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Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ledaman: 1:10pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9:Bro move on with your life! Don't depend on her for your happiness groove with friends ignore her and be caring to your lovely daughter only. |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:11pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Toxay: I agree, with you and when you choose not to you shouldn't be forced(raped) to do it. That is wrong. 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 1:11pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
socialmediaman: Those countries that have destroyed the institute of marriage by giving women all the power, what do u expect?? A spouse can't rape his partner in marriage...u cant even prove it in court .... it is a very wrong perception to think as a wife or a husband , u have the right to make decisions without ur partners consent |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:12pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
flokii: There are justifiable reasons for not wanting sex. That’s not the topic of discussion here though The topic is that he’s a rapist And she’s not under his roof. She’s not a furniture in his house. They live together in their house Y’all are disgustingly insufferable. Are your moms objects in your fathers house? Deplorable 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ledaman: 1:13pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
nrexzy:Don't mind them most of them are on free data to be typing trash. How can a reasonable spouse denied her husband sex? With no tangible reason. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by kiddkash(m): 1:13pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
gfon:in as much as this is sad, If he has gotten a side chick, she will say after giving you s*x, men are cum |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 1:13pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Kingcalls: Keep quiet, as long as it is your body(right) you can deny your partner sex. It is better a man commits adultery than for him to rape his wife,women who get denied sex how many go outside or rape their husbands. 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:14pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
IgweBUIKE1: Is it your wife that’s comparable to a dog? Or is your mom comparable to a dog in your home while you were growing up? Someone will read all this trash that you guys post on nairaland and still open their mouth to say they don’t see any marginalization of women in Nigeria. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by LordOfTheGame: 1:15pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
InTheCloudySky: A complete bullshit you have written here. The abominable act here was committed by the rebellious woman. Her only God given responsibility is to SUBMIT to her OWN husband, which she refused to do for months. What does she expected the man to do? If she has any medical condition or reason, are they not supposed to talk about it and place things in their right positions? 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by fxsky: 1:16pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: I feel for your wife and you as well. You see, man naturally longing and demanding for sex. And woman understand that pretty well. In today's marriage, many wives use sex starvation as the only power over their husbands. But forgetting that it is the main reason why leaving their parental homes for their husbands'. Can we now see the beauty of a polygamy? If they were 2, you would have answer that call of nature in the oza room of the 2nd wife. And trust, she too wouldn't have probably starve you. Keep begging her.........and she too should please accept your plea. Or does she want you to be patronizing Olosho? 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Acidosis(m): 1:16pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Sex is a responsibility to one's partner. However, failure to carry out that responsibility does not justify rape. You both have failed each other. I know you've already apologized and feel remorseful given the gravity of your actions, however, do note that failure on her side to accept her wrongs (by denying you sex for months without explanations), would lead to more grave consequences; implying that you might keep raping/tormenting that woman. Now is the time to seek professional help. 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by teemonk(m): 1:16pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Imagine a lady calling him a scum.. Has anyone tried to even understand what's going on? Has anyone tried to see his woman's actions led to the forceful penetration? Should sex in marriage be a tool to punish the other partner? Bashing him here and excusing his wife's excesses is wrong. Something is wrong between but having to endure months before he sees her undies is also wrong. Whatever was happening between them before needs to be addressed else extramarital affairs will spring up... Every man and woman has their limits... Dude, you know the initial issue, deal with it first and then forgiveness from her in this dispicable act of yours can be forgiven easily... Best of Luck in resolving your issues amicably. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by anonym0us: 1:17pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
clydecarson:too much Hollywood go get a job stop watching movies 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ebig21(m): 1:18pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Bro under the Nigerian law you cannot rape your wife. So remove the issue of rape just say you assaulted her, don’t let anyone blackmail you. You can never rape your wife in Nigeria. 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by alarm4: 1:18pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
This is exactly....what we too face ...before person get married they will gv the best position n all....but now in marriage na to thy beg bf having sex....me particular facing this at home everyday..... But Maka Y will man beg for sex !!!! You just fell into the trap, you just gave your wife something to hold on to.. I don't know why women are this heartless, almost all marriages are having this issue, and before marriage you need to see how these same women will give you all the best position in the world but once them reach house them go put key for tow tow.... It will make you wonder if you are the only one in love,or you are over demanding or you are not giving them good sex or there is another man in their life.. all these plenty thought fit make man loose sanity and for a man who does not want to cheat, loosing his mind might turn him into a monster and do the unthinkable. Women stop deceiving men because you want to wear wedding gown like your friends because it seems you are after the gown and not the marriage because that gown looks like an achievement to you, if you see a man's labido is too high for you during courtship, kindly quit and tell him your reasons.. Things like this should never be issue for marriage, how woman go stay for a week or more and her husband body nor attracted her, yet she dey shake yansh round house expecting the man to look the other way, is that not witchcraft... OP, I am not in support of what you did, but if your wife continue with her no sex attitude.. Just leave the house for her, shey she can cook and eat alone... At least if you nor dey see her, you nor go dey turn on.... She destroyed her marriage herself not you... If you get money, lodge hotel, chop better food, if na wine take calm am down.. after all life is more than SEX... [/color][/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cbsnwa: 1:20pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Just marry another wife. Make she remain sleeping with her female children or visitors room. She is even lucky u are not complaining about hay only two female child and she de complain. Soon she will become a visitor in her home. Just marry the person that will satisfy you. She No longer love you. Make she go for that boy way dey service her secretly. Forget about ur so called wedding. David did it. Abraham did it so u are not the first to do it. Likewise I will do it if on My shoe 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by IgweBUIKE1(m): 1:20pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy:don't be myopic...I was only siting an example..why deny him sex n the first place 3 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by LordOfTheGame: 1:20pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
OP your wife is a rebellious woman and doesn't respect you. Most sadly, she doesn't respect her God given responsibility is to SUBMIT to her OWN husband. Your wife is cheating on you and wants to use sexual starvation to manipulate you and sadly, she got you down. Now, she will tag you a violent and wife-rapist and believe me other demons in women nature will support her and escalate the issue. Go and do a DNA test on your daughter you may be surprised about what you will find out. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by ebig21(m): 1:21pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy:He is not a rapist, he can never rape his wife please go and check criminal code act or the penal code act. 4 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by LoveThemChubby(m): 1:22pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:Men are scum but women who don't want to fulfil their marital obligations are getting married- confused gender. Keep pleading with her. Note: I don't in any way condole or support rape but some women can be really annoying. Worse part is that even some ladies who used to hop from bed to bed and give it to boy friends anywhere and anytime sometimes get married and begin to deny their husbands. Let's put in efforts to make our marriage work. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Dayvidblue: 1:22pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Christinaog:This vigina people again 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Kingcalls: 1:26pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Ladyhippolyta88: U hv no business with marriage...go and be hoeing around in peace...that is ur calling 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by advanceDNA: 1:26pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
cococandy: it’s on this same forum u women blame men for women’s infidelity, paternity fraud and whatever manner of atrocities women commit.... u women always feel a man must have done something to a woman to cause her to do wrong.... It’s now a man’s turns... provocation no longer matters .....the verdict is that he’s a sexual predator.. end of discussion... Have it your way madam coco.. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:27pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Those things you mentioned are not violent crimes advanceDNA: 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by cococandy(f): 1:28pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
ebig21: Legality is not morality nor does it determine what’s good and fair 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Testimony1988(m): 1:29pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
If she loves you, she will forgive and forget, she needs to work on herself and you have to also calm down, she was wrong to deny you your conjugal right and you were wrong to have slapped her. 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Moz22: 1:30pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Amarisco:comrade.. take it easy 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by hardon1(m): 1:33pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: If you thinkni believe your story, think again |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Agbegbaorogboye: 1:34pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: Mtcheew. Simp!! |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Davidbakas(m): 1:35pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
My brother don blame your for anything, she didn't behave like a married woman, how can she denied you sex for over a month, that's arran nonsense, she is pretending, she just want to be in your roof, and be doing nonsense, see as for even if my wife is sick, she don used to denied me sex, next time when it happens like dis try and observe her movement, and consult some wise people, not people that will lead to the wrong channel, I should av like me to speak to one on one 2 Likes |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Bouncing2(m): 1:35pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Oga leave dat woman, You bought her presents and she threw it in the garbage bin? Begged for her forgiveness and she refused? Refusing to greet you for 5 days? Cooking for herself and daughter alone? Denying you ***? Something is really bothering her and she's refusing to spill it out,, I don't think she love you,,,you f**ked her ordinary p**sy and she's behaving like this,,,what if you had gaped her @$$ nko 1 Like |
Re: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by Maobichek: 1:37pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
Noah9: You didn't tell us why she deny you sex, you didn't cheat on her and you have been a good husband so you should not beg for sex and she should not deny you sex. If all you said is the whole truth, she call for it cos every man needs sex from his wife. Would you have preferred cheating on her with another lady? |
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