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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Helper1991(m): 12:46pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:What is your address and location? I need to come and advice you both so that it will not happen again. That lady needs to be rescue from a lion who eats what is not given to him. She needs justice of abuse and assault. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by SenecaTheYonger: 12:47pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Foodqueen: How do you know? Is she in this thread? |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by holluwizzy: 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
After u finished thinking with ur balls abi ? Odiegwu |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by MARS1(m): 12:49pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
safarigirl: How can you equate demanding sex from your wife to someone asking biro from you, they are not to be in the same instance madam. They are not to deny each other sex except they are in mutual understanding of such. Where there is no understanding, abuse is inevitable. They both did wrong in the end, but denying your husband sex in marriage is a breach of union and contract legally binding them, and abusing your wife on the ground of sex denial cannot be excused either. Understanding one's partner is very important, not everyone likes sex as a daily routine, and when you notice something off in your partner, it is important both parties find a way to resolve it before it leads to another problem. The woman ought to have opened up to her husband what bothers her, and the man should have made the move to know what warranted those changes but still, one should never deny the other sex when all things are fine except there is an agreement between them base on understanding. 6 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Babydaddymateri(m): 12:50pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
I see no reason why I would be legally married to a woman and she denies me sex without any convenient reason. Don't you feel you should conduct a DNA on your daughter ? Then after certifying that she's your biological daughter, leave make she continue dey do things that pleases her - you just dey watch; no report the matter give anybody; raping her has already demean your reputation; you reporting the matter to a third party to come settle for you guys would bring down your self esteem the more... After confirmation that she's your biological daughter, find one bani for outside wey you go dey kpef on a low; anytime, anyday wey you like, dey come house come see your daughter and provide for their needs. Also, when you sleep for house, do so with your eyes open or the door locked; to avoid stories wey touch soul... you don already try enough by apologizing, she still no wan geh sense, buh with time, nobody go tell her when she go go outside go carry third party come settle matter for Una. I swear to God. Modified: lemme tell you a lil story, my girl denied me the oza room last December when she came visiting. She be dey think sey I go beg buh my mama no born me well, if I do. I just jejely say okay then turn, unplugged my phone from socket, enter bedroom, logged on to xvideos and I was entertaining myself.. I guess she was curious what I was up to after some minute she didn't see me return back to join her in the movie she was seeing at the living room, naso madam trace me come bedroom and met me jerking myself with full pleasure. She laughed saying no wonder I no beg, then she apologized and promised she go give me full action for midnight, I only answered no problem sey I no vex and she perked me and went back to her movie. For midnight, naso I see the person snuck up to me, dey use one hand caress me for body and the other on my thing. I just yinmu; whispering "look this one, me wey I don satisfy myself well well, no matter wetin you do tonight, no action for you aunty" all under my breathe. She do do do do do... She caress tire... She tickle tire.... Na so she vex dey begin dey hala for me sey shey na because of wetin she do me last night ( I just pretend sey I'm still deep sleeping - laff wan catch me, buh I mellow ham)... She try her luck again maybe she go succeed again - for where ? I finally said bo action tonight madam, I'm tired... Goan sleep.... She vex turn, then use pillow do wall between us (mtchew... like I care) Since that time, if my body dey do somehow and I snuck up to her - she go leave anything wey she dey do and we go do something sharp sharp ( afterall, na only first round man dey enjoy ham, the remaining rounds are meant to please a woman) My moral of the story is when you habor an impression that your woman is getting it better somewhere whenever she denies you s,ex, you begin to feel insecure... Then the insecurities will make you to start misbehaving, thereby limiting your self esteem as the head. Buh when you start believing women are capable of getting it anywhere buh it doesn't move you a bit, you're alive.... That's all for now Àlàáfíà.... 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Amumaigwe: 12:50pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: See how you exonerated the wife's misconduct that triggered the whole saga. Didn't you read that she starves him of sex habitually? Any woman that hopes to be happy in marriage should learn the art of submission. It is even in the Bible if you have one. Give your husband sex, issue; get a side chick, bigger issue. Women, wetin u a want sef? 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 12:50pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Luckysbab: Product of rape 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by advanceDNA: 12:51pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: I’m not enraged.... I don’t care how long he stayed without sex..every home has their modus operandi....some couple have sex once a month and it’s not an issue.. some are used to 3 times a week... But the fact is, u can’t address his wrong behaviour without addressing the causE...That’s how it works in court.... Is that not why we have manslaughter/crime of passion, and fist degree murder....?? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Peruez01: 12:51pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
I understand your pain bro... It's not right for her to hoard sex Give her time and talk things through with her |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by galadima77(m): 12:53pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
GoodHardDick: Op take this pill |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Orkpekyandega(m): 12:54pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
socialmediaman: It is captured please. Before now it was believed that a man can not rape his wife. But that's not the case now. Rape your wife and watch her take serious legal action against you. The wives can take legal action against their husbands, if the husbands touche her sexually and she considers the touch inappropriate. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by grafixdon: 12:54pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Check very well op, do your findings, your wife is sleeping with someone else. They way I'm seeing it, the dude determines when your wife should have sex with you. Take charge now, but I'm afraid it's too late. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by socialmediaman: 12:55pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Tallesty1: I think I understand where you’re coming from… but when the deed is done, I don’t think it’s ok to blame the victim. It’s like when murder is committed, do you focus your attention on the victim? Focusing on her means encouraging others who are possibly going through the same thing. If he had come online saying she was denying him sex, people would’ve advised him to divorce or send her back to her parents and find other ways to satisfy himself as he pleased, but no, he decided to do the unthinkable. You know he’s lucky that he doesn’t live abroad, because he would possibly been in jail from this |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 12:57pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
socialmediaman: The only wrong thing he did was hitting her...apart from that , he did no wrong... there is nothing like rape in marriage |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 12:58pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
She’s not the cause of his behavior He raped her because he’s a rapist. End of discussion advanceDNA: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Nobody: 12:58pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: I never said a woman has no right over he r body. I only said the husband has right over her body which is one of the things couples are made to understand when planning to come together as man wife and they all agree to these rules at the initial stage during counseling and at the altar. Only to start breaking the vows,/agreement the moment they gain ground in their husbands house. Again that is a sacrifice you make for agreeing to be with another entity. You give it your all, which could sometimes be against your wish. That's what marriage is all about. Forget this "woke" mentality some of you suddenly start coming up with after "having your cake" and Stick to the vows you both made and agreed to at the counselors office/ altar. Any body who is not ready to take nonsense should not bother getting married because therein lies a lot of nonsensical characters and behaviors. Nuf said! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 12:58pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Helper1991: Stop displaying ur simping way...men are talking, not boys |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Keniwit(m): 12:58pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Konji na bastard... anyway maybe she's getting it from someone |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by socialmediaman: 12:59pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Kingcalls: In Nigeria you mean? Because it’s a crime in many countries of the world |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by flokii: 1:00pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
foleskay: Word.. practice what you preach and preach what you practice. Some will give their husband sex early morning, take lunch to his office and still give him quickie, then when he returns home at night, they still open for him but come to public space to justify other married women denying their husbands sex for months in the name of yeye "feminism" or whatnot. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Orkpekyandega(m): 1:01pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: Even in the hades your wife will not forgive you. You should have left her to be na. Kaiiiiii you have given her more reasons and grounds to hold you to ransom. You should have taken time to find out from her why she no longer enjoy sex with you through a heart to heart discussion. It could be that you annoyed her but she didn't open up to you about that thing you did which detest her. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:02pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
If the man has more rights over her body than she does, then it means she has no right over her body. No? You’re contradicting yourself There’s nothing “woke” about owning your own body: it’s basic humanity 101. And marriage isn’t about being “ready to take nonsense”. My goodness! Please don’t have sex against your wish. Sex should be pleasurable to you whenever you engage in it otherwise it’s meaningless Mercychen: 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 1:03pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Orkpekyandega: Its a very stupid law created by simps and feminists...how can u prove that a husband and lives in the same house with his wife for eternity raped her ...tell me how u can prove that in court 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:04pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
As long as she’s enjoying it and not being forced to do it. Get it? flokii: 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by WESTLIFE55(m): 1:05pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
In the first place what are reasons for decline you sex where else did she want you to get it from then secondly as for the rape you did wrong you could have talk to her tell her the reason why you want have good time with her then tell to tell you when she will be fit for that.the reason why is decline you sex meant be as a results stress from her place of work and maybe she already got exuss from her place of work is matter you both could have settle amaicably 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 1:06pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Mercychen: Do u think the person u quoted ever attended marriage counselling b4 getting married( that's if she is married) I'm sure she just got knocked up and they did traditional marriage...she knows nothing about marital rules 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by bpalace(m): 1:07pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
This is scary... I'm a very proud person and will never beg for sex... Now you can't blame married men lusting for girls... Adultery is better than Raping your wife. Next time Use your head... Or end the marriage. Get peace of mind. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ledaman: 1:07pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:iIf men are scum, some women including you are pigs because not all women are stupid like you. Back to the main topic what the man did was wrong the same stupid spouse will be crying shouting cheating if her husband should sleep with another lady outside. How can she denied her husband conjugal right. The only reason for such is when she is down with sickness. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by IgweBUIKE1(m): 1:09pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy:Have you ever been married??don't be a evening news paper and advice another person...when she signed up for the marriage ...didn't she know that know that you can't skip Any of the terms and condition...hitting her was bad but the forceful sex is a norm...I can't be training a dog that will be barking at me |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by flokii: 1:09pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: Or rather.. as long as she is enjoying his money and staying under his roof as his legally married wife. There is no reason to justify woman denying her husband sex for a month just like a man has no reason to deny his wife sex. It's a recipe for bitterness, broken marriages, cheating etc. and should not be encouraged in any way. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Mozenge1: 1:09pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: You be Bush |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:10pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
foleskay: What is being emotional when it is a fact that no one owes you sex and it is not a crime to deny someone of it? Sex is part of marriage obligation that must be done with consent.She is not her property that she doesn't have rights to choose it is called liberty and free will learn to be exposed because you paid bride price which is different from dowry doesn't give you the right to sleep with someone with their permission, they are human beings not chattels.She has a business getting married because it was her choice and she also has another choice to choose when she wants to have sex. 1 Like |
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