Laslas una go marry pretty witch is like head dey pain you

gunners160:

1. I don't agree with some of the things you have said.

2. Yes, there is nothing wrong in moving on after getting rejected but the truth is not in all circumstances

3. and he was not even rejected in the first place.

4. She just needed them to figure things out.

5. The lady in question was asked out for "Marriage " and not just dating within a month and you expect her to say a yes to him,Who does that? She has to take r time to understand what she is going into and the Op who is clueless about marriage took it to heart.

6. Secondly if u ask a lady out and she does not have a bf or has not broken up with one recently then the lady has a problem.she is matured for crying out loud and she has some one before she met you . So which one b say the guy bounce r? She had to choose and make r decision before saying a yes. Abegi

1. That's fine...
A contrary opinion opens one to new info...

2. Are you implying that there are circumstances were one shouldn't move on after being rejected?? Please give an instance

3. He gave a proposal, she said no to it... Is that not rejection?

4. Well...
It's a logical argument, buh she didn't make it clear ((at least not from OP's write up)), buh if that's the case, I think she should have said "lemme think about it", rather than sweep it under the carpet, atleast that way, she'll be hinting the OP that his offer is still in consideration...

5. Hmm...
This is truly a valid question...

6. Yes, you're right...
From OP's write up, she didn't want anything related to romance with the OP, she made a decision to stay platonic and I respect that, buh why the sudden change of heart??

You made very valid argument up there Chief...

Buh my point is, what has changed??
A few months ago, you wanted to just be friends and nothing else, and now you're all over me, why??

Come'on chief...
Think about it...
Is that not sending out suspicious signals that one should consider??

Relax, na first stage na so e dey be, all loving and caring, e dey always happen.

Wait small no rush.

nairaland is becoming unproductive....silly men coming to pour emotions here .....bro go and make money ...... ALL THIS F#₹k boys all over the place

She is playing football with your emotions bro

She's on Nairaland. She saw the post.

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

Christmas spending loading...
Avoid her until 15th January.
If she's still all over you, then press Ctrl Shift +

Unfortunately he won't take your advice. I look forward to another thread from op about the same girl soon

Dem no dey hear word

Sonnobax15:

Mennnnnnnn, steer clear from her,if not for anything,but for the sake of your sanity

Bro ladies don't want a man that other ladies don't want, you need to forget about her for now, focus on bringing more ladies on board don't ever propose to her again make her propose this time, whether for marriage or r/ship, if you want a lady to love you you need to make her jealous, bring a tone of ladies on board, let her even catch you fu*ckig another girl, make her cry, don't give her any chance oooo, ladies want a real player but they will never admit it, any one that tell you that ladies don't like players is a jocker. Whatever you do make sure you keep her mind racing never to predict what will be next... Take my advice and thank me later.

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

So some people are still having emotional attachment these day? Even with all the havoc buhari has wreck our economy? Una get mind o

Run from that bitch. Either she has been dumped by her boyfriend or she is targeting something from you which I guess is marriage. You are her second fiddle brother, don't allow that. She will dump your ass and go back to her boyfriend whenever he is back for her. If I were you, I won't even fucck her let alone have any relationship with her.

FatimaAbubakar:
I don't even know what to say

Nigerian version of love is useless

Everyone is looking for who to prey on.

Swears...
Our ways are just so different...

900warriorz:
She's using your emotions to turn Eba



In another words, these Engineers of doom don start to dey build again o

Someone has taken cantilever beam too serious lol . Na premium tears await o

Jeon:
GOOD MORNING

I dey find wife, will you mally me?

fvck:


I would had taken her seriously if not for the initial rejection

God created male and female with different mindset, you need to master this art as a man to be able to tackle challenges of r/ships and marriage.

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

Ladies don't want anything.
It's you that is confused.
You don't know what you really want.

Sometimes I begin to wonder if they pay to have some rubbish post get to front page... just imagine this type of news

If u ask me na who I go ask

fvck:


I would had taken her seriously if not for the initial rejection

The fact that she is all over you is because you welcomed her.
You still want her.
Yet you still don't want her.
..
Why are you confusing yourself and confusing her too?

yanabasee2:


You don't have to assume anything for her....

The point is...

Do you want her back? If NO, then tell her and move away....

If YES, then make things work....

We don't have to worry about whether she got served from her previous relationship or not... You wouldn't even know if she was single...

She asked that you two remained as friends.... Just so she would get enough eyes on you to see if you'd tick the boxes.... And being the same you means yes, you've ticked her boxes... Now is her time to want you...

Kikikikikiki...

Chief you said I shouldn't assume, but here you are, assuming @ the bolded...
How're you sure that, that is her reason for declining OP's offer?? Are you her? Is she you? Did she tell you this? Abi it's the same "assumption" you so vehemently kicked against ...

The fact is simple...
OP proposed..
She said no...
OP moved on...
And now she's back...

Is it not logical to want to know what made her change her mind in the past couple of months?

W

See that is nt the only way to judge a woman.marriage is gud but the bed UNDIFILED.30k needed sha.#buhari must go

Their head dey shake, you no know?

Lol

yemi1504:


Someone has taken cantilever beam too serious lol . Na premium tears await o

As in ehn, my brother

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

From being 1. clingy, to becoming 2. possessive, then the 3. emotional blackmail stage sets in... Trust me when I say you are in only stage 1 of 3.

You have assumed a wrong diagnosis of your situation.
You can say that when it at least reaches the early substage of Stage 3

You never see anything.

fvck:
GM Jeon

HAPPY WEEKEND

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

Them don serve her breakfast and she wants dinner with you...

Ebubechuwku:
Wetin they make you wan rush enter marriage , go clear for your eye when you enter am...

help me tell him the picture below. It's my status now, tell him Reno sends he's greetings.