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Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Damilare65(m): 11:58am On Dec 13, 2021 |
NnolimNzubechi:I hope you see this o.p, I was once exactly in your shoes I lost my mum when when was 8, single dad too, he raised me and my younger brother for like 10 years before he married again, much younger wife though , see the thing is, please try to enjoy this while it lasts , lol I know it might sound weird but please yes enjoy it, it's so cold outside bro. my dad was protective too i remember him not allowing me to travel alone for my first and second jamb, only difference between my dad and yours is that mine later remarry and he was still strict, I just hope you don't learn the hard way like me, he sees you as more of a friend (trust me you are all he's got) and knows he can't keep you around for long, I started seeing changes when I enter uni, me that I was trying to get away from him I tot he hate me, he would call me and we would talk on phone till we were just hearing each other breathe ![]() long story short, he died when I clocked 20 in 2017, that freedom I wanted all those years, I finally got it and spoiler alert, it is shit, hard, harsh, people are crazy and fugazi your dad is just tryna protect you , you will understand as time goes Me that i will give all I got just to go back to when my dad was over protective , I miss him so much op enjoy your dad abeg yes I said what I said enjoy |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by seanjy4konji: 11:58am On Dec 13, 2021 |
You better enjoy it while it last as someone said.... When you eter that street your body deh hot to enter and you are not prepared ![]() You willl run back and popsy man wont even give you zero attention... Street is not for d weak.....Prepare you mind and brain.... Your dad no want make you loose guard....friends are nothing but trouble... Use your head... 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Joygift3666: 12:00pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
You should be happy he did not remarry. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:06pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
gidado14: To be able to do all that for himself, he needs freedom first. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:08pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Joygift3666: It would’ve been better if he had remarried, then his life wouldn’t revolve around his son’s. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by PAQ(m): 12:10pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Your dad is only trying to safe guard you from the ills of society, he may seem over protective & thrifty but it's all for your own good. You have enough time to mingle, play, Waka and make your own money. When that time comes you will understand what your father has impacted in you. Be patient young man you have the whole world to explore in due time. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:13pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
BABANGBALI: Fathers are not always right. If you always listen and do as they say, it might affect your progress in life. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by BABANGBALI: 12:14pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mariangeles:with Nigeria of today, that guy is too young to have what he is asking of |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by BABANGBALI: 12:15pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
PAQ:no mind am, let outside begin hungry am at 19 |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Tegaguru(m): 12:16pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
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Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:17pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
BABANGBALI: He’s not too young. He’s a young adult already. He needs to explore life, make mistakes and learn from them. And the time right. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Omini247: 12:18pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Obwai cut chain ASAP no time |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Burgerlomo: 12:19pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Maybe because you're still behaving like a kid ![]()
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Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by BABANGBALI: 12:20pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mariangeles:ok let me check google. My final answer……he is too young |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by brain54(m): 12:20pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Your posts always make double sense. Why? Like how old are you? 'cos I imagine you are like 89....with grey hair. Same time....let me just keep the rest to my chest! I like the way you think. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:23pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
brain54: Well, my grandfather did say I’m his mother reincarnated. ![]() |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by brain54(m): 12:26pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Well... welcome grand mother. I like the way you think. 1 Like |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by okoroemeka(m): 12:28pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
NnolimNzubechi:your best form to declear independence is to get admission to a university,he can no longer monitor you and the obsession will pass away,but at 19 yrs going to 20yrs I think you are already going past your prime to study,my son that is 19 yrs is already in 2nd year in the university and there are times I don't even see him for months,try and get admission and get a degree,that is a big advantage,if you want to hustle freelance ,my brother I am an igboman and knows about money,making money is the hardest task that a man can think of and it is not as easy as what you watch in the movies. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by superCleanworks(m): 12:29pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
NnolimNzubechi: PAY ATTENTION. OR SIMPLY IGNORE. You are in a rush to grow up and make mistakes that will take you backwards 19 years. In all this your big boy talk, i didn't see you mention anything about education or are you part of the SCHOOL NA SCAM gang? Have you learnt up to 5 skills? Can you even stand in front of a crowd and make a good speech that will make them see you as a sensible person or are you just another piece of trash that thinks he is now a man because of he has lived 19 years on earth? Yes, your age is the only thing you mentioned here. You have nothing else. You hate the man because you have not seen other 39 year old men that spend their whole day begging for beer and cigar in smelling joints with no plan to have a child for the next 10 years. And you might end up like this if you don't humble yourself and organize your life now you are staying in free house. If you like when your papa talk, you talk back and shout because you are a man. You better not turn yourself into a curse to that man's life at the same time curse your future with bad results. If i ask you 5 questions grown man you will fail all of them. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:31pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
BABANGBALI: You’re saying this about a young man of 19? Ok. The truth is, his father wants control his life. He’s not even letting him keep friends. I even doubt if he plans on sending him to the university. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Mariangeles(f): 12:32pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by BABANGBALI: 12:36pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Mariangeles:I’m sure the boy over put salt and pepper in the story jo, just to win our sympathy Mynd44 put mouth for this matter now |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Ernestforyou: 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
You are your dad are still young ,some of us are over 40 and still single with no child ,so nothing wrong with what your dad is doing.He is just trying to protect you |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by HelipsTech: 12:53pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
He was about your age when he gave birth to you, he da fear make you no toll that route. Sit him down and talk to him, plan on furthering your education, if all this no work, just relax wen his action reach you wella, the man in you go revolt |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by dotuntayo: 1:09pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Ask your papa the story of him and your mum then you will know he is protecting you. He is a smart man. History must not repeat itself on you. Appreciate him, he is a father indeed. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by LilMissFavvy(f): 1:17pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Shut the fucckkk up and get lostt. Did I condemn the dad? I can remember when we were growing up as children, we used to have a savings box where he had some little monies, so I understand how he feels, that's why I said he should be patient. Crenzywilliams: |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by AyelalaOo(m): 1:22pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
make it and change it. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Imustnottalk: 2:06pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
Sometimes I wish I could reverse the my age back to your age and make the right decisions for myself but nothing spoiled we dey hustle am |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by seemegold: 2:15pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
You should be grateful God gave you one of the best father. Young man you will never appreciate what you have until you lose it. Taking care of you all by himself for so many years and not even remarry, how many dad can sacrifice their time for this even some women can't do this. pls, i know you want to be free but be careful, he loves you and doesn't want to lose you. i think he transfer all the love and care he had for your mom to your. see, i really miss my dad because he's always protective and we didn't understand this till when he was no more, 15yrs now and i always wish he was alive. so listen to your father he will surely grant you your freedom one day just prove to him he can trust you. |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by Nnamaka1: 2:44pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
I went through similar experience. Though I lost my Dad instead when I was a lil boy and my mom raised me with iron hands. Today I am so glad she did. Am 50 now. I had peers pressure when I was your age, and on so many occasions I could have made mistakes that would have really derailed me from a prosperous future. Trust me bro. Please don't fight for your freedom at 19 because at 19 years old you don't really know what life is all about and you can easily make a stupid decision. Rather hold on till you successfully bag your first degree. Nigeria is really hard now you really need your brains intact to breakthrough. If you was my son , I would do the same thing your father is doing to you now and even more because I knew how many times I nearly messed up my future. So please hang on there brother. Focus more on gaining admission and study a good course and graduate on time. Then your freedom will really be enjoyable |
Re: My Dad Still Treats Me Like A Kid Despite My Age by folake4u(f): 3:57pm On Dec 13, 2021 |
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