cococandy:

So irritating. Ugh

Hathor5:


This one was jumping on my mentions explaining to me a few days ago that he knows what it is like to be taking care of a new born because he was living with his sister who happened to have a baby.

And then he went ahead to tell me not to act like victim because I said that my job was easier than taking care of a newborn 24/7. What has victimhood got to do with it? A young boy telling me how to feel about motherhood and the responsibilities that come with it. Can you imagine?

Now on this thread he is cheering on someone who is showing signs of a serious mental illness.

You can't make this sh*t up.

cococandy:









If you’re okay with him telling his personal stories in forms like this but have a problem when someone calls him out, you’re the worst kind there is.

Shut up and go resolve your hate for women. Hiding behind mentally ill people who speak your thoughts for you.

I don’t think any amount of money can cover the therapy that you in particular need because you get extremely agitated when someone tells people like OP what they are saying wrong.

cococandy:

Clearly the OP’s disjointed story line makes absolutely no sense to any thinking fellow.

truthsayer009:


It's his personal experience and If it doesn't make sense to you then Okay.

The questions is why are you triggered? I still don't understand. Why must every thing be about Men vs Women to you?

Anyway, this will be my last response to you on this thread.

cococandy:


You lack common sense.
His personal experience is that women are written in the Bible to be akin to the devil in nature? Tell me where his name is mentioned in the Bible if that’s his personal experience.

All his posts talking trash about women is not a gendered issue in your opinion. My response is what makes it man vs woman? Not his post that says women are the reason that men get destroyed.

Go and be slow somewhere else please.
Go find your common sense and take it work

You are really just so upset that I called you out, besides another person told you the same thing that It isn't always about Men vs Women. He was referring to some spiritual experiences he had and If you don't believe It happened or you think It is fake, then It shouldn't trigger you.

You have always asked people to prove if spirituality exist, so someone came up with his real life experience albeit not verified because those are his true life stories and not yours.

You don't believe it, Fine. So what exactly is the problem?

cococandy:

It’s rooted in misogyny. That’s why the historic witch hunts targeted women. They were labeled witches and killed for even having an opinion much less a voice. Anything to protect the patriarchy.

cococandy:
That’s his MO. Invalidate and gaslight. Every.freaking.time. Don’t you know his visit to a new mom gave him the same experience as you who birthed the baby and have to be a mom while recovering from a physically traumatic birth?

Normally, When he sees someone post something so gosh darn awful that it makes you question how safe the women around them are, he usually waltz by and has no comment or reaction. It’s A-okay. He won’t post it himself but he’ll be there to defend them in case someone says something

The moment someone calls that person out for the harmful post, then he jumps in to attempt to shame them into keeping quiet. Like sir where we you when all that other stuff was going down?

greencard:
I will try to finish the story later in the evening after work. the matter tie wrapper

truthsayer009:


He was referring to some spiritual experiences he had and If you don't believe It happened or you think It is fake, then It shouldn't trigger you.

You have always asked people to prove if spirituality exist, so someone came up with his real life experience albeit not verified because those are his true life stories and not yours.

You don't believe it, Fine. So what exactly is the problem?

greencard:
How a quiet thread turn to a gender war zone

cococandy:

It was quiet when you’re allowed to talk trash about women.

It becomes gender war when someone points out what you’re doing.

cococandy:


His spirituality or lack of it is ABSOLUTELY NOT the point of this conversation. And you know it.
If you don’t know that, then I wonder why I’ve even been wasting any energy talking to you.

What you’re not going to get away with it peddling or supporting ideologies that suggest women are inherently evil in the eyes of whatever God y’all worship and get it excuse such BS as “spiritual beliefs”.

The spirituality is exactly the point I am making, I attacked you because you made it a gender war zone.

My first comment exactly pointed that those were his personal spiritual encounters, so why would someone else be triggered about that.

You don't believe the stories were true, no problem!

Every thing I have said here is what I said before, you were reading to reply and always ready to jump the gun.

Someone practically explained to you that every thing isn't about Men vs Women. Please what does that tell you?

Lostchild:


I see that, you are a western gal.

Maybe, a western nigeria gal, there for I understand your doubt.

It is okay.

After all, it is just a story to the reader.

truthsayer009:


The spirituality is exactly the point I am making, I attacked you because you made it a gender war zone.

My first comment exactly pointed that those were his personal spiritual encounters, so why would someone else be triggered about that.

You don't believe the stories were true, no problem!

Every thing I have said here is what I said before, you were reading to reply and always ready to jump the gun.

Someone practically explained to you that every thing isn't about Men vs Women. Please what does that tell you?

cococandy:
I’m not about to help you shift the goal post.
Not you trying to characterize the posts I screenshot below as “spiritual beliefs” and trying to make me out to be the bad guy for not allowing him to express his “beliefs “. You’re a delusional master gaslighter.
Come back when you have decided not to deliberately misunderstand and misquote me.
Jumping on my post while being very loud and very wrong.

Very dangerous being

My point is that those are the things you focused on & we are telling you that It's not about Men vs Women. Whatever the OP wrote, he wrote those things out of his personal frustration and before you came nobody on the thread neither supported him in disregarding women nor paid any attention to those particular areas because we are focused on the experiences he talked about.

You came and started talking about Witch Hunting. Which means his story was false to you and It is meant to: Witch Hunt and according to you That’s why the historic witch hunts targeted women. They were labeled witches and killed for even having an opinion much less a voice. Anything to protect the patriarchy .

Those were your exact words, you disregarded the story and you FIRST made it about Gender War, Then Secondly you made it about Witch Hunting.

--- His spirituality or lack of it is ABSOLUTELY NOT the point of this conversation. And you know it.

I already gave you an answer to this, if you choose not to accept then that's your business. Enjoy the thread! Bye.

InTheCloudySky:

Yes, perhaps that's why I found your story hard to believe but I know these things can definitely happen in Nigeria.

Dreadshy:
I have watched so many movies, they portray women as witches, its only harry Porter that I saw wizards.
That is why i asked, when he is through with his story, he should let us know.

Mariangeles:


You're a very esoteric fellow. Do you know that?

When people read most, if not all your pieces, they don't know what to make of it.

Dreadshy:
I have watched so many movies, they portray women as witches, its only harry Porter that I saw wizards.
That is why i asked, when he is through with his story, he should let us know.

Lostchild:


How can you explain the painful reality of fire to someone who has never place his
hands on fire.

See it as fiction

Lostchild:


Thank you

I am glad you did enjoy my story.

Mariangeles:


Someday, when I have the patience, I am going to make you understand some things I have observed about you through your write-ups.

Ishilove:
This guy must be joking if he thinks I will spend precious moments of my life reading this lengthy crap

Beloved03:


Lol is this pretense Ishi? Are you not an MFM member?