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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by posty56: 8:16pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Emotionss:there's no excuse for man not to spend on himself, whether you gat bills or not, put yourself first, that thing/person is it more important than you,? to me he's just making excuses. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Negroid001(m): 8:17pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:God bless you! Even though i don't believe in him. You hit the nail on the head 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 8:17pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] Junnior: Yes I dey Nigeria. Port Harcourt and calabar. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Negroid001(m): 8:20pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Emotionss:People wey babe never toast for their life no fit understand wetin you dey talk. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Emotionss: 8:25pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color] CaveAdullam: Perfectly put. 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Enigma2049(m): 8:26pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Trolls are to be Ignored. They have nothing sensible to offer. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Savagethe21st(m): 9:32pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:I will be grateful if you or anyone can dive deep on emotional fantasies part 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Negroid001(m): 9:33pm On Dec 12, 2021 |
Our mummy in the lord 1 Like
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 1:21am On Dec 13, 2021 |
If a woman is aggressive, she was triggered. If a man is aggressive, he's a violent, misogynistic, piece of shit. This is the stupid logic these whiteknights, feminists and monkey ass simps want to feed us. Watch the video of the wedding in the link below. Very few people could sense that it was probably a case of an arranged marriage or that he possibly just found out that she cheated. These are reasonable explanations for his reaction (for anyone with a working brain). Virtually everyone took the side of the woman and called the guy despicable names. Read the comments. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HOmAcFYVNC8 5 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Trex4(m): 2:19am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Enigma2049: "Lemme unfollow and leave this horrible thread." Goes on to make 20 noisy posts on the "horrible" thread. In this life never underestimate human stupidity. The dangerous part is they don't even know they're stupid. 35 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by emmaodet: 3:46am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Emotionss: But how come we don't consider tight Conners and economical situation when we spend on our girlfriends and wife's ? - This is a question with a complex answer. It has many dimensions with many answers. A man can easily sponsore a woman to school, open business for his woman, sponsore her trip abroad but find it extremely hard to use that same money to upgrade himself... - In most cases, men spend on women more or less like an investment. A man working and earning will believe by sponsoring his gf to school or opening a business for her or sending her abroad first will make her a better person and YES it is. By so doing, she will be productive and be a backup financial plan incase things go rough for him in future OR a better exposed woman will raise a better exposed children which is a win-win for all parties involved. A man working may not have time for upgrading himself e.g Banking job that takes a larger percentage of your time from Monday to Saturday. So a man thinks the best bet is to sponsor his gf who will become his future wife who has more time on her hand to upgrade by going to school or if she is the business inclined one, pumping more money into her business BUT it is so unfortunate that ti a ba so ada soke ni ona igba, ibi pelebe bayi lo fin ma n mule (if you throw a cutlass up a thousand times, it will always come down flat - never will it stand upright by sticking into the soil) It is a parable that closely predicts the outcome of an event even before happening. Imagine sponsoring a woman to school but find it difficult to spend one tenth (1/10) of same money upgrading yourself. - I understand you. Men don’t know by upgrading themselves, it exposes them to more opportunities the world has in abundance. There are some variables that boost our confidence and upgrades us. Registering and going to gym, enrolling in swimming class, physical combat classes like boxing, takwendo etc, reading more books to broad influence our view, pocket friendly outings and vacations all exposes us to a new world we can never imagine. I know of friends who take ladies to hotel at 4 times a month and on average they will spend nothing less than 20k on each occasion- 7k hotel, 7-10k for the lady as a thanks for coming package and remaking on food and booze. If you look at it, that is a cool 80-100k per month. 1.2m per year. This money will go a long way if wisely spent on themselves. Even a common 250k per year is enough to register in my state golf club association where you and your family of 4 would be opportuned to use the golf course, long tennis court, swimming pool etc and mingle with the cream de la cream of the society. You meet better quality women, better Businessmen with good connections etc. I think most people just lack the awareness and exposure of what to use money for rather than chasing women up and down and banging like rabbits. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by sajmark(m): 5:52am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Trex4:The thing just tire me, Person refuse to unplug and at the same time refuse to leave the thread... Niggarr's comments are senseless most of the times, infact I see more sense in the (F) troll's comments than his. I feel so sorry for SIMPs. ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:39am On Dec 13, 2021 |
DAY 347, REDPILL 2021 Listen to your guts: if by instinct your mind troubles you that she's cheating or predating on you, please follow that instinct, make observations and logically come to a conclusion. In the matters of the heart and in romance, guts most times do not lie. There is a red flag floating, observe. Authority: be sharp! 44 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Aaron12(m): 7:39am On Dec 13, 2021 |
sajmark:I dey tell you the guy's stupidity is legendary and dna personalified. 16 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 7:53am On Dec 13, 2021 |
COOL10: Whatever he is called, he deserves it! Even if he's not considered as an adult in his single life, at least going into the marriage institution already portrays him as one. Since he's old enough to get married, therefore, it means that he should be old enough to make quality decisions that will not jeopardize his life in the long run. From the video, we can't really decipher the whole narratives, however, from the short clip, the man is at the wrong side. He knows already that this holy matrimony has its foundation on a desecrated ground but yet choose to go in. Why? We don't know! But it is better he had shunned it---the marriage union, and stand on his ground rather than start behaving like a convulsing toddler in an occasion that has the presence of people that respects and hold him in high esteem. This reaction from my Gee is a no no. Or, perhaps, it is a psychological problem. Thanks. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by softguy1: 8:02am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Someone should recommend a book on speech writing and public speaking, I really need the books. help a brother 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by G0LANHEIGHTS(m): 8:08am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Shuggaa:Somebody from my town is also a redpiller. Small world. 3 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by G0LANHEIGHTS(m): 8:10am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Emotionss:Wow. You know this places too. Small world. 1 Like |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 9:01am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Most men are controlled by a woman's appearance not by what she really is Be extra vigilant in your dealing with women 26 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 9:27am On Dec 13, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: It's funny how you go from 'we don't know the whole narratives' to you judging the guy just because he displayed his aggressive side. What's the difference between you and those thirsty ass simps on the streets who rush after a man who's quarrelling with his spouse. No one tries to hold the woman who's running her mouth like a water faucet or is even trading blows with him. Women are allowed to be as rude and aggressive as they want but when a guy finally snaps after possibly years of restraint, he gets ridiculed. He gets shamed by men like you whose only concern is what a man should and shouldn't do. Paying allegiance to a bar set by society to extort and manipulate the very builders of that same society. What does that make you? You shame his level of maturity because he threw the wine bottle on a rug covered floor and tried to tip over the cake stand. He didn't even beat the lady but you shame him anyway. What's the difference between you and other simps who are experts in shaming men for likes and online validation? Have you thought of the possibility that he probably found out on the wedding day that the girl cheated, he then told his parents who despite all evidence, adamantly said he would get married anyway? Listen to the music in the background. That indicates they're probably an Arab family. We all know how they are about arranged marriages. You talk about the sanctity of marriage and respecting his guests. Do you really think women give a horse's ass about any of that? Jesus Christ, dude. Stop being a puppet ![]() Once a woman knows you hold something in high regard, SHE WILL use that against you. Don't tell me you're one of those guys who stand moping when their wives/girlfriends are busy decorating their faces with slaps. Even with their long fingernails scratching your face and your expensive shirt looking all rumpled from the incessant dragging, you keep quiet anyway because you don't want to be seen as unmanly. You'd rather have your dignity wash away before your very own eyes. You allow your illusions of manliness keep you subservient to the female narrative. Guys like you are easy to manipulate because they know you'll never do anything to tarnish your values. You're a man (at least I think you are) and I respect your opinions on this thread. A LOT. But shaming a man just because he goes against your illusions of marriage and because he's offending who you think he shouldn't be offending is a no no for me. You should know better(as you're a man). Have a nice Monday. Peace. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Isaacmacdon(m): 10:10am On Dec 13, 2021 |
COOL10: Pretty impressive opinion.. Women are masters of deception. They'll say, "A real man will walk away". Let's the fair, it's not easy to do that under such circumstance. Like, the many years of investment, care, love, etc. Nonetheless, he didn't hit the woman. That's the point. Restraint is a hoax. We're humans with emotions and animalistic tendencies. It takes someone with grit and hard-work to just walkaway if he found out she was cheating on him same day he wanted to get married to her. Others would've beaten her to pulp, which is well deserved in my opinion. He simped; everyone has at some point in time. He's forgjven. There's enough room to accommodate a new intake into the redpill family. I hope he gets liberation. He'll find peace. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 10:28am On Dec 13, 2021 |
COOL10: On a norms, I know this post doesn't worth my reply because it reeks of emotional vituperations, ad hominems and low pragmatism. However, I will for the sake of readers and followers to know how to observe and try their best possible to determine the various ways an order/phenomenon can occur rather than, stick to a particular narrative and run amok with it without considering other underlying sheets. No man is an Island of knowledge, we know and share in parts. OK? In the post you quoted, I mentioned "we don't know the whole narratives", meaning that apart from the two claims that you're making: (a) that he caught his bride cheating and (b) forced marriage, which of course you've not proven to be true beyond reasonable doubt and in addendum to my former post, there might be other narratives which are: 1. Perhaps, the whole scenario was a prank. 2. Perhaps, it might be a movie show. 3. Perhaps, the family of the groom are against the marriage and in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink. 4. Perhaps, the family of the bride are against the marriage, so in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink. 5. Perhaps, the groom is against the marriage, hence he needed to act that way to forestall the progress of the union. 6. Perhaps, the bride is against the marriage and poisoned the drink/food of the groom so that she can prove a point. 7. Perhaps, the groom is suffering from a psychological problem. Etc. There might be other narratives we still don't know, hence, we must thread carefully before hastily coming into any conclusion. And not in only this matter but other matters as well. Are you gonna consider the above too or continue to cry me a river? Have a nice day too. Thanks. 9 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 10:29am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Isaacmacdon: Exactly my point. He didn't hit the woman. He transferred his aggression instead to objects. Take a look at the woman's face; that's a look of guilt. She knows what she did. It's one thing for simps and feminists to shame him, but it's another thing for a redpill advocate to tow that same path. You should be able to understand his pain and forget all that talk about being manly and responsible. The only way for that guy to get peace of mind would be to get a divorce but you know how Arab families (I assume cos of the background music) are. They rarely get divorced. They have very controlling parents. The guy might even end up hurting himself in the future. That's my fear. 6 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 10:55am On Dec 13, 2021 |
CaveAdullam: LMFAO. Dude, is shaming your only form of rebuttal? First you call the man a tantrum throwing child, then you go ahead to call me emotional. ![]() ![]() ![]() I also noticed that you edited your initial comment after I had already replied you. Why did you do that? But you're right though? I AM EMOTIONAL and I have zero shame about that. ZERO!!! Emotions make me human. I am emotional when I see men in pain I am emotional when I see men in agony I am emotional when I see men shaming men for being emotional I am emotional when men don't stand up for men I am emotional when men are shamed for not living up to unreasonable standards that were put in place to keep men mute and sacrificial. But then again I'm also lazy when it comes to writing (I've said this many times here) so let's leave it here cos I won't reply further. But remember, you don't need to be in someone's position to understand his pain. Women support women all day every day even when they're wrong. It won't take you or anyone for that matter anything to support your fellow man, especially when there's a reasonable possibility/explanation. Peace ![]() 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 10:58am On Dec 13, 2021 |
CaveAdullam:intuition. timely message. The gut must never be ignored. If you feel like something is wrong somewhere, act! Even if you don't have evidence. Because intuition works without evidence since it processes patterns and red flags that your conscious mind missed, but your subconscious picked up because it doesn't miss anything. The nature of the subconscious is that it relays its findings and warnings to the gut AKA the intuition, not to your logical mind. The subconscious communicates via a feeling - making you feel something is off. So you don't need facts to know your girl is cheating. That feeling is enough. We have to act on it. And also those dreams don't lie too. I'm not big on dreams and translating them,, but any dream about your girl cheating must be taken seriously because the gut connects to the brain and dreams become an extension of the intuition. Anyone interested to know more: https://www.nairaland.com/5241429/ubunjas-miseducation-gut-trust For the biblically inclined, God mentions gut-feelings in the scriptures and gave clear instructions for ancient Israel on how to handle it. God called intuition "the Spirit of jealousy". And there was a whole ceremony to investigate the woman to ascertain if the husband's gut feeling was justified or not: Numbers 5:30 “Or when the spirit of jealousy cometh upon him, and he be jealous over his wife, and shall set the woman before the LORD, and the priest shall execute upon her all this law.” We need more conversations on gut feelings. 39 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by richkal(m): 11:07am On Dec 13, 2021 |
softguy1: Public speaking for success by Dale Carnegie How to talk to anyone by Larry King 2 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 11:34am On Dec 13, 2021 |
This is an A-list actor showing so much appreciation for what most ladies get on their birthdays from dudes they haven’t met, they even get a lot more. This might be the biggest financial gift a lady ever gave him but men do this for women everyday. You could tell he’s almost moved into tears for just 100k a woman sent to him, no lady in his status will publicize 100k gift from man/friend because it’s considered too small to them.. There are ladies you would send such money to and they’ll tell you it’s too small or even insult you. Some will manage to send you card of 500 naira once in 2 years and will jot it down as “after all I did for him”. Stay redpilled #trp 25 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Qasak(m): 11:34am On Dec 13, 2021 |
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by LutanFyah: 11:36am On Dec 13, 2021 |
McOluOmo:No need for violence. When she brings back the movies,he must hold her down until she provides the money for the movies she collected or she will be arrested by the police for theft. On no account must he accept "Abeg". It's either she pays for the movies or she explains to the police how she entered somebody's shop to steal his wares. 8 Likes |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Negroid001(m): 11:43am On Dec 13, 2021 |
Trex4:I am here for ya'll. And i will oppose any bullshi that isn't redpill that anyone promotes. |
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by heartofcity12: 11:57am On Dec 13, 2021 |
These h0es are getting bolder. Coming from a cum bag saggy breasts that didn’t even hide being a full blown prostitute while in the house, girl that can almost walk out naked. After kissing and sucking off almost all the dudes on big brother for free, they’ll still be expecting simps to cover their tabs, food for simps don arrive, she has stated what she wants, their thirsty azz must have started the queue in her dm. Stay redpilled 18 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Battalion1: 12:22pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
richkall post=108456[sub:Larry king lol omo that book na nonsense.....e just be like when u dey practice wetn u watch 4 telemondu on naija babe 1 Like |
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