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Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Danny5050: 1:17pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
You're not a man at all. She and her family are manipulating you. Infact you're a disgrace to your family. A woman has the gut to fight your mum and even raise knife on her in other words that's an attempted mother and yet you allow her to bring her own mum to your house... Oga you're not okay. Shame on you... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:19pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
God knows and every girl that comes into my life gets to understand clearly, that I will not tolerate any disrespectful remark or gesture made against my mum. I cannot even imagine a girl fight or attack my mum. I will uproot such a person out of my life instantly. Even if she has 50kids for me. And I will never forgive anybody, be it a girlfriend, wife, sibling or any relative that antagonize my mum. My mum is a red line no one is allowed to ever cross. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 1:20pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
DjBigMoni: It's post partum depression she suffers/ed from...it can be so frustrating most especially when ppl around you expect so much but you can't help it. Op please forgive her cus to pass through that phase no be moi moi. You guys are still getting to know eachother in the marriage and so you have to let go. But what was the cause of the quarrels with your mum? |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by franchasng: 1:20pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice:Most of you lack sense. You are a Nigerian and you are not a whiteman. Nigerian cultures are older than you. One of my brothers married into a very rich family. When I say rich, I mean one of the family's that currently have the Governor of one of Nigeria's states. Yet the woman went for Omugwo talkless of your mom an ordinary underpaid Nigerian lecturer that I can comfortably put on payroll. You foolish boys with no identity love mocking your culture in the name of your foolish civilisation that you arent even among the top. Are you or your family richer than Obi Cubana, Arthur Eze, etc that respect their cultures? Who is your family in Nigeria? Who know your family name? How does Omugwo equate to poverty? When my wife gave birth, nobody came for Omugwo cos her mom is late and my mom wasn't feeling so well then. Even though we had domestic workers, we still missed the fact that no grandma came for Omugwo. So carry your useless poverty striken city wannabe mentality and gerraat ![]() I so much hate people that despise their identity 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Nobody: 1:25pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
NOETHNICITY: Take am easy ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 1:28pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Gireiboy:I believe forgiveness should be a choice when it comes to some certain issues....but nevertheless for your sanity sake you ought to. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by BigYash: 1:30pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
viyon02:I swear.. She should do the omugo her sef. She think say she wise.. Pull a knife on my mama,you come go carry ur mama come my hux ![]() She go run comot in two days.. Only my face go scare her run ![]() |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by emonis88: 1:30pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice:Y do u think more women abroad suffer postpartum depression? But u il not understand till it happens to someone u know, then u il respect ur African traditions. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Truvelisback(m): 1:31pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Verysmart101:Anger must have led to that. If he handle their misunderstanding maturedly, it wouldn't have resulted to all these. He was one sided in handling the issue. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 1:31pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
TheKingsmann1:Congratulations married man. Am so happy you got married early, keep enjoying your marriage BUT watch your tongue. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Reality3080: 1:31pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Mariangeles:don't indulge people with this postpartum depression thing This means someone can stab u n hide under postpartum depression...she goofed,let her accept n move on |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by UncleKoboko: 1:32pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Justkatty:If na your mama your brother wife wan attack with knife, will you just say that your brother should just forgive his wife and things should go back to normal? That's an attempted murder by a ride and useless woman with bad home training on a woman who came to help out. Sorry is very USELESS here. Always thinking before you talk and shy from being a hypocrite. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by AntiWailer: 1:33pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
When you see a silly wife fighting her mother in law, there is an extremely f00lish husband in the equation. Retrace ur steps. My wife can not reply any member of my family in a derogatory manner. Nobody , I Mean no living person in my family can use a derogatory word to address my wife. The lines are clearly drawn and dem no born any of the parties to cross it. Not to talk of physical fight with Knife involved. You need to draw a red line. Mine knows the day she draws out knife at me or destroy my property, it is automatically over. She will stab u soon out of anger. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by NOETHNICITY(m): 1:36pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Ninisun:Well my mum is a perfect person. Since I grew up and became an adult I ve never seen my mum quarrel with anybody much unlike most women in the neighborhood where I grew up. Even if my mum wasn't perfect, I expect anyone around me (particularly my wife) to condole whatever behavior or act of indiscretion my mum may exhibit in the cause of her temporary stay with us. Any woman or anybody who hesitate to understand this is not fit be in my nucleus 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:36pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice:You took the words right out of my mouth. Mama wey suppose dey busy with her career,hubby and other areas of her life go leave am come stay with pikin for three months because of omugwo. You have said it all 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Oburu202: 1:36pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Don't mind the Op. He is probably a teen boy. You can tell he is angry his mom wanted to leave her lecturing job. Probably his mom is providing for him. He also condemn Africa and how low mentality is killing us. He will never understand what a culture is. Even in Universities in U.S the have some cultural classes offered in their curriculum. His mom could not secure a visa, so she couldn't not go and visit. Mother's love their grandkids. Op is a teen. She doesn't know how hard it's to have a new born in the house. He is not married yet. He doesn't understand why we still practice that culture. Even white people do it. Someone who has never been to Ghana is condemning our culture. Get sense! For the guy who is having issues with his family. Bro be careful. Our actions and words can never be forgotten. Mind what you say or do around your mother inlaw. Please don't defend your mom simply because she is your mom. You didn't tell us what happened. Your wife will not just pick a fight with your mom just like that. Be reasonable, stand on the truth. Your wife is passing through a lot. Emotional stress, sleepless nights, pains etc. Just leave the woman alone. Having a baby is not a joke. Depression might be kicking in. Good luck. Kobojunkie: |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 1:38pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
TheWolfen:I understand where you are driving at sincerely But I think for now the husband should be in a better position to bring peace among them... And I believe the wife should be remorseful now. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by InoGetJoy: 1:38pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice:Utter rubbish. Omugwo is simply for a mother to assist her daughter to take care of the new baby. What makes it low grade or low mentality? You have issues 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 1:38pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Olubi15:I got it |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Justkatty(f): 1:39pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
uniqueboi1:Is that the name of your sister?� |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by InoGetJoy: 1:40pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:You do realise that the husband is a man and so would not understand most of the things his wife is passing through during the course of the pregnancy and delivery. Omugwo is a period where the girl's mother or the husband's mother comes to visit and to help nurse the girl and baby back to good condition |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Myexdisturbs: 1:41pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice:Yen yen yen , like it's only your sisters that are in abroad.is it this same Europe we dey abi na somewhere outside earth wey we no fit hear word. Like someone told u ,it's not about money or gift. A colleague of mine here wished her mother could come for omugwo to help her after she put to birth. But covid restrictions dey |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by sunjai(f): 1:42pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Nonexisting:I'm not in support of what the wife did, but have you asked yourself what could have prompted that? Did she just wake up to carry knife and point at them? Do you know what they must have made her go through? Did the husbands mom helped at all or was she expected to do everything considering she gave birth newly and through csection? Was she treated with care at all. Given birth through normal delivery is painful talk more of doing it through csection. After going through the stress of taking care of the new born throughout the night, did your mum made her(your wife) go through taking care of her(your mum) and yourself during the day? |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Galaxydon1(m): 1:42pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Mariangeles:are you okay.. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by safarigirl(f): 1:44pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: You are a man who will never have to give birth or have to fully participate in the care of a baby, so, it is easy for you to balance and talk about something you clearly have little understanding of. Omugwo is one of the most important traditions in Africa, because new mums really go through a lot the first year of child birth, especially when they never had to care for a child before that Do you think it is easy to wake up in the middle of the night to care for a baby? To not have any time to yourself? To constantly have to check if they are hungry or if their diapers are full, or if it's an actual sickness? Do you know it can drive some people mad? I am very sure you have never had to stay with a baby for up to 12 hours without help, else, you would not have some of these considerations. Cc @ Vickyvice 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Joygift3666: 1:45pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
DjBigMoni:Point of correction, her mum was supposed to come for omugwu not your mum because she is still alive or are you a manipulative person? |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Kobojunkie: 1:48pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
GboyegaD:Does an omugwo guest show up to sit on the couch and supervise the man and woman as they do it all then? ![]() The point is the involvement of an optional third-party takes away from the experience that is meant to be played by husband and wife in this. ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by ifiokjohn(m): 1:51pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Pataricatering:Simple. Their wickedness |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by ifiokjohn(m): 1:52pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Pataricatering:Na their women dey spur them to do all those wicked things nna. After all Na una go tell them no be them mate dey drive Benz so why Dem no go find way drive too |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Midastorch(m): 1:55pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
Vickyvice: You are a complete idiot for disparaging the African culture......A woman that has never given birth before and knows little about an infant needs help from people close to her....E Pele oooooo, Family Dangote 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by CHoccolaTE: 1:57pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
sunjai: I don't support disrespecting elders but I have to agree, your point is valid. Some mothers in law and aunties in general no get joy. I have witnessed first hand where the in-laws that came to visit a mother who newly put to bed less than three days before, expecting the same woman to go into the kitchen and cook and serve them food. All the while they just sat down comfortably in the parlor gisting. They were waiting for a woman who was still having post partum bleeding and in pains from giving birth to entertain them. Some old people no get sense at all. |
Re: My Wife Fought My Mum by Myexdisturbs: 1:59pm On Dec 19, 2021 |
xpool:Lol,the dude not only lacks love but is poor mentally and physically |
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