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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by MacANDIES: 8:16pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


your the first one saying this on a thread filled with redpillers like myself


oya disgrace your ancestors.


if it's your sister I go scatter her marriage if she nor give me back my full grown sperm.

cow

Thank your stars it's not my sister, you'll be fighting for that your worthless sperm from the grave.

You have the audacity to come online and talk about how senseless and worthless you are.
How irresponsible and untrained you are,
Sleeping around with different women and still have the guts to call a girl names. Is there any difference between you and her?
Cos you have prick you can call girls ashawo and exempt your useless self abi?

Go and try the girl, she'll deal with you, abandoned idiat.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by smile4kenn(m): 8:17pm On Dec 23, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Wait o. What is this website? OMFG! Please, can you explain?? It's as if my head is turning me. It is a clone of Nairaland or something?

Na so we see am oh
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:21pm On Dec 23, 2021
OhiOfIhima:
This guy deserve to know if the baby is his or not? Just the way to go by to make the process easy n undeterred. Marriage scatter or not, I care less, infact, the other man need to know he married a runs girl.

When you resort to go olosho way, that is the end product. Let her dance to the tune.
chief , leave her let her do her olosho In peace
.she no borrow ur pvssy do the olosho work so why you dey bothered ?

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Silvermandt: 8:26pm On Dec 23, 2021
Why don't you call her and discuss everything with your ex rather than posting it here? I don't really understand people who demostrate their personal affairs on forums. Talk to her first and then decide what you can do and whether your doubts have any ground.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:28pm On Dec 23, 2021
OhiOfIhima:


You call that rubbish bcoz you don't know the value of kids, if you're, you should fight to get what belong to you.

It really appalling, now her marriage is more valued that her wayward life.. You deserve Buhari in 10 years to come.
shut up - the op's life is just as wayward . But you will be blind to that one.
Hypocrite

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:33pm On Dec 23, 2021
IvarDboneless:
You all sound pathetic so because he was not ready to wife her he should forget about clearing his curiosity and saving another nig*** from the devilish gender...mumu youths...spits
lol , you really hate women o ? Who showed you shege?

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:41pm On Dec 23, 2021
ZBUGZY:
Oga when you no pay bride price, you wan use short court collect pikin.
If you wan spoil person own, na you own go spoil.
All the sperm wey you dey flush for toilet didn't matter to you. Come to think of it. Do you want a hoe you be the mother of ur child. That's if the child is yours.
what is wrong with a hoe being the mother of his child? He too is a hoe nah !

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:45pm On Dec 23, 2021
josh6633:


Just imagine the kind of rubbish that is coming out of your mouth.
So because the guy won't marry her now justify her actions right? If truely that pregnancy belongs to her ex why will she do that in the first place. Some of u ladies are evil. So u are justifying her actions by giving another man baby to her husband. Do u even know the psychological truama this may cause her husband in the future knowing fully well that the child he have trained and called his own is actually not his.

In short, the guy made the right decision not to marry that lady because she is desperate and wicked. Why can't she tell the guy she is pregnant, and if the guy loves her he can still marry her than this wickedness she has done. And u think if her so called husband find out, the marriage won't end.

abegi , move. How do.you know for a fact she was pregnant? Except u are naive will.you not.see.thay this guy is just pained that she used him and moved on ..
He even had to change date of when last.they were together when two people told him his calculation.was not feasible

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Romanoff(f): 8:47pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

once again, your sick brain supposed let you know some details were twist for anonymous reason

Never for once did I insult you but it's obvious you're a trouble maker.

Na me Bleep up.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:53pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


take full reponsibility of the babe if/when her marriage crashes because she tried to hang a baby on the wrong man's neck?!?! are you people for real?

if the baby is the OP's and her marriage crashes, then she will only have her damn self to blame for that. nobody should marry her out of pity,... CO-PARENTING will be the only way to go here.

[img]https://c./uIBgBRBrTjMAAAAM/baby-angry.gif[/img]
lol , men.and always wanting.to spoil women's lives . Ur bro is just pained.she used him.and he wants revenge.. even the way he changed date from.feb to march when.the calculatiom.was.not. working.- shows he.is lying .
But desire.for.revenge will not.let.you.people.see.road.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 8:58pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


if they all had sex with her during the possible time of conception....then OF COURSE THEY SHOULD ALL HAVE A DNA TEST! you too are looking at it with a failed mindset....which is that you wanna protect the integrity of this supposed olosho who has been sleeping with these 10 guys undercover. sadly, at the end of the day, only the welfare of the CHILD is important, aka finding who his/her biological is.
chief, confess you just want.to see.the girl suffer same.as.op .
Many of.u hate women.so you feel.invested.in.this revenge move the guy is planning for the girl to teach her a lesson .

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:03pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


if thats how he viewed this woman all along, do you actually believe he should suddenly change now, simply because she may be his baby mama?! if a woman was indeed a low dirty hoe before getting pregnant, does she become a saint, simply because she got pregnant?!?!?! or, because she is now married, her past has suddenly vanished?!
him no be low dirty hoe ? Oga , she borrow.your pbssy do her hoeing ?. Somebody dey hoe na you e dey pain? �

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:06pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


so you dont know that some men out there have unprotected sex with oloshos? some even go down on them and lick that community toto finish.... to each their own madness!
oga , nobody fit.tell me .say you no.dey borrow olosho.your.pvssy wey dem.dey use fvck dem customer ? Cos why d matter dey pain.you like.this ?.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:11pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:


abeg stop making me laugh, no Nigerian court will send a man to jail because he is jobless and cant help a baby mama. let that court 1st decide how much this man should pay as upkeep, before thinking that a woman could just get up and say she wants a place to stay, and her babydaddy will just pay for it.



people who live in FEAR are the worst of the worst....whatever this woman wanna do to him, let her do her worse....AND also let this man go all the way at the top to discover who the biological father of this child is.



you are right that some women are snakes, and this story points to that. but people like LaLasticlala would tell you that, just as some people see snakes as dangerous venemous ermine, other deal with them as gentle pets or snacks. what works for Jide, may not work for Ahmed.
Women are snakes?? ? Please what will we call men then ? Rattlesnakes ?

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:15pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

yes bro.

she herself always keeps tab on anything I do, even after she got married and pregnant.

most things I won't say here.


I know I have a case....am just thinking if I should give it a little time.
like wait for a more physical prove.

like the baby facial structure...


that's what I came here to ask of, am not paying attentions to different threats from weak men here who are ready to claim children that are not theirs never.



lol - her checking up on you is not an excuse to check up on her - afterall she is a hoe - why would a "real Niggar" like you check up on a hoe
Lol

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:20pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

why wish me bad?
he is not wishing you bad, you are a hoe and hoes eventually get stds

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:22pm On Dec 23, 2021
edunaragold:
Bro what is your problems na,as her if it's yours if she say no move on,your sperm no dey finish ,since u na flex man,she na marriage she wants


Woman are funny o,another guy dey nack her steady while another new bf that marry her was waiting till after marriage
where did.you read this ur own story ? Ur imagination must be wild - cos.op did not add this.part to the story
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:27pm On Dec 23, 2021
MrBrownJay1:



what if he knows? is that so wrong to know THE HONEST TRUTH about the woman you married and the child that you are raising supposedly as your own?...what kind of weak ego do you lot have?!?



now put yourself in the place of the dude who will raise that child (for years) that aint his ....would you be ok with that (aka being fooled into believing that you are a father, while you aint)?!




...and miss all these important years of a child's life?! for once that a man is trying to do whats right and stand up for his child, people are looking down on it.
abegi , keep quiet ..the dude is on.a revenge mission becos he feels.the babe dumped him
Somebody wey dey.change date.they last.met by one month when.they tell am.say d calculation no work.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by T0T0fucker: 9:28pm On Dec 23, 2021
Pataricatering everyone here viewing is looking you like lunatic unleashed, hence the silence.

please continue your display
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by excanny: 9:39pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

mumu man, yes I do like children.

same reason why I can't get scammed of my offsprings to one impotent mofoes like you.

if it easy why you nor make sure say the picking your wife born na you truly get am.


go find some body biological child to steal not mine.

if you are impotent go adopt pickin

At least, I'm not as dumb as you that was having unprotected sex with a commercial sex worker and trying to get her pregnant. Idiot low life. You thought you were the only fuccking her. Imbicile.

I only raised kids with a woman I picked from a proper home, not a street dog.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nancyama(f): 9:44pm On Dec 23, 2021
The fact that it's not acceptable in your own state doesn't mean it's not acceptable in other Igbo states.

If you impregnate any Enugu or Anambra lady without marrying her properly, then forget about the child. He/She belongs to the parents of the mother. Go ask well before you make that mistake of calling my comment "meaningless". Never argue what you don't know.

A child born out of wedlock automatically belongs to the parent of the girl, I repeat myself again. I didn't say he/she belongs to husband of the lady.

If you like go pregnant one Igbo babe and come back later to claim the child without having done proper traditional rite, you'll fight in vain.

Emaprince:
So you as an igbo lady will have the mind to deceive your husband and give him another man's child as his.

So you think igbo tradition also forces the husband to accept a child that his wife conceived through another man?

Your post is stupidly manipulative. Don't come here to dirty igbo name with nonsense paternity fraud common among you women.
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:47pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


if the baby is mine, we sort an arrangement out.

as for your other request, I CAN NEVER MARRY HER.

(she knows that)
the way you are carrying on.that babe did. u strong thing -
Ur case don become ' hell hath no fury than a man scorned "

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by diamondboa(m): 9:48pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


I will only leave them when I confirm the child is not mine.

Oga why did you come here in the first place to waist our time knowing fully well that you are demanding the parternity right .I just hope your case will not be a proverb for others when you are eventually killed . You wan scater another person marriage on facts that are not confirmed. Go ahead.

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:49pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:


yes I try to be civil as much as I can.
who.knew.you could.be civil with all your foul language on.this.thread ?.lol

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:52pm On Dec 23, 2021
Icumsa45:
The way niggaz be raw doggin' hoes and wifing them be scary mehn!
lol - my man , hoes stay winning
Naija men are all hoes , anyways
Hoes deserve hoes , dear

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:56pm On Dec 23, 2021
Emaprince:
So you as an igbo lady will have the mind to deceive your husband and give him another man's child as his.

So you think igbo tradition also forces the husband to accept a child that his wife conceived through another man?

Your post is stupidly manipulative. Don't come here to dirty igbo name with nonsense paternity fraud common among you women.
see our naija male hoes complaining .about paternity fraud.
.when u people are fvxking around anyhow why won't other men be impregnating your wives?
Paternity.fraud is you people's karma .

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Nancyama(f): 9:56pm On Dec 23, 2021
What I said isn't meaningless. Just telling you the honest truth if that lady is from SE, especially from my side where we don't give out a child to his father if born out of wedlock. There's nothing you can do.

My advice is based on the situation whereby she's from other states or tribe which you and I may not know their traditions, you can take what I said earlier.


T0T0fucker:


you said something meaningful, na you coming up with something meaniless.
I
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by frozen70(f): 9:58pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

What if the child wasn't yours after a DNA test

What if you started this drama and she looses her marriage and the test comes out negative yet you didn't marry her

What if you ignore her and move on knowing that you can get a girl to replace her and possibly carry your child to term in your home

People do over look the most important thing that are supposed to bother them in life, so that they can live long

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 9:59pm On Dec 23, 2021
T0T0fucker:

no matter what y'all hoes will always be hoes, till those real niggars realize and throw you back to the street where you belong.
see this hoe yapping ! Better go and do full screening for all known std's !

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by tpapi: 10:03pm On Dec 23, 2021
Macstephenson01:
Pls guys am having this same issue
A girl we have lot and lot of sex between 17th to 21st March put to bed this 10th December after she claim she met her man in April.... I never plan destroying her but what if this is my child,she is staying in Delta with her guy and am base in Lagos but we do met in osun and she is currently in osun now... I called her and told her how I feel and even let her know if she give birth in December or to 5th of January, that the baby is mine and it all end up in big fight
Pls what can I do pls
very simple look for another babe, settle down n start raising your family
Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 10:04pm On Dec 23, 2021
Magnoliaa:

grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

You're crying and it's embarrassing, hard man. Between you and the hoe(s) now, who is pained?

tongue Simps will everlastingly and forever exist, to wife us, no matter how much it kills you. And it is not everyone of them that'll wake up and have a realization.

Die mad about it! grin
him sef na simp - he freak out run mental when person e dey call hoe dump am .

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Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Pataricatering(f): 10:07pm On Dec 23, 2021
Romanoff:


You done hear say person born at 46 or 44 weeks?.
lol , anything to support a brother - even if e nor make sense.

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