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Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by UjuJoan2: 7:57am On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen: Your wife is obviously not very sensible, and most likely lacks wisdom. You need to ask yourself some questions; has she exhibited disrespectful behavior to you in the past? Did she mean to be disrespectful? Is she doing this to spite you, or because she doesn’t know any better? Correct her as you would a child and move on. Men should be able to correct their wives with love and patience, rather than make a big deal is every little thing. Even the best of us makes mistakes, no need holding it agains her for the rest of her life. Men like you keep things in and it eats them up and causes damage in the long run. Openness is the keys to happiness in marriage. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by lionphil(m): 8:25am On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen: Well, as the man of the house, I think she ought to serve you first BUT IF HER BROTHER HAS BEEN HER FATHER FIGURE... please, let it slide, it is just for a while and he will leave your house with time. Don't get worked up. Marriage comes with its ups and downs 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Sholaco: 6:06pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Not right, very disrespectful. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Indispensable85(m): 6:07pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
That one na still problem? Abeg getati |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by alizma: 6:07pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Are you sure you are not leaving under the same roof with your rival? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by ReneDaniels: 6:08pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bros before now she’s been serving to right. This said older brother of hers, if he’s older thank you I’d say it’s probably a culture thingy but if not, just let it slide no be just food. You they still eat na so let it slide okay. God bless you |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by ednut1(m): 6:08pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Woman by their nature are selfish , their nuclear family is more important to them. I will not accept such in my house o 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by ENIGMATIC2023(m): 6:08pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Ask her for her reasons before bringing it here. Na we marry wife for you ni? |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Nobody: 6:09pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SOME THINGS I dey hear for people marriage dey baffle me. |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by jerflakes(m): 6:10pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
ignis: Why she no marry am na? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by od501: 6:10pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen: Oga nawa for you oo...why you come dey observe like woman. Or don't you have anything better to do? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Mrkumareze(m): 6:10pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Op, just calm, I have come to realise we take wrong decisions, react in excess whenever we are hungry... To avoid mistakes, don't take actions whenever you are hungry, eat well, sleep, then reason am... |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Amanda4life: 6:12pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen: I BEG GIVE AM DIRTY SLAAAAAP |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by MadeMan01(m): 6:12pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
bigjackass: Wrong!!! You serve the head of the house first, then he can invite the guest to dine and be dished. If it's not buffet style feast, common sense says serve the provider. Even if you as guest is served first, you'd be inconsiderate to eat first, instead defer to your host. Let your host be the one to waive the right and tell guest to eat. If you go to England to visit the queen, she is served and all her guests, but NO one starts eating till the Queen has taken the first spoon to her mouth 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Blakjewelry(m): 6:12pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen:On one hand it might seems disrespectful but then again, she might do it yours last so as to get enough time to attend to you. Perhaps stay with or eat with you. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by AloneTK: 6:12pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
I don’t think this is a contest. Aside being an in law, he is a guest. And I think guests deserve the best hospitality that we can give. Not a big deal bro! They honoured you enough by allowing you to wife their sister, remember. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by drey076(m): 6:12pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Mtcheew this guy go get problem too much |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by flokii: 6:13pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
@OP Sorry.. your wife doesn't respect you as much as she respects her elder brother. The husband is still the head of the house so he should be regarded first before any other, if she goes to visit her family and serve her brothers food first, I see no qualms there but this is not acceptable. Men must learn to define boundaries in relationships while courting to avoid see finish in marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Pataricatering(f): 6:14pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
You don't know whether you are angry or.not ?. You had to rush here to.let.your fellow men determine whether you should be angry or not ? Lol Her older brother is a guest and guests should be served first as a courtesy. P.S - you are not.a king just a husband- if.you were.so hungry you could have gone into the kitchen to dish food for yourself . 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by veron007: 6:15pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bro you lucky sef. For my side, she will dish out food for her family members and forget about me. Me sef, I'll jeje drive to a restaurant close to us and sort myself out. This life no balance shaa. All these on top my house and food. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by israelmao(m): 6:15pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Someone made his position clear that he was hungry and gave money for preparation of a particular food and she cooked the food and served her brother first.She would've attended to her husband first but mind you this may not mean anything to your wife that is,it may not be a deliberate act.Just call her attention to it and correct her in love. 5 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by favour32(m): 6:15pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Bro,if you're not ok with such situation,talk to your wife, as she may not know the negative effect of her action. ***Note: Matters of home, avoid nairaland like a plague. Many here are small boys and girls who can't keep a stable relationship talk more of married life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by dapadawee: 6:16pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Its right now, he is a visitor, and your in law By virtue of his position he is older than you 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Moony45: 6:16pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
DICKstractor:Mr old generation, this space is not for you. Go back to the space where they write love letter with pencil. Thank you 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by smile4kenn(m): 6:17pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
SayAsSeen: There is nothing wrong with that. https://gist.am/question/is-it-right-for-my-wife-to-serve-her-brother-food-before-me-in-my-own-house 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by backnbeta(f): 6:17pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Like someone said earlier; it's just an old family tradition she's yet to grow out of. If you don't like it, just tell her to serve you first. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by lexy2014: 6:17pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
ahmthankgod: pls check the topic again. u seem to be commenting on the wrong topic 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Dja1(m): 6:18pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
You sure say no b her ex-boyfriend |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by slickbak(m): 6:18pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
ahmthankgod:Is he really a blood brother?? |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Pataricatering(f): 6:19pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Perfecttouch:lol any small talk no be you people go come online dey drag your wives like tiger generator dey beat chest on how you no fit disrespect your family for any " woman ' ! She too no fit disrespect her elder brother for any man - u ppl suppose to understand nah 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by AfonjaConehead: 6:19pm On Dec 24, 2021 |
Elder brother shebi?! The wifes elder brother is also like your father-in-law o... Do t complain... She will do same for your senior brother. Just ignore. 1 Like |
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