Help me
I have no Friends at all not even a single person who I can talk to.
I spend my entire time on my phone either playing games, watching movies, reading novels or browsing on the Internet and when I am not doing all these I am sleeping. I spend my entire day indoors but even the times I go outside I don't have anyone to talk to or play with. Throughout my day in the polytechnic I had no single friend in school when I finished my ND I was alone taking pictures and no one even celebrated with me.
I heard my siblings today talking about how they will spend their Christmas day with people yet I can't even relate well with my siblings.
I can't keep a chat going with people online or offline because sometimes I run out of what to say.
I don't even have a girlfriend nor have I ever asked a girl out, I don't even know what to say to them.
Any advice is appreciated all I need is to stop this boring lifestyle of mine.
I see people on the street laughing and joking, sometimes insulting each other and wish I am among them. I really need a friend even if it's a bad one

Pray to God.
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You definitely don't understand

Where do you reside?

How do we help you? We can't talk for you... If this is bothering you then you have to make the changes. Nobody will approach you, and then carry the conversation, and look for you.

You have to take a chance and be ready for rejection, and then dust yourself off and try again anyway. You might have to try a number of times, and face a number of rejections before you could build your community.

You have to do the work and try. If you're shy then push yourself, face the discomfort and keep trying because you will get better at it but like most things in life you gotta practice.

Where do u live?

gift0123:
Where do you reside?

Kaiiiiii...reside?...baby.am very very lonely please......i want some!!!!!

First of all.... what are your likes
The things you like doing or that interests you should bring like minded people to you thereby making friends..,..
You don't need many friends.... you need friends that are resourceful......
Reasonable ones.....
If you are a thief... surely thieves would be your friends
If you are pastor surely you will have more pastor friends..,

Just look for people with like mind in things that you like doing..... from there your friends would come

Pumpumking:




Kaiiiiii...reside?...baby.am very very lonely please......i want some!!!!!

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caspee:
Help me
I have no Friends at all not even a single person who I can talk to.
I spend my entire time on my phone either playing games, watching movies, reading novels or browsing on the Internet and when I am not doing all these I am sleeping. I spend my entire day indoors but even the times I go outside I don't have anyone to talk to or play with. Throughout my day in the polytechnic I had no single friend in school when I finished my ND I was alone taking pictures and no one even celebrated with me.
I heard my siblings today talking about how they will spend their Christmas day with people yet I can't even relate well with my siblings.
I can't keep a chat going with people online or offline because sometimes I run out of what to say.
I don't even have a girlfriend nor have I ever asked a girl out, I don't even know what to say to them.
Any advice is appreciated all I need is to stop this boring lifestyle of mine.
I see people on the street laughing and joking, sometimes insulting each other and wish I am among them. I really need a friend even if it's a bad one

I truly understand what you are going through because am also an introvert. One horrible thing is that I sometimes cutoff from friends, even when there was no issues between us. And later I will be looking for their attention.

One thing that has been saving me is that people like me, but I find it difficult to open up myself for them. I only crack jokes, we laugh and that's all.


So, I will advise you to always go out to event places...
If you like computer or playing instruments. Go find a place to learn it. From there you can socialize with people there.
Don't look for a girlfriend rather try to make platonic friends. Just normal female friends that you can ask questions, discuss some certain topics with. You can archive this by looking for a girl that sales something you buy regularly. Always go to her shop or office, ask her about a common topic or about the hardship in the country.


You need to travel very often. When you see any amount of money in your hand that can take you to a city or a town. Enter buss, and travel to a place, just to learn about the place, ask questions about the place and visit restaurants there. Talk to strangers more.

Remember, you are the only one that can make yourself happy, so do the things that excites you.

Money attracts friends. Both fake and original.

You are a private person.Nothing to worry about.

gift0123:
Where do you reside?

citywal:
Where do u live?

Kaduna

Double0h7:
How do we help you? We can't talk for you... If this is bothering you then you have to make the changes. Nobody will approach you, and then carry the conversation, and look for you.

You have to take a chance and be ready for rejection, and then dust yourself off and try again anyway. You might have to try a number of times, and face a number of rejections before you could build your community.

You have to do the work and try. If you're shy then push yourself, face the discomfort and keep trying because you will get better at it but like most things in life you gotta practice.

I don't even know how to keep a conversation

MONEY247:
First of all.... what are your likes
The things you like doing or that interests you should bring like minded people to you thereby making friends..,..
You don't need many friends.... you need friends that are resourceful......
Reasonable ones.....
If you are a thief... surely thieves would be your friends
If you are pastor surely you will have more pastor friends..,

Just look for people with like mind in things that you like doing..... from there your friends would come

Alright thanks

NNtv:
I truly understand what you are going through because am also an introvert. One horrible thing is that I sometimes cutoff from friends, even when there was no issues between us. And later I will be looking for their attention.

One thing that has been saving me is that people like me, but I find it difficult to open up myself for them. I only crack jokes, we laugh and that's all.


So, I will advise you to always go out to event places...
If you like computer or playing instruments. Go find a place to learn it. From there you can socialize with people there.
Don't look for a girlfriend rather try to make platonic friends. Just normal female friends that you can ask questions, discuss some certain topics with. You can archive this by looking for a girl that sales something you buy regularly. Always go to her shop or office, ask her about a common topic or about the hardship in the country.


You need to travel very often. When you see any amount of money in your hand that can take you to a city or a town. Enter buss, and travel to a place, just to learn about the place, ask questions about the place and visit restaurants there. Talk to strangers more.

Remember, you are the only one that can make yourself happy, so do the things that excites you.

I will try my best to do some of these

Joysticks:
You are a private person.Nothing to worry about.

I can stay indoors all day long for a week without knowing what is going on outside
I am not comfortable with it but it seems like I can't do anything about it

caspee:


I don't even know how to keep a conversation

Before you get to know people, you need to get to know yourself. You sound young so a lot of this is natural but you don't want to get stuck.

Instead of using the internet to entertain and distract you from the world, use it to learn and study your character. Find out your personality type, find your spiritual connection, understand your values and your purpose on earth. Grow as a person and once you're comfortable in your own skin then building relationships won't be a problem.

gift0123:
Where do you reside?

are you lonely?

caspee:
Help me
I have no Friends at all not even a single person who I can talk to.
I spend my entire time on my phone either playing games, watching movies, reading novels or browsing on the Internet and when I am not doing all these I am sleeping. I spend my entire day indoors but even the times I go outside I don't have anyone to talk to or play with. Throughout my day in the polytechnic I had no single friend in school when I finished my ND I was alone taking pictures and no one even celebrated with me.
I heard my siblings today talking about how they will spend their Christmas day with people yet I can't even relate well with my siblings.
I can't keep a chat going with people online or offline because sometimes I run out of what to say.
I don't even have a girlfriend nor have I ever asked a girl out, I don't even know what to say to them.
Any advice is appreciated all I need is to stop this boring lifestyle of mine.
I see people on the street laughing and joking, sometimes insulting each other and wish I am among them. I really need a friend even if it's a bad one

Don't wish for a bad friend, please.

I really do not know the kind of novels you read, brotherly. However, I'll suggest you read how to win frend and influence people by Dale Carnegie.

On another level, you have to see other people as unique and not as items to be taken from your shelf whenever you need them.

Also, use your phone to read about current issues and you won't run out of ideas when having a conversation.
Cheers!

The problem is with you!

I'm a recluse too! No friends, no foes & no hoe's givin' me no blow_job! Just 'cause I've been isolatin' myself even before covid19!

story of my life, but I don't feel bothered because relating with people these days only brings 'abukun', especially the type of girls we have now, their mentality drains me mentally so I just stay on my own to avoid bad energy, I'm always on phone browsing and earning money and YouTubes

So from pri-poly, u could connect on a deeper level with anyone?.. male or female? Online or offline?..
Better start chatting online so can learn how to hold a discussion..very important
Start with small places like barbing saloon, pos centers, game centers, viewing centers..hang around abit after your business (5-10mins) and do small aproko. If u nor fit raise topic, ask rudimentary questions and listen to response. In this life, u must learn be a good talker or a good listener, or be both. That's how ul start building familiarity..
If u no start somewhere...u go only sink deeper. Character building na gradual process.

If u observe you like being alone without any company

Then it means u are someone that enjoys yours privacy

No need rushing for friends, everything yours will come naturally to u

caspee:
Help me
I have no Friends at all not even a single person who I can talk to.
I spend my entire time on my phone either playing games, watching movies, reading novels or browsing on the Internet and when I am not doing all these I am sleeping. I spend my entire day indoors but even the times I go outside I don't have anyone to talk to or play with. Throughout my day in the polytechnic I had no single friend in school when I finished my ND I was alone taking pictures and no one even celebrated with me.
I heard my siblings today talking about how they will spend their Christmas day with people yet I can't even relate well with my siblings.
I can't keep a chat going with people online or offline because sometimes I run out of what to say.
I don't even have a girlfriend nor have I ever asked a girl out, I don't even know what to say to them.
Any advice is appreciated all I need is to stop this boring lifestyle of mine.
I see people on the street laughing and joking, sometimes insulting each other and wish I am among them. I really need a friend even if it's a bad one

Baba believe me no mind anybody, in fact it's necessary to be a loner in order focus in life and avoid unnecessary spending, addiction.
With this your situation put the energy in chasing your dreams and ambitions instead looking for mere friendship or someone to talk to.


When you start balling you go see how meaningless this thing you dey worry about be. Na you go dey reject and command people. Overconfidence go dey worry you cos your akant dey blow your head but never lose yourself sha.

Loneliness and isolation can be a nightmare, i have been here, thus i can relate well. However, what is crucial is yov've identify and acknowledge the problem - solution is withing reach. I suggest you take it easy on yourself, worry not. Start small, set a month goal - each day dress well and head out, initiate polite and light conversations with people you are attracted to, start from there and always ensure you stay in touch with them, they are sure to reciprocate. In no time you will realise you've successfully built a sound social support network you will count on.

elonmuxk:
story of my life, but I don't feel bothered because relating with people these days only brings 'abukun', especially the type of girls we have now, their mentality drains me mentally so I just stay on my own to avoid bad energy, I'm always on phone browsing and earning money and YouTubes

baba link me with the money part na

obinna58:

Baba believe me no mind anybody, in fact it's necessary to be a loner in order focus in life and avoid unnecessary spending, addiction.
With this your situation put the energy in chasing your dreams and ambitions instead looking for mere friendship or someone to talk to.


When you start balling you go see how meaningless this thing you dey worry about be. Na you go dey reject and command people. Overconfidence go dey worry you cos your akant dey blow your head but never lose yourself sha.

Nansense!..
U think everything in this life is money?..na ur type dem go murder inside house for 1 week nobody go know. U think building relationship is for urself alone?.
No man is an island...

caspee:



Kaduna

Are you weak like physically? Do you not have the strength to go out?

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Wonk:
I'm a recluse too! No friends, no foes & no hoe's givin' me no blow_job! Just 'cause I've been isolatin' myself even before covid19!

Automolite:

Nansense!..
U think everything in this life is money?..na ur type dem go murder inside house for 1 week nobody go know. U think building relationship is for urself alone?.
No man is an island...

The aim is to be successful and if you're lucky enough to find yourself in right lane then no need forcing it to get on the wrong one.

Getting a valuable friend you must be valuable yourself, all this useless street friendship or women are almost useless.