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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Kimiso(m): 9:03pm On Dec 21, 2021

Fiscus105:

Yet I biliv you would also give advice wen they posted issues pertaining to marriage,

bobo you bad ohh

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by pansophist(m): 9:03pm On Dec 21, 2021

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by BouquiLake: 9:08pm On Dec 21, 2021

When girls are doing the proposing upandan shocked

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Okeedu(m): 9:09pm On Dec 21, 2021

Arhhh its pretty easy bro,stop putting pressure on yourself,and pls its not all girl you should toast or try to toast,in fact toasting put u on unnecessary pressure, try being friend with the girls and plenty of them,try with simple conversation like compliment and simple jokes and just flow,try add value,and make her see u as a companions, do this often and one day u won't find that part of u that would easily ask a girl out without pressure.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Solofresh2: 9:10pm On Dec 21, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

You need cool down your mind when you see a girl and stop your heart from racing

Secondly, you need to start seeing this girls the way you see your regular male friends.You just need to see it a normal thing talking to them or perhaps, be a friend to one of them. I mean the tolerant ones.Then, from there,it will boost your confidence dealing with them.

You are probably an introvert suffering from low self-esteem or just suffering from low self-esteem

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by princewarri1985: 9:11pm On Dec 21, 2021

Bro it's a phase in life and trust me it's going to pass, I WAS EVEN WORST THAN YOU WHEN I WAS IN SECONDARY SCHOOL ABOUT 17 YEARS EVERYBODY IN MY SCHOOL THEN KNEW I CANT RELATE WITH WOMEN, BUT TODAY AM A MASTER OF THE GAME, I REMEMBER MEETING THE HOTTEST GIRL IN MY SCHOOL THEN WE EXCHANGED NUMBER IN 5 DAYS TIME I HAD SEX WITH HER AND SHE WAS EVEN ASKING ME HOW I MANAGED TO BECOME THIS BOLD WITH WOMEN BECAUSE SHE KNEW ME VERY WELL BACK THEN, i just shared this few experience of mine to encourage you, it's a phase and its going to pass, am very confident about what am saying to you!

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Nobody: 9:12pm On Dec 21, 2021

Bros have money first and women will chase you na so my p-man Dey always talk cool

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Solofresh2: 9:12pm On Dec 21, 2021

helinues:

Real men don't chase women but instead attract them.

Up your game

Shut up oga
The guy say him no sabi follow girls talk, you dey talk another thing.
Hin tell you see him dey find woman?

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Fiscus105(m): 9:14pm On Dec 21, 2021

Kimiso:
bobo you bad ohh

Check his previous post, sept 19 to be precise, he talked about redpill and how he is dealing with bitch , today he came clean that he can't face woman one on one, this is what constitute 95% of ~~redpiler~~ lamentation thread

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by studentwriter(m): 9:14pm On Dec 21, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

God bless you for the first 8 points you listed there..
You said it all

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by jcent2611: 9:15pm On Dec 21, 2021

oboi....u get time for drama ohhh....abeg go hook up or u go las okpo pussy...pussy na pussy...nr dey go waste time for dating ohhh....nobody does dat...jjuoh

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by toujurs: 9:15pm On Dec 21, 2021

helinues:

Real men don't chase women but instead attract them.

Up your game

Wrong advice, different stroke for different folks, Oga!

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Solofresh2: 9:16pm On Dec 21, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

How do you guys connect this things together?
He never said he was looking for a girlfriend
He said he can't talk to a woman on a normal level

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by udomas(m): 9:16pm On Dec 21, 2021

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Funny enough talking to a woman is the most easiest thing ...

Do it as if you are having fun....don't be nervous...
Just be confident....even if you don't have much to say to her...confident and boldness drives them crazy...a woman can wet her pant for you if she notice that your are not scared and very bold

With confidence you can start any conversation with them....
You can even start by saying baby girl what is the name of this hairstyle .....I would love to recommend it for someone because you look beautiful on it...
She will definitely answer you by telling you twisting, braiding, bla....blah....

After that you can ask her and say.....I know Rihanna hairstyle but I don't know crotchet.....I bet my balls she will be happy to enlighten you on crotchet
Then the conversation continues

Legend, op should book a tutorial with you lol

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by DannyXpress: 9:17pm On Dec 21, 2021

Kimiso:
so because i wan woo girls now,..make i turn to sudden professor wole soyinka chaii

You better turn to him if it will help you become better.
The solution to Many problem of the world today are hidden in books.

Professor wole soyinka is still reaping the benefits for laying a good foundation even at an old age... And should i tell you he has read a lot of books before he became who he is today??

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by studentwriter(m): 9:18pm On Dec 21, 2021

seyz91:
Make money first, you need not to relate to any vagina person or start conversation with them

Na them vagina people themselves go dey relateband start conversation with you

Wake up Son!

why are you referring to women as vagina?
And you think say you wise

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by onyenatruchi: 9:19pm On Dec 21, 2021

What is in skirt will not kill Yoruba boys lipsrsealed

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by EM123: 9:22pm On Dec 21, 2021

Bros na ur advice sure pass

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by ojeshola: 9:24pm On Dec 21, 2021

just be confident in your self the highest any woman will tell you is No. because even if you make money and you arent socially endowed you might just end up with any lady that come your way because you nor get choice

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 9:24pm On Dec 21, 2021

Make money and girls will chase you.

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by seyz91(m): 9:25pm On Dec 21, 2021

yea women are vagina people

studentwriter:
why are you referring to women as vagina?
And you think say you wise

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 9:25pm On Dec 21, 2021

Make money and girls will chase you...

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by RodgersAkpafu: 9:25pm On Dec 21, 2021

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Funny enough talking to a woman is the most easiest thing ...

Do it as if you are having fun....don't be nervous...
Just be confident....even if you don't have much to say to her...confident and boldness drives them crazy...a woman can wet her pant for you if she notice that your are not scared and very bold

With confidence you can start any conversation with them....
You can even start by saying baby girl what is the name of this hairstyle .....I would love to recommend it for someone because you look beautiful on it...
She will definitely answer you by telling you twisting, braiding, bla....blah....

After that you can ask her and say.....I know Rihanna hairstyle but I don't know crotchet.....I bet my balls she will be happy to enlighten you on crotchet
Then the conversation continues

This is actually good stuff

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Aboks(m): 9:27pm On Dec 21, 2021

[quote author=WiszyFraud post=108696136]You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited angry

7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare cheesy

8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by razzydoo(m): 9:28pm On Dec 21, 2021

Rap for her small, try make her feel special. Be like 'Baby you summertime fine, I let you get on top, I be the underline
I'm trying to get beside you like the number 9, damn
You fine as hell, I guess I met you for a reason, only time can tell'. No need to dey form lyrics for your head, improvise. Then man up and be confident. Can still go either way tho' but at least, you've defeated fear of approaching woman.

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Slurity(m): 9:29pm On Dec 21, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

THE FACT THAT YOU KNOW THE RIGHT ANSWER ALREADY WILL NOT STOP ME FROM RINGING IT LOUDLY AGAIN. FACE YOUR STUDY. THAT YOU CARRY FOR HEAD AS PROBLEM WILL LATER PISS YOU OFF. HOW I WISH YOU KNOW THE ADVANTAGE OF YOUR CURRENT PROBLEM.

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Sokari29: 9:30pm On Dec 21, 2021

Gadiola2:
I'm in my early 20's, and I can't relate to girls......I always have this negative feeling whenever i'm around them, sometimes I think that I might not really know what to say to start a conversation.....most of the times i start a conversation and don't know how to conclude it.

It has really affected me socially, especially in the school community, some of my guys could just be talking to a group of girls, and if I show up i won't even be able to stare at them for a few seconds, I will just disappear and find one isolated place to stay.

I know people will tell me to concentrate on my studies or make money but it's not all about that...... your social life also matters.
I don't know how to explain my situation better than this ...Abeg i need help

Maybe it's because you ain't financially buoyant yet.

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by EM123: 9:32pm On Dec 21, 2021

I think you should be happy . Girlfriends has so many problems , there was a time i was saying at my age i don't have a girlfriend , lol , when i finally have one, it became a problem to me , it became an headach to me, which i'm praying for GOD to take it far away from me. My advice to you is to accept yourself the way you are , because your girlfriend is coming , and when she comes' i hope you won't run to nairaland to seek for advice .

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Aguilar(m): 9:33pm On Dec 21, 2021

WiszyFraud:
You should count yourself a lucky guy jorh..

Why waste your precious time trying to toast a woman?
That bullshit really marvels me..

1. You stop her
2. You try to know her name
3. You start begging for her contact, which you might not even get because she’ll tell you she doesn’t give out her number, moreover she has so many male contacts saved to her phone ..
4. She then gives you the number after so much beggings and convincing... You then start calling her with your own airtime
5. She sometimes act funny on phone, but then you try your best to beg her to accept you into her life
6. After much beggings and persuasions, she then agrees to hang out with you. You then become very excited
7. When you two finally meets, all the expenses na for your head, plus her transport fare
8. Then you’re now happy you finally got your fellow human being who will practically add nothing meaningful to your life.. Only thing she brings in return for your time and money is just spread legs, and share some diseases/infections with you..

Use your head bros..

If konji holds you too much, there are numerous runs girls out there who will give you the same sex, and then you move on jejely with your life without all the dramas listed above.. And it’s a one time thing.

Always roll with your condoms sha.. ThankYou ✌️

olorun. Na wetin sure pass be that. Nobody dey toast again. Just Bleep and waka jeje. No hard feelings

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Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by meobizy(f): 9:34pm On Dec 21, 2021

This type of thread brings out all the jambites and fellow undergrads. I’m old and out of here.

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by Mckeni007: 9:38pm On Dec 21, 2021

DannyXpress:

I used to be like you.

The reason why you are scared of talking to women is because you have already anticipated what their response would be.
If you want to woo girls, the first thing you should do is to start talking to them without having it in mind that you are wooing or toasting them

You can get the rest in this book TALKING POINT
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I need it aswell

Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by MaverickA3: 9:38pm On Dec 21, 2021

helinues:

Real men don't chase women but instead attract them.

Up your game

You are making sense but you are off point

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