Noah9:

I have apologized. I even bought a little gift along side but I saw them inside the trash nylon bag when I came back from work.

I haven't eaten good meal for some days now. Just meat-pie and juice or indomie.

I don't know what to do. I'm truly sorry about my actions.

Toxay:



Of course you always have a right to your body and the man action has no justification whatsoever.

Also,sex is a responsibility to your partner as a result of marriage. Key word is responsibility which means you don't always have to want to do it before you oblige .

socialmediaman:


In Nigeria you mean? Because it’s a crime in many countries of the world

flokii:


Or rather.. as long as she is enjoying his money and staying under his roof as his legally married wife.

There is no reason to justify woman denying her husband sex for a month just like a man has no reason to deny his wife sex. It's a recipe for bitterness, broken marriages, cheating etc. and should not be encouraged in any way.

nrexzy:


Na him wife oo no b babe oo...
Abeg
D kingdom of God sufferth violence...... Etc

Lemme ask why on earth would his wife starve him. Of sex for over a long period with no reason?

E make sense to u

gfon:
Why didn't you get a side chick outside instead of raping your wife? You really messed up man.If my wife ever hoards sex from me,i wouldn't even beg her,would just get one babe outside to cure my konji or i refuse eating her food.by the time you do that consistently for two weeks,she would be the one to even beg you.Rape is never an option,either you are married or not.Masturbation would have saved you from this stress too.Just beg her very well,maybe take her out too,but don't involve any third-party in the matter.

Kingcalls:


[s]U and that mumu cococandy have no business with marriage cos u don't know anything about marriage... do u even know the meaning of husband and wife?? Do u think its boyfriend girlfriend.... on no account should u make decisions without the other party approving.... Next thing u will also say when a wufe gets pregnant, she has the right to want to keep it and abort it as long as its her body...or ud say a wife has the right to take after morning pills so not to get pregnant when it is not approved by the husband.... u women are the architect of the huge number of divorce cases these days due to ur selfishness.... if men start becoming selfish like women in marriage, do u think u women will survive it... how dare u deny ur partner sex with no concrete reason...and u say its justified... so u want him to go and commit adultery or what?? And later u will scream that he is a cheat and want to infect u with diseases.... it is a huge sin to deny ur partner sex, be it man or woman[/s]...

IgweBUIKE1:
Have you ever been married??don't be a evening news paper and advice another person...when she signed up for the marriage ...didn't she know that know that you can't skip Any of the terms and condition...hitting her was bad but the forceful sex is a norm...I can't be training a dog that will be barking at me

InTheCloudySky:
You didn't bother asking her/finding out what was going on with her or in your marriage (you obviously had pre-existing issues that may have caused her to withdraw from you) to have refused you, but you resorted to violence.

As if slapping her wasn't bad enough, slapping her to the extent of her bleeding in the mouth meant you did it with a lot of force, not to mention the force you obviously used to rape her. The act of rape in itself is an act of violence. Sorry (not sorry): you're a beast. After being violent towards her x2, what do you expect?

Get on your knees, plead with her and ask for her forgiveness, then let her know you won't ever repeat such violent actions towards her again. Secondly, you're selfish if you're expecting her to cook for you after what you've done. You should be the one cooking for her during this time ―to appease her. Things should fall back into place if you start doing that and catering more to her, then you two can go see a sound marriage Therapist to work out your issues. Otherwise keep eating the indomie you've been eating.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

clydecarson:


Bro you are the one that's not normal,rape is a serious crime if she press charges it won't end well for him...forget they are married but once it's a rape case he should better get a good lawyer that's if she takes this to court

cococandy:


Is it your wife that’s comparable to a dog?
Or is your mom comparable to a dog in your home while you were growing up?

Someone will read all this trash that you guys post on nairaland and still open their mouth to say they don’t see any marginalization of women in Nigeria.

cococandy:


There are justifiable reasons for not wanting sex.
That’s not the topic of discussion here though

The topic is that he’s a rapist

And she’s not under his roof. She’s not a furniture in his house.
They live together in their

Y’all are disgustingly insufferable. Are your moms objects in your fathers house? Deplorable

Christinaog:

Men are scum

Christinaog:

Men are scum

Ladyhippolyta88:


Keep quiet, as long as it is your body(right) you can deny your partner sex.

It is better a man commits adultery than for him to rape his wife,women who get denied sex how many go outside or rape their husbands.

cococandy:
She’s not the cause of his behavior
He raped her because he’s a rapist.

End of discussion

advanceDNA:


it’s on this same forum u women blame men for women’s infidelity, paternity fraud and whatever manner of atrocities women commit.... u women always feel a man must have done something to a woman to cause her to do wrong....

It’s now a man’s turns... provocation no longer matters .....the verdict is that he’s a sexual predator.. end of discussion...


Have it your way madam coco..

ebig21:

He is not a rapist, he can never rape his wife please go and check criminal code act or the penal code act.

Amarisco:


For every stupid rape apologist on this thread

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Noah9:
Good morning nairalanders. Pls I'll go straight to point.

My wife and I have been married for 3 years, God has blessed our matrimony with a beautiful daughter. My wife is so decent, caring and beautiful inside out. I have been a great husband and father to my pretty daughter. I have never cheated on my wife since we got married.

Recently, she barely give me sex. Infact it would take a whole month before I could see Just the color of her undies and I wasn't happy about it.

Last week Wednesday, I committed an unspeakable abuse, I'm so ashamed of myself. I Raped my wife and I hate myself since that incident.

Honestly, I don't know what came over me that particular day, I tried to make advances towards her, she refused and she pushed my hand away. Out of anger I slapped her on her face (she bled from her mouth), I overpowered her and forcefully had my way through. She cried all through that night.

I regretted my actions, I feel remorse, I hate my Life . I have begged her seriously to forgive me but she haven't said a word to me for over 5 days now. She cook for just herself and my daughter, she no longer sleep in our matrimonial bed, she would rather sleep in my daughter's room or the visitor's room, she no longer greets me anymore.

I have never abused, beat or raised my hands on my wife or any woman before. Last week was my first time I did such an abominable act in my Life . What If any one notice we're having issues now, how will I explain to them what actually happened?

I don't even want my little daughter to know we're having issues. I don't know who to talk to. It's a faceless forum that's why I'm sharing my pain here . Pls how do I restore back happiness in my home, I need my wife to forgive me. I'm truly sorry from the depth of my heart and I promise it will never happen again.

Please Help Me.

Noah9:

I have apologized. I even bought a little gift along side but I saw them inside the trash nylon bag when I came back from work.

I haven't eaten good meal for some days now. Just meat-pie and juice or indomie.

I don't know what to do. I'm truly sorry about my actions.