 2021

It is the uncertainty that orbits a man's commitment that facilitates women's attraction towards him. If his commitment is not guaranteed she tries to bring that uncertainty to a halt by chasing it till she gets it. And once that commitment becomes available, she sees no need to look more attractive.

Authority: be smart.

Emotionss:
I personally don't believe in chasing women.

Because women know who they want and will do anything possible to get your attention if they fancy you..

I find it somewhat pathetic when I see Men Simping just to get the attention of a woman.

One tactics that I have successfully used over the years to get beautiful and independent women, is the silent and mysterious tactics. My success rate so far is 80/100

99% of the time, I let my physics and Aura do most of the talking for me. Things like Eye contact, little smile here and there, body posture and movement will get you more women than physically approaching them.

Being quite and mysterious gives you more opportunities to notice and take advantage of the little details of other people, which in turn, gives you advantage over them...



Please understand the difference between being mysterious and being creepy.

Don't go and be doing creepy things all in the name of being mysterious.

BLOODYSPERM:
Female beauty use to get the best of us, even the most strategic and cunning mind among us, even those with bad experience with women which are extremely valuable, it tends to charm us and disarm us sometimes, it can even occur when you did not expect it,can our redpill frame be strong enough to resist it, knowing is not enough can you put what you know into practice

heartofcity12:


Good take!
Funny enough women do approach these days, you don’t even have to be famous before they approach you or show green light, it’s why the redpill encourages men to use their time and resources to look after themselves by dressing well, eating good food, focus on the grind (job/career/business) and hitting the gym, good look goes far as well(focus on yourself). I personally have been approached and even wooed by many girls even since before I discovered the redpill, the redpill amplifies that tho.. I hope guys can also put in the work and put more energy in taking care of their looks and bodies, and see the magic behind this, girls sometimes approach guys they fancy and I’m talking from experience, and it’s not by age, it could come from a teenager or a full grown woman, the shy one could send her friend to tell you but green light is more common than being cold approached by a woman. Although in most cases, we don’t often fancy the ones that want us and the ones we want don’t often fancy us, this is part of the reasons why a man has to keep grinding to attract those he wants. As a redpiller, If you don’t get approached by ladies, at least pay attention to the green lights.

Dizzyyish:

Bro, what are your tips and tricks to never lose guard against "beauty"?

“It is amazing how complete is the delusion that beauty is goodness. A handsome woman talks nonsense, you listen and hear not nonsense but cleverness. She says and does horrid things, and you see only charm."
- Leo Tolstoy

Smartb0y:

Yeah, I mostly just admire the ones I encounter really.
Unless we got something in common eg we find ourselves in a common ground, I don't engage.
That's just my kinda person bro.
I can't be an extrovert in 5 secs just because I find a pussy attractive
But I get what you mean

Emotionss:
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We Men need to start taking care of ourselves by ourselves and for ourselves.

I still don't understand how a man can easily spend on his girlfriend/wife but find it hard to reciprocate such gestures on himself...

Dear men. We are not meant to only survive life. We're also meant to live and enjoy life.

sajmark:

The CHOSEN technique is playing it safe and unless you're a celebrity or a very high value/earning man, you get chosen way less often.
Approaching women is a great confidence booster for men and I always encourage it, Always approach women you like and at the same time look out for green lights from women that choose you... That's how I play my game.
While approaching women be less concerned about the outcome and more about getting better.
When I say getting better it's not necessarily or primarily at picking up women but by being more confident, a better communicator, a more fluent speaker etc which in the end are for your betterment.
Also vet the so called women that choose you because not all of them choose you for you, Gold diggers know how to send you the green lights especially if you have something they need/want.

Rollo Tomassi also wrote in his book, The Rational Male, that the fear of rejection is what is preventing many guys from approaching women they like.

I was once like that. I feared approaching women very much because I didnt want to be rejected. However, within the last one year and since I came across red pill, I've been summoning the courage to woo women. I've faced some heart breaking rejections. In fact, in recent time, one harsh rejection spoiled my mood for a whole day. However, I didn't allow that to deter me from wooing more ladies.

I read a red pill article about two months ago. In the article, rejection was very well addressed. The author claimed to have cold-approached and woo more than 1000 ladies.

At the end of the article, the author gave readers a challenge. He said we should go out and woo 1000 ladies without even trying to get their number. With that, you won't care if they reject you or not. If she likes you, she will be interested in talking with you again and give you her contact. If she doesn't like you, you will know within seconds of talking with her. Don't force her to like you. Just thank her for her time and move on.

Since I read the article, I have wooed between 30 and 50 ladies. In fact, just last night, I wooed 2 ladies and both rejected me. I will be going out again today to woo more ladies and add to my number close to 1000. Since I took the challenge, my fear of rejection has greatly reduced. I've wooed far many ladies in the past one year than I did in the previous 20+ years. Hopefully, I will achieve the 1000 target before the end of next year or two years time.

I once read a quote that read thus: Show me a man that is very popular with ladies and I will show you a man who has been rejected by many ladies.

Since I started wooing more ladies, I also realized some very disturbing behaviors of ladies. They are very good at lying and manipulation. Even when you catch them red-handed, they will still try to lie or manipulate you out of the situation. I didn't know how bad they are until I started wooing many of them.

It is the fear of rejection that will make a man not to approach ladies. I don't think one can have abundance mentality if you are really not exploring the women around you. You will only be limited to the few that may show interest in you. Even with that, women prefer a man that they know can go for another lady if they fuccck up. He's a challenge for them and they love such challenge.

RikudoSennin:
Been spinning plates since I arrived. One thing is certain, TRP is golden and is life! Ubunja is a legend! I have enough stories.

CaveAdullam:
DAY 346, REDPILL 2021

It is the uncertainty that orbits a man's commitment that facilitates women's attraction towards him. If his commitment is not guaranteed she tries to bring that uncertainty to a halt by chasing it till she gets it. And once that commitment becomes available, she sees no need to look more attractive.

Authority: be smart.

Winnerly:
These chicks are becoming more ruthless with sniffing out rich men. My story this evening:

So i met a lady, average looks but fair so abit attractive. I asked for her number and she said i should leave her with my card and she’d call.

I told her I don’t have one and she then asked me; where do you work? That’s when it hit me that was the reason she asked for my card in the first place so she can filter me out based on hypergamy.

Of course I didn’t tell her and she didn’t give me her number. I left that encounter with a heavy heart, not for myself but for my kind which may be unsuspecting and naive.

Sad sad

ProphetJeroboam:
Guys like this exist. If they ask you why you share TRP

Winnerly:


I agree 100%

For those who gamble, walking up to a lady is already handicap-1. In clear terms, you’re starting the match with 1 goal down already

BLOODYSPERM:





Best way is like Emotionss says exhibit you are the prize trait that should be sought and respected,ladies can sense that aura not like an everyday beta who exhumes desperation, regardless of her beauty or character, have a sense of high self worth which builds your esteem and most importantly an abundance mindset, many beautiful ladies but men like you are rare since you are mission oriented and goal driven, most men don't have sense of direction hence their uncontrollable libido, remember her SMV will decline and yours will ascend if you put the effort and no matter how hot she's there is a younger more attractive baddy that's coachable, everyday a gal is turning 18 yrs old, beauty is typically vain and a distraction, it doesn't put food on the table

Smartb0y:
This one learned the hard way
https://www.nairaland.com/6891444/why-nigeria-girls-wicked