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What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Tripitaka: 8:30pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
So, I plan to propose to my partner of 2yrs before the end of the first quadrimester. I must say she has been a blessing to me and ticks 90% of the boxes in terms of what an ideal partner is. Even though I haven't proposed to her, overtime she believes we will get married some day. Now, in the lead up to this proposal certain thoughts have been running through my head and these include: ● How will my first meeting with her parents be? What if the dad doesnt like me? Heard he is very strict. ● How much do I need to budget for a proper but modest ceremony? She is the jewel in her family and honestly deserve a proper ceremony, even though not expensive. ● How do I pop the question? Yes, it doesnt have to be exquisite, but I want to give her a memory. ● How many kids will we have and what if we dont get the genders we want amongst this number? ● What if she becomes a different person after the wedding? I can say that I know her to a high degree; but then she is another human. ● How will the logistics for the wedding be done considering I stay in the North Central, my family lives in the SE while hers live in the SS. ● Will she expect me to post her on my Whatsapp? This is considering that I haven't posted a picture there in 4yrs. ● Will I still be able to get my usual alone time? ● Will she always trust my judgement just as she does now? ● What if she is influenced by her mother? I'm aware that most mother-in-laws have a huge say in their daughter's marriage with the man being ignorant of this. ● Will she love my family? ● What if we have financial difficulties? My question is this, do women have these same worries as men do before their marriage or do they just believe that everything will be fine? Please this thread is for women to chip in the thoughts that occupied their minds the most in the lead up to their marriage. No need replying if you're not a woman. 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by ColdHunter(f): 9:52pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
Tripitaka: For the most part, women think about - the expected glamour of the upcoming wedding (not necessarily the financial implication) - the thrill of having their own home - child birth - and the hope that the man will always desire them. Lalalsticlala |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by emvicks2(m): 3:13am On Jan 10, 2022 |
I also think about these things too |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by ireneidiva(f): 3:54am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Tripitaka:Some of you are just weird. Why not take time to study her and ask her some of these directly? Am I supposed to tell you the number of children you should have or if she will love your family? 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Bola146(f): 4:33am On Jan 10, 2022 |
Always cut your cloth according to your cloth not size. Go for the lady that who has the same vision and good communication with you. If you are still having doubts in your mind, deal with it first to avoid stories that touches. 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Opeyemiextra(f): 9:03am On Jan 10, 2022 |
I think that these things should have been thoroughly discussed in those 2 years so that there is a plan you both are set on working with. This plan might not fully work out and would sometimes need to be reviewed but there should be an idea on family and all that is binding for both of you. Tripitaka: |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by odinson1(m): 2:38pm On Jan 10, 2022 |
Men una mumu die ahswear Don't come back in 5 years disturbing us on how your wife Is denying you sex,or how your wife chased your friends and family members away |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Amanee(f): 9:12am On Jan 11, 2022 |
ColdHunter: As usual, you're not a woman but you're already making delusional conclusions about women ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Tripitaka: 9:31am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Bola146: You may need to read between the lines. Never said I'm unsure of her nor ignorant of her vision. This post is just me thinking aloud; it really isnt that deep. |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Tripitaka: 9:34am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Opeyemiextra: Of course we have had these discussions but as is in my OP, she is still another human being. You wouldn't think I dont know someone i intend to marry well enough. Again, I'm just thinking aloud. In life, you can never be too sure. |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Bola146(f): 10:33am On Jan 11, 2022 |
Tripitaka: This post is just me thinking aloud; it really isnt that deep Kikikikikikikikikikiki ![]() ![]() ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by ColdHunter(f): 1:37pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Amanee: Wisdom is definitely profitable to direct. |
Re: What Do Women Think About In The Lead Up To Their Weddings. by Opeyemiextra(f): 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2022 |
Tripitaka: Well, I probably read your post wrong however these questions are not out of place. If she has proven herself in these 2 years then that should give you rest. |
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