Zabiboy:


The best way to know a person's true personality is how he/she treats those who nothing is expected of in return [/b]

Zabiboy:
_{continuation from my previous post}
Which brings me to another question
How willing are you to stretch a genuine helping hand to someone you dont know/wont see again/ cant return the help?

MJBOLT:

Calibrator is right,your peace of mind in Marriage is dependent on if your wife wants it or not,get married to a bad woman and you will probably die early.
A lot of women wield more power than their husbands in Marriages today.

CamusMidas:

Would you rather your Mum don't show you love and care just so that you won't owe her anything?

CamusMidas:

Would you rather your Mum don't show you love and care just so that you won't owe her anything?

Smartb0y:


You don't owe your parents anything.
What they did for you was as a result of responsibility,not that there should be any form of payback.
Same way it's your responsibility to cater for your kids if you ever decide to have any.

I'm just gonna tell you upfront, don't expect anything from anyone,so you don't get disappointed.

Everyone got their shit to settle.
Know this and know peace



We should learn not to be sentimental when discussing issues like this.

Abba114:
do u mean we shouldnt struggle to help our parents? man i can take a bullet for my parents

CamusMidas:

Would you rather your Mum don't show you love and care just so that you won't owe her anything?

SOZINN:


Have you ever been to a women's meeting where they are discussing about one of their dead members, maybe one who just died recently. You'll keep hearing the same thing from every woman's mouth. Oh her suffering was in vain. Look at all the pain and everything she sacrificed. All in vain!!! You will also hear the same thing if they are conversing about a woman who lost her young son.

If you catch them talking about a young man who died in the university. All you will keep hearing is waste, waste and waste. To conclude my rant, I told a friend of mine that if your mother ever disturbs you to get married again. Tell her that you will cut off all kinds of benefits (especially financial) coming her way. So that you can be able to handle the new responsibilities effectively. Be dead serious when you say this. Let's see if she brings it up again.

SOZINN:



Oga instead of you to get the message, you are here trying to form a baseless argument. What is the essence of your question? I posted this message before in the past and most of them came for my head, even that undercover guy who is well known and respected here. Some even said they will quit the red pill lol. The guy you are quoting just managed to break everything down. And yet you are not willing to unplug.

We have been preaching in the past that a woman's love is conditional and opportunistic. But we did not have the balls to put our mothers in the scale and measure them with this younger generation. The truth is that women's nature have always been the same. The only difference is that this younger generation have some kind of freedom to show their nature and truly live life the way they please. Whilst the women of old were a bit controlled.

Your mother never loved your father, because women are not capable of the word. Telling you that they love opportunistically is just a fine way of putting it. They can only be subjected to your power or value as a man. Sure, they can up and above, fight each other, kill if they have to for a high value man but that is just because they don't want to loose their place of comfort. Women have tasked themselves from birth to find the best mate they can. When their age and beauty cannot pull the kind of man they desire, they settle for whoever comes their way. Not because given the right circumstances they would love to settle with anyone of low value.

Zabiboy:

Bro.. I dunno if you are missing the point or you just don't like the bitter truth and trying to rationalize what you have been made to believe or you interested in an argument..
I'm not one to talk about women and their lives as it doesn't concern me hence this would be my last reply
"If having a child poses no benefit to a woman, she would not give birth --- Esther Vilar ( a woman)
Dunno if i used her exact words tho, but the point is, right from when you were conceived and your mum decided to keep you( pregnancy), there was definitely a reason or benefit thereby making the love shown afterwards CONDITIONAL....
Good luck

Formatz01:
Girl asked me if I'm a woman beater...
Pls what's the best reply

luminouz:
That dude asking if the gf is fuqin another guy is hilarious.

For her to even say it out. Yes, mudafucker,she is fuqin another dude with a bigger dick.

Means someone else satisfied her outside. One thing I learnt about sex is that once you can make a woman cum very well, you occupy a soft spot in her heart. Few men understand that to make a woman cum doesn't require the biggest diick,just the most skillful one. Find her body weaknesses and exploit it.

But then,most of these ladies shouting 'small diick' have something wide down there, from extensive mileage usage. Just jejely leave her for the other nigga with bigger dick. Find someone else whose Vijay is tighter. There is a D for a V.

Calibrator:
Seems like this weekend is for the bitter truths.

You don't want to compare the person you are entrusting with your future (children, properties) and who will be sharing your bed, most likely in charge of your feeding and can snuff life out of you without raising suspicion if she so wishes to your mother whose input in your life wanes as soon as you hit MID twenties and you think you are now an adult capable of making his own decisions.

Let me tell you what nobody else will, the day you marry, whether you like it or not, your wife automatically rank above your mother and your peace of mind is directly tied to whether your wife wants you to have it or not.

Have you ever seen a married man thrown in prison for neglecting his mother, try that with your wife and kids first and see how fast you will land where you don't want to be.

You think those who are avoiding marriage don't have sense ba, it will clear for your eyes how much power a wife holds

Susily:



In a gynocentric society, all these you said holds true but not in a patriarchal society like Nigeria

A man should take care of his kids cos it's his responsibility, but if your wife doesn't want to give you peace in your marriage, RAISE HELL ON HER

There's a reason most wealthy Nigerians prefer to live in Nigeria (High brow areas of this country) than abroad......

Calibrator:
Seems like this weekend is for the bitter truths.

You don't want to compare the person you are entrusting with your future (children, properties) and who will be sharing your bed, most likely in charge of your feeding and can snuff life out of you without raising suspicion if she so wishes to your mother whose input in your life wanes as soon as you hit MID twenties and you think you are now an adult capable of making his own decisions.

Let me tell you what nobody else will, the day you marry, whether you like it or not, your wife automatically rank above your mother and your peace of mind is directly tied to whether your wife wants you to have it or not.

Have you ever seen a married man thrown in prison for neglecting his mother, try that with your wife and kids first and see how fast you will land where you don't want to be.

You think those who are avoiding marriage don't have sense ba, it will clear for your eyes how much power a wife holds

ubunja:
stop chasing. Let the girls do the chasing.

DieRich5:
first nobody has power over me,I learned to live ND do wat I like ND alots of people even my friend's hate me for dat

man has option to rank anyone it's not automatically u rank ur wife above mother but it's different from women cus the man bought u from ur family

your peace of mind is directly tied to whether your wife wants you to......so ur saying women has more power over men in married?

Susily:



In a gynocentric society, all these you said holds true but not in a patriarchal society like Nigeria

A man should take care of his kids cos it's his responsibility, but if your wife doesn't want to give you peace in your marriage, RAISE HELL ON HER

There's a reason most wealthy Nigerians prefer to live in Nigeria (High brow areas of this country) than abroad......

Lightway:


I'm not trying to cause arguments, but some people said only your mother can love you truly. Are you also saying that a mother's love is opportunitistic and conditional?

Smartb0y:


This is the undiluted truth.

Stay in your parents house till you're like 35 and see how you'd be treated compared to when you're sending money for them .

I think they get the idea now

Smartb0y:

Lol bro, you've stretched it too far.

Even close family and relatives don't wanna help each other talkless of outsiders

Funny enough, most times they tend to help outsiders than their family members .

Zabiboy:

Still shocked that posts like that still get some people angry...
Ask yourself, did your mum take care of you and all sorts because that's her personality or because she's hoping/knows you'll return the favour in the future?
Lets say for example, you had a maid( boy or girl) while growing up, you cant tell me there wont be any difference in the treatment/appearance/allocation of work and all sorts. And as far as this is true, it means you are being loved/cared for conditionally ( future benefits) which is the same as when you are being loved for what you can provide/money by other girls out there...
Note: No one said you should not help your parents, we just establishing the fact that despite the love and care ( which most of us would love to return back), it's still conditional and so AWALT.
The best way to know a person's true personality is how he/she treats those who nothing is expected of in return

CAPSLOCKED:


THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS A REAL MAN IN MY BOOKS. I ONLY KNOW MEN.

WHEN YOU START TO JOIN WOMEN TO CLASSIFY MEN INTO REAL MEN VS ORDINARY MEN, YOU'RE ENABLING THEIR IDIOCY IN EMPLOYING THE "REAL MAN" TAG AS AN EGO BOOST TO MILK MEN AND DEMAND THE MOST FROM MEN WHILE PUSHING SUCH REAL MEN TO THE BRINK OF DEATH IN MEN'S QUESTS TO DO THINGS BEYOND THEIR STRENGTHS FOR WOMEN JUST TO MAINTAIN THE REAL MAN CROWN.

REDPILLERS AND ENLIGHTENED MEN MUST KNOW THIS MILLENNIUM-OLD TRICK, AND SHOULD NEVER FALL FOR IT. IT'S EITHER YOU'RE A MAN OR YOU'RE NOT. IF WOMEN THINK YOU'RE A REAL MAN BEST BELIEVE YOU'RE THE ĮDIOT TO BE EXTORTED UNTIL INFINITY. THIS PERSON IS THE BETA SLAVE THAT BUCKS, WHILE AN ALPHA FUCS.

DON'T BE A REAL MAN. JUST BE A MAN WITH WISDOM, A-GAME, POTENTIAL, CAREER AND GOALS, AND THAT'S ALL YOU NEED.

SOZINN:
Still, they won't hesitate to jump to another man of higher value and leave the one they were once willing to risk so much for. That's Hypergamy and it's in the nature of all females. About your mother taking care of you and nurturing you. That is a transaction too, see it as a sort of investment. Also she doesn't have a choice, if she cares about what society thinks, dropping you and running off is not an option.

Have you ever been to a women's meeting where they are discussing about one of their dead members, maybe one who just died recently. You'll keep hearing the same thing from every woman's mouth. Oh her suffering was in vain. Look at all the pain and everything she sacrificed. All in vain!!! You will also hear the same thing if they are conversing about a woman who lost her young son.

If you catch them talking about a young man who died in the university. All you will keep hearing is waste, waste and waste. To conclude my rant, I told a friend of mine that if your mother ever disturbs you to get married again. Tell her that you will cut off all kinds of benefits (especially financial) coming her way. So that you can be able to handle the new responsibilities effectively. Be dead serious when you say this. Let's see if she brings it up again.