joeking2222:

Lolss.......broz 4get dat tin, u are not getting near dat CHILD!!!

I create a topic on nairaland in reference to this thread, when it's confirmed if it's mine or not.

I save the front seat for you.

bukolabeauty09:

Questioning the Baby's paternity will surely destroy the new built family or do you think after finding out the baby is for another man the husband will sit back and relax with the news.....besides he is not even ready to marry her and here is a man who accepted her......why not marry her when he can knack her raw before and he is here claiming father of a child. Had it been he knew she was pregnant when they were together I believe he will opt in for an abortion.

So because it might destroy the new home the guy should forget a potential baby?

As you lay your bed my dear.....

T0T0fucker:


I create a topic on nairaland in reference to this thread, when it's confirmed if it's mine or not.

I save the front seat for you.

Oga, u don forget ur 3rd reason, saying "the CHILD is fair, and d lady's HUSBAND is dark". Meaning u are trying to tell us dat the CHILD resemble u!!! U no get better evidence, u dey gv us 3 lame reasons y we should bliv d CHILD is urs. U tink say everybody for dis forum dey DUMB like u ni? I repeat myself again, YOU ARE NOT GETTING NEAR THAT CHILD!!!

emmnprince:


You're being emotional. Though I understand you. You're not in OP's shoe that's why you sounded in this manner. Let OP clear his mind. But he need to be cautious and approach it maturely so that he won't disrupt their marriage.

There is no how he will approach it that won't affect the marriage. Just imagine after 2days of u announcing to ur friends and family that u have a child only for ur wife to tell u the child is not urs. Please how will u feel, will u continue with that marriage?
The OP is just wicked. It's not as if it was the girl that dumped him, rather he used the girl and dumped her..now he still want to ruin her marriage

Favfables1:


OP...
What you're thinking of doing will cause BIG ISSUES not just to you alone, buh to the lady and her family, yes you have the right to know whether or not the child is yours, but have you actually thought things through?? Like, have you reasoned the matter well?

Let's say you have proof that you're the father of the child, what will be your next step? Fight her in court for the custody of the child? And even if the court grants you custody of the child (which I doubt will happen considering the child's age), are you ready to take responsibility for that child? Are you ready to be a father?

I'm not saying you shouldn't do what is in your mind o, cause I perceive that you've already made up your mind as regards your next course of action, buh just think things through. Consider all the various possibilities that could result from whatever action you plan on taking and ask yourself if you're ready to follow through with them...

Good luck Chief ..

You said my mind but I'm a bit reluctant to speak due to the Op's adamant behavior. That said, it's easy to start a fire but very hard to quench it, I advise him to give this a thorough thought n I wish him a safe landing.

Magnoliaa:


But them hoes be outsmarting y'all mf smallie niggaz and getting married to Real Niggarrs and winnin'...

You call that winning? Do you wish to be in her position?

joeking2222:

Oga, u don forget ur 3rd reason, saying "the CHILD is fair, and d lady's HUSBAND is dark". Meaning u are trying to tell us dat the CHILD resemble u!!! U no get better evidence, u dey gv us 3 lame reasons y we should bliv d CHILD is urs. U tink say everybody for dis forum dey DUMB like u ni? I repeat myself again, YOU ARE NOT GETTING NEAR THAT CHILD!!!

The complexion can also come from the woman, I dunno what nigga is on about.

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Icumsa45:

You call that winning? Do you wish to be in her position?

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Mi o raye fun gbogbo eleyi. Ma bi mi ni jamb question, jo.

Proverbs 5:8-10 NIV
Keep to a path far from her, do not go near the door of her house, lest you lose your honor to others and your dignity to one who is cruel, lest strangers feast on your wealth and your toil enrich the house of another.

MrBrownJay1:



what if he knows? is that so wrong to know THE HONEST TRUTH about the woman you married and the child that you are raising supposedly as your own?...what kind of weak ego do you lot have?!?



now put yourself in the place of the dude who will raise that child (for years) that aint his ....would you be ok with that (aka being fooled into believing that you are a father, while you aint)?!




...and miss all these important years of a child's life?! for once that a man is trying to do whats right and stand up for his child, people are looking down on it.

Thats the safest way not to destroy that innocent man's marriage. fighting dirty in these case breaks all hearts no matter who win. JUST THINKING DEEP.

Icumsa45:


The complexion can also come from the woman, I dunno what nigga is on about.

Just leave am make HE dey form CYBORG for there!!! Person wey no knw LAW guilding a CHILD'S CUSTODY, he dey raise shoulder like TURKEY!!! d worst he can do na to shake d lady matrimonial home, but u see dat CHILD, na for watsapp status he go dey see am!!!

Crystyano:



Is it on Xmas day?


I was able to get some drugs but I don't have enough foodstuffs.

This looks like and smells like Victor, it is Victor still.

smile4kenn:
Interesting story.

https://gist.am/question/can-i-fight-this-now-or-wait-till-the-baby-is-grown

Wait o. What is this website? OMFG! Please, can you explain?? It's as if my head is turning me. It is a clone of Nairaland or something?

OhiOfIhima:


You can imagine the rubbish, every actions have equal reaction. The man should not let the matter die. Let him seek for legal mean to tackle the issue.

. If he takes it to court, he would lose it. No judge would give a child to a father that is single and had no plans of shapening his life to be responsible.

OhiOfIhima:


You call that rubbish bcoz you don't know the value of kids, if you're, you should fight to get what belong to you.

It really appalling, now her marriage is more valued that her wayward life.. You deserve Buhari in 10 years to come.

If we look at it critically, this guy is only after the child because she is with someone else. He might not be in love with her but the shock of a lady doing that to him. He speaks like a narcissist. If the said lady had told him of this child during the time of their relationship, he might have flung money to her for the flushing of the baby.

Magnoliaa:


Wait o. What is this website? OMFG! Please, can you explain?? It's as if my head is turning me. It is a clone of Nairaland or something?

Deep Cloning.

darichlife:

Deep Cloning.

Whaaaattt? I kind of know deep fake. I have never heard of 'deep cloning.' How?? What is it?? And some people's real names are there?? Is that legal or right or ... I am really not understanding. I'm shocked.

lavamaestro:


If we look at it critically, this guy is only after the child because she is with someone else. He might not be in love with her but the shock of a lady doing that to him. He speaks like a narcissist. If the said lady had told him of this child during the time of their relationship, he might have flung money to her for the flushing of the baby.

all guys can't be like your boyfriend who flush their offsprings at any given time.

am a different kind of breed .. the only time I flush is when I use condom.

we just friends with benefits, nothing serious.... talking about love is far from it.

like this a girl I did thr3esome with her friend in her presence.

common..... since the child is a circumstance, if it's mine.. am ready to accept my mistake.


but letting another man take my biological child as his I can't allow that.

your boyfriend can allow that with you.... but me I can't.

once again I give no hoot about her, it's that offspring I want to know if its mine or not.

T0T0fucker:

disdain for a girl I met in the club? she was the one who got attached in the first place and I welcomed her..she thought she can tame me... like I said before... I flex alot... you ought to know what cause our issue...I was never going to wife her... then tell me why do you think am trying to scatter her marriage.

bros talk well.

I don't hate her, I wished her well when she stops coming to my place...all this your saying makes no sense



those saying I should leave the baby and move on, I can't.
I will like to know if that child is mine or not..(infact am 100% sure it could be mine) because we did spend alot of time together.

am not a simp, .it's the baby am after... besides she's married already.

I feel you Bro.

Most ppl here are sissies hence most of their lame opinions.

No real G will leave their seeds out there.

My advice is for you to chill at the moment. Keep her on your contact and watch the status closely. As the baby grow, you'll see some of your features if truly yours.

She'll constantly keep the whole world updated on her growth just like everybody else and you can plan your move when confident.

Most Babies appear fair when born so that doesn't justify nothing yet.

Remember, keep your friend close, your enemy closer.

Control your urges and take your time.

Peace

Magnoliaa:


Wait o. What is this website? OMFG! Please, can you explain?? It's as if my head is turning me. It is a clone of Nairaland or something?

It seems d OP just dey catch cruise!!!

T0T0fucker:

yes, I shouldn't have housed a hóe.. she will always be a hóe I Know that.

that's why when she left, I didn't give a hoot. but the recent happenings Is what's getting me worried.

loooooooooool , trying to demarket her cause you feel used ..

koolaid87:


I feel you Bro.

Most ppl here are sissies hence most of their lame opinions.

No real G will leave their seeds out there.

My advice is for you to chill at the moment. Keep her on your contact and watch the status closely. As the baby grow, you'll see some of your features if truly yours.

She'll constantly keep the whole world updated on her growth just like everybody else and you can plan your move when confident.

Most Babies appear fair when born so that doesn't justify nothing yet.

Remember, keep your friend close, your enemy closer.

Control your urges and take your time.

Peace

"no real G will leave their seed out there"


word.

your a real g

T0T0fucker:

I can never marry her, she knows that.

if that child is mine, I will like to take full responsibility for it....full custody....if she agrees.
it's my offsprings....
probably we can do court agreements or arrangements in respect to the child.( I think they is something in our constitution that says something like that)

she can go ahead with her life and marriage...

lol ,ur such a liar
.you want.to.destroy her marriage cos u feel used
.u very well know it will.affect her marriage. Stop lying .

MrBrownJay1:


what a selfish thing to say...as usual, women are looking at this issue the failed way, and dont care if a man raises a child that aint his, so long as this woman remains "happily married".... what a failed mentality! in your mind, marriage is more important than anything else in this world, abi? smh!!!!

instead of thinking of your narrow minded issues, why dont you instead think of a child who is raised by a man that aint his/her biological father and/or a man who raises a child (for years) who aint his.



what is foolish about a man trying to do whats right in this life (or a child's life)? do you think it would be right for you to raise a child that you think was yours, but isnt?! wouldnt you (as the husband of this woman) want to know if the child was yours or his, if there was a tiny chance that it could be his?! stop being a hypocrite!

abegi, he doesn't want any child he just wants to deal with the girl . All his insults on her already show he feels pained like she used him . Anyways - he can't even get the child even if it's his. Nigerian.law recognises the husband as the father even if dna says otherwise

T0T0fucker:

all guys can't be like your boyfriend who flush their offsprings at any given time.

am a different kind of breed .. the only time I flush is when I use condom.

we just friends with benefits, nothing serious.... talking about love is far from it.

like this a girl I did thr3esome with her friend in her presence.

common..... since the child is a circumstance, if it's mine.. am ready to accept my mistake.


but letting another man take my biological child as his I can't allow that.

your boyfriend can allow that with you.... but me I can't.

once again I give no hoot about her, it's that offspring I want to know if its mine or not.

You brought your problem to the public for opinions but because it differs from what you want to hear, you mirror your life on mine. You are a narcissist with serious personality problems. And when you finally prove she is your child, I hope you be a responsible father. My only concern is to that lady who made a mistake sleeping with you, holier than thou hoe.

whirlwind7:


All right, hotshot.
Since you already got your mind made up that you must, as a matter of life and death, confirm if that child is a product of some of the wild oats you spilled in your adventure laden life, why are you disturbing the cyber space?
By all means, go ahead and barge into her marriage and demand for a paternal test, and leave everyone else the fvck alone.

You don't need any advice. You were only seeking anonymous validations for yet another adventure you are itching to embark on. Godspeed, and happy hunting.

In the event it goes awry, of course no one would feel sorry for your ass.
This is abso-fvckin-lutely unbelievable.

Like, exactly. He only needs validations to carry on. The funny thing is when things go awry, he might open a new thread with a new account to still seek pity and wound licks.

T0T0fucker:


I made mistake it was March ending

looooooooooooooool - u really must have caught feelings . U really want this baby to be yours just so.you.can fcck the girl up

MrBrownJay1:


again, some women out there are going way past their due date, sometimes 2weeks overdue....and pregnancy has to be induced. so if the pregnancy is within 2/3 weeks of the 9months he was last with her, he isnt far from the truth that the child "could" be his.



so you are 110% sure that he aint the father?! how can you be so sure? and if there is a tiny chance he could be the father, shouldnt he confirm it?!



we can all assume anything under the moon here, but the fact is that, he didnt give a fukc about her and her new man, until she gave birth and realize the child could be his. he isnt looking for a r/ship with her again, but a r/ship with the possible child that he may have.

shouldnt we instead put some of the blame on this woman who had unprotected sex with these 2 men is such a short period of time...??!?!?!?

lol , always looking for ways to blame women. I'm sure you were really upset another man stood up for a woman - why didn't you just cut the whole story short and use u people's fav word- SIMP -

Image123:


This looks like and smells like Victor, it is Victor still.

How much are you paid for stuff like this?



Nobody can successfully blast me for asking for help


Mocking me is vanity




So ,if you like ,use the entire dictionary,it will end up a waste of your energy and time


Tell the CNN and BBC I said that!

Favfables1:


Where she won run go biko ...
She has a family na, abi will she leave them on account of this?

Well...
Anything is possible...

Them no dey relocate ni? Well Omo I wish all of them well.

The op is a narcissistic hypocrite who thinks he is too good even though he has lived nothing short of an irresponsible life.
"I can't wife her, I had party with her and her friend, she is not worthy to be my better half"
You yourself is not worthy of being someone's husband. Your virgin or pure wife needs a pure man as well, not a man who is able to have sex simultaneously with two women.
If your manner of explanation was different, I would have supported you because I don't stand for paternity fraud and all but your constant use of derogatory terms shows :
1. You are not over her
2. You are angry she dumped you instead
3. You can't believe someone else loved her as you have decided to be the judge of her life.

Your fight for paternity is not from a place of a father fighting for his child, it is from a place of an immature almost- reaching- his- middle- age- man who has deep rooted hatred for women hence sees them as expendable tools, so when this lady does this to you and still sees someone who values her, it burns you.

I pray your quest doesn't bring shame and trouble to both you and the girl's family. And a piece of advice, let love shine through your heart. Your redpill tendencies and hatred for women would make bad parenting for your supposed child.
Let he who has no sin cast the first stone, ciao.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

I don't know what to say about a few minutes of enjoyment and years of confusion