yanabasee2:
What do you want, op?....



You rushed to ask her out and she wasn't interested and sat back to cross examine herself and probably put an end to the other guy who wasn't serious with her ...


Now she came back and you're confused

you must be a vagina person. That's how they reason.

Fvck, do you go around asking all ladies for marriage?

How come you got an exclusive lady within months she declined you, I feel you're rushing things and want a pus*y to be living with you so you can have access to it anytime.

You aren't ready for marriage, you just want to access to that honey pot anytime you like, go get yourself a frnd with benefit, marriage will drain you.

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

Blessed with more pretty ladies indeed. It's clear you don't really know what you want in a lady, you are easily moved by the now situation. Think of the future before you make any decision

Women are funny animals. A girl might not actually like you and would decline your proposal, but the moment she feels like another girl is about to upstage her, she will switch gears and start acting all lovey-dovey.
It’s crazy!!

They don't know what the want. You will be surprised sue tries misbehaving again tomorrow.

She is playing football with your emotions bro

Jeon:
GOOD MORNING

You are Eminem fan(music lover)?

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

You guys should define your relationship and stop acting like kids

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

My advice, give her some space, let her know you are giving her that space cause just like you, you want her to be sure of her feelings before accepting to continue....

People often despice what de av n want what they dont have esp in a case of human-human relationship whr de use to have/easily have the person but he/she suddenly or intentionally loses interest in em, our curious mind wants to know what changed thereby bringing abt a scenario like urs. U did well limiting ur availability after she gave u her initial response. However, at this point, make sure she really knows what she wants n sees those qualities in you b4 u continue(u obviously r serious n want to settle) else u could get hurt later when some of d emotions she's currently feeln dies down.

Best of luck!

Humanace:
nairaland is becoming unproductive....silly men coming to pour emotions here .....bro go and make money ...... ALL THIS F#₹k boys all over the place

I don't want to call you a brok*ass guy, because they are the ones that reason like that.

In life, as your money starts coming, one way or the other love/relationship etc will always come to your thinking until you settle it.

A popular individual once said, women are like shadows, follow her, she flies; fly away from her, she follows.

Ebubechuwku:
Wetin they make you wan rush enter marriage , go clear for your eye when you enter am...

LOL yes

yanabasee2:
What do you want, op?....



You rushed to ask her out and she wasn't interested and sat back to cross examine herself and probably put an end to the other guy who wasn't serious with her ...


Now she came back and you're confused

YOUR'E WISE! God bless u. the only reasonable comment i don see here.

I do not understand you. Is it beauty you are looking for or a good relationship? You may need to ask yourself questions on what you want. Relationship is not built on mere looks.

900warriorz:
She's using your emotions to turn Eba



In another words, these Engineers of doom don start to dey build again o

Heaven knows I'm not stepping my feet here.

Joe4real1988:
You are Eminem fan(music lover)?

who's he?

Never trust women set them free

Jeon:


who's he?

I saw his lyrics on your signature.

Joe4real1988:
I saw his lyrics on your signature.

okay.
but I don't know him.

Jeon:


okay.
but I don't know him.

U don't know the singer u have his lyrics on your sig?...........sounds funny though. He is one of my favourite

You rushed to ask her out and she wasn't interested and sat back to cross examine herself and probably put an end to the other guy who wasn't serious with her.

Joe4real1988:
U don't know the singer u have his lyrics on your sig?...........sounds funny though. He is one of my favourite

okay.

but I don't know him nor his lyrics.

Jeon:


okay.

but I don't know him nor his lyrics.

This

Joe4real1988:
This

okay

here it's
truly

I DON'T KNOW HIM
















I love slim shady because he's so funny.
his lyrics is also funny with deep meaning of life but somepple take it as FUN, diss or inappropriate message.
THEY [HIS CLANS ]ALWAYS TALK BEHIND WORDS.

Maybe she is jealous because of the other 'pretty ladies now coming close to you.
OR
She just wants something genuine which is not always the case

FatimaAbubakar:
I don't even know what to say

Nigerian version of love is useless

Everyone is looking for who to prey on.

Everybody is constantly digging gold.... This race tire me

Jeon:

okay

here it's
truly

I DON'T KNOW HIM
















I love slim shady because he's so funny.
his lyrics is also funny with deep meaning of life but somepple take it as FUN, diss or inappropriate message.
THEY [HIS CLANS ]ALWAYS TALK BEHIND WORDS.

Yeah, i do too. U have gat nice set of eyes though.

fvck:
So I came on nairaland to seek for advice, link below....

https://www.nairaland.com/6795325/too-fast-defining-relationship

And I got insulted that I wanted to marry a lady I met within a month, well its months now and guess what?

She's all over me, all loving and always wanting to spend her time with me, calls me every now and then, cos initially since she declined I gave her some yards, I didn't want to be around her so I wouldn't scare the next lady coming on board, seems I got so blessed with more pretty ladies coming around me that she no longer appeals to my eyes like before.

But now she is all over me, pls what do ladies really want?

Go and read my thread on how to choose a wife.

fvck:


I would had taken her seriously if not for the initial rejection

Runnnnnn...