softguy1:
Someone should recommend a book on speech writing and public speaking, I really need the books. help a brother

CaveAdullam:
Whatever he is called, he deserves it! Even if he's not considered as an adult in his single life, at least going into the marriage institution already portrays him as one. Since he's old enough to get married, therefore, it means that he should be old enough to make quality decisions that will not jeopardize his life in the long run. From the video, we can't really decipher the whole narratives, however, from the short clip, the man is at the wrong side.

He knows already that this holy matrimony has its foundation on a desecrated ground but yet choose to go in. Why? We don't know! But it is better he had shunned it---the marriage union, and stand on his ground rather than start behaving like a convulsing toddler in an occasion that has the presence of people that respects and hold him in high esteem.

This reaction from my Gee is a no no. Or, perhaps, it is a psychological problem.

Thanks.

Trex4:

Forget guys, relationships are a losing game for men. Imagine spending weeks and months to convince a girl to be yours. Doing all sorts of stuff, buying her things and trying to impress her.

When she finally agrees what do you gain? A burden that forces you to pay for her stuff, give her upkeep, try to maintain that image and frame. But what do you get in return? Just sex that both of you enjoy and some other useless crap. If you look hard enough it's just a societal matrix that pushes men to get into relationships when there's no gain at all.

This might sound weird but I really don't want to be attracted to women anymore. (Also I don't want to be Gay). Just want to be on my own. Women these days have very little to offer and I'm not saying that due to misogyny. Next year is going to be a fire year cause I've outlined a lot of stuff I need to do to improve my spiritual and physical well-being.

Although trying to stop being attracted to women will be hard due to the natural effects of hormones and some other biochemical crap but I believe it's possible. Your thoughts?

G0LANHEIGHTS:

Somebody from my town is also a redpiller. Small world.

Trex4:

Forget guys, relationships are a losing game for men. Imagine spending weeks and months to convince a girl to be yours. Doing all sorts of stuff, buying her things and trying to impress her.

When she finally agrees what do you gain? A burden that forces you to pay for her stuff, give her upkeep, try to maintain that image and frame. But what do you get in return? Just sex that both of you enjoy and some other useless crap. If you look hard enough it's just a societal matrix that pushes men to get into relationships when there's no gain at all.

This might sound weird but I really don't want to be attracted to women anymore. (Also I don't want to be Gay). Just want to be on my own. Women these days have very little to offer and I'm not saying that due to misogyny. Next year is going to be a fire year cause I've outlined a lot of stuff I need to do to improve my spiritual and physical well-being.

Although trying to stop being attracted to women will be hard due to the natural effects of hormones and some other biochemical crap but I believe it's possible. Your thoughts?

COOL10:


Whenever I find myself catching feelings, I simply go over to MGTOW teachings. Especially when that pussy was fire

It's not me they'll use sweet sex to tie

RAGGA40:
I'm telling you. I haven't had sex with a woman for 27 years now.

COOL10:



You've gotta be kidding me. Do you mind sharing your secrets to self control?

RAGGA40:
There are no secrets to that, what works for me is total removal of my mind from sexual thoughts.

Trex4:

Forget guys, relationships are a losing game for men. Imagine spending weeks and months to convince a girl to be yours. Doing all sorts of stuff, buying her things and trying to impress her.

When she finally agrees what do you gain? A burden that forces you to pay for her stuff, give her upkeep, try to maintain that image and frame. But what do you get in return? Just sex that both of you enjoy and some other useless crap. If you look hard enough it's just a societal matrix that pushes men to get into relationships when there's no gain at all.

This might sound weird but I really don't want to be attracted to women anymore. (Also I don't want to be Gay). Just want to be on my own. Women these days have very little to offer and I'm not saying that due to misogyny. Next year is going to be a fire year cause I've outlined a lot of stuff I need to do to improve my spiritual and physical well-being.

Although trying to stop being attracted to women will be hard due to the natural effects of hormones and some other biochemical crap but I believe it's possible. Your thoughts?

COOL10:



It's funny how you go from 'we don't know the whole narratives' to you judging the guy just because he displayed his aggressive side.
What's the difference between you and those thirsty ass simps on the streets who rush after a man who's quarrelling with his spouse. No one tries to hold the woman who's running her mouth like a water faucet or is even trading blows with him.

Women are allowed to be as rude and aggressive as they want but when a guy finally snaps after possibly years of restraint, he gets ridiculed. He gets shamed by men like you whose only concern is what a man should and shouldn't do. Paying allegiance to a bar set by society to extort and manipulate the very builders of that same society. What does that make you?

You shame his level of maturity because he threw the wine bottle on a rug covered floor and tried to tip over the cake stand. He didn't even beat the lady but you shame him anyway. What's the difference between you and other simps who are experts in shaming men for likes and online validation?

Have you thought of the possibility that he probably found out on the wedding day that the girl cheated, he then told his parents who despite all evidence, adamantly said he would get married anyway? Listen to the music in the background. That indicates they're probably an Arab family. We all know how they are about arranged marriages.



You talk about the sanctity of marriage and respecting his guests. Do you really think women give a horse's ass about any of that? Jesus Christ, dude. Stop being a puppet . Open your eyes man.

Once a woman knows you hold something in high regard, SHE WILL use that against you. Don't tell me you're one of those guys who stand moping when their wives/girlfriends are busy decorating their faces with slaps. Even with their long fingernails scratching your face and your expensive shirt looking all rumpled from the incessant dragging, you keep quiet anyway because you don't want to be seen as unmanly.

You'd rather have your dignity wash away before your very own eyes. You allow your illusions of manliness keep you subservient to the female narrative. Guys like you are easy to manipulate because they know you'll never do anything to tarnish your values.



You're a man (at least I think you are) and I respect your opinions on this thread. A LOT.
But shaming a man just because he goes against your illusions of marriage and because he's offending who you think he shouldn't be offending is a no no for me. You should know better(as you're a man).

Have a nice Monday. Peace.

RAGGA40:
I'm telling you. I haven't had sex with a woman for 27 years now.

COOL10:



You've gotta be kidding me. Do you mind sharing your secrets to self control?

CaveAdullam:


On a norms, I know this post doesn't worth my reply because it reeks of emotional vituperations, ad hominems and low pragmatism. However, I will for the sake of readers and followers to know how to observe and try their best possible to determine the various ways an order/phenomenon can occur rather than, stick to a particular narrative and run amok with it without considering other underlying sheets. No man is an Island of knowledge, we know and share in parts. OK?

In the post you quoted, I mentioned "we don't know the whole narratives", meaning that apart from the two claims that you're making: (a) that he caught his bride cheating and (b) forced marriage, which of course you've not proven to be true beyond reasonable doubt and in addendum to my former post, there might be other narratives which are:

1. Perhaps, the whole scenario was a prank.

2. Perhaps, it might be a movie show.

3. Perhaps, the family of the groom are against the marriage and in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink.

4. Perhaps, the family of the bride are against the marriage, so in order to prevent the progress of the union, they poisoned the groom's food/drink.

5. Perhaps, the groom is against the marriage, hence he needed to act that way to forestall the progress of the union.

6. Perhaps, the bride is against the marriage and poisoned the drink/food of the groom so that she can prove a point.

7. Perhaps, the groom is suffering from a psychological problem. Etc.

There might be other narratives we still don't know, hence, we must thread carefully before hastily coming into any conclusion. And not in only this matter but other matters as well.

Are you gonna consider the above too or continue to cry me a river?

Have a nice day too.

Thanks.

Ketapu:


Rollo Tomassi also wrote in his book, The Rational Male, that the fear of rejection is what is preventing many guys from approaching women they like.

I was once like that. I feared approaching women very much because I didnt want to be rejected. However, within the last one year and since I came across red pill, I've been summoning the courage to woo women. I've faced some heart breaking rejections. In fact, in recent time, one harsh rejection spoiled my mood for a whole day. However, I didn't allow that to deter me from wooing more ladies.

I read a red pill article about two months ago. In the article, rejection was very well addressed. The author claimed to have cold-approached and woo more than 1000 ladies.

At the end of the article, the author gave readers a challenge. He said we should go out and woo 1000 ladies without even trying to get their number. With that, you won't care if they reject you or not. If she likes you, she will be interested in talking with you again and give you her contact. If she doesn't like you, you will know within seconds of talking with her. Don't force her to like you. Just thank her for her time and move on.

Since I read the article, I have wooed between 30 and 50 ladies. In fact, just last night, I wooed 2 ladies and both rejected me. I will be going out again today to woo more ladies and add to my number close to 1000. Since I took the challenge, my fear of rejection has greatly reduced. I've wooed far many ladies in the past one year than I did in the previous 20+ years. Hopefully, I will achieve the 1000 target before the end of next year or two years time.

I once read a quote that read thus: Show me a man that is very popular with ladies and I will show you a man who has been rejected by many ladies.

Since I started wooing more ladies, I also realized some very disturbing behaviors of ladies. They are very good at lying and manipulation. Even when you catch them red-handed, they will still try to lie or manipulate you out of the situation. I didn't know how bad they are until I started wooing many of them.

It is the fear of rejection that will make a man not to approach ladies. I don't think one can have abundance mentality if you are really not exploring the women around you. You will only be limited to the few that may show interest in you. Even with that, women prefer a man that they know can go for another lady if they fuccck up. He's a challenge for them and they love such challenge.

RAGGA40:
I'm telling you. I haven't had sex with a woman for 27 years now.

Meedon:


It is very easy the way Mr. Eazi's song is easy to cram.

COOL10:

COOL10:

KennethIbe59:
Abeg share the link to that redpill article u read...

tayewomi:

My experience with three ladies so far
1).we met during my pri-schl days and i like her so we started dating since pri-schl she do come to our house then bt i just keep saying i won't touch her so dt i can enjoy her in marriage.
problem started when a g-guy start seeking for her attention,she sworn never to have anything with him and they later both Bleep themselves,i do went to her schl to greet her(poly).I will buy bread and give her money,when she's in schl she do call me that she needs airtime i will borrow money and send sharply,i so much love the girl,so we stopped talking when i relocate frm d street since 2018,i just see her mssg on fb on Thursday and we greeted each other,she sent me her pix yesterday,b-day pre shots i just jejely uploaded her on my status and wish her happy birthday,i just watched her status and see diff gifts she's uploading mayb from peeps,sm1 we haven't talk for years and u Start chatting me wen ur b-day is near,i don't know her motives bt i only have wishes to offer and so be it.So guys kip working on ur selves and leave this bitches.
2).My gf recently,she came to work in my bro place that's how we met and we started dating,i do give her things and we bonded closely,so of recent she travelled to another town,if i didn't call she won't beep me,so there's a day after a disagreement btw us,she came to my place and upon collecting her fone to check her chats she hurriedly collected the phone from me mean while when she's with me she do leave her fone days with me,So on my b-day which is june i only see fb happy birthday mssg frm her,she upload a guy later on her page calling him sweet names,she later told me there's nothing btw them,bt i find out frm her chat dt dey dating,so guys no lady is capable of loving you once u stops spending or there's no resources coming dey swerve.
3). Another poly girl,she's jovial,though she told me she can't date me bt i kip pestering her,She do visit me and we always had a nice time together,so on her birthday she requested for a gift frm me and i also asked her for a gift,on the said date i went to her school and gave her the gift,my people this girl collected without giving me any,i just overlooked it despite having promised ourselves,after that day she hardly reply my chats.they are all leeches and manipulative,the last time i sent her mssg she didn't reply mayb since Nov,so this morning i saw her good morning on WhatsApp,i instantly delete the mssg,don't make her feel needed or she's important or else you will loose ur value..
lessons i have learnt is that all girls are the same,if she didn't show you her flaws today then expect it later..av leave em bitches.

lkillbrokehoes:
Thegidredpiller becareful, you now have alot of enemies on this forum, expecially those vagina feminist, they are working with a simp mod to take down all your threads and ban you, just becareful.

Peaceyw:
Abeg, my fellow redpill brethren, after rejecting women who ask you for materials, how do you guys handle the feelings of embarrassment? For the past three to four days now, different women have approached me to get stuff for them, and I reject them. Then they ask the next guy and he delivers. How do you guys handle that feeling of shame the comes to you or you guys don't feel embarrassed? How can I become stone hearted biko?

Peaceyw:
Abeg, my fellow redpill brethren, after rejecting women who ask you for materials, how do you guys handle the feelings of embarrassment? For the past three to four days now, different women have approached me to get stuff for them, and I reject them. Then they ask the next guy and he delivers. How do you guys handle that feeling of shame the comes to you or you guys don't feel embarrassed? How can I become stone hearted biko?

AFTER DISHING OUT RESOUNDING "NO" I'LL STILL BE THE FIRST TO GREET YOU WHEN YOU WALK BY THE FOLLOWING DAY.

NOT THAT I WAS STONEHEARTED BACK THEN, BUT I ALWAYS BELIEVED THAT THE GIRLS THAT WORTH MORE THAN ME ARE HARDLY ASKING FOR THIS OR THAT, AND BECAUSE I'M THE BIGGER PERSON THE SHAME SHOULD BE THEIRS THAT THEY DIDN'T RECEIVE NO PEANUTS FROM ME. "WHY SHOULD I WORRY ABOUT A POOR GIRL'S OPINION WHEN I'M A BALLER IN MY OWN RIGHTS AND MY GUYS BELIEVE IN ME?" I REMEMBER I USED TO SING THAT TO MYSELF. I DON'T PAY FOR ANYTHING ONCE THEY ASK. NEVER. I PAID FOR PEN FOR A COURSE MATE ONE TIME AND I FELT SO USED .

WHEN MEN ASK FOR THINGS OR NEED THINGS I FEEL LET DOWN IF I DON'T ASSIST THEM. WHEN WOMEN ASK, I FEEL LET DOWN IF I GIVE IN. SO I HATE TO LET MYSELF DOWN AND I LIVE BY MY LIFELONG POLICIES.

JUST SAY NO TO THEIR REQUESTS. THE SKY WILL NOT FALL AND THE SUN KEEPS ON SHINING. BEST PART IS THAT IT SAVES YOU MONEY AND OTHER RESOURCES. MASSIVE WIN IF YOU ASK ME.

Trex4:

Your thoughts?

foreman:


Is this a joke?

You need to get laid bro. Damn too long.