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| How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by ayomilore: 3:14pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
House please help with tips to make Madam more alive to her duties especially as mother to the kids, seems she is too preoccupied with her job. I'm a cool guy, don't really like nagging and complaining frequently. Thanks. |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by KiNg0G: 3:16pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
if you want a full time House wife, tell her she go gladly drop her job. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kriss216: 3:19pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
KiNg0G:A feminist will never drop her job for a House wife role. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kobojunkie: 3:19pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
ayomilore:What exactly are these duties which you believe are being neglected by her?  2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by KiNg0G: 3:21pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kriss216:then your the one who fûcked up for marrying one. 4 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by ayomilore: 3:26pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I notice she does'nt show more affection for kids like i like or like most women do though she does not deny me my conjugal right. |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kobojunkie: 3:28pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
ayomilore:You would have to be more specific about what you mean still. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kriss216: 3:32pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
KiNg0G:I'm not yet married. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Olunmercy56(f): 3:33pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
It's wouldn't be easy if you met her like that, to change will be somehow hard especially those career women. Besides you both lack good communication, with romantic words and actions you can correct her with love. Wake her up in the night or go together alone to a place where you both can talk things out 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Scientists(m): 3:37pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Dic.k her in the morning, Dic.k her in the noon, dic.k her at night. Please do not lick her hole, i repeat, do not lick. Do this and thank me later Daalu. |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by WoundedLamb: 3:39pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
More alive to her duties... not sure I understand but if she's not totally neglecting her own kids, I think you should assist her. They're your kids too. Did she change after marriage? Does she give her job more time than the job actually requires? If not, what kind of solution would you consider ideal? She should quite her job and drop her dreams? I's say, have a discussion with your wife. Don't play mind games. That will be worse than nagging. Most importantly, be realistic, considerate and open minded. You're working. She's working. I believe you both should do the house keeping. If you want a full time housewife, you both should discuss it and if she's OK with it, you should be prepared to play your role as the sole earner. 6 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 3:39pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
[s] Kriss216:[/s] Why would any woman want to drop her job to be a housewife? Ashi gbakwa ihe ojoo! 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 3:45pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
ayomilore: What do you want her to do? Quit her job? |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by thorpido(m): 3:54pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
You probably met her the way she is.She loves(or pre-occupied) with her job such that she's tired by the time she gets home and has little energy for attention or pampering. She'll probably change if her job changes.If it doesn't,manage her like that.You try to give the attention kids crave to them. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kriss216: 3:56pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Mariangeles:If you ever cancel my post again, the boogeyman will blast your left leg with his old Kala. 3 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 3:57pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
[s] Kriss216:[/s] K!   1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kobojunkie: 4:01pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
thorpido:You don't even know the specifics of the problem but are already suggesting a job change might be what she needs? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kriss216: 4:04pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Mariangeles:Nwanyi agwa ojoo! 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by thorpido(m): 4:10pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:The Op already said she is 'too pre-occupied' with her job.Which other specific do you want?  1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kobojunkie: 4:18pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
thorpido:so you are suggesting that changing a job will make one less preoccupied with one's job? 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 4:22pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
ayomilore: Some fathers are very much more affectionate to their children than the mothers you know? So, fill in where you think she falls short. It might probably make her step up when she realizes the kids prefer you over her. Or she might still not care though. Some people are just not wired to be affectionate. 5 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 4:48pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Mariangeles:  Pardon me.. I just want to know your State of origin... It seems that u can write your language very well.. That is admirable maybe cause I can't write any Nigerian language with confidence..1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 4:52pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Richy4: Thank you. I’m from the southeast, but grew up in the southwest, so I know and can write both languages quite well. |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 5:01pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Mariangeles: That's great... My brain was not good enough for languages.. I tried Hausa language, it couldn't sink in the way any normal person should learn.., so I dropped anything/ everything that has to do with Nigerian language.. I so much admire people that can read and write Nigerian languages 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Sonnobax15(m): 5:01pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
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| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by thorpido(m): 5:19pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Jobs have varying demands.Most civil servants for instance have more time and are less stressed than a banker. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Kobojunkie: 5:21pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
thorpido:What is the world?  You are not even suggesting a mere job change .I.e. switching companies/employees but a possible career change/ possible downgrade for the woman? 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by thorpido(m): 5:23pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:I'm just giving an instance.The Op didn't mention what the wife does.I'm not saying she should quit her job or downgrade. 2 Likes |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 5:40pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Richy4: I think Hausa is the easiest Nigerian language and I hope to learn it in my life time. Thank you. |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 6:01pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Mariangeles:  That was precisely what I kept on hearing people say those days.. How easy Hausa language was...I managed to fly through it when it was compulsory in SS1... I guess I was smart enough to thick the correct multiple choice answer.. though I have zero knowledge of what I was doing. However, please keep it up in terms of writing your language.. It's a thing of pride.. |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Mariangeles(f): 6:22pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
Richy4: However, please keep it up in terms of writing your language.. It's a thing of pride.. I meela And that means thank you in Igbo. 1 Like |
| Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Truvelisback(m): 9:01pm On Dec 17, 2021 |
ayomilore:If she stops her job, will u be able take care of all her needs in the home? Or do u have a convinient time job for her? 3 Likes |
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