9isguy:
Hope you are not one of the few that sees every young guys that is richer than you as a yahoo boy ?

real recognize real

T0T0fucker:
if the baby is mine, we sort an arrangement out.
as for your other request, I CAN NEVER MARRY HER.
(she knows that)

Hush hush.

Say it without shouting, comrade. Your voice dey rise. On top tory wey fit even be figment of your imagination. Hianity.

T0T0fucker:

I can never marry her, she knows that.

if that child is mine, I will like to take full responsibility for it....full custody....if she agrees.
it's my offsprings....
probably we can do court agreements or arrangements in respect to the child.( I think they is something in our constitution that says something like that)

she can go ahead with her life and marriage...

Just have conversation with her first, don't ruin her marriage and family. Ask her if she's secretly open to have a DNA just to clear your doubts. If her husband finds out about this that family will never remain the same please take note of this.

Nancyama:
This is applicable to our Igbo custom and tradition.
@totofucker, you don't have any right to claim the child even if the DNA says it's yours. A child born out of wedlock automatically belongs to the girl's father. He/She will bear the father of the girl's name. Nothing for you as the father of the child unless you decide to marry the mother.

So, hope this your lady is not an Igbo girl, if she is, then forget about her and the baby. Don't start a fight you can't finish.

you said something meaningful, na you coming up with something meaniless.
I

baba4thegehs:


Just have conversation with her first, don't ruin her marriage and family. Ask her if she's secretly open to have a DNA just to clear your doubts. If her husband finds out about this that family will never remain the same please take note of this.

yes I try to be civil as much as I can.

Romanoff:


Cause I calculated the number of weeks from first February and it meant she'd have given birth in October ending at most. If it's from March, then November ending.

Hope you understand.

Thats true...
I also did the calculation and I too came to the same dates as you...
Buh have you also considered the possibility that some mishap may have occurred that made her carry the pregnancy for longer??

The point is...
Our calculation points to the fact that he maynot be the father of the child, on the other hand, the resemblance (According to OP) points to the fact that he may be the father...

Thus there's really no way to conclude for certainty, except a paternity test is done ...

Favfables1:


Thats true...
I also did the calculation and I too came to the same dates as you...
Buh have you also considered the possibility that some mishap may have occurred that made her carry the pregnancy for longer??

The point is...
Our calculation points to the fact that he maynot be the father of the child, on the other hand, the resemblance (According to OP) points to the fact that he may be the father...

Thus there's really no way to conclude for certainty, except a paternity test is done ...

Even if you add two weeks to the date I calculated, e no possible.

Eastcoastboy:


Paternity test would prove that, but if the child happens to be his, she might be long gone before he discovers.

Where she won run go biko ...
She has a family na, abi will she leave them on account of this?

Well...
Anything is possible...

The way niggaz be raw doggin' hoes and wifing them be scary mehn!

Icumsa45:
The way niggaz be raw doggin' hoes and wifing them be scary mehn!

But them hoes be outsmarting y'all mf smallie niggaz and getting married to Real Niggarrs and winnin'...

Nancyama:
This is applicable to our Igbo custom and tradition.
@totofucker, you don't have any right to claim the child even if the DNA says it's yours. A child born out of wedlock automatically belongs to the girl's father. He/She will bear the father of the girl's name. Nothing for you as the father of the child unless you decide to marry the mother.

So, hope this your lady is not an Igbo girl, if she is, then forget about her and the baby. Don't start a fight you can't finish.

So you as an igbo lady will have the mind to deceive your husband and give him another man's child as his.

So you think igbo tradition also forces the husband to accept a child that his wife conceived through another man?

Your post is stupidly manipulative. Don't come here to dirty igbo name with nonsense paternity fraud common among you women.

Magnoliaa:


But them hoes be outsmarting y'all mf smallie niggaz and getting married to Real Niggarrs and winnin'...

no matter what y'all hoes will always be hoes, till those real niggars realize and throw you back to the street where you belong.

T0T0fucker:

disdain for a girl I met in the club? she was the one who got attached in the first place and I welcomed her..she thought she can tame me... like I said before... I flex alot... you ought to know what cause our issue...I was never going to wife her... then tell me why do you think am trying to scatter her marriage.

bros talk well.

I don't hate her, I wished her well when she stops coming to my place...all this your saying makes no sense



those saying I should leave the baby and move on, I can't.
I will like to know if that child is mine or not..(infact am 100% sure it could be mine) because we did spend alot of time together.

am not a simp, .it's the baby am after... besides she's married already.

You're worse than a simp. Leave the girl alone and go face your empty life alone.
You want to go and destroy a happy home cos you felt dumped.

MacANDIES:


You're worse than a simp. Leave the girl alone and go face your empty life alone.
You want to go and destroy a happy home cos you felt dumped.

your the first one saying this on a thread filled with redpillers like myself


oya disgrace your ancestors.


if it's your sister I go scatter her marriage if she nor give me back my full grown sperm.

cow

T0T0fucker:

no matter what y'all hoes will always be hoes, till those real niggars realize and throw you back to the street where you belong.

You're crying and it's embarrassing, hard man. Between you and the hoe(s) now, who is pained?

Simps will everlastingly and forever exist, to wife us, no matter how much it kills you. And it is not everyone of them that'll wake up and have a realization.

Die mad about it!

I hope sha she is not Igbo, cos in our culture that child is nothing near yours oh! No be by gra gra, that child will not bear your name

T0T0fucker:


mumu like you fit loose guard your sperm anyhow...carry dash people... not me

that pickin fit be a blessing to me in the future.

Smiles......this guy-man comments jst dey weak me any how!!! Na hoe, na hoe and u still want to receive BLESSING from a HOE? Meaning such HOE is really IMPORTANT!!!

Romanoff:


Even if you add two weeks to the date I calculated, e no possible.

Hmm...
How're bout if you add 3 or maybe 4weeks, won't it fall around the same date as when she gave birth??

And just before you say "e no possible"

Know that the same way, labor can be induced prematuredly due to several factors is the same way labor can be delayed, so just before you conclude that the child isn't his, keep that in mind...

Don't be sentimental eh ...
Allow the OP carry out his DNA test, before we hear say OP turn kidnapper ...

Favfables1:


Hmm...
How're bout if you add 3 or maybe 4weeks, won't it fall around the same date as when she gave birth??

And just before you say "e no possible"

Know that the same way, labor can be induced prematuredly due to several factors is the same way labor can be delayed, so just before you conclude that the child isn't his, keep that in mind...

Don't be sentimental eh ...
Allow the OP carry out his DNA test, before we hear say OP turn kidnapper ...

You done hear say person born at 46 or 44 weeks?.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

Interesting story.

https://gist.am/question/can-i-fight-this-now-or-wait-till-the-baby-is-grown

T0T0fucker:


so even though the baby is mine, I should let it be?

is that what you saying to me?


I should just let my blood go like that. ( I don't give a hoot about her)

it's the baby I want to know if it's mine or not.

you talk like a baby! So you don't even know what gene is all about! What if the fairness runs in her family

Romanoff:


You done hear say person born at 46 or 44 weeks?.

Yes...

Favfables1:


Yes...

The person no calculate him due date well.

Any pregnancy after 42 weeks, the child is at risk of dying.

E no possible say na the guy get pikin.

Make we just accept am.

Romanoff:


The person no calculate him due date well.

Any pregnancy after 42 weeks, the child is at risk of dying.

E no possible say na the guy get pikin.

Make we just accept am.

okay you were the one who shined tourchlight for us on different occasions when the deed was on.

for you to know the actual due dates.

been ignoring you for a long time, I just felt to drop this

newoffer:
We are here to read how Dem break ur coconut head. U go like sifia pain

It all depend on how the matter is approached. OP is just a randy man who got caught up with a promiscuous lady. The aftermath shouldn't be a surprise. Such thing is bound to happen. And there's always a better way and approach to issue like this without anyone heads being broken.

T0T0fucker:


okay you were the one who shined tourchlight for us on different occasions when the deed was on.

for you to know the actual due dates.

been ignoring you for a long time, I just felt to drop this

U don forget say na me help u hold her legs? Oga, u are not d owner until u drop real evidence. I dont understand how u go talk say pikin of just few weeks resemble u, pikin wey be say u never see face to face!!! Pikin wey b say na 4 GB WATSAPP status u don see am so far.

@OP

Every woman knows the father of her child, and it's so obvious you're not the father of her child...

Besides you were bleeping a hoe. A hoe will always be a hoe... Were you actually expecting her to bleep just you?

joeking2222:

U don forget say na me help u hold her legs? Oga, u are not d owner until u drop real evidence. I dont understand how u go talk say pikin of just few weeks resemble u, pikin wey be say u never see face to face!!! Pikin wey b say na 4 GB WATSAPP status u don see am so far.

your father supposed ask your mama if na craze man fûck her born you.


how 2days old pickin go resemble me for face?
where I take talk say it resemble Me?


Asin you sabi read at all?

ANDREW91:

Baba please take advice and leave that family alone. Just imagine u are the husband. U don't like the girl despite the fact that she gave herself to you to bang as u like, still yet u want to destroy her life. Are u that wicked?? Please nor let small money u think say u get deceive u. Jeje leave that bae

You're being emotional. Though I understand you. You're not in OP's shoe that's why you sounded in this manner. Let OP clear his mind. But he need to be cautious and approach it maturely so that he won't disrupt their marriage.

T0T0fucker:


okay you were the one who shined tourchlight for us on different occasions when the deed was on.

for you to know the actual due dates.

been ignoring you for a long time, I just felt to drop this

And I'm telling you you're not the father. Cause even if it's 46 weeks, it won't tally with your date.

Just leave her alone.

T0T0fucker:
your father supposed ask your mama if na craze man fûck her born you.

how 2days old pickin go resemble me for face? where I take talk say it resemble Me?

Asin you sabi read at all?

Lolss.......broz 4get dat tin, u are not getting near dat CHILD!!!

Romanoff:


And I'm telling you you're not the father. Cause even if it's 46 weeks, it won't tally with your date.

Just leave her alone.

once again, your sick brain supposed let you know some details were twist for anonymous reason