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Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by cutecommend: 10:34pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that... 42 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Opeyemiextra(f): 10:35pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Wait for the bashings cos they are coming for you. cutecommend: 71 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Sonnobax15(m): 10:39pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
![]() This is certainly the most senseless advice (comment) I've seen here on nairaland for this year ![]() Chaiiii, which kind mumu advice be this ![]() ![]() Mallam Kabiru,I no blame you at all ![]() ![]() No matter what--"Don't ever marry any Woman out of pity". Or. "Out of compensation". 453 Likes 39 Shares
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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nobody: 10:43pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
cutecommend:For sure if you want to..but note it ain't about her sexual past it's about her attitude and character that's what matter.. As for those calling her community service your own d**k wey don touch many ladies no be community service? 64 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Theama(m): 10:46pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
I'm trying to understand, but I'm not understanding. 151 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by fati2001(m): 10:51pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
cutecommend: ur opinion..... me can't take that! from anyone.. 135 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by AfroKnight: 10:52pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
This is bad advice. Don’t eat sh!t because you’re hungry and jollof rice is still on fire. As a man, place value on yourself. Don’t be like OP. 317 Likes 23 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Oluromantic: 11:02pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Lol. Your own life no be measuring yardstick for others. Believe it or not, girls who are good in character and past exist. What I just noticed is it's not how one expect to meet them that they're met. That's why prayer is needed in choosing a life partner and a blank mind to accompany the prayer. Blank mind because when one looks towards the bloomy right, the answered prayer may come through the left Besides, a man who is able to look beyond beauty in choosing a life partner.. who has experiences that inspires him beyond beauty.. is not likely to make mistakes in choosing a life partner. But most men are overwhelmed by beauty. 57 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by yuping(m): 11:05pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Marry wetin like that, i'm not looking for an angel ooo, but I can never settle for less, altitude problem, entitlement etc never. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Clickguy44: 11:05pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Good advice, in fact one of the best advice on this forum. To make it better, if she is a single mother, go for it, they love the best. It's gets better, look for those that have had sexual relationships with yahoo boys preferably those that have been used by them, those that their womb is damaged and the working dead among them. Just forget the past, since the past is in the past. After all she won't judge you by your future. 204 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Afamsi: 11:16pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Opeyemiextra:Your past go be as e get 29 Likes |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nyascobar1414: 12:24am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Men..
Dont settle for less... If she's not a virgin... Expect a failed marriage Hoes are pained when they see virgins cos they always wanna corrupt them... Never worry, the good ones are there..but it ain't easy to differ em.... 49 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by DonBenny77(m): 4:40am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Once a good girl is gone bad, she's gone forever 91 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nobody: 4:58am On Dec 28, 2021 |
I'd rather stay unmarried, than marry a female who is not a virgin.... Nahhhhhhh... That's not a possibility I'm willing to consider... As long as she wasn't raped and she's not a virgin, then she's off the chats already... And for those of you saying, "it's not about her past, it's about character", is sleeping around a trait of good character? Can't a person be a virgin and still have a good character? 122 Likes 13 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Dshocker(m): 5:03am On Dec 28, 2021 |
cutecommend: It is better you don't know her past for you to have peace of mind 10 Likes |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nobody: 5:03am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Nyascobar1414: Lots of folks don't know that there's evidence to support this... The more body counts, the likely the chances of a failed marriage... 68 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Nobody: 5:06am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Dshocker: What if the consequence of such past still lingers, what then?? 9 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by mardis: 5:27am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Clickguy44: Sarcasm! There you have it 62 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Truvelisback(m): 6:23am On Dec 28, 2021 |
cutecommend:That's just the ugly truth. If na decent girl u dey wait for, u go grow Moses. 3 Likes |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Ojb194616: 6:58am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Favfables1: But u know, people go into dream relationship thinking this might work and get really disappointed. They keep finding true love in the process keep meeting wrong guys. Sometimes , men torture this girls. If not , how can u profess love to a girl..sleep with her without a condom..get her pregnant and ask her to go do arbotion. We really need to talk to men. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Justkatty(f): 8:28am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Why digging someone past that may hurt you forever? If you can't let go of a past, better don't know about it for your mental sake Try building yourselves the way you want, if you keep searching for Mr or Miss perfect, you'll keep getting disappointment except God wishes Build him or her the way you want, allow the future to take charge forget the past and move on We keep getting older day by day and not reverse. One of the best decision I took was not going into a thing that will hurt me by asking for his past life and God has been faithful. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by BigDawsNet: 8:59am On Dec 28, 2021 |
"marry her like that" African mentality! Is it a must to marry?. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by DropsMic(m): 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Reminds me of Emeka that year.. Girls wey boys dey use hold body for street that year, e reach Emeka turn him go marry her talking about my love for her is pure and the past is the past. This same Emeka dey cry today say him wife dey cheat.. If you Gerrit, you gerrit. Guys must have sense by force.... 72 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by BAZ001: 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Hmmm Love is blind but marriage is a miracle worker that opens blind eyes. Close your eyes to her past but I promise you in few months time your closed eyes will open by her past friends and sexescapade You will start hearing stories like I don’t like my wife again There is no chemistry She snores while sleeping Bros talk true “ you closed eye don open” 18 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by Zeinymira(f): 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
There are lots of decent women but y'all chose to ignore them. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by NamelessOGBENI(m): 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
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Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by playapayaski: 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Stop that!!! Shitty mentality First off, marriage is not a must. Secondly don't drop your standards whatsoever, reason why your grandpa married 3-6 virgins and they all loved together peacefully.. Men are the cause of their problems, the moment we dropped our standards the women trampled on it and here we are.. Criteria for marriage then was mostly virgin bride from a good family.. what we have now is a bastardized system where gender equality and mediocre men worship used women n ignored standards.. placing women on pedestals above themselves. God first, man then woman. Man answers to God, woman answers to man. No unholy man will stand before God, at least without being punished, so it is for a woman before the man. Set standards brother, there are a few good ones out there encourage them by setting standards.. 44 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by slawormiir: 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright Grab my weed to read comments 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by paulolee(m): 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
lolz...the past defines the future...they is no future without past.. all people gat bad past n it depends on ur partner to decide if he/she can adapt wit ur imperfections.. u cnt ask me to marry a popular slay queen wey all boy for hood don tear based on hookup tinz n also u cnt force me to allow my kid sister get married to a notorious ex cultist...NEVER 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by zainabicy: 9:08am On Dec 28, 2021 |
Funny thing is girls don’t really have a problem with a guys body count. We are just different sha, all this gender equality is bullsh**** The real question is - Would you like to know all the ‘bad’ things she has done in the past ? All the styles and the guys that have hanged her legs ? Or would you rather not know ? Ignorance is bliss o… If you want to know, like If you don’t want to know, share 21 Likes 3 Shares |
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