Andremalan731:
Good morning guys
Is it okay to wish an ex happy birthday
Please I need answers ASAP
Thanks

ubunja:

Yep, guys like to play it safe. A little too safe if you ask me. At some point the bull needs to be taken by the horns and the guy needs to act - consequences be damned. The mating ritual has always favored the bold.

And it's true, majority of guys are not sexual enough. They're too straightlaced. Too sterile. Too bland. Too boring. Too....... Safe.


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And during convoys guys need to learn how to turn mundane discussions sexual through the use of innuendo and double entendre. That shit excites females. It's as simple as seeing a girl carrying a cake and shouting, "can I have cake?!" when she responds about the cake you reply, "Not that one! That other one!" and just like that everything has gone sexual.



In a perfect world you should bath 2 times and wear clothes once before washing them and all your clothes must be your best clothes.

Adhering to these will get you action..

JESHAL:




The economic climate is harsh
Most people priorities are minding their own business and focusing on how they will get means to survive, they distract themselves with stupid clickbait news like this as escapism from harsh reality but return back to their daily routine, he's an idiot who proves money doesn't cure beta, how can he be so stupid to over look the many redflags, he thought money will solve everything,he had no game in his youth may be because he was fat with low self-esteem or he was stupid and bought into the one-titis soulmate myth with a used and battered hoe, he a living scapegoat of the stupidity mordern men are becoming because of unnecessary burden they place on themselves to settle down based on societal expectations of responsibility from an adult man, society filled with people wey get their own matter for head, shiorrrrr

MJBOLT:

this fool spent 45 million naira to get married to a woman who is a baby mama for different men

https://www.nairaland.com/6931870/sandra-iheuwas-husband-steve-thompson#109232127

Kaymicheal852:



And they always think they deserve the best among woman ( which is true to some extent) but because of ignorance and lack of experience and game they are doing it in awrong way

Kaymicheal852:




Late last year one elderly says the hoes and materialistic woman are the one's that actually marry the rich men

I quickly step in and told him that it is true because the materialistic gilrs just need to dress scantily and wait for a rich simp

While the rich simp are also arrogant,they think they are special they think there is something good in them and they are special and they are nice guys

And they always think they deserve the best among woman ( which is true to some extent) but because of ignorance and lack of experience and game they are doing it in a wrong way

Instead of looking for a homely girl,a virgin in a well cultured , religious family ,he wants to chill with the big girls and because of lack of experience he get carried away by the great sex


But those marriages like this one doesn't last long and she ended up a single mother or a baby mama or at worst senerio she cheated on her husband and get caught and that might affect that man (few so die on the spot ) or he gives him a bastard and he may never found out for years and that might lead to death or some kind of serious injury for both for them

The rich simp don't know that he is not better than other men ,the only difference is his bank statement and what she can gain from him

The most expensive and the most medially announced wedding last the least

SOZINN:




1000% correct. The men who have worked to become high value deserve the best women but it all boils down to what they want from those women and why. That's where they get it wrong. From what I'm seeing, the majority of them don't know how to classify the women they mingle with. A scantily dressed woman with good curves like the one you described will be a good choice for short term fun but they take such women to the altar.

A man who is searching for a life partner should be looking elsewhere. SMH. Well, where the red pill is absent what do you expect.

Kaymicheal852:




Late last year one elderly says the hoes and materialistic woman are the one's that actually marry the rich men

I quickly step in and told him that it is true because the materialistic gilrs just need to dress scantily and wait for a rich simp

While the rich simp are also arrogant,they think they are special they think there is something good in them and they are special and they are nice guys

And they always think they deserve the best among woman ( which is true to some extent) but because of ignorance and lack of experience and game they are doing it in a wrong way

Instead of looking for a homely girl,a virgin in a well cultured , religious family ,he wants to chill with the big girls and because of lack of experience he get carried away by the great sex


But those marriages like this one doesn't last long and she ended up a single mother or a baby mama or at worst senerio she cheated on her husband and get caught and that might affect that man (few so die on the spot ) or he gives him a bastard and he may never found out for years and that might lead to death or some kind of serious injury for both for them

The rich simp don't know that he is not better than other men ,the only difference is his bank statement and what she can gain from him

The most expensive and the most medially announced wedding last the least

ubunja:


Women are unpredictable. Women are confusing. So men must fold their hands and resign themselves to their fate? And make no attempt to understand? No.

What if you misread the signals?
As a rule you never work with one greenlight. I explained you add several greenlights together to come to your conclusion. Eg,, she calls you to fix the light, then she changes into something revealing because "it's so hot today!" And makes all excuses to be in your personal space especially when she keeps touching you.

Now, how you respond is not by suddenly stopping and kissing her or whatever. You can be misreading everything!!

What you do is YOU PLAY THE SAME GAME. You mirror and copy her! She comes in with a smaller blouse claiming it's hot, you take your t-shirt off in agreement.
I can give you various scenarios to do but I'm wary because it must never be about you memorizing what to do, but being resourceful enough that you can think on your feet and adapt to your situation. That's what's important.

Dizzyyish:

You sure say these women (especially the first one) no dey use chameleon tactics?

victorphelpz:


Ubunja!! most of your teachings are just too relatable. there was this guy, during nysc, he was my roomie. This guy did most of the things u wrote there unknowingly repeatedly...it was like a magic, the guy banged five girls in 5months. what I noticed about the guy, he was good in noticing greenlight and acts almost immediately, and he's also hot this I don't care attitude....

ubunja:


And it's true, majority of guys are not sexual enough. They're too straightlaced. Too sterile. Too bland. Too boring. Too....... Safe.



A lot of guys need to ditch underwear/briefs/shorts etc and just go commando. Just put your jeans/trousers on directly on your dick. Women respond to such things. And they love those erections. Too bad when men get a boner they become self-conscious and try to conceal it. It's fine if you're in respectable company,, but out there in town just let that thing swing!! Women's sharp eyes always notice. If the print is impressive they'll come near.

MJBOLT:

this fool spent 45 million naira to get married to a woman who is a baby mama for different men

https://www.nairaland.com/6931870/sandra-iheuwas-husband-steve-thompson#109232127

ubunja:

On the issue of greenlights and noticing them fast and acting quick, let me share how I used to cheat on my babymama while we were together...

Let me begin with this one event concerning our phones....

So me and her at one time we had the same exact Samsung phone, the model number down to the color and the color of the covers/pouch. One morning we were running behind time and in her rush to get to work she picked up MY phone and went with it to work. Myself I didn't see until I got a call and it was her boss asking my babymama where she was and why she was running late. I realized it was babymama's phone!!!! Not mine.

So we each spent the whole day with each other's phones. Myself I was not worried because no suspect calls were going to come in anyways. Well no calls came on her phone either and I didn't see any suspicious activity on her phone. Not that I was too worried. And not that I thought she was perfect. I didn't care too much.
Now it's not that myself I was well behaved,, cause I was cheating a lot at that time. But here's the thing,, I never took down any numbers or gave anyone my number. What I did was wherever I went, I was just alert for girls who were down - to-fucc (dtf).

Like this other woman a co-worker was seeing who came to work on a day he was absent. They had a communication breakdown and she turned up on the wrong day. I had always fancied her. And she was in a receptive mood. So I escalated until I took her back to my place and hit. No numbers. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.
Then there were two sisters I knew from before and one day I met the younger one who happened to be in a receptive mood and we talked until we went somewhere and I hit. Again, no numbers exchanged. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.

That was my method of operation for a long time. I didn't have a steady girl I was cheating with. But I was always alert for opportunities. My phone stayed clean. I could leave it at home no worries.

As guys we need to cultivate that ability to spot women who are in the mood for some D. Even a 10 minute romp that won't ever happen again. There are plenty of such situations out there.

I have friends who were even far better than me at this "same day pussy" thing. Who could meet a girl now, and in a few hours be screwing in some hotel. My own conquests were not as good as theirs, admittedly. Still, I got my share.
If you meet a girl, and she's not turning you down, keep pushing to see how far you can go with her. Take it as a challenge. Remember women are trains, they start slow, but when they get in the mood and the hormones are moving, you have to finish what you started. TODAY. Not tomorrow. As long as she's still listening keep seducing and suggest she come with you somewhere private. You'll be surprised how the least suspect women will let you hit. Only keep pushing. Don't have the mind of "this girl is nice and we're vibing, let me go home I'll finish talking with her on whatsapp and meet her another day. BIG MISTAKE. By the time you whatsapp her she'll be cold and ignore you. By tomorrow she'd be back to her senses.
That same day that she's listening keep pressing and you just might hit. If you see a guy and girl kissing in the park and romancing each other and they part ways,,, always know that the girl is going to pass somewhere to have another guy finish what the first guy started. And you yourself if your girl visits you at your place,, as long as you don't intend to fucc her, don't touch her. Don't press her buttons. Don't romance her. Cause once her hormones are moving and you don't give her the D, she's passing somewhere else to get the job that you started finished.

ubunja:


Women are unpredictable. Women are confusing. So men must fold their hands and resign themselves to their fate? And make no attempt to understand? No.

What if you misread the signals?
As a rule you never work with one greenlight. I explained you add several greenlights together to come to your conclusion. Eg,, she calls you to fix the light, then she changes into something revealing because "it's so hot today!" And makes all excuses to be in your personal space especially when she keeps touching you.

Now, how you respond is not by suddenly stopping and kissing her or whatever. You can be misreading everything!!

What you do is YOU PLAY THE SAME GAME. You mirror and copy her! She comes in with a smaller blouse claiming it's hot, you take your t-shirt off in agreement.
I can give you various scenarios to do but I'm wary because it must never be about you memorizing what to do, but being resourceful enough that you can think on your feet and adapt to your situation. That's what's important.

SOZINN:




Remember when I said in cyber space the majority of people that will try to counter posts that convey common sense are not women (who have something to gain by doing it). It's the sad excuses for men who want to appear to be on women's side so as to get validation from them. If you read the comments on the first page, you will see a proper analysis of everything by a popular nairaland feminist and how she places the blame on the woman.

For all we know she could be applying the chameleon technique or maybe it's time to settle down or she was just hinting for likes. Whatever the case maybe, she was on point.
If you go down a bit more you will see a counter post which makes no sense from a male moniker. You see these things and you wonder how deeply rooted in the matrix some men are.

You think they will see stories like these and learn something from it. For every simp out there disgracing the male specie, I can bet there are a thousand more willing to do more stupid things just to be accepted by society. That's why when I see such posts I just read (if I can) and leave.

ubunja:


Women are unpredictable. Women are confusing. So men must fold their hands and resign themselves to their fate? And make no attempt to understand? No.

What if you misread the signals?
As a rule you never work with one greenlight. I explained you add several greenlights together to come to your conclusion. Eg,, she calls you to fix the light, then she changes into something revealing because "it's so hot today!" And makes all excuses to be in your personal space especially when she keeps touching you.

Now, how you respond is not by suddenly stopping and kissing her or whatever. You can be misreading everything!!

What you do is YOU PLAY THE SAME GAME. You mirror and copy her! She comes in with a smaller blouse claiming it's hot, you take your t-shirt off in agreement.
I can give you various scenarios to do but I'm wary because it must never be about you memorizing what to do, but being resourceful enough that you can think on your feet and adapt to your situation. That's what's important.

ubunja:

On the issue of greenlights and noticing them fast and acting quick, let me share how I used to cheat on my babymama while we were together...

Let me begin with this one event concerning our phones....

So me and her at one time we had the same exact Samsung phone, the model number down to the color and the color of the covers/pouch. One morning we were running behind time and in her rush to get to work she picked up MY phone and went with it to work. Myself I didn't see until I got a call and it was her boss asking my babymama where she was and why she was running late. I realized it was babymama's phone!!!! Not mine.

So we each spent the whole day with each other's phones. Myself I was not worried because no suspect calls were going to come in anyways. Well no calls came on her phone either and I didn't see any suspicious activity on her phone. Not that I was too worried. And not that I thought she was perfect. I didn't care too much.
Now it's not that myself I was well behaved,, cause I was cheating a lot at that time. But here's the thing,, I never took down any numbers or gave anyone my number. What I did was wherever I went, I was just alert for girls who were down - to-fucc (dtf).

Like this other woman a co-worker was seeing who came to work on a day he was absent. They had a communication breakdown and she turned up on the wrong day. I had always fancied her. And she was in a receptive mood. So I escalated until I took her back to my place and hit. No numbers. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.
Then there were two sisters I knew from before and one day I met the younger one who happened to be in a receptive mood and we talked until we went somewhere and I hit. Again, no numbers exchanged. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.

That was my method of operation for a long time. I didn't have a steady girl I was cheating with. But I was always alert for opportunities. My phone stayed clean. I could leave it at home no worries.

As guys we need to cultivate that ability to spot women who are in the mood for some D. Even a 10 minute romp that won't ever happen again. There are plenty of such situations out there.

I have friends who were even far better than me at this "same day pussy" thing. Who could meet a girl now, and in a few hours be screwing in some hotel. My own conquests were not as good as theirs, admittedly. Still, I got my share.
If you meet a girl, and she's not turning you down, keep pushing to see how far you can go with her. Take it as a challenge. Remember women are trains, they start slow, but when they get in the mood and the hormones are moving, you have to finish what you started. TODAY. Not tomorrow. As long as she's still listening keep seducing and suggest she come with you somewhere private. You'll be surprised how the least suspect women will let you hit. Only keep pushing. Don't have the mind of "this girl is nice and we're vibing, let me go home I'll finish talking with her on whatsapp and meet her another day. BIG MISTAKE. By the time you whatsapp her she'll be cold and ignore you. By tomorrow she'd be back to her senses.
That same day that she's listening keep pressing and you just might hit. If you see a guy and girl kissing in the park and romancing each other and they part ways,,, always know that the girl is going to pass somewhere to have another guy finish what the first guy started. And you yourself if your girl visits you at your place,, as long as you don't intend to fucc her, don't touch her. Don't press her buttons. Don't romance her. Cause once her hormones are moving and you don't give her the D, she's passing somewhere else to get the job that you started finished.

ubunja:

On the issue of greenlights and noticing them fast and acting quick, let me share how I used to cheat on my babymama while we were together...

Let me begin with this one event concerning our phones....

So me and her at one time we had the same exact Samsung phone, the model number down to the color and the color of the covers/pouch. One morning we were running behind time and in her rush to get to work she picked up MY phone and went with it to work. Myself I didn't see until I got a call and it was her boss asking my babymama where she was and why she was running late. I realized it was babymama's phone!!!! Not mine.

So we each spent the whole day with each other's phones. Myself I was not worried because no suspect calls were going to come in anyways. Well no calls came on her phone either and I didn't see any suspicious activity on her phone. Not that I was too worried. And not that I thought she was perfect. I didn't care too much.
Now it's not that myself I was well behaved,, cause I was cheating a lot at that time. But here's the thing,, I never took down any numbers or gave anyone my number. What I did was wherever I went, I was just alert for girls who were down - to-fucc (dtf).

Like this other woman a co-worker was seeing who came to work on a day he was absent. They had a communication breakdown and she turned up on the wrong day. I had always fancied her. And she was in a receptive mood. So I escalated until I took her back to my place and hit. No numbers. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.
Then there were two sisters I knew from before and one day I met the younger one who happened to be in a receptive mood and we talked until we went somewhere and I hit. Again, no numbers exchanged. No second hookup. Just a 1 hit wonder.

That was my method of operation for a long time. I didn't have a steady girl I was cheating with. But I was always alert for opportunities. My phone stayed clean. I could leave it at home no worries.

As guys we need to cultivate that ability to spot women who are in the mood for some D. Even a 10 minute romp that won't ever happen again. There are plenty of such situations out there.

I have friends who were even far better than me at this "same day pussy" thing. Who could meet a girl now, and in a few hours be screwing in some hotel. My own conquests were not as good as theirs, admittedly. Still, I got my share.
If you meet a girl, and she's not turning you down, keep pushing to see how far you can go with her. Take it as a challenge. Remember women are trains, they start slow, but when they get in the mood and the hormones are moving, you have to finish what you started. TODAY. Not tomorrow. As long as she's still listening keep seducing and suggest she come with you somewhere private. You'll be surprised how the least suspect women will let you hit. Only keep pushing. Don't have the mind of "this girl is nice and we're vibing, let me go home I'll finish talking with her on whatsapp and meet her another day. BIG MISTAKE. By the time you whatsapp her she'll be cold and ignore you. By tomorrow she'd be back to her senses.
That same day that she's listening keep pressing and you just might hit. If you see a guy and girl kissing in the park and romancing each other and they part ways,,, always know that the girl is going to pass somewhere to have another guy finish what the first guy started. And you yourself if your girl visits you at your place,, as long as you don't intend to fucc her, don't touch her. Don't press her buttons. Don't romance her. Cause once her hormones are moving and you don't give her the D, she's passing somewhere else to get the job that you started finished.

Mentholated:


No female is capable of loving any man for who he is. They all love opportunistically.

Mothers abort millions of their babies annually. Have we asked ourselves why?

Kids are just assest for companionship and security.

If your parents were 100% sure you won't provide that, they will find a way to make you disappear.

ALL relationships in life are TRANSACTIONAL.

Humans simply do not want to deal with the fact that we live in a cold world.

Jessepaid:
Don't forget to check the browser history...


They are all hoes...

Skepticus:


Valid facts.

As it is, SIMPs are always attracted to, and committing themselves to damaged women. Some are basically, clueless about the intersexual dynamics. Some are trying to be woke. Other hide under the illusion of sexual fetish to commit to super-damaged women.

Where they (SIMPs) are poor, they commit to low maintenance, damaged women.

When they are rich, their delusions and simping gets worse because they have funds to simp stupidly. The rich simp tells himself that since he is rich, he deserves a "high class" woman which means high-maintenance, bad quality slût, and there are a lot of these types of women (damaged whores, gold-diggers) who are smart at preying on these rich but stupid men.

The case of simping Steve is off the charts, committing to Sandra who has made a career of being a marriage-unworthy street cûnt. Normally, she should be left in the streets where she naturally belongs, but the abundance of rich SIMPs in Nigeria will make one commit to her in no distant time, thinking he is smarter than other men, by turning a hoe that other men have been passing around, into a feminine house wife. Lol

JESHAL:
The sad reality is that most mordern men, poor , average and rich are betas and needy Simps who will settle down with damaged or reformed hoes